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Guy Gets Girl
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Disclaimer: Neither the author, nor the publisher of Guy Gets Girl-2, are in any way
responsible for any use, misuse or abuse of information contained within this book. Only YOU can take
the necessary responsibility for your own actions! How you chose to use the powerful information
which you read within these pages, is purely a matter between you, the law, your conscience, and any
Higher Power that you feel accountable to. Be smart; always use good judgement, a sense of fair
play, and a latex condom. Be sure to keep in mind at all times, what you KNOW is truly right and
wrong, and ensure that any activity that you experience with another person is legal, consensual,
protected and mutually satisfying!
This book is sold for purely informational purposes only. It is acknowledged and granted that
all techniques and strategies discussed within these pages will work to varying degrees of success for
different individuals, based upon variable circumstance. These are inherent focus and skill, as well as
willingness to truly study, listen and follow implicit directions.
Therefore, there can be no absolute guarantees as to the effectiveness that any one particular
individual will have using this program, as there is no way to verify or ascertain that the information
was fully read, or its instructions truly followed to the fullest degree, in the proper specified order and
completely in the manner precisely ascribed to.
In other words, youll have a much better chance of winning on a regular basis, if you get your
fundamentals down pat and always Play The Game RIGHT!
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CONTENTS
Why Version 2?
Is This An Act Of
Female Treason?
Introduction
Methodology
Step #1, Rule #1
Setting Our Sites
What Women Want
Playing The Numbers
Where To Meet The Girls
Of Your Dreams
Rock Of Ages
What Is Your Body Saying
Too Much Or Too Little?
Confidence
Conspicuous Cat Women &
Co-operatively Conquered Cucks
Cool Is The Rule
Faking It Till Youre Making It!
Mental Land Mines
Search And Destroy
The Other Path Go For It!
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Nothing Ventured
Nothing Gained!
Pre-Season Games
See It And Be It!
Who Are You?
The Most Common Male Roles
Played Out To Get Chicks
The Cost
Talking em Up
Pre-Planned Pick-Up Lines
A Definite Bad Idea!
Playing It Cool!
KISS: Keep It Simple, Sexy!
The Nature Of The Beast
In Conclusion
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Or:
Everything You Always Needed To Know
About Dating and Getting Laid
By The Hottest & Most Attractive Babes,
But Didnt Know Who To Ask!
By Woody O. Wilcox
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Why Version 2?
Guys, its so very important that you dont forget the importance
of a really great date. Women know what you want, and they are a lot
more likely to give it to you if you take the time and energy to give them
what they truly want, which is a GREAT DATE!
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Now we agree, this was an idea worth all the elaborate treasures of
Solomon, a veritable work of genius. But the problem was more complex
than we had anticipated. Firstly we needed to find a woman who was
willing to cop to the truth, say it as it really was, reveal what lies behind
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the satin curtain and sell her fellow members of the eternal sisterhood
down the river. THEN be able to take that vital information, and express
it in an understandable and usable way for the average guy who reads the
book.
Well, the book was written and released, and was a smash success.
We received letter after letter thanking us for the insights, tips, tutorials
and suggestions of how to get a girls attention, right on through to how to
get her to have sex with you on your terms. And we were brimming with
smiles of happiness, knowing that we had lent a hand to our fellow man.
Thing is, there were some guys out there that felt that while the
female author who wrote the book seemed to give it her very best to share
what goes on behind the scenes (in the head of hot chicks) what could
possibly be even more helpful to mens chances of sexual conquest
around the globe was a second edition to this wonderful book.
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(B) Have the book written by a guy who truly relates to and understands
exactly what these women are saying, but that can then turn around and
write it all out in terms and words that we guys can more easily
understand and fully grasp.
Why Me? Because I know, associate with, work side by side and
write for and about many of the Movers and Shakers in the business of
erotica. And several of those Players happen to be gorgeous, luscious
babes, that have thoughts to share and stories to tell, and I have been
close and personal with many of these ladies for so long, developing
trusted and powerful relationships, of not only business, but friendship.
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book. And that the classy determination to stay true to the sense of awe,
respect, and admiration for women, that over-shadowed and drove the
spirit of the entire process, would be obvious and honest.
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I know what most men want, its not hard to figure out, you
know? But here the 411 on all that, theyre only going to get it, once
they have given me what I need and want as a woman. Fair Play is fair
Play!
Tanya B.
