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S G Raja Sekharan
Can you describe briefly your dream job In 5 years what do you aspire to be In 10 years what do you aspire to be In 15 years - what do you aspire to become What current salary would make you feel good Beyond dream salary and dream job, what else do you want (in the next 1-2 years) What do you want out of life in the long run
Get control of your life Make smarter decisions Improve your relationships with your friends Get along better in society Define your values what matters more to you Get more done in less time Find balance between work, family, friends and everything else
T he Seven habits
1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7.
Be proactive Take responsibility for your life Begin with the end in mind Define your mission and goals in life Put first things first prioritize, and do the most important things in life Think Win Win have an everyone can win attitude Seek first to understand and then to be understood Listen to people sincerely Synergise Work together to achieve more Sharpen the Saw Renew yourself regularly
Be Proactive Begin with the end in mind Put first things first
Be Proactive Begin with the end in mind Put first things first
My career has taken a beating because of various reasons beyond my control I feel that I have done as well as others but I dont see my case being taken up by my boss well enough I am open I am giving the option to my HOD to make the necessary changes to my role If I had her / his looks, Id be popular too There is nothing I can do I have to do it because ..
Proactivity Defined:
Stimulus
Response
Proactivity defined:
I am the force, I am the captain of my life. I choose my attitude. I am responsible for my own happiness or unhappiness. I am in the drivers seat of my destiny I am not just a passenger. Proactive people make choice based on values they think before they act they are calm, cool and in control. Reactive people make choice based on impulse.
Proactive language
I will do it Lets look at options I choose to I am not going to let your bad mood rub off on me
Proactive people
Blame others Whine and complain Wait for things to happen to them Are easily offended Get angry and say things they regret later
Take responsibility for their choices Are not easily offended Think before they act Bounce back when something bad happens Always find a way to make things happen Focus on things they can do something about, and dont worry about things they cant
Circle of Concern
Circle of Influence
Circle of Concern
Circle of Influence
Take charge of your life; Don't wait for anybody: Take the initiative always. Every situation, presents various limitations for performance
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Understand what can be influenced by you (circle of influence) Dont worry about what you cant influence (circle of concern)
Focus your energies on things you can control rather than worrying about things over which you have no control.
So much has been given to me. I have no time to ponder that which has been denied
Helen Keller
On the road of life, there are passengers and there are drivers . drivers wanted
Volkswagen commercial
They cannot take away our self respect, if we do not give it to them
Mahatma Gandhi
Whether I fail or succeed shall be no mans doing but my own. I am the force. I can clear any obstacle before me or I can be lost in the maze. My choice, my responsibility; win or loose, only I hold the key to my destiny
Be Proactive Begin with the end in mind Put first things first
Relationship
what you want to focus on, what you want to accomplish and who you want to become in a particular area of your life over the coming years.
It is a way to focus your energy, actions, behaviors and decisions towards the things that are most important to you
It means to start with a clear understanding of your destination and a clear understanding of where you are now so that the steps that you take are always in the right direction
All things are created twice first is mental creation and then comes the physical creation
If we dont take responsibility of the first creation Someone else will do it for us and we will be in reactive mode
To the extent we understand this concept of two creations and take responsibility for both we increase our circle of control
Once you have a mission in place go for the GOALS it is more specific, more measureable and it breaks the mission into achievable steps with time deadlines Count the cost of not achieving the goals what will happen if you do not achieve the goals Put the goal to paper write it Just do it - Dont say Ill try; Say I will. When you truly commit to achieving something, circumstances come together to help you achieve it Share your goals with people close to you take their help and advice.
Fine tune the mission statement today to make in closer to what is truly important to you Review your mission statement daily for 30 days let it guide you in all your decisions Determine three most important skills that you will need to get what you aspire for make a plan to improve on those skills and implement it Start writing a personal diary where you can honestly appraise the events of the day and how you felt about it
Be Proactive Begin with the end in mind Put first things first
What are the top 4 activities that currently take up most of your time
What are the top 4 activities you would like to spend most of your time
Urgent tasks
Tasks that require immediate attention. These are usually visible tasks they press on us these tasks insist on action they are often easy tasks, fun to do.
Important tasks
Tasks that require more initiative, more proactivity. These tasks contribute to your mission, your high priority goals.
