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trapped in time and space alongside a spouse who doesnt happen to love you anymore, so lets wait and see what happens. Theres waiting, and then theres waiting. Time lets no one off the hook. The apostle Peter reassures the Jesus-people of his day about Gods timetable in a letter he wrote around 67 A.D. In 2 Peter 3:9, he reminds them (and us) that, The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. He is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance. Did you see what Peter just did there? He turned the tables on us wait-ers. Yes, we wait. But God waits too. And hes waiting on us just like we are waiting on him. We want relief; God wants a relationship. We want a break-through; God wants bigger things. And not just for us. For everybody on earth. The seasons of Advent and Christmas remind us of this joint reality. During Advent, the world sits in darkness, longing for deliverance. At Christmas, God instigates and anticipates mankinds repentance. Our waiting and Gods waiting co-exist. Maybe they even work together? God has promised ultimate deliverance and a home forever where there will be no more tears or crying or pain (Rev. 21:4), a place where the old order of things has passed away, where we wont feel the ill effects of waiting. In the meantime, I must ask: how willing am I to endure patiently while God works out his redemptive genius in my life, in the lives of those around me, in governments, in the heartaches of total strangers, in the lives of children, in the countries on the brink of war? How much trust do I have in the necessity and goodness of my waiting as it relates to God binding up the wounds of a world thats taking its time turning to him? Are you willing to endure patiently during the little-a advents of your life so that the Big-C Christmas can be made manifest? Made manifest in countless ways across the world as God works to bring people to himself ? Its a tall order, one that is impossible to endure alone, let alone perfectly. We stumble towards it, towards God, echoing the Psalmist David, who waited to be delivered from all his enemies: Let all that I am wait quietly before God, for my hope is in him (Ps. 62:5). Happy Advent and Merry Christmas no matter what youre waiting for,

made many heroes of the Bible wait, too. And wait. And wait and wait and wait. Abraham waiting for a long-awaited son. Joseph waiting in prison. The people of Israel waiting under Pharaohs oppression 400 years. The prophets waiting for Messiah. David waiting for help. Simeon waiting to lay eyes on his Savior that very rst Advent. Even God-in-the-esh waited. I like to think of Jesus waiting not only for the epic saga of his redemptive work to be made manifest on his cross and in the empty grave, but also waiting in line for a piece of bread. Waiting for news about the family business. Waiting for a friend to drop by. Waiting to get over the u. Why doesnt God just get it over with already? Why does the plan require that space and time go on, and that somehow he should step into that space and time to join the waiting masses? What is it about waiting that is necessary, redemptive? And thats where we Jesus-people make an assumption: that waiting is, in fact, both necessary and redemptive. Because we believe God is good, because we trust in his love, we must assume that he wouldnt make us wait for nothing. And so for whatever unfathomable reasons he may have, we trust. We echo the Psalmists words: My soul waits for the Lord more than the watchmen for the morning; indeed, more than the watchmen for the morning (Ps. 130:6). We trust that morning will come at just the right time. Time. What a funny thing. Some years jolt by like electric shocks, fast and jarring. But then there are hours, mere hours, where each silence between each tick and tock echoes long and deep. Our experience of time forms our opinion of waiting. Some waiting we enjoy because our experience of time is pleasant. We savor the hours leading up to a rst date. We anticipate the cookies coming out of the oven in 15 minutes. And then theres being trapped in time and space alongside a nurse who tells you its probably not a viable pregnancy, so lets wait for the test results. Theres being

Why does God make us wait? Its hard to say, but we do know one thing: he

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Irving Bible Church: a community on a journey.

Thanks for picking up Chatter. Chatter is a publication of Irving Bible Church in Irving, Texas.
Why are we here?
IBC is on a journey committed to life transformation through Jesus Christ. We engage this journey by growing in Christ, connecting in community, and joining the mission. This commitment comes from Jesus words in the Great Commandment (Matthew 22:36-39) and Great Commission (Matthew 28:18-20).

How do we do this?
Growing in Christ At the heart of the journey is the gospel of Jesus Christ, the story of the Son of God coming into our dark world to bring light, life, hope and transformation. The journey begins when we trust Christ, but it doesnt end there. Gods desire for each of us is for our hearts and lives to become more like the one who has saved us (Ephesians 4:11-13). Connecting in Community The gospel story draws us into a community of people whose lives have been transformed by Jesus. This journey is not one that we undertake alone. We are designed to do life together as a community of Christ-followers. It is essential that we walk with one another on the journey (John 13:34-35). Joining the Mission The gospel tells us that one day God will take all that is broken in this world and make it whole. Those of us who are on the journey together are called to be people who do what we can to make glimpses of that day show up in our day. We do this by telling the gospel story and demonstrating gospel-shaped love to a needy world (Matthew 28:18-20).

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Photo Update: Tapestry Conference and Thanksgiving Bags

Once again, IBCers came together this year to provide Thanksgiving meals for our community, including food for the women of New Friends New Life (A). (In the past year, NFNL has helped 356 women, 96 teen girls, and 284 children nd hope and healing from the aftermath of sexual exploitation.) In October, IBC hosted the Tapestry Conference, drawing thousands of adoptive and foster parents from across the nation to gain practical skills and encouragement for their parenting journey (B).
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REMINDER: Family Worship Service

On Sunday December 29, all IBC worship services will be family services. Families are encouraged to bring kids of all ages. Normal Children's Ministry will not be available, but Children's Ministry for infants and toddlers will be available for children born after 9/1/11 and before 10/29/13.

he prophet Isaiah pictured people in our pre-Advent world walking and sitting in darkness (Isaiah 9:2; 42:7).

That word darkness (Hebrew: choshek) does not just mean kind of shady or merely the fading light of dusk. Biblical darkness is darker than that! A better translation of choshek is blackness. At least once in the Old Testament, it describes a dark dungeon, and in another 79 occurrences it is associated with misery, sorrow, destruction and death.

