9 Our Lady of Sorrows A Political Economy of the Emotions “Tey do ot ree the way we do ‘General Wilam Wesorlnd Viena, 1968 1) Si height heats ured ston. Tso rerembed whether gardens Mone unter lined eats. ‘ytecps hey tered once 0 Jlight nla, tater the czen wer le there mere no more bus. 3) St ugher a iter tothe brn ost ‘Deis Lever (1987125) “What finily can besadf thee Alo women? How do they make senso the les and thet babe foreshore lives? Wha, fe al, doe ‘Rother love Tok ike thi inorpable cones? Are pri emorse rd seen, ahough deeply spree? 30, wher hall we Tsk for Ter Oratve ne Alte women their word, re these feling sent? ‘Rad wt doe this tel abow te are of emotions ad aes ‘Mercove how ae the maths abl do hat hey fel dey mst dor ‘Moc he hasan cv to thse who ae fred inf oral dem and {he es tue ro woman should have o make? What ace the mora ‘Mhon ta ude heaton How do they protec heme ram boing ‘eh! ates weigh) by abvalece a ub? Thve Ben chested for presenting an “rfatering” port of poor wom, women wo re thes he viins fever oil ad iatito= Monat selec Tre I bave dered hse women allowing, ven bel waren alc dren vo de, Dat Ido Ro oe thee proces a mater, nharun or unwomanly bu eather a resonable spose petrol conrims and coningenie.In he eer het f thi ok ised sels he ager context witha soc bd economic [win wh tere Alo women ove spd won actand make choi, Iinad theWhese ry be Her, want 10 unravel the pesonal end ‘ene inersons of love and death on the Alo do Creo and Spec ene shaping of women eonsdousess and sbi ‘0 ue Lay ofSorows 400 henever saci centile tenses inthe ty of women’ nepal in peas nrrounding sce eproducion, dt tee equal come up agatha of human ond trl) sean ben wncnialy derived from asomgtons and wales Teninchesrucre ofthe mdr," Western, burgess ity eer aie Mrposngesenal or aniversal womanly stig achat Ms “Sanlu Jon Kennels (1976) “ate boning” Sare Ricks ito) nal aking” Reny Chodorow’ (1978) feminine penn aod Cae igs (1982) "womanly thon” alo wih on closer aa cn Sef bets colar nd history bound find these aaanrnrendeene nla they pert avery speci ural “rm” a RES centre andthesby aerate the experiences of many Toe auc and Tard Wd women, who become feminist version of he son Water ther. “cenanorey heres of maternal sntent—of mathe ove we nsurund Soden are the produto a vey specie Nets co st foie scared ny eae he remy, nae fay {os Hlbeth Baines 1960) point suomi he demographic wasion: the precptons deci in ine moray nd female ey My amen tel ge aa cas eine nthe pyehlagl sahil, nd seca a ral er grew ern wa. ‘lage syn eeeenanion rounded inthe asc : cane women’s erodacv ives The uralst who reviewed Earl Caen pagel he Bain daly lb eS Pl ot ao cs 198), ne tenure ace enied "Anhropelgst Cll aan se pougeie Myths may ave ovestaed my cane. Bain est Trappe ene enough 0 what NB. “Theta wanton ramon “ya "new!” moni patent cecarndin aro inthe ps banded years and hes now cig i aa span pur of Bal has been accompanied by # “88” eer day per (ee Wer Banh 191: Fra 1989), Theve deme TNE changes wherever they oc fet pscepions of human He er ode segs nating theives’ of modern cod ad and ated arly roles and sol sentiments (needing mother ‘EapSoy at ter prepions concerning the tele vl fhe nde de cea sprint the illcvy (wheter sucear or extended Tamalyinere, como). Tokay maherlove ee, inhe ft isance sma a6e ayo ivr oem las andaanss”Bewlysm Ouctady of Sortows (evs 2 wel tea) in ch ne on a md This Cie at a onyern ay tooth etd nto eral ting oe cay mek Fe inept aye See ae se oehenothgnsucty ane ey a tran lien or «pene so agen gretintemny denn a antag iors Sa etal ies ye fe de raped by Oo, ne a a ln egy tet sd ear Se er on ene ema i tt eds au bee oe nn a edt sng anrme cee SE i nly sion oun one Sane ct Many h wamenrig eh ca Scab tons en, Deine ee ceca ed npn semen Feeney rea pc aor te lettin gy onesie ly. en ea orl al nn oe 0 er a chee py nein denn nd nao mb Sn cfd pomegerrind see npc Ne ceed cingon ney eee Se ial Hele fae tie cl cou aereeni i teed rood Se sarees eager ceca’ yn nd ye a pe ns nl pr oon yer a cone otc orem em aa gel dro ve eee! a en Fae a ent eo Ney See crema en fen gy os al ca es rcs fate pended te dco tomiaedarend mere ht ae Scared hs ene mr sa imap athstveode co Ourtaly ofSoriowe 70 asd, stances wih rer, Unie males, who above al engl Pe saetting oes, women fr olen. The fein evn of Fr eermchlogy wdly aed oa andthe ein debut con a dbeeter female empty, xl embeds, eponsivenest to eee Raid gy boundries ar oeve o epnvecaratri ae men Sar Roh (989, vey Fox Ker (198, 1985), Tend (98D) hove celebrated, ven ez teint empathie ory, Other ncn ane Fax (1980), have arpedshae aston were mong, indvfanted seve of “el remain prerequisites of sree ulna! pom and developmen. Here I queion she pore ora coe Tera” pychaogy Sal Te “eben Tar ake Shape inthe womanly exprienes of pregnancy. bithng, ant eu ear ay jo ctrl” reprdace maternal enemas rdhee and cangemen a of stachinen nd enpsthy. The Muted Moral ies of Women ‘en pty the infants who di herean the Alto do Crain Deke your ents om her. By sansteod, Mp Ft thotemothers who are condemned ove ee A kee, Monon, Ato d Cri Cr he Ao do Crete the suv any oe i grey abr See ee ering ofthe ete dames group eps tht Teen op feu women ante it anthro mare ES re tas worl of ret cern ot ead dent er cacy any ne emanate es to hubnd mnt ey aro age intana the comer of chine TIN en inthe dese cnet of shai ile mater do ecules ober dl, dso Ce ie orhat of younger and weer family mee Ore sa ere en cough teaming age of ctely welled bien ney ocean oe ond mas a ich aus the ouch of Teves. Mano ad AEN Si etomidate on8iAndenon. Cw in dole econo th Rea dn Mago hoe sar yes motes, rater abe ting aus oe tng nie le tansy ary Sromscm yg in oo es eed wo hae Gi hp in Rese whee was ot ioctl emred obiging eh rahe ee a aoe orth oe ee boy very ery. Bat1061 Ouray of Srrone lovee that she fat ha rough for the ile Boy wa being di teburedamong the biger and heather husehgl members, nding treargrandmother, Daina my edest cama on the Ako do Cran Meanie the ancioti tin eam tat my eld stant, Cea de ‘Malo, bog oa he badly nec dep rac of Gls neon in fant coin, the youngest member of the Rowsehol, was bel posed sound among the teenage women of he booptoi 6 oe for heroin “Aemishes Bot Cased my immed