The date is like the audition for the play. Those guys who are
smart enough to know how to pass the audition, get to be in the play as
legitimate players!
Brenda T.
Most guys just dont seem to get it, and so it ends up they just
dont Get It, if you know what I mean. Those who open up to
understanding, caring about and giving us girls what we want, will find
us girls Opening Up and giving them what they want!
Terri D.
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Introduction:
It all starts with the very first moment of eye contact, and moves on
from there, either well or poorly, depending on how efficiently the
man manages his sales pitch!
What is he selling? HIMSELF!
Here are the facts. Most women are highly social creatures, they
absolutely love and practically live for the opportunity of regular
interaction with others, and are generally thrilled by the idea of being
found attractive and alluring to the opposite sex.
The female has carefully gone over the strategy of the game, and
the various plays to be run, time and time again inside their head, getting
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totally set and ready to achieve what they have seen themselves achieve
successfully, over and over again in their subconscious mind. The woman
is always ready to perform at optimum efficiency, at the drop of the hat.
She always has a back-up scenario clearly in mind, ready to transfer her
energies to the moment she senses that its time to activate one of several
pre-planned contingency plans, should the initial intended campaign run
into some unforeseen problem.
Guys, most women want to spend some fun, exciting and quality
time with a guy or guys. But there is this little thing called the War of
The Sexes. And even though we think we have the advantage with
strength, endurance, and testosterone driven perseverance, the truth is
dudes, when it comes to dating on OUR terms, most of us have been
getting our asses kicked and handed back to us in a paper bag.
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encounters with the right guy. And even experience what so many of us
dream of every night when we go to bed, good, old Casual Sex, on a
purely, no-strings-attached, non-committal basis.
But we guys need to fully understand that the way that out
cultures social conventions and moral stipulations work in our lives, our
jobs, our reputations, that in this society, women have to be very, very
careful and precise in how they go about doing so.
Cyndi Lauper told us years ago that Girls just want to have fun,
and that is still true today. But women tend to be a lot more calculated
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and plan things out in their minds to a much greater degree than us guys.
So what we often seem to view as chicks just playing mind-games, is in
reality simply the more elaborate and involved process that females go
through in order to prepare themselves for the ability to let their hair and
panties down and have the kind of FUN we were discussing.
Methodology:
Originally, the plan was to develop a list of 100 questions
submitted by friends, clients, colleagues, customers, and associates. Each
to be to asked of and answered by a pool of 100 participating women who
would be able to, under anonymity, tell it like it is without concern for
what others may think of their answers or thoughts.
Why 100 questions and 100 women?. Simple, its a nice round
number that lends itself easily to deciphering percentages and statistics.
Its also a large enough segment of the female population to assure that
we got every single possible answer for our readers. It just seemed right
and made sense, so we went for it.
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(1)
Know the subject inside and out, with the expertise and
ability to discuss it with the needed clarity and insight,
both authoritatively and honestly, thereby lending
answers of true and usable value to my readers.
(2)
(3)
Tell the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth.
(4)
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(5)
So the original plan was cut back in scale by 50%, and I was much
happier and far more confident of the success of the project. I was glad to
be able to choose the most positively effective and informationappropriate 50 ladies, of that illustrious group to participate, and focus the
questions down to a mere, easily answerable 50.
So the very first important lesson about dealing with women came
to us before the very first interview was done and previous to the very
first survey being completed. We guys tend to over-think and overcomplicate the process of The Dating and Mating Game. And that little
fact, in itself, is what leads to us often starting off at a distinct
disadvantage when it comes to effectively getting the girl!
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This is why its so important that you know exactly what you are
looking for. Because if you do, it is so much easier to actually target in on
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the objective and achieve it with a lot less effort, time, energy and
confusion. And to avoid any unnecessary stress and anxiety you might
create by perhaps sending out the wrong signals to the wrong women, and
begin to develop the rep for being a pretty much a thoughtless cad,.
Which is actually a whole other tactic that certain types of guys learn to
use quite effectively, but thats a different topic, that we will be
discussed in the more advanced sections of the book.
The point is, just like when you are planning any trip, you simply
must have the final destination set, or you never know if you are making
progress in achieving your goal. How can you know if you are actually
getting any closer, when you basically have no idea at all where you are
heading?