Advent is that season when we relish celebrating Jesus birth. Isaiah helps us understand how amazing the implications of that birth truly are. We were Los Millions sitting in great darkness, walking in the choshek of misery, sorrow, destruction and death. Then love broke through. And when it did, hope accompanied it from on high. At IBC during this Advent season, we are going to explore how the birth of Jesus 2,000 years ago breaks through to our lives today. So much happened when unto us that child was born. When unto us that child was born, love broke through our despair with hope (John 1:1-14). The Son of God has been born into frail humanity, choosing to be with his creation in the most personal way possible. The Sons incarnation provides hope to all and sustains all in times of darkness. Israel longed for the One to come who would bring hope to their despair. We too long for hope, a deep and abiding hope that can only be found in the Son. Gods dwelling presence brings forth hope. It is in the incarnation that God dwells with man, and the dwelling place of God will one day be fully realized. When unto us that child was born, love broke through our death with life (John 6:35-40). Israel was a spiritual ruin due to their sin and rebellion, resulting in a lifeless nation. They longed for true life and freedom that could only be found in the One to come. In the incarnate Son, true life is found. What Israel searched for and what we nd ourselves searching for is found only in Jesus. Life to the fullest extent is found in Gods Son. Jesus stands waiting to give life to those seeking him, for he himself is Life. When unto us that child was born, love broke through our sadness with joy (John 16:16-24). Just as God promised to Abraham that through him he would be a blessing to all the nations, so it is through Jesus that salvation is extended to the ends of the earth. It is truly a joyous occasion that all might know and worship God. Redemption through this Savior reaches as far as the curse is found. When unto us that child was born, love broke through our darkness with light (John 8:12-29). In the incarnation Gods Son provides the true light; he is the light in our darkness. This true Light is the very presence and essence of God. The people of God are called to be a light to the world, to bring Gods presence to those walking in darkness. Now that love has broken through, we are well in the shelter. We are not home yet, but know that the Great Rescue of the Advent has occurred and the days of spiritual despair are over and we will one day experience the fullness of Gods love. No longer sitting in darkness, we are walking in light. No longer walking in choshek, we are well in the shelter! Through Jesus incarnation, the zeal of the Lord Almighty has accomplished this. Love broke through. So merry, merry Christmas! Pastor Andy cannot curl his tongue, but he can recite the Crest toothpaste jingle.
As Senior Pastor,Dr. McQuitty is a member of the Elder Board and IBC Lead Team.

So when Isaiah says that before Christ came that rst Christmas, people in this world walked and sat in darkness, he meant that they were in a kind of blackness that was more than a mere absence of light. It was also the presence of despair. When I attempt to picture what that choshek must have been like for pre-Advent people, a recent historical event, the 2010 Copiap mining accident, pops into my mind. The whole world watched on TV as the aftermath of that mine collapse played out. Thirty-three men who became known as Los 33 were trapped 2,300 feet underground for a record 69 days before their rescue. Can you imagine the darkness in that mine in the hours after the collapse but before the survivors found any light sources? Choshek! And appropriately for the use of that word, their darkness was more than the mere absence of light. Trapped almost a half-mile underground, theirs was the darkness of despair as well. For seventeen days they sat in great darkness as they survived on food only adequate to feed their group for two or three days. But then the rescuers broke through the miners darkness. Percussion drills were used to create eight exploratory boreholes about 16 centimeters in diameter in an attempt to nd the miners. One of them nally did. The miners, who had heard drills approaching and had prepared notes, attached one written in bold red letters to the tip of the drill with insulation tape when it poked into their space. When the drill bit was pulled out, the rescuers found it. It read simply, Estamos bien en el refugio, los 33. (English: We are well in the shelter, the 33 of us.) It would be many more days before larger shafts could be drilled to extract the men from the mine. But that was alright, because Los 33 knew that help had arrived. The great love of their friends and family had resulted in a heroic rescue attempt which virtually the whole world refused to let fail. When that rst drill bit broke through, then, hope also broke through. And with hope, love and joy and light broke through as well. That is pretty much how Isaiah describes the results of Jesus advent at that very rst Christmas. The people walking in darkness have seen a great light; on those living in the land of deep darkness a light has dawned. Upon people in darkness, light broke through. To people in choshek, love came. How? Isaiah continues: For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders. And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. Of the greatness of his government and peace there will be no end. He will reign on Davids throne and over his kingdom, establishing and upholding it with justice and righteousness from that time on and forever. The zeal of the Lord Almighty will accomplish this. Isaiah 9:2,67

Join us Sundays at 9 a.m., 10:45 a.m. and 5 p.m. Media from the Teaching Series can be found at irvingbible.org/media.

Advent LIVE:

A night of story, music and cheer.

December 12, 7 p.m. The Worship Center/Town Square

Bring your neighbors and join IBC as we anticipate and celebrate the coming of the Savior. Following the program, cozy up with a cup of coffee from Ascension Coffee and cookies from JDs Chippery. This event is free, but please bring a non-perishable food item for the IBC Food Pantry.

Copper is Chiles most abundant natural resource.

The 1998 blockbuster Armageddon featured a drill bit the size of Chile.

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A NEW FUTURE FAMILY PROMISE

SINGLE MOM CONNIE AND SON GRADY SHARE THEIR JOURNEY FROM HOMELESSNESS TO HOPE.

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t must have been difficult for Connie to share her story with me, especially with her 15-year-old son Grady sitting right beside her. It was a story lled with fear, pain, hopelessness and loneliness. I sat with both of them as she recounted the details: she had been married for 25 years to a man who was violent and abusive, and had endured his three deployments to Iraq over the 13 years of her young sons life. She had raised another child, a 26-yearold son, who had learned from his fathers violent ways and was no longer a part of her life.

As she told me her story, I was reminded of Moses and the Israelites, who wandered in the wilderness for 40 years waiting for God to rescue them. They endured hunger, fear and isolation and lost faith in God before they were nally delivered from the desert. Connie was lost in her own wilderness, but just as God had done for the Israelites, he had a plan to rescue her. I did not know if I believed in God anymore, Connie told me. I did not know if he was there.

Two years ago, Connie and her husband separated and things continued to unravel. Like most victims of domestic violence, Connie had lived in fear most of her life, unable to report or document the abuse she endured. As a result, she was not able to obtain a protective order against her husband or escape the constant fear. She felt the world had failed her and found herself on a downward spiral: eventually, she and Grady lost their home. Connies voice cracked as she told me how they moved in with a friend, but quickly realized they had only moved from one bad situation to the next. Grady put his arm around his mom at this point and hugged her as she continued to tell me their story. Grady had insisted he would rather live in their truck instead of staying in another difficult living situation. When they tried to check into a shelter in Arlington, the women who worked there told Connie that she and Grady would be separated Connie would have to stay in the womens side and Grady would have to stay alone with the men. She was kind, but told me it was not the safest place for a family, said Connie. They had nowhere to sleep, and were now ofcially homeless.

Where is he? Connie asked herself, referring to God. Why? Why is he letting this happen? During the divorce, both Connie and Grady started receiving counseling at SafeHaven, an organization that provides resources for victims of domestic violence. It was at SafeHaven that they learned about Family Promise, a faith-

When I asked Connie to tell me what aspect of Family Promise impacted her the most, she immediately said it was meeting the volunteers. All of the people who volunteer were amazing; here they were giving up time from their own busy lives to take care of Grady and me. The kindness of the volunteers was not something Grady expected either. At just 14 years old, he had witnessed his mothers abuse, lived on the streets, and encountered people who had treated him like he didnt matter. He told me how going through Family Promise has not only made him stronger, but that it has restored his faith in people. At this point, Connie couldnt resist bragging on him. Tell her about the leadership program and the classes you are taking in school, she said. Grady is currently taking almost all Advance Placement (AP) classes, is learning Japanese, plays trumpet in the marching band, and is part of the C5 Youth Foundation of Texas. The mission of the C5 Texas (www.c5texas.org) is to change the odds of high-potential youth from risk-lled environments, inspiring them to pursue personal success, and preparing them for leadership roles in college, work, and their communities. When I asked Grady what he wants to do when he gets older, he said he is considering four careers scientist, engineer, teacher or band director and he dreams of traveling to Japan. Connie beamed with pride as she watched her son talk about his goals for the future, the love she has for her son evident in the smile on her face.

