Sex is intended for a man and his wife.

And the LORD God said, It is not good that man should be alone; I will make him a helper comparable to him. 19Out of the ground the LORD God formed every beast of the field and every bird of the air, and brought them to Adam to see what he would call them. And whatever Adam called each living creature, that was its name. 20So Adam gave names to all cattle, to the birds of the air, and to every beast of the field. But for Adam there was not found a helper comparable to him. 21And the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall on Adam, and he slept; and He took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh in its place. 22Then the rib which the LORD God had taken from man He made into a woman, and He brought her to the man. 23And Adam said: This is now bone of my bones And flesh of my flesh; She shall be called Woman, Because she was taken out of Man. Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. Genesis 2:18-24 Sex is NOT for a human with an animal, (there was no helper comparable) nor for two people of the same sex, (God created Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve), nor for a boyfriend and girlfriend, nor even for two people who are engaged. (A man shall be joined to his wife.) Sex outside marriage is called fornication. Fornication includes adultery, bestiality, and homosexuality. These may well be alternative lifestyles, just as wickedness, perversion, and abomination are alternatives to righteousness, purity, and holiness.
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Sex is intended to be a special, intimate expression of love.

(Read the Bible book of The Song of Solomon.) Love takes at least three forms (for each of which there is a separate Greek word): 1) The divine and active good will toward someone, with an unselfish interest in their well being. (This love is a CHOICE which is seldom achieved. It is the love with which God so loved the world that he gave His only begotten Son.) 2) The friendly companionship type of warm feeling. And, 3) The erotic, sexual love. (This love is more an action, and is too often abused, or even mistaken for the first type.)

Sex is best as the natural extension of the first two types of love.
(Read the experts. Sex is best in monogamous relationships, and gets better with time, as the relationship grows.)

If you want to have good sex:

1. 2. 3. 4. WAIT till youre married, Enjoy it with your spouse, Learn the other types of love to complement sexual love, and Give it time.