10 Things Never To Say to a

Guy

1. WHEN WILL I SEE YOU AGAIN? You’ll see him when you see him.
If he wants to see you again, he’ll call. If not, next. You don’t have time
for anyone that doesn’t have time for you.

2. WHY DIDN’T YOU CALL? There’s only one answer to this question:
Because he didn’t want to!!! What you’re really asking is, “Why didn’t
you want to call me?” Who knows!! There could be a lot of reasons, but
you shouldn’t be sitting around wondering why. You should be out dating
lots of different guys and not worrying about ONE guy. Don’t be so quick
to put all your eggs into one basket, because if they break, it’s a big mess!

3. WHERE WERE YOU? If he wanted you to know where he was, he’d

tell you. What you’re really asking is, “Were you with another female that
you like better than me?” Your insecurity is showing. If anything, he
should be wondering where you were.

4. I LOVE YOU (FIRST) - You’re saying it in the hopes that he’ll say it
back, but what if he doesn’t? You’ll be devastated and probably feel
foolish. Saying “I love you” is not going to speed things up if he’s not
ready to say it back. So just cool it, and let him be the first to say it when
he’s ready.

5. DID YOU SLEEP WITH HER? As long as he’s not sleeping with her
now, who cares? The past is gone. Don’t torture yourself (and him) with
these thoughts. In this case, ignorance really is bliss.

6. I’M PREGNANT. In the 21st century, with all the birth control choices
available, there is no excuse for becoming pregnant, unless you want to
be. You should be using something and he should use a condom, every
time.

7. WHERE IS THIS GOING? Nowhere fast if that’s your attitude. Guys

want someone fun and easy to be with, not someone that’s constantly
worrying about the future. His actions or non-actions will tell you where
it’s going. If it’s going somewhere, you’ll know it. If it’s not, you’ll know
it too.

8. WE NEED TO TALK. This is the equivalent of, “Go to the principal’s

office”. Guys know it’s not going to be a fun conversation, so they’re
already on the defense. If you need to discuss something, just casually
 bring it up when the both of you are relaxed. Don’t try to talk to him
when he’s tired, stressed, eating or watching tv!

9. I HATE YOU! Even if you do, it’s totally uncalled for and un-lady like.
If there’s an issue, be mature enough to discuss it when you’re calm. If
he’s breaking up with you, reacting with anger may make you feel better
temporarily, but it’s best to remain calm and act unfazed. He’ll wonder
why you’re so cool about it and that may make him re-think his decision.

10. I DON’T TRUST YOU. What you’re actually saying is, “You need to
step up your game, because I can see you’re up to something.” If he is up
to something, he’ll just become even sneakier. Better to think smart and
act dumb-it’ll be easier to get the evidence you need to confirm your
suspicions.