Connie was lost in her own wilderness, but just as God had done for the Israelites, he had a plan to rescue her.

based ministry that supports families who are experiencing homelessness, providing them a safe environment as they search for new jobs and secure a permanent living situation. To learn more about Family Promise, I spoke to Becky Harrell, the volunteer coordinator for IBC. There are currently 10-13 area churches committed to sharing the responsibility of hosting families in the evening (5 p.m.-7 a.m.) for a week at a time, providing meals, fellowship, a place to sleep and transportation to and from the Day Facility. Volunteers prepare the meals, host the families overnight, serve breakfast and drive the families to and from the church. During the day, the families visit the Day Facility in Irving where they spend time with Athena Clark, the network director who assists them with nding work and housing. The goal is for the families to nd jobs and secure, permanent housing in approximately two to three months. After a background check and short waiting period, Connie and Grady were able to enter the Family Promise program on June 19 at IBC. I dont know if I have the words to describe the security and comfort I felt there, said Connie. It felt like coming home. At the Day Facility I was able to wash my clothes, make my own lunch and spend time with other families. Connie felt like a weight had been lifted from her shoulders. She no longer had to worry about where she and Grady would sleep or what they would eat; all of their needs were taken care of by Family Promise. And within 10 days of entering the program, Connie had a job. She told me how she felt condent and relaxed going into the job interview, something that would have never happened if she had been living on the streets. Because she had taken some online college courses in the past, Connie had the experience and skills to move up to a higher paying position with her employer within the rst week. Blessings were raining upon them and Connie started praying in the car every day on her way to work. Now that she had a job, Athena helped her create a budget so she could nd an apartment. Connies new job was in a different part of town from where she had previously lived, so after getting off work every Saturday afternoon, she would drive around looking for a place for her and Grady to live. The gift cards that Family Promise provided paid for her gas to get to and from her job, allowing her to save enough money to rent an apartment less than three miles from work. On August 24, approximately two months after starting the program, Connie graduated from Family Promise. And a few days later, Grady started 9th grade at his new high school.

Perhaps the greatest blessing from Family Promise is the way that Connie found God again through the volunteers and staff who work with Family Promise. After spending years asking Where is he? Why has he forgotten me? she realizes now that he was with her all along. I know what it feels like to be bullied, to live in fear, said Connie. There were times when I felt like there was nothing left to live for, but Family Promise gave me hope. If I can make a difference in one persons life by sharing my story, that is all that matters. Stephanie Suire was kicked off her co-ed soccer team when they discovered she was scared of the ball.
Stephanie has been married to Trey for 9 years and they have two children, Sophia (7) and Tallen (4). Stephanie writes a healthy living blog called Food and Fitness 4 Real (foodandtness4real.com) where she shares tness tips, race recaps, recipes and local restaurant reviews.

The next IBC host week for Family Promise is scheduled for January 12. Volunteers are needed to help set up, drive families to and from the church, purchase breakfast and lunch supplies, and bring dinner to the families each night. Contact Tricia Kinsman at tkinsman@irvingbible.org for more information. Volunteers are needed throughout the year at the Day Center, and gift cards to help the families with gas money and personal items are needed as well. To learn more about the ways you can support Family Promise of Irving, visit familypromiseirving.org or email Becky at becky-harrell@hotmail.com.

MEET
Meet Matt.

Since August, you might have heard theres a new pastor in town, one who can leap tall buildings in a single bound. Hes a high school pastor, after all. And with great power comes great responsibility plus a heck of a lot of energy. Meet Matt Hamilton, IBCs newest high school pastor.
CHATTER So you have a really adorable family. Tell us about them.

Movies: Good Will Hunting, The Scent of a Woman, Top Gun (my son is named Mav, which is short for Maverick not the Dallas Mavericks the Top Gun Maverick), Braveheart, Gladiator, The Patriot typical guy movies. However, I have to admit I really like chick icks.

CHAT Tell us about your growing up and background. Who was the most inuen-

tial person in your life?

MATT HAMILTON Lindsay and I have been married for 12 years. We met in col-

MH I grew up in West Texas small towns Andrews, Hamlin, Coahoma. I was into

lege at Hardin Simmons University. In the early years of our marriage, she worked as a Regional Marketing Director for Post Properties, and after we had our rst child she decided to stay at home. She has led several small groups for various Bible studies, including Community Bible Study and has been involved in student ministry as well. I am very blessed to have married such a beautiful woman of God. Conley is our oldest, 6 years old. Shes full of energy and bounces off the wall. Very spunky. Emma Reese is our middle red-headed one, 4 years old. She is super loving and very tender. She loves to sing. Mav is our baby boy, 1 year old. Hes violent compared to his two older sisters. He likes to throw things, shake things, and yet is sweet at the same time.

sports big time. I played everything: football, basketball, tennis, track, and soccer. My family loved to camp, hunt, and sh. So, the outdoors have always been part of my life as well. Ive been to the bottom of the Grand Canyon 9 times.

My dad was my biggest inuence. He is a man of God, has a ton of patience, works hard, and is easy-going.
CHAT OK. Your story of faith in 120 words. GO.

CHAT Lets talk entertainment. A quick run-down. MH Sports: Rangers, Mavericks, and the Cowboys.

I grew up in the church and came to follow Christ when I was 7 years old. I understood how much I needed a savior, and I knew Jesus Christ was just the one I needed. My faith became my own, so to speak, through junior high and high school. The profound story of grace that he offers still amazes me. I had a great experience of growth and accountability in college. My close college friends loved Jesus, and God used them to shape my relationship with him. Being a husband and a father has shed even more light on who God is. Im in a constant state of learning and growing in him; its so cool how God uses my wife and kids to do that.
CHAT Why be a pastor?

Music: Almost everything: rock, rap, 60s, classical rock, 80s, monster ballads from the 90s. I can get stuck in 90s music really easy. The past 2 years, Ive been listening to a little classical music while I study. And, Ive never been into metal, but Im going to a heavy metal concert pretty soon with a student. I am very afraid. Authors: John Grisham hands-down. I have read them all, except the new one he just came out with. My favorite youth ministry book is PresenceCentered Youth Ministry by Mike King.

I can see now looking back how God took me down this road of vocational ministry. Its a long story/conversation, but to make it quick, I was attending First Watch here at IBC back in 2005 when God started moving me into vocational ministry. I was actually about to start applying to medical schools. But instead I took an intern position with Mens Ministry at IBC. Someone told me the pay was the same for a doctor and pastor

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Hi. Im Matt. (Said one too many Skymall door mats.)