So, the goal can be more than one type of girl, and you are always
free to change your stated objective at any time that you choose to do so,
but be sure to understand rule number 1. The odds of you getting what
you really want are inextricably connected to the degree to which you
honestly, truly, precisely know what you want. Indecision and lack of
focus increases the chances of you wasting a lot of time, getting shot
down because you are barking up the wrong tree, focussing on the wrong
prey and using the wrong bait and tools or weaponry to achieve the
outcome that you desire. So take a moment to get a good picture in your
head what it is that you want. That will put you miles ahead of the
competition out there.
But thats only the first half of figuring out what exactly who you
should be spending your time targeting. Once you decide exactly what
sort of relationship or circumstances that you want to develop with your
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lady friend, you next need to be sure to set your sites on the type of
female of your desire.
Once again, the closer you can come to drawing a well defined
map inside your own head, the less time you will waste talking it up with
the wrong babes, in the wrong places for the wrong reasons. Lengthening
the process of actually getting what you look for will be a natural
consequence of your lack of preparation.
Now if you really dont have any preferences, then thats just fine,
in some ways that lack of preference may help you get at least
something just about anywhere. But if, in the back of your mind, you
would love to have a fling with a raven-haired Goth chick, who is very
busty, mysteriously wild and a bit on the young side, then make that your
goal. Youll then be able to go to the places where such a woman is likely
to frequent. Get the concept?
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Now its time to become aware of and get a good grasp on the facts
of just what exactly it is that women want. As with us guys, the gals have
a whole plethora of wants, needs and desires. Luckily for us, we were
able to ask a large group of women. They stemmed from a wide selection
and segment of life-styles, from professionals to porn stars, from doctors
and lawyers to dancers and bartenders, from filthy rich to barely getting
by, and from 18 years of age, up to a few in their 40s.
Here are how the numbers actually came out, as these wonderful,
sexy women were cool enough to openly and freely tell us what exactly
was on their minds, and what they are looking for in a guy. Theses
women held no punches and told it like it is, in their own words, just what
it was they are looking for when it comes to hooking up with a dude.
Now I must warn you that unless you program your thoughts to
grasp and accept the full spectrum of possibility regarding the needs,
wants and desires of the female population, you may find the results
initially just a little bit surprisingly disappointing. Especially considering
the basic nature of what we are trying to achieve here. But have no fear, I
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promise you, when the data and all its ramifications are explained, it will
actually prove to be very good news, and a clear, pin-point precise,
positive picture of what can be achieved out there, and that makes this
information preciously valuable to us all.
Besides, keep in mind the fact that you clearly got this book in the
first place to tell it to you exactly how it is. Not to feed you a huge line of
BS or lie to you, just giving you all the answers that we think you want to
hear. Hell no, thats definitely not how we work around here and I dont
think you want to be lied to. I think you are reading this book because
you really want to know whats truly going on out there in the minds of
these ladies. And this knowledge naturally increases your opportunities to
date and score with the females of your choice, because you now will
finally know exactly what it is that they are thinking. Thats a huge
advantage in YOUR favor.
Ok., that being said, here are our most interesting results:
Short Fling: 7%
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Boyfriend: 17%
But now you see the importance of asking a lot more in-depth and
distinctly pointed questions, because it turns out there are a fair amount of
women looking for anything from a regular Boy Toy, to a part time
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developing out of these experiences, then these are the women who you
definitely should be setting your sites on.
Boyfriend: 17%
Ok., add that all up and you have 44%. Now that is very helpful
information, as you begin to realize that 44% of the women out there are
inclined to remain something more along the lines of a Good Girl
seeking the company of a Good Guy.
That being said, we must now consider the following fact. When
you add up all of the categories that are a lot less long-term, serious
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relationship oriented, you discover that actually 56% of the women out
there are at least open to the idea of playing the role. Thus, getting off
on being the Bad Girl, at least on some occasions.
These women, especially the ones at the very top of the list, are
definitely worthy of your calculated and educated advances of casual
dating and possible promiscuous sex. They have stated that, at this point
in their life, they really arent looking for anything long term or serious.
So yes, if you are looking to get laid by a babe who is hot and ready to
comply, these are the women who are at least open to the chance of some
one night romance. That is, as long as you do an adequate job of selling
yourself to the lady and sealing the deal, then if not downright
desperately looking for it as their predominant main goal and number one
desire!
