Professional Documents
Culture Documents
We have ever-expanding to do lists, trying to build momentum by doing, doing, doing- and doing more. Those who build the good to great companies, however, made as much use of stop doing lists as the to do lists. They displayed a remarkable amount of discipline to unplug all sorts of extraneous junk.
- Jim Collins (from In Good to Great)
Lead yourself. Thats where it all starts. Besides, if you wouldnt follow yourself, why should anyone else?
- John C. Maxwell (from The 360 Leader)
Personal Leadership
Time, Priorities, and Energy
Shawn Alderman, MD
Objectives
Contrasted personal leadership versus
management
Explored any personal boundary influences Learned and developed two personalized
leadership approaches
Can you think of some examples? We will hear a few comments at the end
Activity #1
List your overarching
or long term goals
Stephen Coveys
funeral exercise
Covey, Stephen R. The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People. New York: Free Press, 2004. Thursday, November 4, 2010
Mission Statement
Your overarching
goals can be used to write your personal mission statement
Use this as a
Personal boundary problems can pose leadership challenges Compliants, Avoidants, Controllers, Nonresponsives
Cloud, Henry, and John Townsend. Boundaries: When to Say YES, When to Say NO, To Take Control of Your Life. Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan, 1992.
Compliants
Say yes to the bad Take on too many responsibilities Set too few boundaries Afraid to hurt the other persons feelings Fear of abandonment Fear of someone elses anger
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Avoidants
Say no to the good Inability to ask for help Inability to recognize ones own needs Inability to let others in (deeper
relationships)
Controllers
Do not respect others boundaries To a controller No means maybe, and
maybe means yes
Non-responsives
Do not respond to others needs when
they have the resources and availability to do so notice the needs of others
Too absorbed with ones own needs to Simply insensitive to the needs of others
Leadership Approach #1
Mission Statement
in Mind
Important Tasks
Compare your To-Do Star those tasks that
align with your personal mission important tasks list to your overarching goals
To-Do Matrix
Activity #3
Categorize the items from your To-Do list in the
To-Do Matrix
Not Urgent
Effective II Leadership
III
Ineffective
IV
Dominating Activities
# Responses
Urgent Important
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Homework
Are you spending too much time on
unimportant tasks? management? Category II?
Are you being consumed by crisis How would you increase time spent in How would you decrease Category I?
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Approach #2
Personal Resource
Management Assessment
Greenblatt, Edy. Restore Yourself: The Antidote for Professional Exhaustion. Los Angeles: Execu-Care Press, 2009 Thursday, November 4, 2010
# Responses
Activity #4
List 2 restoring and 2 depleting activities (Be Specific) Distinguishing physical features (outdoors, indoors, active, etc) Social conditions (alone, group, leader, follower, etc) Cognitive or intellectual demands (complex calculations, simple tacks, etc) Emotional experience (How do you feel?)
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Activity #5
Look for similarities within depleters (Draw boxes around them) across restorative and depleting examples (Draw circles around them)
Homework
Identify 5 more restorative and depleting
activities using a PRMA
Add to your PEP using this additional data Increase effectiveness with more input
Final Thoughts
What am I going to do differently
tomorrow?
Objectives
Contrasted personal leadership versus
management
Explored any personal boundary influences Learned and developed two personalized
leadership approaches
Thank You
Thursday, November 4, 2010