MATT
CHAT Maybe in a different denomination. Just kidding! We asked some of the

Next Gen staff to describe you in one or two words. One of them said: loves food. Can you elaborate? Lindsay and I got engaged, I had the Alice Spring Chicken at The Outback. When our rst daughter was born, I had Honey Seared Chicken with fried rice and a Vanilla Spice Chai Tea at Pei Wei. I dont do cereal for dinner. I want a real meal. When I cook, which is often, I usually add one single secret ingredient that cant be found at the grocery store: love. When I cook, its with passion. I look at cooking like an artist looks at a blank canvas. I like to cook Italian dishes, grill all kinds of stuff, smoke meat, cook Mexican/ Tex-Mex food, experiment with brunch recipes, and I really like to cook southern classics. I imagine that the aroma of Texas De Brazil is much like how heaven will smell. Central Market is the greatest store ever. Brunch is the most underrated meal. Breakfast is mistreated so very often. People just grab sorry excuses for real food and call it breakfast. This is sad.

CHAT So, is being heard their greatest need?

MH I think the biggest need for high schoolers is the realization of how much they

MH I remember almost every signicant event in my life in terms of food. When

need Jesus. This goes along with needing to be accepted and loved right where they are. Which, if you put those two together, Jesus covers both.

CHAT Youve been at IBC for 10 weeks now. Whats the coolest thing youre seeing

in the IBC high school students?

MH I think it would be their desire to draw closer to God. When our students slow

down and just breathe, its amazing how much they desire to be in his presence and learn who he is.

CHAT OK. Lets switch gears. No high school pastor would be worth his salt with-

out a stupid human trick or most embarrassing story.

MH No tricks. I dont really get embarrassed too much, but I have some quirks that

would embarrass most people. About a year ago, I nally started swallowing pills as opposed to just chewing them up. (Advil has a nice sweet coating and all allergy pills are very bitter.) So theres that. Im also terried of roller coasters. I actually hate them very much. I wrote an article for Chatter in August 2005 describing this. And, I dont handle needles or injections very well either. Ive been known to faint. they dont have high school students themselves?

CHAT Duly noted. So to close, how can IBCers support your ministry even if MH Pray for our students and their desire to be bold and live Christ-centered lives.

CHAT Before you put on your apron to cook us dinner, lets talk about students for

a sec. What do people just not get about high schoolers?

MH High schoolers want to be loved by someone right where theyre at. They want

to be heard by someone who cares about them. So many people/parents are really good at giving advice, but high school students need the opportunity to think about life and explain their thoughts.

Pray for our adult volunteers. Our volunteers are what make up IBCs High School Ministry. We are a relational ministry, and we could not exist without them. Pray for authentic relationships between them and our students. Finally, volunteer with us! We are looking for three leaders right now. Contact me if you love Jesus and love students. We have a place for you to serve!

The Alice Springs Chicken recipe from Outback calls for 6 slices of bacon. And one Crestor pill.

Advil was introduced to the U.S. In 1974, around the time David Bowie was hitting his stride.

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LIGHT DISPLAY Prairie Lights, Grand Prairie 4 million lights along a 2-mile stretch, plus pictures with Santa, hot chocolate, and a lighted walk-through forest. Open November 28-December 31.
Submitted by Jaminet Rivera and daughter Bryanna

WHATS YOUR FAVORITE PLACE TO G WITH YOUR FAMILY? YOUR FAVORITE DISPLAY, SHOW, OR ACTIVITY? WHA OUTING? CHATTER AS

PARADE Childrens Medical Center Holiday Parade, Downtown Dallas In its 26th year, the parade boasts unique oats, marching bands, and special performances. Date: December 7
Submitted by Anita Hernandez

RESTAURANT Campo Verde, Arlington Claiming the best chips and salsa in town, Campo Verde boasts overthe-top Christmas dcor with over 100,000 lights, 3,000 yards of multicolor garland, 50 Santa Clauss, a dozen Christmas trees, and model trains that travel 635 feet throughout the restaurant. Address: 2918 W Pioneer Parkway, Arlington
Submitted by Candance Sandifer

TREE FARM Yesterland Farm, Canton They provide the saw, and you set out to nd the perfect tree. Open November 29-December 15.
Submitted by Melanie Mechsner

GO DURING THE CHRISTMAS SEASON E TREE FARM? RESTAURANT? LIGHT ATS YOUR CANT-MISS CHRISTMAS SKED. YOU ANSWERED.

LIGHT DISPLAY Santa Land, Tyler 24 acres and 2.5 million lights make for an unforgettable Christmas wonderland. Ride on Santas Trailer or stay in the warmth of your own vehicle. Runs November 21-December 26.
Submitted by Lauren Hilton

EXHIBIT ICE Display at the Gaylord Texan, Grapevine Featuring The Nutcracker carved from more than two million pounds of ice. Runs November 14-January 4, 2014.
Submitted by Tommy Tucker

PARADE Parade of Lights, Grapevine This Grapevine tradition features more than 100 lighted oats and marching bands. Thursday, December 5, 7 p.m.
Submitted by the Peterson Family

IBC DECEMBER FAMILY SERVICES Christmas at IBC is a time for the whole family. Join us this year for family service Sunday (December 29) and the Candlelight Christmas Eve Service on Christmas Eve. See page 3 and 13 for details.

This winter, Women at IBC will listen in on Jesus conversations with women.

hat if Jesus invited you to lunch? What would you talk about? What concerns would you divulge? How might the interaction affect you? Dozens of rst-century women experienced a face-to-face encounter with Jesus, and, in a sense, we can too, as we eavesdrop. Luke recorded many of these conversations in his gospel. Each of the four gospels was written to a different audience for a different purpose. Lukes gospel is the gospel to the Gentiles, to the little people, and to women, who were undervalued in the rst century. C. S. Lewis wrote, for the little, low, timid, warped, thin-blooded, lonely people or the passionate, sensual, unbalanced people if they make any attempt at goodness at all, they learn, in double-quick time, that they need help. It is Christ or nothing for them. It is taking up the cross and following or else despair. They are the lost sheep; He came especially to nd them (Mere Christianity, 181). I so relate. There are 43 references to women in Lukes gospel. Obviously, Jesus cared for rst-century women, and he cares for you. Lets explore these conversations together, and dont expect to walk away the same as when you arrived. Nancy Ortberg wrote, Jesus interactions with people rarely left them unchanged. He stirred things up and shook peoples wrong ideas of God. He made heroes out of the most unlikely people and challenged thinking and lifestyles. He didnt end conversations by saying Youre great just the way you are; dont ever change. Lets do lunch. Chatter had a few questions for study author, Dr. Sue Edwards.