On the other hand, you might be the type of guy who has already
sowed his wild oats in life. Or maybe the promiscuous life just isnt your
particular cup of tea. Then the women that might not be the best use of
your time pursuing are those who placed themselves in the following
categories. Especially the top 4:
Short Fling: 7%
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Heres where these beautiful women said they can be found, based
on their particular interest in the type of relationship she is looking for:
One Night Stand: Club, Dance Hall, Bar, Party, Rave, Concert,
Amusement Park, Beach, Personal Ads, Sex Shops, Fair, Park.
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So what can we learn from the top answers of where to meet the
women of our dreams? The special list provided to us by the lovely ladies
who opened up and shared their thoughts based on the category that they
chose to place themselves in, based on their personal choice of what they
are looking for in a guy.
Well, I think in this case part of what we verified here is a lot more
of what most of us guys already instinctively assumed would probably be
the case. So rather than shock us with a lot of surprise information, this
data just helps us to clear the run-way and have confidence. That is,
confidence that our instincts are pretty finely attuned, regarding where to
find our hick of choice. Just as the interview responses served to solidify
and verify what I think most of us took for granted, but hang on there
bro, because in this data is some information that just may blow your
mind!
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But the next part is what might freak you out a little bit. Its
when you look at the responses of the women based upon the age of the
respondent. This is really very interesting; check it out.
Rock Of Ages:
Heres where I think things get pretty interesting, if not downright surprising. When you look at the ages of the women in each
category, it actually pretty much balances right out to be totally spread
evenly and equally across the board. With the exception of the Boy Toy
category, that swings decidedly to the more mature women in the survey.
Whether the women questioned are in the 18-24, 25-30, 31-35, or 36 to
40+ age group category.
So check this out, and then fathom just what it means to your
ability to get the women you are looking for, in the specific age range that
you desire, whether that be from college schoolgirl to MILF!
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likely only going to be the more mature, financially set women who are
going to be in the position to treat a guy as her personal play-thing.
Or, on the other hand, these women tend to be lucratively well off
divorcees and widows. Who have no further interest in entering into the
state of nuptials again, but would like some regular guy action just to
scratch that special itch, when it needs to be scratched, and then get the
heck out of the way the rest of the time.
But other than that, hey, congratulations, seems that the skys the
limit, as there are plenty of available women, of all ages, desires,
intentions and sought after lifestyles, spanning the entire gamut of dating
and mating scenarios. Seems that the conventional wisdom that most
women in the so-called know, perpetrate upon our consciousness about
such matters, falls pretty darned far from actual reality in this particular
subject, and I say, thank God!
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the middle, or even further out on the edges of female reality, there is a
plethora of women of every type imaginable. And they want to now tell
you exactly what to do to pick up on them, take them out for a great date,
and see where things lead afterward.
Did you get that? Let me repeat it, because this is very, very, very
important to grasp. What happens in the very first few seconds of
making eye contact, has 10 times more to do with either sealing the deal
or going down in flames, than anything else you can possibly think of
doing over the next several hours!
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why dont we rather simply agree to deal with the facts as the facts? Then
we can move on and use them to our advantage.
The one thing that I found most interesting in dealing with the
topic of womens view of body language, particularly in the first few
seconds of making eye contact, was that nearly all the women that I
surveyed and interviewed, laughed knowingly at the following old
wives tale saying. That females decide within the first 5 seconds of
meeting you, whether they are going to sleep with you, ever, and they
mostly agree that this old saying is pretty much right on the money! Here
are the numbers to back it up:
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Basically the main things we learn here are: (A) Time is of the
Essence and (B) There simply is no second chance to make a great first
impression!
Now is that fair? No! Is that logical? No! Is that the way it should
be in a perfect world? No! Dont you wish it were different? Absolutely
Yes, I do, but theres no point in crying over spilt milk. This is the way it
is and if we guys are going to be successful and hooking-up with the
babes in this world, then we simply have to deal with reality as it is dealt
to us, and move forward from there!
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Secondly, while more than a quarter of the women out there give
you only a 3-5 second chance, and another even larger segment of the
female population, nearly another third, give you just one minute to make
an impression. You cant help but notice that even in the case of those
ladies who are a lot less likely to quickly decide Thumbs Up or
Thumbs Down, on you, that once you get to the dreaded, dangerous
and decidedly deadly 5 Minute Mark, your chances of making a love
connection or even getting a simple date are less than 21%. And those
odds are simply not good!
