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Subconscious Filter (Value governs)
Conscious Thought + Attention
Value changes focal points. (person with value you kind of see only the good sides) Value is
important to become humorous. Value lowers the threshold to humor.
You must calibrate to social differences in value.
Connectors:
Loose social connections 40-100 people,
1. Social Connector, person who knows a ton of people, want FUN and getting to know
people, no drama, bad emotioness, clinginess (sun rays)
2. Value Connector, someone who has access to scarce resources, famous/popular people,
very rare to access (DHV for you) (rain drops) inherent independent value,
3. Ultimate Connector, ping them 2-3 weeks, dont be clingy, dont make bad emotions, dont
look desperate, (one drop, sun rays to other drops) 70% value connectors, 30% social
connectors.
Emotional Overreaching, dont become a beggar, be a leader. Needy Guy Syndrome If you are a
busy game, I wouldnt text them every day Disvalue the communication by doing it too often.
Social Dead End: Does not add value to your life, has inner game issues. Value leech. Their issues
become your issues, and push connectors away.
Behind the curveball guy: socially miscalibrated, nerd, get it 3 seconds later than everybody else
RES or Value thief: Cool guy, who steals attention from you, cuts his value down. AMOG guy.
The more green you become (value connectors), more people become dead ends to you.
People dont hate you, they simply dont have time and might reignite. The value you provide to
people, is the stickiness you provide to their life.
Build SC
Managing SC
Picking-up through SC
Build SC
Good Emotions
Independent Value + Relationship Value (Time, Shared Experience) = TRV (Total relationship value)
GE
CRT
Core (2 people)
Inner Core (immediate family 2-5 people)
Outer Core (friends 10-20 people)
Wider Community (100)
Fucktory
Inner Girls 1-2 Friends
Outer Girls 3-5 Friends
One-Offs/Money Zone
Look for 2 STRONG connections to girls , they maintain their connection with their 3-5 girls, and
then you focus on the One-offs. Attention goes to value, who has the value, ME!
Columbian Coke Attraction: RES, her attention goes always to value! AFC to the inner/outer Core,
PUA to the One-Offs
Gaming Connectors:
Meet connector,
High-Value Connector: Mirror their investment in you. DONT OVERREACH. Remember Details
about Connectors life. BE interesting, unique, STICKY FACE!
Prized Venue: Where you know everybody.
Drop Eastereggs: Never Brag, just drop things and see if they react
Managing SC
Navy-Seals: 2-5 cool guys I would thin-slice. Cool kids in High School. All work in a share of unity.
Abundance mentality. Respecting your wings. They are VERY important
Merging Trees: Preframe if there is one dorky tree, dont be too low on one tree.
Domino Effect: Attract upwards, from the girl on the lowest to the highest social ladder, but fuck
downwards.
Discretion Frame: My friend Billy, he was pissed that sarah talked about it
Create a spider-web that is hard to escape: Make her and her friends deeply invested in you and
your friends, if you and your people leave. Provide value to them, so they cant easily leave you by
familiarity, repetition, interlinking between trees, value providing.
How to train your wings: all must pull at the same rope.
Must Haves: Value, strong boundary function (tell them, what you dont like, be straight with
them) Prewarning (talk about a group, which hawks about girls, which behaves wrongly)
Prequalifying (I can introduce you to my girl friends, because you dont act like idiot and different
around them)
Big Brother Behaviour: I must pull you aside, dont make wrong things.
Punishment: Passive-Aggressive, abandon in long-term, not offering him any value.
AMOG-Goodlooking guys beforehand: My friend Ryan always tries to be super funny and super
hard and cool and stuff, he is a really good looking guy, who tries to be funnier and cooler around
girls, and he may be attracted to you. He is trying to do things to achieve certain resultsHe wants
attention like a little kid
3. Wax on, Wax off, conversation always awesome, attraction game, no comfort , bust her
balls, teasing, push-pull, Kino, steal her food etc dont give her full attention, dont treat
her like any other douchebag
Using your friends to have good time and friends validate your jokes. Walk straight past
her, be hot and cold.
4. Sexual behavior: Talk to her and grab her hand, start sexualizing (your hair smells fucking
good) (if you were my gf, I would fuck you 5times a day)
5. Escalate, Isolate and Close
Important: Abundance Mentality: Always a surplus of women
Slowburn game: Bridge the gap between cold approach and social circle game, happens a lot about
text, cant push her date. Ping her every other days (dont ask her for anything, make statements,
random facts, nothing serious.) Make a bunch of slowburns. You can do them for cold
approaches and one-offs you couldnt close. Its like funny SMS game over weeks even when they
dont answer. Like dynamite, some short and long fuses
Glue and Spike: One Person is nice to the girl and value went down to build rapport, the second
person teased and spiked attraction like crazy. Their alliance allows them in their space. Get the
girl in situation that happens: one rapport, on BT spike, then switch roles after a few minutes. And
then you retract the conversation from her, so she wants MORE.
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