And Jesus never objectied women. He saw them rst as persons made in the image of God with signicant potential. He saw who they could be and encouraged them to see themselves that way and live differently. I think thats why so many women in the rst century ocked to him just like they have since and still do today. Women comprise about 60% of the congregations in the U.S. and percentages are generally higher overseas. We sense that Jesus values us and many of us respond with a deep, loyal, life-altering love.
CHAT Which of Jesus interactions with women in Luke has impacted you the most personally? SE Hard to say since I chose women who struggled with issues Ive wrestled with and sometimes still do. Stuff like control, fear, ingratitude, worry, stinginess, and impatience. But Jesus tender interaction with these rstcentury women illustrates his marvelous grace, still available to us today. If I had to pick one, I would say Jesus mother Mary. She learned to give up control despite the deep pain of seeing her beloved Son crucied. Ultimately, she trusted in Gods unique plan just for her, and Im learning to follow in her footsteps. CHAT If someone has never studied the Bible before, why is Luke a good place to start? SE Every book of the Bible tells us something about Jesus, but none brings us face-to-face with our Savior more intimately and beautifully than the Gospel of Luke. The author was a doctor, full of compassion, detail, and depth of insight, and his writings show us a side of Jesus that we cant nd anywhere else. About half of the material in Luke is not found in the other Gospels. At its core, the Christian faith is a relationship with Almighty God, and, as Paul reveals in Colossians 1:15, Jesus is the image of the invisible God. To know God is to know Jesus, and Luke is a great place to start.

CHATTER What will we learn about the person of Jesus by exploring his

interactions with women?

DR. SUE EDWARDS First, that Jesus was a true friend to rst-century women at a time when most women were treated like property. For example, women could not serve as a witness in a trial because their word was considered unreliable. But Jesus treated women counter-culturally, with respect, kindness, and brotherly love, even women with shady reputations and questionable pasts. Most of us can relate in some way. I know I can.

Join Women at IBC for Luke: Discovering Healing in Jesus Words to Women at Womens Bible Study this winter. Register today at irvingbible. org/women.

WOMENS BIBLE STUDY AT IBC

Luke: Discovering Healing in Jesus Words to Women by Sue Edwards

Have you ever felt undervalued, unappreciated, or just little? We all have. The gospel of Luke was written especially for us to show that God does his great work through people like us. As we focus on particular encounters Jesus had with rst-century women, you will have your own encounter with Jesus and learn how truly valuable you are to him.

Tuesdays, Jan. 14March 25, 2014 (10 weeks) 9:3011:30 a.m. or 6:308:30 p.m. The Commons at IBC Cost: $15 (includes workbook) Registration: irvingbible.org/women. KidZone registration is also available (closes on January 9 at noon). Questions? Contact: Tiffany Stein at tstein@irvingbible.org, or 972-560-4650.

Christmas 2013:

IBC Partner Pines (Not Angel Tree)

Bless one (or more!) of these IBC Partners this Christmas in a tangible way:
Global Family (IBC missionaries) ALARM (African Leadership And Reconciliation Ministries) Water Is Basic LEADLiberia My Refuge House Hosean International Ministries Kutch Family Promise Mercy Street Townsell Elementary & Sam Houston Middle School New Friends New Life Brighter Tomorrows Laundry Love

Each year at IBC, we choose to bless those who might nd it difficult to purchase Christmas gifts for their family. Over the past several years, we have partnered with Angel Tree to support local prisoners children with gifts. In order to create better consistency and connection with those families who receive gifts, we are excited to launch the IBC Partner Pines this year, a Christmas initiative that gives the IBC family the opportunity to provide gifts and necessities for our official partners and missionaries. Throughout the year, we have the honor of working with each of these amazing organizations, and this Advent season is the perfect chance for IBCers to get personally involved with an organization that aligns with their unique passions and interests. Beginning Sunday December 1, Town Square will be lled with tables representing our local and global partners and missionaries. At each table, hosts will provide information about the ministry they represent. Small Christmas trees at each table will feature ornaments representing a real need or gift idea that you can purchase (or donate towards) for a person or family in need. If you would be excited to help address the real, felt needs within our extended IBC family of partners and missionaries, drop by a Partner Pines table(s) after church on sudnays. Questions? Contact missions@irvingbible.org.

The Light has Come!

Christmas Eve Candelight Services at Irving Bible Church Tuesday, December 24 at 3:30 p.m. & 5 p.m.
Both Christmas Eve Candlelight services are identical, and are designed for the whole family. KidZone will be available for children three years old and younger. Help us plan for a full staff by registering your children at irvingbible.org/kidzone. Please note: the service will have special moments just for children, so feel free to bring them along with you.
Photo: Shawn Sadler

THIS MONTH
BIBLE COMMUNITIES
Groups on Sunday
Theres always something new going on in Bible Communities! Heres a taste of whats happening this month:
Synergy 9 a.m. The Alcove Couples in their 30s to 50s If you desire to dive into the Scriptures and deepen your faith, this class is for you. The Tree 9 a.m. West D 20s & 30s, married & young families The Tree is a community for young marrieds and young families looking to grow together in faith and marriage. Crossroads 10:45 a.m. West C Married late 20s and 30s Join us as we explore the apologetics series, Beyond Opinion by Ravi Zacharias. Journey 10:45 a.m. The Alcove All Welcome Join us for The Practical Practice of Transformational Prayer, where we will discuss the concept of intimate conversations with God. On Track 10:45 a.m. Conference Room Single Parents If you are a single parent or a blended family, please join us for Bible study, fellowship and prayer. Thrive 10:45 a.m. West D Singles in their 30s & 40s Join us for a series on Advent focused on Gods faithfulness and the power to fulfill his promises, and learn more about the love that brought Christ to earth. Renew 10:45 a.m. Training Center All Welcome Join us for community, prayer, and in-depth Bible teaching as we search Gods word. Legacy Builders 6:45 p.m. West A All Welcome Join us for fellowship, prayer, and in-depth Bible teaching as we study the book of Romans. MyZone Wednesdays, 6:308:30 p.m. Zone/Zone Jr. A mid-week event for kids thats great for bringing friends. K-5 grade. Starts January 15. Shelter from the Storm A confidential small group focused on finding hope and healing from sexual abuse. We offer groups for both teens and adults. Contact Michelle at shelterfromthestormibc@ gmail.com or (214) 725-0898. Mental Health Grace Alliance Both groups resume January 2014 The Living Grace Group For those who have mental illness. Contact Melissa Clark at melisser34@yahoo.com.

MISSION

Local and Global

Prayer Meeting 2nd & 4th Wednesdays, 6:458 p.m. The Chapel Join us as we pray for IBC, the needs of our people, and the world. Will not meet December 25. Laundry Love first Saturday of the month, 9 a.m.12 p.m. Located at Amigo Laundromat, 3349 Country Club Dr. in Irving (just down from Sam Houston Middle School). Please join us as we provide free laundry cycles and detergent, strike up conversations and build relationships. For more info visit llpirving.org or contact info@llpirving.org.

Contact children@irvingbible.org.

CONNECT

Events and Resources for Newcomers and Small Groups

Newcomer Gathering January 9, 6:30 p.m. Zone, Jr. Come find out more about IBC, meet Pastor Andy, staff, and other newcomers. Visit irvingbible.org/ newcomers.

Family Grace Group For family members, friends, and caregivers who support individuals with serious mental disorders. Contact Buzz Moody at myrabuzz@ gmail.com.
Stephen Ministry at IBC Stephen Ministers provide a listening ear and a caring presence for IBCers going through emotionally difficult times such as the loss of a loved one, loss of a job, illness, injury, divorce or other life events. If you or someone you know could benefit from the care of a Stephen Minister, or if you are interested in becoming a Stephen Minister, contact stephenministry@irvingbible.org.