Important
Quadrant I
Quadrant II
Not important
Quadrant III
Quadrant IV
Important
Friend gets injured Late for work Project due today Vehicle breaks down
Quadrant II
Not important
Quadrant III
Quadrant IV
Important
Friend gets injured Late for work Project due today Vehicle breaks down THE YES MAN Unimportant phone calls Others small problems Peer pressure Interruptions
Quadrant II
Not important
Quadrant IV
Important
Friend gets injured Late for work Project due today Vehicle breaks down THE YES MAN Unimportant phone calls Others small problems Peer pressure Interruptions
Quadrant II
Not important
THE SLACKER Too much TV Endless phone calls Work politics Other time wasters
Friend gets injured Late for work Project due today Vehicle breaks down THE YES MAN Unimportant phone calls Others small problems Peer pressure Interruptions
Urgent
Important
THE PROCRASTINATOR
Quadrant IV
Not important
Quadrant III
Time Management Matrix Quadrant III Personality Urgent Quadrant I Not urgent Quadrant II
Important
THE YES MAN Reputation of being a pleaser Lack of discipline Feeling victimized - like a doormat for others to wipe their feet on Shallow, broken relationships
Quadrant IV
Not important
Time Management Matrix Quadrant IV Personality Urgent Quadrant I Not urgent Quadrant II THE SLACKER Lack of responsibility Guilt Not successful in any job
Not important
Important
Quadrant III
Quadrant IV
Important
THE PRIORITIZER Control of your life Balance Discipline High performance Few crisis
Quadrant II
Not important
Friend gets injured Late for work Project due today Vehicle breaks down THE YES MAN Unimportant phone calls Others small problems Peer pressure Interruptions
Shrink Quadrant 1 by procrastinating less Say NO to quadrant 3 activities Cut down on Quadrant 4 Slacker activities Pick up a planner Plan weekly
Identify Big / Important tasks eg Self education, time with friends, exercise 3 times this week etc etc Block out time for these Big / Important tasks Schedule everything else after scheduling the big tasks Adapt daily
Identify roles
Proactive faculty, colleague, friend, son / daughter, brother /sister Individual in the next 1 year, I would improve myself as a human being, be more positive, proactive and helpful to people. I must have more closer relationships that what I have today Introspect every day for 30 minutes on what I could have done well and what I did well Observe people on areas that they are better than me and get to know them, Try to be more positive all the time introspect as to why I am not, Proactively commit to time with friends every week, Take time out every week to help people etc etc
Select Goals
Daily Planning -
AM
PM
The key is not to prioritize whats on your schedule but to schedule your priorities
What are the top 4 activities that currently take up most of your time
What are the top 4 activities you would like to spend most of your time Which quadrant do these answers fit in?
Comfort zone
Things I enjoy doing Easy to do Relaxation Freedom from risk Things I am accustomed to Things that I am afraid of Things that I have never tried Hard moments Things that are difficult Opportunity Bravery Higher duty
Courage zone
Make a new friend Resist peer pressure Break an old habit Develop a new skill Try out for a team Be yourself
Never let your fears make your decisions Be strong in hard moments
Set a goal to use a Planner for one month everyday Identify your biggest time waster and work to reduce it in the next one week Think of something that you have procrastinated for long block time this week in your planned to get it done Say no to something that you believe is not your priority for the day today Identify the people who have the most influence on you ask yourself Am I doing what I want to do or what they want me to do
Get control of your life Make smarter decisions Improve your relationships with your friends Get along better with society Define your values what matters more to you Get more done in less time Find balance between work, family, friends and everything else
T he Seven habits
1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7.
Be proactive Take responsibility for your life Begin with the end in mind Define your mission and goals in life Put first things first prioritize, and do the most important things in life Think Win Win have an everyone can win attitude Seek first to understand and then to be understood Listen to people sincerely Synergise Work together to achieve more Sharpen the Saw Renew yourself regularly
What is success?
Success is the continuous journey towards achievement of predetermined worthwhile goals - Tom Hopkins The important thing is not where you were or where you are but where you want to get.
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I would like to contribute to your success further If you want, you can reach me for one on one consultations - please mail me at
raja.sekharan@keane.com
Thank you