an sell ightans nian proved we hd 1 onion the ippopritnes af ou “haranar tre Ouro Pausn viand Tay Fe cid 0a Inrreiions on bal ofthis aliogthermittble and threatened Rose ald oly prove sous and ois. Why were you waxing ro much money on Gil” ol alins abe, when ther were ler dren and working ats wo were to sc and “han By" Glmother Prats, ha anf tothache, andthe ie fer ce tes dangerously ellen Her sun ad stomach rening fom me ‘pale fhe hd enten the igh before She ws doubled over wth pin td could not serene get the lunry buck er patron tine, wich tight cnt er the coming wees mate money, A wehe-gearad nephew lay onthe taered straw mass in he fot roo his face rrned to he sal hiding his wan eats; fe bed tor was badly infected ond he fain (hen I thought te igure) wa, the boy almaited, “unkerble” Dalits youngest sone trent four earls, hd begun show sign of madness. Was he now fig gle a wel He was slepng onthe Aoarin the buck room. "Be etl you don tp oer," ware Dalia sl wet oo ck oa the tine. “He's brat” OM Disp we ‘demi but hel went ot tice ay tothe ub chafr tell Aesen lrgs cane of water, which she wuld rela few cent can the ‘neghtors lang her hile path, Oslin min have been ance bes rend an “ld woman inte 196 hen she acd water to my le ‘Ali hows, Dalna complained of «nervous attack ha bal ele ber shaky ‘and unable ro tlanee the heavy can of water en her ead, She si he hd fallen down onthe decent from the chal ever that dy andro het ones were sre, When wale saeelcdly arnt the iy room 1 comfort her, she began wry. “You vedo bes mathe tome, When ws Ing, you brought me oo hinge ost, When Twa sick you ok tro ‘he opal Do’ you cre sbout me anno “Thefac thereon the Altodo Crssr resembles nothing muchas buf ora regency room nn crowed inert Porpal. Coe ‘oer moc hnkngeDaeided bythe Bnd jst and commitment toabarct universal ponies ht Lawrence Fiber 198) equated with Din: “Dns ou ie sb me eyere™ ighly developed ethic rentoning and tt Caro Giligan (1982) ler sacked fori anenaour males. The mor thinking of women ofthe ‘A conforms in avery gene wrt of ay t Gilligan’ ntian of 2 ‘fomenly nurturance that foramen reais concrete and contest Tete Bot the prez on which th womanly et of “re” and "ee Shona” ere bane on he rocky ble ofthe ltd Crareiroare que ‘Iernt rm hoe deere by Gillan. inthe shanytown, day-to-day moral shining is guided by 2 "eb shit" (Hand 1970) Te eel etl lem of he Heat cones ‘he decison et who among the shipwrecked io besaved when would Spelcerain dsr oy sing al Infanteand ders st Women and ‘Bidsent The young ade srong? The hardworking? The brave ad the fenotfl? The wise old men? The ack andthe vlarble? In emergency Suton the mgt of age—thradimentary pragmads of ving he ee ASS aie mae rake ar wore eran ‘tails Ta the apc stance jst ed Gi-Andeson was not ‘weds stageble He could no wal, he id not speak and he was a8 ‘veryone inthe fly agreed, an unatrcive child His aunt noted with iy tha helookedlike he ove haracterTteentatereal whieh ‘chal cane ster dplayed in downown Bom us. Ande, pone Tide hungry flow405 1 Onrlady of Soro ties tothe women deed thei al aking under wat can ely be det at ul nd uns ifurtane, Ds we wh he Sie oe ene fe ne oe ‘Lect orl inst orl een cn in tae nan ‘orcs Wool be umamly to Go Moje ht fhe {3k and vos tomer bo ade ae here? Te buen {fl url nd the regent for pening te rl eonony {ed daeibtve joe win the Alo horsol all nly onthe ‘Rouen of Ako women, thre nko ae sgl and tow who oe m0 which demas of aga. thee al ues Alter reading my fst aril on maternal sinking the shanytown, Dovid Dobe, a dtingushed poesr of Ramanand religious ew tthe University of Califo, Berkley wid me the fling ance ee ao Dube 1987-75-80), Some tine previo Dade ad shared with i wie, Helen, shen Jungian thespi4croue event tht bad then place Srastourg afew yas alter the end of Word War I. Daube nd ome sch fends were ching st am eget restaret, and Hey, ni tated ham of convertion filed se dining rom, Suddenly, however ‘eveetial as fellas te ables aan der, ing ooking tetera, scompaned by some finds, entered the estar I sted {lhe man ok hi set Daub war old hat shea ha ben «public fic nthe cy daring the me of the German ecpaion nd tha woof theyoungimen aon inthe zee weet bekile, The fia, who had it oncom, gained aces othe commandant whe was ur abt fo ive ‘herder to ave he denen 00nd ca shorn he coord. The ‘cal begged that iow sone be puted The commandant Leeda ‘hen nadded nonchalantly town the window everoking the enor ‘courtyard. "Al right" head you may wks oe of them The ofa oppddeadin his racks He ould nt bing hielo make the nara {nde seen. Sth con were eect pete. ‘On hearing the story, Helen wos unmoved by the moral scruples of the Stour ofc. She oid hat he wart be pe, ater han sie ‘Away, he war something a cord she oni, enue be dd 0 ‘rang make a choles shat would hunt Bi the et fh ie. He git sold fave been uabeable. Daub aguel with Helen in terme ofthe “higher el prinple valve Had he oil sped he eer, he ‘woud have been rade ft «clair with ei parcipting inthe si ery toying with human We. Helen lene an then cll Ouray Sonim 17 cela You may be it Bute woman woul ave poche hon trou “The dagrement beeen Kms and i wife, One ated, ght tae some renee te convey ercnding ny rth {Gren ar tile tera he moral fn hose ge y ‘Sree, unvesaie OOM Tones RG- AR uly and he Saale ated pal ty eis angio in wih once, prounatepesunalcncderaos and eon of rapontiy 2d Eremeltedcenboled men sbrrcion. Glin dened hitenson Son tera diflereen he mr enesf men ad woe. ‘Trevncmpromising universal rnoning of ther fi nd linen ero upon? ers chemo he onan tron voces soe The aca iden Bats wean wold ave gne Teme wi ove a her son vores the muted ober “orl tora women ef mothe pra. "Tis docute howe rea cnlng derbi a ony bavetn “al” and “ome oa RET OETA, | ‘hn ose the de oT peo oT Tpe ie ‘brian nos edisy Sea slo singahan odin the ‘Sue am debing Nocera ont have gone hme honor neil reine fe ‘Ao mle whe rye hr ol spare efor eh nd ont ney ling ser fhe ented And rate wah he ‘Alto mother hand he ying toes, Lesh then. He's ot the aly oe Ive” Th Kind oferty pragma sso found inthe ‘Svea enieein he adoption” Bok te Te spite narery nich {heuer and weer sf worn teins wll hing by ther preted mother “Te everyday vine of shantytown ie dalle