HOPE & HEALING

Community Care
Griefshare Thursdays, 6:30-8:30 p.m. West C Begins February 6, 2014. Join a caring group of people who will walk alongside you through one of lifes most difficult experiences. You dont have to walk the journey alone. Childcare is available with previous registration. For more info, please contact Sharon at shararrington@verizon.net. Abortion Recovery Counseling One-on-one, confidential counseling for those living with the aftermath of abortion. For information, contact Kym at (972)560-4632 or kyeichner@irvingbible.org. Recovery at IBC Thursdays, 6:308:30 p.m. West Wing Youth Lounge Do you deal with perfectionism, pride, overeating, inappropriate anger or control? Recovery is confidential and all are welcome. Grace for the Wounded Thursdays, 6:308:30 p.m. A confidential small group ministry that explores the wounds we have received and the healing journey Gods prepared for us. Female group currently offered. Contact graceforthewounded@irvingbible. org to register. NAMI Family-to-Family Class Resumes January 2014 A 12-week course designed for families and caregivers of those with serious mental illness. Contact Joey at joey@netbreezeinc.com or Debra at eumoore@yahoo.com.

SINGLE PARENTS

Community and Resources

Single Parent Christmas Mall December 14, 9 a.m.12 p.m. The Commons See ad, pg. 16. Sit with us on Sunday! Several single-parent families enjoy worshiping together in the 9 a.m. service. Join us in the lowest righthand section, Rows 5 & 6, facing the stage.

MARRIAGE

Growing Together
Marriage at IBC Sundays, 9 a.m. High School Room Marriage at IBC will be kicking off on January 5. Please visit irvingbible. org/marriage for more info. See ad, pg. 17.

Visit irvingbible.org/singleparents.

SPECIAL NEEDS

Community and Resources

In His Image Bible Study Wednesdays, 6:307:45 p.m. Training Room A small group for adults (18+) with special needs. Special Needs Support Group Wednesday nights, 6:307:45 p.m. The Conference Room Contact Lori at lorikuy@gmail.com. SonShine Pals and Room Our SonShine Rooms are available during the 10:45 a.m. service for children with special needs. There are also opportunities for children to be matched with a SonShine Pal.

MEN

Community and Resources

First Watch Fridays, 6:22 a.m. The Commons Join the ranks of Men at IBC who are steadily moving towards Christ and making an eternal difference. Resumes January 10, 2014. First Watch Replay Tuesdays, 6:30 p.m. Training Center Starts January 14, 2014. First Watch Xtra Meets Wednesdays at 6:30 a.m. in the Training Center. Starts January 15, 2014.

Please visit page 18 for more Sunday Bible Communities.

CHILDREN

Infants Through 5 Grade

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Contact specialneeds@irvingbible.org.

Camp KidJam Registration is now open for Camp KidJam 2014. Register online at irvingbible.org/children/specialevents/camp-kidjam. Zone 6:30 Tuesdays, 6:30 p.m. A small group exploration of the Bible and Gods story. For kids K-5th grade. Starts January 14.

Visit irvingbible.org/men for more info.

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STUDENTS

Middle/High School and College

Dont Waste Your Summer December 8, 12:30 p.m. West A See ad, pg. 17. Middle School Sundays Life on Life Student Ministries area, 10:30 a.m.12:20 p.m. Middle School Wednesdays The W Student Ministry area, 6:308 p.m. High School Winter Retreat January 31-February 2 Join us for our winter retreat where we will focus on the simple expression of kindness. Visit irvingbible. org/students to register. High School Sundays Life Groups Student Ministry area, 6:458 p.m. High School Wednesdays SWAG 7:158:30 p.m. The Alcove. Teen Recovery Monday Nights, 67:30 p.m. Zone, Jr. Teen Recovery is a safe and confidential environment for middle and high school students to identify and share their pain and struggles. Contact Trey at tgrant@irvingbible.org. IBC College Ministry Sundays at 3:30 p.m. The Commons Annex Home for the Holidays December 19, 810 p.m. Come home for the holidays and celebrate community together. All current seniors and college aged students are invited to attend this time of fellowship to see old friends and make new ones over some dessert. Email mconnor@irvingbible. org for the address. Passion Conference 2014 The college group at IBC will be attending Passion 2014 in Houston, TX, February 1415.

Fostering Hope (Foster Care Support) December 8, 5 p.m. Open to all who are fostering, fostering to adopt, or are considering foster care.

If you have questions, please email Amy at acurtis@irvingbible.org.

IBC Career Transition Ministry Wednesdays, 6:308 p.m. Want to find a job? Come learn how to craft a rock-solid resume, use the Internet and LinkedIn to network, and ace the interview. For more info, contact 2435jobtransition@ irvingbible.org.

Visit 2435kinwest.org.

WOMEN

Community and Resources

Womens Bible Study Our winter Bible study will kick off on January 14 as we study the book of Luke. See article, pg. 12. Be Still Silent Retreat December 13, 9 a.m.3 p.m. Come away for a day to be with Jesus and rest in him at the beautiful Mt. Carmel Retreat Center in Dallas.

MISCELLANEOUS
A Little Bit of Everything
NICHE (North Irving Christian Home Educators) No meeting in December. May you have a Merry Christmas. For more info on NICHE or homeschooling visit texasniche.com. New Arrivals Joe and Leanna OBrien and their son Corbin Jack, born September 17 at 8 lbs, 3 oz, and 20 inches.

Visit irvingbible.org/women.

YOUNG ADULTS
20s and Early 30s
Decades Christmas December 14, 811:30 p.m. See ad, pg. 16. Sit with us on Sunday! We know sitting alone at church is lame, so join us for the 10:45 a.m. service. We sit together in the lower left-hand section facing the stage. Wed love to meet you.

Michael and Nicole Horn and their son Evan Michael born October 15 at 10 lbs, 3.6 oz, and 22 inches.

Visit irvingbible.org/youngadults.

2435 KINWEST

Wednesday Nights at IBC

Vox Humana Choir Wednesdays, 78:30 p.m. IBC Worship Center The choral community of IBC is always looking for new singers, beginner or pro. Everyone is welcome and you can join at any time! No auditions necessary. Contact Crystal at celwell@irvingbible.org. ESL: English as a Second Language Wednesdays, 6:308:30 p.m. AZ17, 18 and 19 Do you want to learn English? Improve your English? Come practice all four skills: speaking, listening, reading and writing. For more info, contact Corey at 2435esl@irvingbible.org. FREE Citizenship Class Wednesdays, 6:308 p.m. IBC For those at least 18 years old who have been issued a Permanent Resident Card. Well guide you through the N-400 paperwork and prepare you for the main components of the new citizenship test. Contact Michael at 2435citizenship@irvingbible.org.

For latest info on times and locations of college events, join the Facebook group: College at IBC. Contact mconnor@irvingbible.org.

