The document discusses the idea that an open enemy is preferable to a false friend. An honorable enemy treats one fairly but without trust, while a false friend gains trust only to betray it, leaving the treatment unjust and unfair. False friends can hurt more deeply because their betrayal is unexpected. It is better to be aware of distrust than to assume friendship only to be stabbed in the back. Recent experiences with false friends support the idea that betrayal from an unexpected source causes greater pain than open conflict with an enemy.
The document discusses the idea that an open enemy is preferable to a false friend. An honorable enemy treats one fairly but without trust, while a false friend gains trust only to betray it, leaving the treatment unjust and unfair. False friends can hurt more deeply because their betrayal is unexpected. It is better to be aware of distrust than to assume friendship only to be stabbed in the back. Recent experiences with false friends support the idea that betrayal from an unexpected source causes greater pain than open conflict with an enemy.
The document discusses the idea that an open enemy is preferable to a false friend. An honorable enemy treats one fairly but without trust, while a false friend gains trust only to betray it, leaving the treatment unjust and unfair. False friends can hurt more deeply because their betrayal is unexpected. It is better to be aware of distrust than to assume friendship only to be stabbed in the back. Recent experiences with false friends support the idea that betrayal from an unexpected source causes greater pain than open conflict with an enemy.
I have to agree with that statement - and call it an honorable enemy.
An honorable enemy is 1000 times better than a false friend. With an honorable enemy, you know the treatment of you is fair, just and that the person is not to be trusted. With a false friend, trust is given and betrayed, leaving the treatment of you unjust and unfair. False friends can hurt you more because you don't expect it. A word to the wise: Keep your friends close, but keep your enemies closer! I would rather be aware of a false friend than an enemy because at least I know what I can expect from an enemy- a false friend is beyond unreliable. It means its better to be honest and if you dont like someone just be open about it rather than pretend to be their friend. You could use it to describe most celebrity relationships it means it is better to know that someone hates you than to assume that they are your friend and then have them stab you in the back. it can be used when say a friend starts spreading a rumor about you or a friend does something out of their way to harm you be it physically or emotionally and knew full on that what they were doing would harm you. I recently dealt with some false friends, I think the damage/pain incurred is far worse from a place you least expect it, or alternatively look for support. At least when someone is open with their differences with you, you can expect some sort of conflict or mistrust - less negative surprises. Bodorin Adrian