Well, thanks to this book, and the wonderful women who agreed to
participate in its creation, the answer is easy as pie! Why? Because we
now know exactly what the women are looking for, when they are
looking our way to decide Yes or No regarding any possible future
with us, and that gives us a very distinct advantage in a game that we
used to have no choice but to play blind.
What do you look for in a gu, when you are deciding whether you
should give him a chance with you or not?
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Confidence: 61%
Looks: 7%
Nice Body: 4%
Nice Face: 6%
Ok., so what does that mean for us? Well, first of all, it means we
are in the clear to go for it, even if we arent rich, successful, in perfect
shape or the most handsome guy around. Thats good news, because if
you look around, most of us dudes simply arent any of those things.
But wait you say, Woody, you seem to forget that most of us arent
really all that confident either, especially around women, so really, were
still pretty much sunk here, right?
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Confidence:
So what exactly is confidence in the mind of a woman? And how
do we exhibit to the fairer sex, that we do in fact exude it, even in times
when we, perhaps, might fall just a little bit short in actually achieving a
great deal of success in that particular category?
Again, no problem, as you just happen to have a book that tells you
precisely what women are looking for signs of when it comes to
confidence. Which is 61% of what it takes to say Open Sesame and
gain entrance into the mysterious treasure trove of co-operative and
mutually satisfying, female companionship and then some!
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What is the first or most important thing that you look for, when
determining whether or not a man truly has the level of confidence you
find attractive?
Hey, looky there! The good news is that if you can come across as
confidently comfortable in your surroundings and able to engage in
meaningful conversation with the ladies, then it looks like we have it
made, right? Yeah, thats right! (Well check in with the ladies to get a
clear explanation of what type of conversation is deemed by them to be
meaningful.)
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Hmmm, .., well, not exactly, and heres what I learned from
these women about that part in particular. You see, women want, dare I
say, NEED to be treated in such a manner that clearly lets them truly
feel like a feminine women. In order for the biological female hormones
to effectively kick in and make her want to start treating some guy, like a
masculine man. So there definitely is some need for some powerful
machismo to be present, to activate the chemical equation that makes her
want to want you, and want you to want her.
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Important: 7%
Relatively Important: 2%
No Big Deal: 0%
Now, in all complete fairness, I must tell you that during ensuing
conversations about this particular question, though not during the direct
answering of the survey questions themselves, it was revealed that a few
of the ladies polled in this survey did openly admit that on special
occasions, they do like to occasionally enjoy the act of playing with a
weak, submissive or wimpy man. Either for the purpose of simply
abusing and humiliating him to no end, just to see how far a weak man
will allow the humiliation to go, and see precisely what they can get away
with, and also in cases where the given woman has inclinations to play
domination games as a sexual outlet, whether all-out S and M games, or
tamer and less dramatic forms of simply playing controlling the role of a
Dominatrix.
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I suppose there are some guys out there that get off on being the
submissive to some strong, dominating woman. This might appease a
sense of psychological emptiness or reconnect you to a powerfully
emotional or physically intense moment or period in your past, whatever,
there is no judgement here. If this is how you personally get off,
more,.. or should I say. Less power to you my friend!
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Will take advantage of the pussy, just to watch him wiggle and
bleed: 37%
Doesnt sound like a situation that will float most of our boats. But
for those of you out there who get off on this sort of thing, it appears that
there clearly is a group of women who are more than readily willing to
allow you that sense of humiliation that you seek. So while you may not
be treated with much dignity and open minded tolerance, you certainly
wont be lonely.
Now of course, there are always clearly those guys out there who
are simply into experimentation. While they have no real nagging and
powerfully compelling drive to be dominated, they may just want to
check it all out, as an experiential feather in their cap. In those cases of
Try It You Like It sexual experimentation, fine, whatever floats
your boat, Ive got no problem with you either my friend!
But for the rest of us, I imagine the vast majority of us, this is not
what we were looking for in our relationships with women, and probably
more along the lines of something we would actually prefer to avoid, at
all costs, if possible, right fellas?
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So I asked our group of hot, sexy ladies, exactly what it was about
confidence, and why it was such a big deal to them, and these were the 5
most commonly mentioned reasons from the survey participants.
What is the primary reason that you are more attracted / strongly
prefer men who exhibit confidence and strength in social environments,
as well as one-on-one interactive contact with you?
Strong, Confident Men: are simply hot and sexy, plain and
simple.