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TAPESTRY

Adoptive and Foster Families

Empowered to Connect Training for Adoptive/Foster Parents Weekly classes for adoptive/foster families. Please register by emailing Amy Curtis at acutis@irvingbible.org. Waiting Families Group December 7, 7 p.m. For families awaiting placement in the adoption or foster care process.

One of the best ways to make a difference in todays world is through charitable giving of your time, talents and resources. Our government recognizes these acts of kindness as reason for reward, i.e. tax breaks, for monetary gifts.
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The IBC nancial team has compiled a list of tips for making charitable donations as the 2013 scal year closes. Learn about tax deductions, the benets of stock contributions, tracking receipts, and more. Visit irvingbible.org/give.
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for kids in single-parent families

Saturday, December 14 9 a.m. 12 p.m. in The Commons An annual tradition, the IBC Christmas Mall is an event where kids in single-parent families enjoy a fabulous breakfast, shop for their parents, wrap gifts, make cards, decorate cookies, have pictures made with Santa, and make an unforgettable Christmas memory. Everything is free!

Save the Date

WEIRD ANIMALS!
June 1619, 9 a.m.12 p.m. at IBC
God lled the world with a lot of crazy creaturesincluding you! Weird really means something is special, unique, rare, never-seen-before! VBS will be a fun-lled week where kids will connect with their friends and neighbors while learning that Jesus love is one-of-a-kind.
VBS is for children entering Kindergarten-5th grade. Registration opens April 11 at irvingbible.org/vbs. Interested in volunteering? Contact Melody at mparlett@irvingbible.org.

for VBS 2014:

Parents, please register your kids online at irvingbible.org/singleparents. This event is for children 5 years and older. Questions? Contact jerlenbusch@irvingbible.org.

Join us for a true Christmas celebration as we ring in the holidays with a night of dancing and yuletide cheer. This event is hosted by Northwest Bible Church and IBC. All proceeds to go to Mercy Street. For more information contact youngadults@irvingbible.org.

Student Meeting and Lunch December 8, 12:30 p.m. in West A All parents of current middle and high schoolers are invited to come with their kids to learn how Students at IBC are making a difference during the summer of 2014. Get key info about upcoming mission trips, summer camps, and other ways to serve. No RSVP necessary, but a donation for lunch will be requested. Questions? Contact Mary Ann Connor at mconnor@irvingbible.org.

Were ne.
Whether your marriage is sinking, coasting along, or going full-throttle, every marriage needs maintenance. Marriage at IBC is a 10-week session that provides ideas and suggestions for improving common points of conict such as nances, communication, expectations, sex, time management and in-laws. Most importantly, however, is the small group time where you learn from and are encouraged by other couples walking alongside you. Marriage at IBC Sundays at 9 a.m. starting January 5 (10-week session) Meets in the high school room. Register at irvingbible.org/marriage. Questions? Contact Bekah Massey at marriage@irvingbible.org.

Dont settle for

SUNDAY SCHEDULE
First Worship Service: 9 a.m.
Childrens Classes (all ages) Synergy (40s & 50s), the Alcove The Tree (young marrieds and families), West D

HOW DO I GIVE?
My Time, Talents & Skills
Safety and Security Team Do you have a desire to serve and protect others? Then the IBC Safety and Security team on Sundays is for you. Contact Chris Rose at crose@irvingbible.org. Please include any credentials and relevant experience. 2435 Kinwest Medical Clinic Volunteers Our weekly medical clinic is in need of professional health care providers (MD, PA, FNP) to provide treatment for our patients. Volunteers do not need to serve every week. Contact Charles at cpierce@2435clinic.org. Tapestry Volunteers Tapestry, IBCs foster and adoption ministry, is in need of volunteers. Contact Amy Curtis at acurtis@irvingbible.org. Mentor Kids in Single-Parent Families Men and women are needed for gender-specic mentoring of children from single-parent families. Contact Marsha at mtribbett@irvingible.org. Meal Team Volunteers IBC serves meals on Sunday and Wednesday nights, and could use some additional volunteers to serve together. For Sundays contact sundaynightmeal@irvingbible.org. For Wednesdays, contact bdowney@irvingbible.org. Special Need Volunteers There any many opportunities from once a month to every Sunday to volunteer with the special needs ministry. Contact Shannon at specialneeds@irvingbible.org. Mercy Street Mentors There are currently 67 children waiting for a mentor to encourage them as they walk through the difculties of generational poverty. For more info, contact Jen at mercystreet@irvingbible.org.

Second Worship Service: 10:45 a.m.

Childrens Classes (all ages) Crossroads (mid 20s-30s couples), West C On Track (single parents), Conference Room Journey (all welcome), The Alcove Renew (multi-generational), Training Center Thrive (30s & 40s singles), West D

My Resources
Box Tops for Education Box Tops for Education coupons from products such as Kleenex, Ziplock, breakfast cereals, etc can go to help purchase much needed equipment for Townsell Elementary. Please bring all Box Top coupons to the box in the donation area by the Training Center. Clothing for Brighter Tomorrows The women of Brighter Tomorrows are in need of undergarments (bras and panties) and sweatpants. New items only please. Please drop all donations in the box in the donation area by the Training Center. Contact Marjorie at brightertomorrows@irvingbible.org. Laundry Soap and Dryer Sheets Laundry Love collects laundry soap and dryer sheets. Please bring these to the Laundry Love box in the donation area by the Training Center. For more info visit llpirving.org or contact info@llpirving.org. Online Giving Option If you would nd it more convenient to donate to the ministries of Irving Bible Church online, visit irvingbible.org/give.

Third Worship Service: 5 p.m.

Childrens Classes (all ages)

Community Dinner: 6 p.m. Community Events: 6:45 p.m.

Legacy Builders (all welcome), West A Middle School, The Commons High School, Student Ministries Area

SUNDAY COMMUNITY MEALS

Join us in the Town Square for our community meal on Sundays at 6 p.m. Meals are $3 per person or $10 max./family. 12/1 Awesome Pizza, breadsticks, super salad bar. 12/8 Beef fajitas, chips and salsa, salad bar. 12/15 All American burgers and brats, salad bar. 12/22 No Meal. Merry Christmas! 12/29 No Meal. Happy New Year! If youd like to serve on a Sunday night meal team, contact Pat OReilly at (214) 289-6176 or sundaynightmeal@irvingbible.org.

Interested in learning more about IBCs budget for 2013 or other nancial nuts and bolts? Visit irvingbible.org/budget.

WEDNESDAY MIDWEEK MEALS

Each Wednesday night from 5-6:20 p.m., IBC prepares dinner for anyone wanting a good, hot meal. PB&J sandwiches are also available. Cost is $3/meal or $10 max./family. Just come by The Commons and grab a plate! 12/4 Deluxe Hamburgers, tater tots, and pickle spears. 12/11 Pizza and salad. 12/18 No Meal. 12/25 No Meal. Merry Christmas! Changes to the menu may be made depending on food cost, availability, and Bob Downeys whim. If youd like to serve on a Wednesday night meal team, please email bdowney@irvingbible.org.

New to IBC?
Have questions? Were here to help.