teem of the Stboerg fia or Ak wemen, who ae ford to arian the tcmmanisys “pace of death by making tanamerale, lle elton ‘het ave ie-and death consequncs, Mothers mart decd onthe gulty tnd tength ofthe powdered alk and mings gen to young sd ale, Stronger and weaker lren; on he clothe sal amount exeally fired r ted water thai ep a apeclday pot who sal ecve coegeney medal car, ad wow een poirtandls es, an Alo tesher “ould hae gave hame with on her aon,” ad she woul Rave picked he ne mre ble toconfon thea event meant ean skid the younger, the gener, o the more Dlved af thew. hen an Ato oer sar beter et the weak nes dc” be shnking sito that of Mode, wh wealdsaoner suger her defenses chien than leave them akandosed and bps ina hose worl08 Ourlaty of Sosows These reletions may ete wo cast doubt ga he eroened “wisdom of Slmon, the am of Dav and hse a ing of eel. Born the ‘lgemae son of Bathe, Davids purer inadalery, Slenon had tater song ft inthe poe ofthe mater bond When vo ase tame belt Slron forthe mation fd ving the clam ‘he tame rewboon infant (0 Kings 3) Selon peed oot ei acusatons | tnd couneroceions and orered that seed be bought to hi. The Tine cvery" demanded ht he contested inl Becat in balan ied quilybaween thet women. The one ape tothe mediation, ng “Te neither fw have ie tin wo” The ther prot eying, sister herhovethebeby! Whatever oud, do gorilie” On hn het espns the king dee hat he ing baby be ven othe woman wh {elsed ave he inant Hed for “she mater” Solomons sabes rule atthe wisdom of thr ing. Anca Slomon’ decision wat 8 jst on, ving the contemporary pele ofthe et nee” ofthe {lt sm ners convinced a teint was neces et ome with the marl other, Merl hiking shold wo be senimentie. The mos tha guides ther, epeglly poor mais, may wot fl “Tenvendona” wad er dominant mora douse cvcerhing ote — ee ‘Alto woren lon ven hp some af thi len odie, But shey heels fxced olive. To any Alto women, ike Blick ene his i the inate tony the version of te exten “backhoe ee Babe 1953], Herein ll i ha Blak pe tld me fom the depth of ee Api felling the adr of her harbnd and the allowing yee, the (enh eund sre ofr ele and bevel on, Nego De “am the tims cused. My husband was music blo my own yes And ule nt prety som. The ple made me pick oe the ruled bole in the morgue find my De’ And ow Tat fred go Cnliving only wich had he lwory to hang mal My bush ould ie. My zon eld dieu I comot de, Lathe mas, My eden tnd andes rm my oe. Dg py the yourg men an the fans who hve ded hereon the Ato d Craze. Don't waste any teerson them. Py ur, Nand. Wee forthe mses who areconderned le Basi tangenet: Mothere and Their thers “The aval fa hl Tee the st ad often he ony port # woman ast enerece he Othe in ts del ‘iran tom bel Tul Kriteva (0977:98) OurLady ot Serowe 408 nding the feminist siry of female ojo relations i the ope see i trany, bh, and sntheond in which sl and other are ‘Reged diya lon evo fred mararanc/ dependency. Chalom’ {U5/b 5c87 theory the reproduction of mothe for expe draws Fwy o on Bowlby’ tology bse eas on motherinfnt tach een vodela nee fseh en “pring” brs, Bowlby (1969) Trt spre seqence of mate fat arachment cp, tere ered aclud resins of maternal nding Sch atelnant ehvins tinge rotng end shaping the apple and soc avtometic” marl Teantas amin. coving ging, naming fig, king, ade {Gln the infant wes cell reve, dormer, ond quate ce desrto show the "yearns of moter infant tions, Maca nding” ee Klux & Kennel 1976) was sido be "acta en the ‘pater fs Sspose to thefts eying sling. and scking. wat ‘agoted thet human sebering hs a stong, unlesened component (ee Bam 7iy and hat ween are bth shyly ad pychlogly Frege vo arte tr young The stoma "mit dow” reir in ting enters respons rig of fat distress casein int Tite ter-volee stay af human aac, separation nd es John Bw (1983, 1979, 1960 argued ht axachment a primary. ther thom secondary sti 2 Fel ad poste. lft ataciment, Bowlby et eed of mail bhava of am amgortance equivalent ha of Tg cain” witha “olga fonction petites” (199:13) Tod rds, mother nf sachment cast a «Bilal “ro ttxed"sejcne of Behave. Bowlby empl resach onthe tiny {SStaoneucd war phan England sowing Wo Ware hi (Ged hat the acm sticin fli awakene by sx months Piped resents through the ed lhe tid yeor of afer Uh hell becomes geal morsels, Cais, bower (Rita amchient tothe infin sid to follow » more immediate Matar Klar and Keel dented etal” ora "sensitve” ped or rte boing mmedatly postr, the fist minutes nd oure Sigeamac “igs eed yesh dale tls sre eatin pace xe eee enemy ama mal d l ork Sr way sl ns ndeen nit sen Ait a operyndnser ine ca tly denon neh” A “ci te eho eld nl os a een tachment ne deVies 87 LeVine Fee ee inalctnertesceped mtS80. OaeLady of Sorrows cf mh (nd mater bonding tht predates ia he ec ‘Suen nds opel cure “rit hel hard be rig Sd a oot ween wh 2 come exprner lop dae ad peted pregnancy ‘find scliyto the nets and nes than mile vs women Teh totha gree cntol over th fey and Higher epecany f Thideurv teaver offgh mort {women mut easly iced arin ret ey an rep ors welabe Sicind wate pean stl “Suihe Ao ds Greco infae utads dod yids, ae bs stooheal os enporay ech othe npn wane. And ‘Eanes, Feeds sept ee Hasaes 198) hcl lata» SERED nour One ofthe aye har Ao women om tenses Sesame nds tough ch ore ya de iB pees funeral wc toth newborn haved al uel wna wagg Rather than loner he sor EraoRine cen pron sane and fee rai, alow ‘tea edoy wh ch ler motes i someties ret ‘Ee ewbur, por momen ofthe Alo ce moter! end eme- Ceoaly dnt om he inte Ba ha tan oer pee + ipo ccletnplalonncorthexpesien fs pying ata forthe ‘trot emerson heen am emroment lex i daupanonent nd aed a lv oho bal ome ht wn “Sing Ato women ppenh eck peany anv an ech h weeny may gute fr aly won ee ‘eh ening ak of ene? Tren le ner bonding shorts, Mar Pore ort won new ah mthig hat espn the epee sh eungenent ar nny momen expen inthe encounters ih {eu nebor, Pa elevel woe osconanpyboge ate f imac dvanecetne ta she ald “ha ange” (9787) ‘fe tev nor ney noted penn rene ae em torn anoter ban bg The nese may se berm = duly trina “ce Easel sein, bere ange pro the “Mr of wogstin peeve naring and eopac tachment Ean Eon (9502021) called “oe at ars wre “ae ‘greece buick begningt snd end {Kelmerenng yer, towers, ony stone ar ht dive