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Alright, then how do we go about giving them the strong, selfassured manly man these women are desiring to connect with. Often the
first step is something more along the lines of playing a role or acting out
a part in a movie or television show. You simple watch how the AlphaMales out there in society behave, and you cleverly learn to mimic those
behaviours that succeed in getting the guy what he is looking to achieve
(dating and mating) and avoid all the activities, comments and behaviours
that fail to Get the Girl!
For years, the simple practice of studying and copying the exact
moves and plays of the champions has been called by those in the know,
Faking It Until Youre Making It,. It is definitely a very smart and easy
way to move yourself up the ranks from novice / beginner to the
successful heights and rewards of the experienced / winner!
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Musicians spend years going over and over their scales and
practising their chords, so that when there is a live audience and perhaps
even television cameras rolling, they will appear as virtuosos.
Actors sit alone for hours a day, and rehearse their lines with as
much dramatic intensity, as if they were up on a glimmering Broadway
stage or behind the lights, camera, action of a Steven Spielberg film.
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So, our heroes, the various athletes, musicians, and actors that we
admire and respect, all spend time practising the act of faking it till
theyre making it,. Perhaps , then, there is legitimate reason to believe
that this simple formula is what works to make them a Super Star in
their chosen field. And maybe it can positively help us to be successful in
our chosen field, dating and mating with the women of our dreams.
So, lets face the facts. If Mr. Strong and Confident makes
women naturally feel comfortable and safe to let their hair down and be
fully feminine, which sets their inner sexual libido in motion, then it
seems to me that learning to behave like the Alpha Male is a very
significant and highly esteemed priority of men who want to be spending
more time with more Hot and sexy women!
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with the actors, athletes and musicians that we all look up to, the fastest
way to quickly accomplish this task is to fake it till we make it!
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Or, on the other hand, somewhere along the road, many of us were
damaged, spoiled, hurt, or severely injures and held back for failure and
unhappiness, by those whom we relied upon most and trusted to help us
grow up successfully. Maybe it was a parent, or sibling, perhaps a relative
or neighbor, maybe even a teacher, or some other culturally accepted
authority figure. Sometimes it is simply a passing stranger offering up a
particularly discouraging or hurtful word, maybe even unconsciously, at a
moment of great vulnerability, you just never know where some of the
garbage that we think about ourselves, originally came from, but a lot of
it is just that, . Garbage!
In computer class, one of the very first things that you ever learn is
the theory of GIGO, which stands for Garbage In Garbage Out! It
means that if there are flaws, untruths, bad data in the information fed
into the computer, then whatever calculations that result from usage of
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content with ones interaction with women, and therefore these self
limiting beliefs must be eliminated and replaced with positive, helpful
and encouraging ideas and beliefs about oneself. We can most easily
accomplish this task by simply committing ourselves to copying or
mimicking what we see the very successful guys do when dealing with
the ladies. And then apply those techniques to our lives, over and over
again in a repetitive manner, until they begin to take hold, like a habit,
and manifest their beneficial results in your everyday, waking, physical
reality!
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own internal demons, that even the most confident Super Dude and
seemingly flawless Hot Babe has their subconscious fears and negative
self thinking working against them on the inside. Just like the rest of us,
only they have determined to abolish or at least severely limit the power
that this negativity is able to have over their lives!
The most dangerous thing about mental land mines is the fact that
it allows the enemy to strike you at the very heart, from within your
protective social and physical fortress. Here it can easily hurt you quite
deeply, where you are least protected and emotionally most vulnerable.
So a little bit of explosive goes a very long way in doing a tremendous
amount of damage relatively quickly, and that damage creates a chain
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1 Ugly
2 Stupid
3 Not cool
4 Uninteresting
5 Bad to the bone
6 Socially clumsy
7 Fashionably misfit
8 Financially excommunicated
9 From the wrong side of the tracks
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These are just a few of the Mental Land Mines that will blow us
up whenever we try to go meet that totally awesome babe that we are just
crazy about. Face it; if you dont believe you can get the chick, you
Wont get the chick! If you DO believe you can get the chick, you
WILL get the chick! Its all about what you believe deep inside
yourself, about yourself
So the truth is, these land mines must either be (A) sought out and
completely destroyed forever. Or, (B) until we have figured out exactly
how to do that, we need to at least agree not to go walking through that
particularly dangerous and explosive field any more, and start taking an
alternative route to all of our social and dating engagements from this
point on out!
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work, and wait for the positive effects to eventually take hold, and clear
out those explosively charged MIND FIELDS for good?