Were so glad youre here. Sometimes its hard to know where to begin, but we want to make the process of connecting and feeling at home as easy as possible. Here are some ways to start. The Information Center is a great place to get your questions answered, nd help and encouragement for your personal journey, or just have a cup of coffee and settle in. Our team of volunteers would be happy to help you, and our goal is to make you feel at home. The Information Center is open every Sunday after all three worship services. The Newcomer Gathering is an informal get-together for those new to IBC and/or those wanting to learn more about who we are, what we believe and how to get plugged in. Meet other newcomers, ministry leaders and elders. Cant seem to gure out what IBC is all about or how you t into the larger picture? Want free breakfast every Sunday for four weeks? Propel is designed to help you gure out how to best plug in to IBCs culture and calling. Well talk about what it means to grow in Christ, connect in community and join the mission and what that might look like for you. Youll also learn more about membership at IBC. Small groups exist to cultivate deep relationships that advance the kingdom of God in dark places dark places in our world, in our relationships and in our hearts. We do this in the context of sermon-based Bible studies that meet in homes. Groups comprise 12 people or fewer and are formed by leaders who have completed small group leader training. To sign up for a group or get more info, contact Ryan Sanders at rsanders@irvingbible.org.

Information Center
irvingbible.org/connect

Newcomer Gathering
Learn more about IBC and meet others like you.
irvingbible.org/connect

THE MOSAIC CAF (THE MO)

Caf Hours Monday, Tuesday, Thursday: 8 a.m.5 p.m. Wednesday: 8 a.m.7 p.m. Friday: 8 a.m.12 p.m. Closed Saturday Sunday: 8 a.m.12:30 p.m. & 47 p.m. Phone: (972) 443-3323 The Mo will be closed December 2428 and December 31January 1 but will be open for Christmas Eve Services.

Ready to get plugged in?

irvingbible.org/connect

Propel

Connect with others on the journey.

irvingbible.org/smallgroups

Small Groups

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O, USS Tannenbaum

the shores of discounted at-screen TVs, I am moved to put down my Bartletts Guide to Less Familiar Metaphors and Idioms of Ill Repute, toss another copy of Kenny Gs Miracles: The Holiday Album on the re, and reect upon the familial Christmas traditions of my Toughskinsclad youth. Heres a preview: Cardboard replace.

As the rising tides of Yule commence breaking their whitecaps of nog upon

nephews and their assorted offspring, however, she was a wrapping paper William Tell, able to pop you on the head with a bit of gift wrap from 15 paces. Of course, were she still with us, she would deny ever being the instigator of such bedlam. But the twinkle in her eye said otherwise. Finally, and most spectacularly, my brother and I would, moments after the tree was decorated, commence turning the faux r into our very own Battlestar Galactinerd. By which I mean we loaded it up with paper airplanes. Squadrons of them. Flown, one by one, into their temporary hangar from the far end of the hall my bedroom at one end and the tree/hardened air force base at the other. You might think my mom would be horried at the sight of a quarter-ream of wide-ruled hellre missiles lurking behind her decoupage ornaments. But she was not. I can only surmise now that Im a father of three delightful scamps myself that she gured there were much worse things two young boys could be doing than basically hurling compressed wood pulp at a plastic simulacrum of a conifer created by the original Renaissance Fairies in 16th century Germany. And she would be right. Because after David and I had our ll of lling the tree with Good King Wenceslass Air Command, we turned our not-quite-decient attention to another mark: The Afro Death Star. You see, my brother from the same mother and I both have curly hair. Said noggin-bushes were inherited from our mom. And, given the timeframe of the late-70s/early-80s, Moms coiffure was generally round and fairly dense. And the perfect target for a pointy-tipped nger jet. Mom would, at times, make the mistake of taking a nap on the living room sofa, which left her fuzz (as we called three of the four hairstyles in our family) vulnerable to attack. Records from the era are spotty at best, but I believe our record for successful fro inltration was four planes before the added weight roused Mom from her deserved slumber and sent us scampering down the hallway. An odd Christmas tradition you say? Perhaps. But consider the fact that, despite having hundreds of paper spears launched at her face year after year, Mom never suffered a single eye injury. Now thats a Christmas miracle. Jason Fox wishes you a Christmas rife with Burl Ives, and hopes his mother forgives him for this column.
Jason Fox is a writer and advertising enthusiast formerly based in Dallas but now throwing snow in Omaha. The one in Nebraska.

As Ive recounted on more than one occasion, I grew up in the house in which my parents still live, near the rhythmic, owing streams of traffic along I-70 in lovely Independence, Missouri. Things, of course, were simpler in my days of minor status, when such quaint things as the OPEC oil crisis, stagation and Iran hostage imbroglio permeated the national psyche instead of todays collective need to Snapchat a hot sele. But I digress. The Christmas traditions around the Fox household formed quickly and remained steadfast through space and time if not high school graduation. Most were perennial, one or two more quadrennial. But they all combined to make the season the weird, wacky, vaguely militaristic, orange-scented celebration of our Saviors birth the good Lord intended it to be, assuming a rather loose interpretation of Philemon. Ive selected a sampling for your mockery below. First, our house was not anywhere close to being what todays media elite would dub a McMansion, or what people in Frisco call a starter home. It did only have one bathroom, but since my brother and I were brothers instead of sisters, that didnt prove too difficult an obstacle to overcome during adolescence. We had no vaulted ceilings or second or third formal living rooms into which we could install a 15-foot Douglar r freshly hewn from weird Uncle Boogs tree and alpaca farm. Nor could we enrobe the 17th century replace mantle with holly grown in the guest wings attached greenhouse because no replace existed. We rolled in a Barcelona brown raised ranch, baby. Hard core. So we opted for the science-and-technology route and chose a factory-crafted tree sculpted from the nest polyvinyl chloride mid-70s mass production techniques could produce. And we got a cardboard replace. Dont you judge us. I loved both the fake tree (Reusable! Hypoallergenic! 94% immune to spontaneous combustion!) and fake replace. Partly because they were the only things I knew, and partly because they only made an appearance once a year. How special is it to hang a sock on a replace when you see that replace every day compared to having to build the replace one tab A into slot B at a time just to put up your bedazzled-before-the-Bedazzler-existed stocking? Not very, Chachi. Corrugated memories for the win. Second, Mom always (in my memory) made Pillsbury Orange Sweet Rolls with Icing. Homemade? Sorta. Delicious? You betcha. Christmas morning just wasnt Christmas morning (although Im not sure what it turned into Presidents Day perhaps) without the prepackaged goodness proffered by a giggling boy of dough. That we baked and drowned in frosting. Third, when we nally made it to my maternal grandparents house after visiting my dads folks in the afternoon, mayhem would ensue in the form of my great aunt Marie. My grandpas older sister, Marie was (to the untrained eye) a quiet, petite woman in her late 70s. To her extended family of ve nieces and

Taco Bungalows sounded less impressive than McMansions.

Alpacas were introduced to the U.S. In 1984. And things have been 32% more hilarious ever since.

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