Bak tery oy ta sen rng eos pearly the Gree ctempttyhenemeiich we sn toward teste Afaceri tem a lon Bunan beng” (97838). OurtalyofSorove fait “The development ofthe infant airtime word epee in he pod cao ondwrutorthy ater) ha ilenoted cnr the Tokers bs ost inthe infant spatial in hero i “wiinanes” vo Rawr Bane srargenes ay reveal deep insecurities the mother er weet othe wr er fer of absndonmen nd fs, which se Farsi enfant and he atch to the aby at xy. Alois ‘hse ke ethers prove shelves worthy oft fet. I Thesere, we might peso all ifnt ceuiting “a “tho mniscpletrangement may be tote harateri of women ho give thin cantons of get personal insect od "abo po Tey res 1976.39, pycholgiehave Ben oreo hat reat sey together “average” and secre women rect with feings of c= eae eeeee even dle toward tho sewers. Ina sty ofthe TS rexcns os age sample of Bethy. midl-daeEnlsh mot THEM, Rabson and R. Kumar (980) found he 4 percent of time ‘hr snd 25 perce of more experienced makers reported fekings of “Mpc” or "lhe" Holding ther nenkor infants fr the ist tie: Morne these flings of erangerent often ted ring heist a ecke home from te hep Maer eniment of isang stay ined precede tera tachment fora reat any women Thenprens of bth on prdopose a gent many women pry ee sebslenperonee of separation and tance rater han one of relton= Shand eapuiy. asthe cour forinits suppor another, more plurals fete oleae pryholopes is needed ‘orcoveraldhough casi bonding teary red og erm egtve conmagocnes fs moa’ tare” to ond ober neonate inthe oly TES ys flowing bh the majcy of ily tang” moth TENE obson and Kumars vample beam like Lonées and her 22) more Bhi and aceping oftheir infant at bbis matured and became rea man and neresting? A fale vo bord at bth should nat be Taken co mean penmanent rejection of the eid by any ans, Human ‘chert ae nintely more comple and variabe than reimliedin the “TR ha beg the able and baryacé ad ht elo TE Sten! honing thers sea proaypcal adel of human be favor, a Sra Roddick pic onto human mher are “alapve athe rhe Bolg ea king cid dos nt conmi the ah Haare doer some nonhaman sina mothen—to the metaranct {Ud ponton af her ofpring, When a woman commie eral 0 the rd Pron uc oe nln he canal adopting the cid as ifn, Thr svlanary scl, tdependent of the mre “cern Wren beh "oop" wre Radlk" to rsken sora "gen2 OveLay of Soom wire he promis of bith an survive. All thersintheword ae opine” (1989218) “The egemons ames model of maternal nding makes the expr cect aemmve maternal emotions sen wnat inded alot ini lin the United Stats tad. Not Arerian women ae italy bom ‘red in dct oie, isa opal wh terre and cases on rope matral behave and fling Thy are expoed vo so mach emo onal pomping: by LaMare counselor dors and pedaicnass he tno Aencan women protbly co manage f0 produce the appropri” viens ef eaphoris love, ah pao, alos atachment to the ‘Slow il i the hopin. Thove who do ot especally they are oor single, “well mths, rn hei of ea Socal intervention. TT “alr to Bond re eaey ci dg. gis that the eoate may be a screws No doubt ret may women work very ant conform othe emotoal erpenaton defined by te bonding ip. ‘Matealeninens, whether in the contest f Nowheest Braz or the United tte, ae shaped by lager “olla” agendas ad goals. The onveninally led yarn mules fly of the Ameria aba “equiv intense aera snvavemest inthe menkor. The "epoxy ge” henry of mother inn bonding iar so situation in which Imatie and nan ate indeed “tu” wth ah ther The bonding spt “ovules” thi ssl tice, Conversely, the Sol and pit ind ference tothe rural and wel big of shaneytown mothers nd infants in Sra reproduced in maternal emotion of inerence” and stoic" fochild death there. Emotion work, to borrow afelcous phrase from Arle @" seenss tity yoda ya matey NM Le ean tase eae ‘ipernity ey mie aaa ohio on ee sop omnr the hewlett CEs ‘The Calan Contraction of he Infant \Whae Pies eled maternal bai strangeness can be less porate de tei following the len of OL W. Jae (1960) «slowness 1 a ‘Sropomertia the infact, This fers tothe lng process—alt cilia ‘onvtyou mil—wherby parents graually andin stages bet ther [ike human retro coclouenes, wil itentoality, sl tenes copay foreleg snd memory. The ting this press “UBiunry and eontrme to sal ctepone af the peso ard to cla tonsratns of infancy and edhe Some people are caer gin tis Ouray Sores 1413 immed ais other a slorers doa we the women Thame te Ad Cus i other nh i of her severely male bby wih eh fore ye! Brae lle cer hve een.” cee ee a temeol dae anhrapomerpan ce hn seer” foie mater empsy. The tay ein ep o el aan rng Some North Ameen ere quay cs sow nlrb Us ey ey ae ok nebor nls ta be cmcid witout rete o8 eS ar lfae hve ite oro oscar fps In make aero ce pvraon pba, aliogtersuterl men Sey e Ectsus Spo and Bry Brecon. Brazlon delight ia a aeons ithon-and two-line, Orso Bron ‘Ribtid woud ie oes ike, se tnpamorton tthe fey peon, inf and ty ete ae eRe onuenton” and slays our” STIS on, Fr wl be many ms before th inf an snes “human” ean es wil bore he on tae he mening winks Cilord Geet {1974} oct serach once of cel aaron, aren (eer ester nan ning "ow and eg” nents wee ad acd nbs, by grating he nan » cary et adhere bury ro) ating ward hey oem unsund and rspndineligeny. 1 ths way human EELS mets ti evenly sods in pring «fo fe Fen revihercs No Ameccan en geal 0 aa ee tna reworn, Bsan shnyen meer ree sy ree eT Convery, wher many Nath Ameion nomen ee nc any hms ote fet, shnigrwn me do a aes paiva sl The celal lg anos aa prphon wn rh; otis oer Ste Akar so epee” ls yaa srechangtocher whimper a expres angel m4 einer iaesl eam ean epee hen thee ee hia tac, Atgamenda apni an faet2bee ‘Reboot niga A most wt commeted ont ce eight or kone and whet: ese big ond Seon pny end we co allow a loge many ‘ods co ean we ‘heh aaa cal snow prvoes sn emergency orton ado BESS Sale ie toy wi pe eed one oy) ie441 Ourtady of Soros one, skinny on, or some ater aesinse, ye nese et nae. Intent who de bapa are need nd bie nth coi. Anyone hay bec ont ive amet baby, and fa name does 38, ‘other lb given at alter de Seal cen rate monger Snare ate rene by move than one mtb; moving ino new oushols th ld ny Ye gen ferent amd or nna. “These child naming peace canbe anderstod within dhe lrge ac cove of Aoife, where indvdabi” bas we fewer inconde than ‘tha in Bran crmopolten sod and care. Roberto da Mata {19H3-180-165),dromng om along debate in ac arhropolgybepaning ‘eh aus (1980) and flowed by Dsmont (1970). Lafontaine (198) hao argued ta he Anpo-Sinon notion of the “nnd” a Founded, cour integrated motivation, and copie river dy mic epceter of emarene, emotion, judges, and acon, a rather “nique nonon inthe West. Thisconcet of henderson ‘oto eadionl Norstivo sce. which il Nerarchil, ui ‘Rand peronlicic inthe sere ta arly Mash andoher socal olen Aelne ne place apd socal dentiy. Forth wala ded ce ofthe sane do mas this mean thet one's deny isinberied trough arly odie, asin anyother lg thy. One sa Casleanh 86 Brea oFaereiaLims an that prep ‘Ser more indian or uigue characteris ofthe pron. But forthe Teno aguawers of © Ce, where amy ames ean very ie i ortndnl for mend women notte kow tefl fray ames of heir ‘ues Hendler nes andr oil persons ina ‘Mier of nil contentsConteueny, persona ames ae ofen nik ‘nos someef Se funny and conn Flor uly ads) ohers ‘Bent dep (ee Pret lick ene), Others resol relstonl 3 (Then tomas decibel a Maia de Lal oe Made Sofi thas Main ‘he mother f tal er Mara th emloyeof Dara Sf. Men ae smty ‘oedema various socal and eruptions rls (ie, Oxar de Pr, Onear who slo cred} ond in esol elaoshp ok nd oemployrs As wokaler nether socal els change scan he ‘sol unc In thy ssl content th nono be personas comple Faia laonstpe” (Rade Brown 180-185) predominates over the vin ofthe indivi ea nique nd indivi it. hfe ning prema reves thi se Kind of “hiking in oes” and no one infant ened a otal ungo, nls can substi for oF “epic one ater, A enborn cn inert the ame ofan ler, dese ‘ling and seven dren in the same fay may be ven variant ofthe ‘Sheed! nae. Or fim Bl har every chs a contin uray ofSonows 415 sight a i were thi or her own individual name refs our maelly ‘taadeaanc ay of hiking rs unfortonat that hs eonceptin of the indvda! hr rcely been edie nthe United Nations Convention 20 the Rights ofthe Chik whith state ote 7) shat “che ld bal be ‘Rgateted mediel afer bith and sal hae the ight rom bith 0 ‘one Cerny ew fer would alee hvingbeengvenhesmename sling (dead or lve), which would be viewed a am auton the hate ight am nine sl” Yet our own highly individ “ioe noming psc hus 2 scent sol itary that oregon othe “Tine arly fn neal the rly fe Uti the ate intent Stay suming preticesnshe Unie tater and western Europe were very ‘iio; oehe oes tam ering ttere Andi ports of ral Ameria they pet ohiday | “The Altainiant raul and slowly comes oer hi ps0 lien © fall henan tater and witht hi im = personal rare ad i ight 1 ‘beacon and yssonte atacnent of it wother, Un hat ime the ‘econ shown he ifn ad youngbby iene and nonspcie “Who {corr njoy = bul pope ak Bu when asked what sn paar ‘far brings thes enjoyment, they ae poled and reply, "td's ow ‘ecu she so ol” oF Bec he eats his ming?” The atesion (Great nfae doesnot foc ny tings ras harden the Infant ar esate i person, ‘Srey Alina aren eld rest dea edn. The ely deb red mothers caoned ot pea” (pa) the infant un the fry ‘Tausd or yng ped he sed, Tere no catom of backpacks Wa atue twong the ov altough ser abies are cars re tht gingerly ses aaron tha mothersarm. The neon eps Inmothers bed or aaock forthe fist several wes after which hes ‘Dovel into her own Rarsmack or eis The hammock provides the most ‘Ronan te young bay ete heck. Therefore, Alene ‘mor ete founding heir. Rave sen sogethe ting [Gunmother gen theleknes on abelto engage the nenbormin aya sec loge rier han heifer pond old bern hem. And Seong Ato mothers ten hod die intans om thi ps, with he hea thc nes ts very alowed postion from whi 0 fer he Bby © teal Tall wht icrened ia sca envzonent hat minizesthe inv cat" amaref the ifane Te infant reed as man ob sae Bu as “Teielly Tons human than the eer Guild ad ceuiny than the ada Hcy, iseniely pluie the Alo wren who have lw one or mare THeSG ties don fel the depth af sor and gil har eu Bere of416 1 Ourtady of Sorows snachnet, sprain and oe agg mast or spb there. eer ‘hap | lered othe palit sed pb proces tha rotinize cl eath ab the average, expcale outcome for pobe flies and 1 he indlernc ofthe Cele degy fo nln death mi observe Catholic Canton the sei eva ir onl and abortion. Here Teer 0 the ‘rious staal paces and uae tht al for exh wchout weeping, Fovemestamonghee the trader deoino, the "angel wake” “Angel Babee: The Verio de Anjos ihe did at shiangebcage the mal leat an objet talon. The mothe eld over he death of he gel weeping with ght Becnve he Lad had eared ayes lc ch ben Frey (986458) From clo Brsaitothe presente duh of am infato very youn {Hd was ete a lesing song the popular cates, a event "to be cote lon joyflly, tay rate wou ter” (Frye 18h 18). “hed lay wor an enn, 4“ cera oan sant, 2 “ame [es crete who ded rere berate ior er farare haps ws {soured Thebes ofthe angel were washed. the cur were ey teaned and hey were desed nay Blue o wie sis, with the cord ‘he Vila ed stond ther wats, Thee ee nds Ele in prayer repose thi eye let open and epectarly aang the Beatie Visio. inpebies see covened with wld flowers, Indding eral wees on ther hed, Ll peston payers and messages tthe suns were eked Into he hands ob Gelert the Vissi om aril Even the poor tretemanged on wenden lnk nen with Bowers orn ge eomted Catdburd ones ol the ind aod for men's hin rey 196638). The ‘lino de anno was ioral Eacles da Con's css Reblion tke Beclland: “The denth of» ions wh reed and wth range of ences in sentiment and sos (hat defy wanton," sudan" fiends often ay, “Do yoo Fivcn woe fori? Bred om ti knowledge of Arter ten nd rock mun, Brains thughout the county tend. vow Neh a ET cmaiealy wooden pole, ust ST Rear Oen Tom uneds"omerans oe ih nd sma otfh 1 OarkadyofSorows hey arse, note ik eh expen fe Sc hanna ya oi eu sa elo Sree ign el to ll lin hy my of ene Seo tl cena abe ey none ary me Sob adhe doce hme se rar pop a eng mn ee enone ob Ado Cr Sey oem "cece fy ag en Smad crremsrel thy oolene se Ueda} at ‘heated nd cel ny aan inlets heer pose, fon mal. ange” iy soc) ede meng the ‘Seiad la” stoic bc soc sje! roger te, ima ros nda ei Jijtontcdsda Conn 90 ano 9) op eh ene tre O38, 1980, (Al ne Af 1, Lte 976 de ‘ate 90) Wie pri npn of abr sale Mota ie yen pl Slt fel hemes ‘lgralsre pact belie rans a em ‘ate emul eset of “ton ne Eh, ches bere And oP G0 oped Ne dae Serato be gn hee oon ecm nee sen cal ese sune Pogo shee of htop hes Sse icy gaebrhitrgson nan nd eae ‘ela ans ne el Ole Bn “The Bsn tay Seiutehe mend of he eto acme oh Sg ‘efor serve ih dt ane esa naman ey he Ancram lho rate he inl ols ag poate fae ie Inno engin, hs lane ig he eed m- thine he ean se pt marmot mys or E9570, my wen) 7h ciel ut ul done he model mae sisal nee oa fhe end ey pc ‘was rellected in Levi Strout” Taser Tropiguas, ia highly self-conscious temo eo el emi aa ey Deanne etary ie Teeter cana ree Stnlesol ny enprsied hrote Aedo aso ‘tree rie the esol ly ote egy Ba. Sienna tenet einen al rd OurladyofSerowe 185 and.dnce sing ot "Tite ema; Snes be oe!