The smart man knows his limitations, but he keeps them to himself,
doesnt share them with the world, and certainly doesnt ever advertise
his shortcomings to the world of women out there waiting for him to
make his move. If you were to ask me the number one rule to getting lots
of prime, top-notch, quality women, I would tell you one thing and one
thing only: Go For It!
Its a basic fact that chicks get excited and are attracted to guys
who have the balls of steel to just Go For It! They arent so much
looking for absolute authenticity of societal sophistication and cultured
perfection, and they definitely arent looking for genius geo-political
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Go For It in life, in love, and in lust. Women, above all else that
might be enticing in life, want a real Player. Someone who gets out
there and gets involved, takes risks, is willing to take a chance and get his
hands dirty, not some Aristotelian analyst, sitting on the sidelines, making
inquires, postulating theorems, setting policies, and offering intellectual
observations.
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The baseball analogy has been around for years, regarding the
GAME of guys getting girls. Remember, if you get a co-operative kiss,
youre safely on first base. If you get to go exploring for treasure with
what we used to call Roman (roaming) Hands you had succeeded in
hitting a double, and was now happily in scoring position at second base.
Getting a finger into the fun zone, and being allowed to keep it there, or
add more to the party, meant a triple, and you were just 90 feet away
from reaching the Golden Goal of Mans Eternal Quest, officially
scoring! When Penile Penetration is finally welcomed and occurs in a
mutually consenting explosion of fireworks and applause, you have
achieved the pay-dirt accomplishment of hitting a Home Run, and you
get to go HOME, back inside the vaginal tunnel where it all started so
very long ago, congratulations!
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A man who has lots of money and will spend it on me: 24%
A man with a plan; a guy with the balls to just go for it: 62%
Wow, I must admit, I walked into this one having a pretty good
idea which statement would get the most votes. I mean experience
teaches you things, and I was fairly certain I knew how this one was
going to come out, heck I was pretty sure. I knew the exact order that
they would place, from #1 to #4. But what I never would have guessed
was the percentages.
More than 60% of the women would like to be with a guy who is
willing to just confidently Go For It. That number took me a bit by
surprise, considering we were offering up wealth, power, and sexy good
looks in the balance. I knew money would be number 2, but I never could
have guessed in a thousand years that it would out-rank a male-model
perfect physique by more than 2 to 1.
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true and will not be denied. Yet still, by nearly a 3 to 1 margin, more
women are attracted to or just plain get physically wet for a guy who had
that take charge, balls to the walls, attitude.
So the numbers dont lie guys, chicks want a dude who is willing
to set caution to the wind, and just Go For It, especially when that IT
is Them!
That much said, we begin to see the depth, value, insight and
knowledge of so many of those famous old clichs that we have heard
since we were kids. The ones weve just never really fully grasped or
realized how profoundly true and relevant to our very own lives they
actually always they were, especially when it comes to getting the
attention of the female of our dreams, or simply some consistent, quality
lovin!
Of all the old clichs, the one that clearly reigns as ultimate truth
is the following:
Nothing Ventured
Nothing Gained!
Remember the very wise and insightful words that have steered the
rich, famous and historically glorious Captains of Industry on to multiple
successes over the years: Nothing Ventured, Nothing Gained!
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Thats right, this simple little saying really says it all, when you get
down to what we guys like to refer to as the brass tacks, the real nittygritty of the situation. Its much like the colorful analogy that many
highly successful business entrepreneurs have used when trying to teach
technique and sales strategy to those who are eager to learn. What are
these students always told, time and time again, to just remember to
always keep in mind? You just cant allow yourself to lose faith, give in
to doubt, start second guessing yourself and eventually give up before
you get yourself a good, hearty delicious meal out of the situation.
For example, lets say you currently have a 10% success rate with
the ladies. Very well then, that simply means that you have to approach
and meet 10 women the next time youre out. You need to go up and
approach as many as 10 ladies before you get one who is going to want to
spend some quality time with you. Now keep in mind, these are just
averages, so you have to keep playing those numbers till you find one
with that makes your stock market soar!
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The good news is, perhaps your first bite will come with girl
number 7 or perhaps even girl number 3, one never knows. And averages
are just that, an average. Theres no infallible way of calculating the exact
out-come of each and every attempt. That is the exciting wonder and
splendor of life on Planet Earth. Because no one ever really knows what
is going to happen, till after its happened. And when dealing with
women, even then you may not be completely sure as to what exactly just
took place, but its a blast working your way through the process, and
trying to get better and better at the game as you go along. Thats where
practice makes nearly perfect, or at least, Nearly perfect practice
makes nearly perfect. Perfection is not an option in this universe,
especially when dealing with the feminine psyche.
So you keep your eyes open for each and every possible
opportunity to get into the game. I highly recommend and strongly
suggest playing what I like to call pre-season games. In most sports,
there is what has come to be called the pre-season, where teams come
out of their practice regimen, and give their strategies a go, testing what
truly works, what doesnt, and what needs more practice. Al before
bringing it into the field of play in a game that counts.
Pre-Season Games:
This is some of the greatest advice that I was ever made privy to,
coming to me from a very special gentleman who often took the time to
share with me bits and pieces of valuable strategy to succeed with
women. This was back when I was a young man, and was first learning
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how to just manage to even get into the game, let alone win one for the
proverbial Gipper!
So what is a game that COUNTS? Ill tell you, its that total
hottie that you totally dig on, the babe that makes you absolutely weak
in the knees just to look at, the chick that knocks the air right out of your
chest by simply walking into the room. Its the woman that you really,
really, really want!
Now the mistake I was making when I first was learning how to
deal with the ladies is I would ignore the girls I had no real interest in.
Instead focussing all my time, thought, energy, creativity and attention on
the woman of my dreams, only to go out and make the play for her
valuable and precious time and presence, without the benefit of a working
game plan.
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Then one who knew better picked my head and heart up off the
ground, handed them back to me and then took me under his protective
tutelage and explained the necessity to get some practice games in there,
for experience. Games that are in every sense of word real, but PreSeason. So it didnt really matter how much I scored, or if I even scored
at all, I might get completely shut-down and shut out, while giving up a
ton of points myself, but it really didnt matter, as long as I kept learning,
because these games didnt count.
You see, these werent chicks that I was crazy about or simply had
to have, NO, they were just chicks, nothing more! Many of them were
basically very nice people. Many proved to be someone worthy of
making a decent friend, a buddy to go hiking or to the beach with. A
play pal to perhaps accompany me to a movie or concert. But I wasnt
looking for a friend, though. In time, I did, eventually, in fact make
several, but what I was really looking for, truly, was simply nothing more
than On The Job Experience, in a gig that I couldnt care less if I got
fired for screwing up and blowing it!
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Yes. Some of them were bitches. And there was the added benefit
of giving them what they deserved in the end and knocking em down a
notch or two from their high horse. But really, most of them were pretty
cool ladies who I just had a really good time with. Learning how to
effectively and efficiently Play The Game without the added extra
pressure of worrying about what the score was when the game was over.
And it made all the difference in the world to MY Life!
Now, keep in mind here guys, Im not talking about using and
abusing females for your own personal gains. As I said, many of these
girls became friends of mine, and some are still, to this very day, STILL
good buddies that I can rely on in a time of need, they just werent that
Special lady that got my heart or Willie all a-twitter whenever she
came near. These women were treated with human respect and
gentlemanly courtesy. No one was ever demeaned or made to feel less
valued. And with that commitment to deal fair and square, shooting
straight from the hip, I was able to learn more than you could ever
imagine about how females think, react, evaluate, and assess differing
situations and circumstances. The lessons learned were worth their weight
in Gold, and I apply them regularly to this very day.
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before it ever even entered our limited male consciousness that girls were
anything other than carriers of contagious Cooties and that we might
like to dive into that mysterious wonder and get wet and wild in the
process.
If you dont believe me, then perhaps you will take the ladies word
for it, as they were all too willing to answer that specific question, when I
interviewed them for this book, and here is exactly what they had to say
about it all.
How do you feel about the idea that a guy may be dating you
purely on the basis of a Pre-Season basis, with the intent of simply
learning more about what works, and what doesnt, when dealing with
women?
Its a disappointment to find that out, I dont really like it: 19%
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your game. All before going into the Championship Tournament that
counts for good, and another third simply believe that this is just the way
the game is played by everyone, so no harm no foul. That means nearly
seven out of every ten chicks are totally fine with this Pre-Season
mentality to dating and spending time with the opposite sex.
Then take into account the fact that just under 20% (1 out of 5) is
disappointed when they eventually discover that in your estimation,
THEY are Not The One! