Only when you refuse to come out of your powerless inner image, does he shakes you.

He
becomes Kalabhairava. He catches your throat to lift you, not to kill you, but to make you
understand that you don't have to breathe only through your nose. "Don't act human" is the
slap given to everyone by Kalabhairava. Nithyam-Advitiyam-Ishta-Deivatam-Niranjanam.
He is at eternal oneness with you and the cosmos."
Sri Nithyananda Swami