— ‘Sided nstutionize, apd een savored In she generat alan saudades EE Rae at Nowhent Brains general expres inl pi” ina Hoek an emotionless way. Que the opps fhe ce, No the ‘Aueaecofyel the emotion! naterence a nfo ath, something die Treen actos byte When began ocxamine histone, oe RARE Ser acatrck me a her “od was the choice af words ener todo eres thi lenge flowing the death of anal bby "Thy id tng tat they were ie, ded, deggie seen sale oven down oil) by the event, word they ‘hnmly ic aber related conten, a when, fx example an ober SRI ded lover shandoned «woman ofan alt child maed fr a0. ‘No di hey ever peak of odes forthe dead fot Vath day nel, and month (or even years flowing ll hee other sal evn, ato women spoke a get eg hei poignant “engine for ‘Reman objec ther afecton, Aad they wept rely he ling, ‘Beratey bean trough the roe ofealesion noe xguite {El tomato he sndaes (hl ir nging oe loves). They did say cng ind renpeincng, ia very snl way, warious nomen ‘Shared withthe loved one. ould app by eng tbe vemory athe Tlic colos ofthe shy ons porte ght of loveraingo the ashy el ats vores essen averse in api and vious from smighbrbwod soe ame, of cos be the cool sweet taste of (Sonu aterhaon's mothe oron'spouse went hough thetroubleot ‘Seta then one ws fovea and thine. The mamery reterned OR reese ough these de ysl devils so evoked the fens See had for th ing loved one that was physical pana fred Reeacry ot “Agu tdde'” spd smetines to tke ones chest othe (Tico the wall The memory ofthe loved one ws inf, bu twa alo Kayoy see and wo on prefered emotional or mental ames eeetithcle bneemeeealleane And 0 one cold eves,“ rear snd oo na eo! Oh, hat sd kg forthe Tengng tht Lot have eT ay Drns ende sugested, hough abe emis ota {Lexy ralted one ad erin es the problem of ultra terpestion ‘Ne tuar noted, he naan process Invalves mach ore shan» sng eon inking fences oe language with ones nee {isens70 The atbrpeogi mae alo sop the lage coll ene iets which he nds re wed and acura thi ais meaning TOR simi Saude eects a ret deal about the aye$861 Ouray of Sorsome which Northeast rains view themes fad tei wus of thinking being, fling, and acting i the world. So vo bugget that saudade can ES simply transla ed longing” “pignane emery "yearning “no tele or “homesichae (ee the vou enie in Tylor 1970570 Imsleading. Noli wile sharing with oud the comes interacions hepa pen debe setimept in Amen nage oy ‘ethink of onalginara opera olenlsgemoton. Brians hinkek ther anodes the pret enprtan of he Blan sul of ther eight ened sensity and ayarene ofthe natural and sol erirnment in tric hey le of haat ens toh Ruma condo dit Trager of ln lnging ann pang emery ee aie Puce, « Forauce pyc, noted nan sopabied yey, “Saudade ¢Deprei,”the diy of oeing the "eat ens” of the concep of enadade which requis, among ober hinge a mastery of Tortuguoe and Bran poetry tat anno sin formyl. Fguledo rose the complex weitons brmeen pee and reget, dvi an hin atachinent nose. reat tobe cone hei, oth the ore Sl concept of depron, whch hat male and rece the asos- tors among puntl longing baring devi, and nbearble Joss to persion sympon, Think fr » moment how infequely oda we reer wo puree espero wth npn al ru. So tained re we by tren and peychiry tat wean speak obach her oy ony of oF “Tepessons” Although [am sute that mapy readers als knoe what loves i, etn to dent io a dlecent epic of Fst futon Smiley, ur oedervandings of rpaming the deed heve Been ‘eluced on medzalaed dace that make) ie fo a9 grarpehe rata ons af edad thi cone el Some Protestant Ame ‘sigh be inlnd to vew as orl audio argue far example, the peste nls in Roman Catholic elertion of Hely Weck, with thet sensual elit “memory” ofthe py salleing snd death of Jer, Ye thea opted expreson gf Brain sande, And to ‘rian atl thee graph Lemon ite embodied memory te et tle teifth ee Bard 196-6), Pek only “homes es raoy and comatnment oe insane} ito seinen ei ‘ur lean that pues omehing of what rans men by sua Tam blaring hi custon bese the tion a dads ofetsakey to ndertandng "deh without weeping the Alto do Crue. Infant Aeath tthe one content of loin which pola mothers in parca, ever {eter totheisnudade When iad ht, ae my research Regent {Sk morales ol tein general bot fei adds aod hat OurtatyofSouoms 87 there were suds for ved ae who war gone or nove abs fort Tove hw bod ored sour orbiter But on could alo have sues for cla sel, fd clr, or enon rom ibe gst that wee ass ‘Nod i pignnt event ad love ns One cold Rave sda for he ped ines one fad Raa Fs or at araual “But thee ae ight cx ‘erly ‘eeraining sade,” Iw waste lo af love one ‘Brough death that prove the most potent sure of sande. An Ato Inoter spoke of her young daughters soudaes in the days and wecks felowing the “eden” death oh gil ater in work elated ace iene could note or sep and she cid wethaut topping Throughout the dy she would lc on our bed wrapped up in er tater cathe. his ined wok shrtand pans isan odingonoishal-ved bot of Cologne and his pho She refused ove thr vp, na even 0 eoald wash ‘hese cothes Fly, Ihedtohdeherfsthers hog: they were sofull tl sade for. A nga thy were night she coll’ goon with fei, {hd force her to return to school Eve today se memes epee, Mama where have you uty aps things thet ean ee him ser meIbreks my hart, bueno et her even se howe yet fearhey wl make her sick” "ot wheres moter ie Lrdetand ck ene) wholot ole ciden tod aia sons wive for thewe children for months and yess on ea (though thei of ir