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Hyper-arousal responses to stress preparing for fight or flight: pupils dilate, heart rate
increase, digestion is inhibited, adrenaline increase, blood goes in arms in legs (pituitary
gland and adrenal produce cortisol); we have all the resources to escape from the
frightening situation. And crying; I am in danger
Dissociation (freeze or surrender) the trauma is inevitable
Biological: all the hype-arousal symptoms together with endorphins, dopamine similar
with narcotics -> protects the child from pain, its a natural pain killer, conserves energy,
protection from the predators (some animals will not eat a dead animal)
The younger the child is, the greater the dissociation is.
Dissociation (numbing)
1. Withdrawal, isolation, passivity
2. Somatic complaints (fatigue, headache)
3. Self stimulating (thumb sucking)
Basic principles foe healing from emotional trauma
Children need to feel secure and loved
Children need to me reminded of the trauma
Children need to process the trauma through emotional release: talking, laughing, crying,
raging, trebling, or engaging in therapeutic play
When a child needs to cry he has to do it the complete cycle. If he will be interrupted we will
continue it in another point of the day. When you stop a crying, you just postponed it.
Research on crying
Biochemical studies of tears
o Stress hormones are excreted in tears: maybe one purpose of tears is to
eliminate the surplus of substances in the body to find an equilibrium
Physiological studies of crying in adults
o Crying lowers blood pressure, heart rate, body temperature
o Health benefits of crying
Therapy with children involving crying
o Birth recovery therapy
o Flooding therapy for phobias
There no such thing like being too sensitive. Some kids will cry more when adapt.
Common control patterns in adults (habits and addictions to avoid crying: dissociation)