der, Alo women dd ot ele sandaes treo when ling about the death of th infants and young nge- TES chine tiettqattecanronarenedian eel Seta log that they rsa) See Rat cohen bed er coment L ld daughter andy sured ne tat shew nt Feng su 1 stopped 12 het wth ew fhe young i's neighbors, one of whom. mide-ged “roan cle Mace had hen anaroringimerest ithe piond her cy Thby Meri wsured me tht Anita would be ie: "Theres ie sro or the eth of en infant pwn the age of ght or ine mnt, Rely, is nye the tay sear od hat we bento reve, tohave sade for Sead “here se! ote becca no tem hati meme] Thnfnt story nyt dep, itherwo hep to iChnd othe nna gantry Theda pene oe ght adic son ad ean fergpen” nor wana aed wih Nae snd rte, onthe cer child who fxmas fala vhove bene et, tthe death fan cde ci ‘nother ns nore cmguson, mare fing”4881 Ourlady of Sorom Mazi continued, “es, bse once he i frmada ence che cls Iie and peton have sore shape, eae pinning to know romehing shou what he ie the hg tat ahi ap the things in his ‘worl tht he kes pleat the ode he ie to tthe way he ies 0 ‘hep coed up or sete out aedhing hi chupets (tic pct) oF Seeking on fingers al thee hing thar ke hin the prion tht he IB Wl then, that ge evn a early eight month fe, yout fan eo ee then gs Then here sae then there ae suas” “Anuber neighbor ded," happens whee fhe child iebpiningo wal and to gt onto tings [pepe sor, 0 eoprize people. Then one fis hsbc apd one sete mas [tle mere” ashen Ana ce out ona. Se kad fished wala her othe. [Noone edo changethesbjec, so Leonid "Does ital diference ‘hen you bap the abe and ive ther hr ame” Mate, who wae very ative i the church, repled, “Some pie thee Infants right ay sc or well. Oters wa ora ene sickest sare ‘her nt pin Bat the baby lays hse mame, whether they are teptzd or nt Bue its oly her ofcel nates, Masada Conciio tro. Tohavea rel nae baby ast i lang eneugh wo have ail, ‘arng nickname, Fr that show we aul ome Love ou babes, ‘then they bps to show us who they are and what hed of beng we now Tavetere, Wecan begin teeth kindof hldhe wile, wldorgee, st ow sdb [ao tose feuing Ay is history bist guher TRAIT Ss, cou seaohtourietancee™ “Feengg: Anta inthe convertion, Tad, our infant megiven avery “Ohsyo thnk you.” ‘ewrow locker asked "And what was jou eon’ name?” ‘nits lsd over to her ler neighbor fr bl She ceed 0 fave ute forget Mase shook Ber ead a he it and hide her, “And ‘rent i Danette por ont er, i Oh, ye" and Ania sled in eet, "tht was her name.” “There ma time forthe are tek,” Masi exlaned iy do waren 4 that dey ave tds pono mich iy at he deathol ter newtors, but ot stds of sro” Mace again ai “ts because they fee re for she infans becuse they ded witout hrowing anything in th world, got eve ha hr ‘mage, They de fnocet Beta dub tke eam nd 0 we sya, hein up” “et he soe ling ovr and Trough the ope pagan ater hat Our Lady ofSorome 739 ek whe wr ing tthe Anes Lc, Aone {Sr nhs geen revel bt now wr pr fom te Sty we indepen exh shcely expel eianing {King me sloly an pei he mee soe ro rid hen emda tcvme win apa whose i few Shute Tapes cnr caso nner Were ogre rani taf memingt ede wicheoormel at thaduyened So medher tlie soar een few tmp nh pee nd hey “help hom yon for scone {Shem pc op ey Aes sein you sol no Inte smpany oe sell sguonol inn ieee dey al nob ‘Rey somes wos eller lnene om 30m eal sy goes frm. Bete ing 0 Serge pagers” “low ded “fete wor ord tee ad only ingle pol wi ay cua we at wor tt esr th pon ng Share tne tsa 2 pee ph wd ire lien feould mea that you are acualy goin ‘Riel ty nye Be nv PO rr sa popane wanes cng saterg ws ean omer inghenone” ath you? Tl ear ht yoni te smernes sy ht ely ron arnt a soot sate Vien er hing sy fort’ Gogo tno wt ht ince hol ht women vn i es rd erkyoF 2a ed ps ut ng sytng Te Mas ‘Slt Tey ant phe ed es grin hen aoa [Xie tye Aude ee epoca i Speech a sda iia yo, eben otzpn bce kk Po hing vee Payoh ie eae: War any es yt nse Meeperoud decoy Wy do seg oy th ou “AU spt en os spy in ron ain ait wie twill more dying Thesis your emt tt ‘Sasitmor ene ats puna de So breil hem Soul an wou ny sow of cng Tht wy the estar wile Seong png soiHO Ouray of Sorowe “He des more wnconicouly?™ “Ye, thats whe Mama mens Sol ial we like oa the tem ‘pene—Inva dif word ose propery bese thas dole meanings” ‘Wecanonapoe sua nd ont de ht hey ae cenrdcory poe epeall on nip dt “vale saudades pratsteandameer pee, chine mer Sali bonben dred he te shen a love ooo pnt doen) i eked for eng hose eet sion and sai nis an du sia Sede Postivemodon Inked wth pleut tnd sting pe exes {e,Pinsned with yoi o cnied me erly seaneve mening. Thre nn lee mgd with in the pot Cine we “Do mal fam amigos da embige edo Lem se lg owe, a sides,” nly the brass emai rom uf memore from the god ones if there were ty, ate aude {Gielgud 18:3) Saudade is a inti and proximate qooton: srk andi ft Inside nthe eat and chest fhe person eps toed tbe ltt then of the pc ofthe one wa mat lle, (end die} Tei Tomer pty forth ceatre in on lack of cordon undead he infeed Ives behind ‘rletbwer mens Unead ioe go nh meer Nese Iter when eos ov lve fer oe te reno on she nena peo cmety wir mete, wien ne ey {i ha hn“ poton sd on tough vob ed 13a” Alo women nyt le dre rove ie se tor dears tan vr l ay cobs ei ee ‘deny ed 1 do ot wish eave you with he npn tha thse wan, $0 eeepc wih thor own sri an eee, nere ser epee fe othe dn of thir nr nding ih Ao women ste thes and thor of tr many chee, aad the gener lene and {mpasve numbering othe deh co my nay he meoy at arte deth «pagent would someines Boo the conesese ‘therm dsr ihe sidan henoms These weeds Ouray of Sormom 1a of ler babies, sles, and eal grown eile thor whe al en ‘expected ove adn wham the woman ad dared rast -aod wl ‘Dona Norn hd given bho cleven cle, sof whom hegre Toon” Burt wa nly nthe ting the det fhe four yeerld nd favor ld dha her cmposiedappenred She was. etl you woulda seher yours oka wt sein. And sabia lore her years. She understood everything, The neh said) Nevermind. Your never ie tha ne” And they wee ah She wars beasttl and amare ht Jes wanted he alto Hill What Could 1 do! When ake bese Lamont wen crazy. Tad ep ‘ould’ ould ony think, "God dest want me tahave eich He {oes want eto have any comfr in hi world Ba hd sch end. ‘hip with hisone cil begged Je tTorger er, tke another nea tine inher place, But ny daoghter dt ike when I prayed ie a Fialy shea, Mama, Mama, etme gpI yelled ter, Then deo sy eave me sone the ars argry ate Why was shes go {91 Well the por ile thing ded ike that, ling me ht she woul bell Fah king me forgive be, ling me note.” ne nth touching ove story we ca ee the dypraton and erie reins in thee ht eter eee ying car deve. Batol toure whenever woman ofthe Alo broke dawn nth eingefthe Jah ‘ach other women pent sclded the women, dem to, feo ‘herald word of omalatin: "You are song, Dons Maa Be gate {altht you are sl live Resign youre, Iti urlesto grieve Yeu have your own ile to think about Yow must endare” And ineviably, the ean “ame her sense and wiped say ber wearer At she {ido, I wondered for how many generations women the werd over have teen sling each eer sar ord, shaping thr exprence ofl controling uly revctonsto what might there beurre in sssome feminists wanto suggest, tunver sistethond of women, and doubt but f there t wold vet org his caletve comforting of thor weeping woren, tke the bbl Rachel, whose hen ae ‘One ofthe benefits of marking in she sn community over a are century it tat ane dae gt tf ot the Bal cpr a st the ‘orhing oat of various problems and emma over ine. One egy of Silden who are prtelny loved by thie mothers and athe fry ‘members arth survey of what ad been presumed tbe fal afiions. “Those el cir who bea thea and prove homes wn > “fagh death even ate they had en giver up” fr dend—Londes 76 ‘Avion friborn, BiB, Movers ler trther, are ee42) Oarkady of Soros bend forth hardened. They rh “of thay ad CSemvniy that ons sag pi ed th ow thy ae ‘Reel. my Ror ib dete chser en hnd ven yr afer te (Sens bed taped, morales a be cake is eon a ling fw the ow dl orang apt etl "A recommen meting oe evening presented le show of pense my Ae veh wa il ep Bra The (Teel ped ad sae ces he Ald dr Going bck eth 96D were ae pts he ahd othe Sa nen be cole yr oft veal des pene eee tar and apeciton were desing Mv he pron thea ofa other th er td roe Bete! bly cameo these apnea ped gid to Merino he ll rtrd of UPA el she daceion and od een everyone dove. “We dos thi bby ave heeded. Ws oe we and cen Jule ck. “And whe hee hr eer worms” re} "How Sid thie cl gtk” Cel bcc on the gown Poting md nd dit ints mowh* Sudkngon det bby bose” Th tes op ate nd bo ih rl sed?” Mil eae” “erm ple “Not Terra nel mgd rf "No ore chi wisi tenths showed the Rs wort. nie, nd th on ‘i ib daing "ects je fom he ole wate pgne™ Sonn thane ten” se Jos hen ang ins uno nok gee ‘Afra see ae tera here imag “eather ken wth her arene iy Caio, BD ee 388) Api thew ager Tren singin en he on ows ‘tire yer i od in os ‘Enctly sme te scat er wld ine fly by. my in ii ir her om gg 0 oo Maaco tle et oo: Coad Toh ay sey wen estan Many yo ea cis lion, itr tedone fr sch len Naka sey oe sole veloc Detredeely enh a onrapn on ead se ape aoend Ourlady of Soros 3 gine face the adic, She waa shy woman who dit at oealy ei her minds commaity meting, although she fahulyaended {Bal Bur now er ce ma fuse wih emotion and her vole rakes Jean, "No goa sre meong Some ol thom saree, My own rived Minced! Ay le sont Ai ny itl hme and" Clap ndwetpng Teresita ws confor by sever neighbors and helped bck tober set And what da we sy nk gens, ercompobir Teccnha” asked Join Maran. “Th esyone was a ponanecv bart of splat Toi forth ne wh sles gor ey sel dat wis bth allowed an ery comin, Ax ‘Wetsodaies ter forthe one who might have de, who came within TRinchot dying ere ambilenand biteroweet They wertens of ret Tebow, bt they were ao tee ofr. The polgant menor) mab ‘hed from sale postion, fora Teen ast hot nso here he lhe nde mae she nocd i), he lil monk,” and sbe albed him and peed hin wo hen _Akowomen ae religious pce darieg oe brie pes of th anna Angi epee: Holy Wek Seman Sana belogs othe, the Beata of the mors cui il teal do omar, the hile of lave edctd 12 ‘ecaced Cheb On Holy Tharday de Baas aher in he conven of {he fanccan ser where they eet heed plaster ast image of [ont Senhora ade (Oat Lady of Mere, Ou Lalo iy) ta they elery i stem presi ote arch lz, us ashy acve at the {Tosofhecharh they are met thelr men, who are js ein the Sieg crying thei nage mized on pees that of Nese Senor dos Pots jn of Calvary with is purple robes lng do's hr mated in tood from hi crow of thors, dragging the ey cross bend him [Rothe te images met, Oo Lady of Py shows he ce. Sgn of er TEL Mary’sagnied and tearstied face 6 made pity vibe w al ‘These arc sup af monishedrecgnion ad then aps rem the cowed i humbe” pole hohave gered Sorte events tht markibecener of the apt ie “(dy doe propl lap ther hands at his ay encounter” wa athe bythe lp of Som fers a urban an fom Recile who il found Some ofthe lal, “county” customs perplexing you ae ther pest Tepe. “Why don't you ask them? "ur youre thei atbropolgis.” the pit ese nts (On Cod Friday thay ween ofthe Alo gan gata the char, “they aredecivelin white withthe redash others, the aywormen's461 ucla of Sorrows i society dedicate othe Heding and Suse Har of Jesus Now she Charged the posesion honoring the pation and deat of ess, the Proceso do Nowo Seroe Mota, The oped ofthe dead Ceo, tempo ‘any remove rom hi trb under the alae, lb rid rough Bor Jer on + cataague im a deh proesion. Hs dy covered By 3rd oth But de tepade begin ths reading of sh pun followed bythe bia sorte Stations of the Coes. Ard 0 hin J wth is ‘sop, venting Blood the purde ofGateemane Jeo hed by Jada, Jess cid aay tothe igh pra and then to Pie, Jese scoured sed he crown of tome cuted int hi ens ad Jee ade to The tension in the charch means a he Piet now was ston to OsrladyofSorow ¢5 suaion eound the church and he pause tell the meeting between Jessand the bay women fue. Then flowing the cveixin. the terion rahe #renende with the ae eto ofthe words, “Abs [Abs [Father Father my Gall why nave you essen me” A spontaneous “yringsout in the crowded huh I comer from the ka of aly women Sf ibe Ao. Are they ying wha ik hee? “A men fil! AL mew Bhat My sn, my 20 ‘Out Lay of Ser ks dwn beneolenly er er petal behind thereat She pont, abrays tthe opening in thea feds of er tite shift where her eats epod and peed with sx dager. She {ald beany one ofthe bly women ofthe Alo do Cruze. tat for he fund ofeplue,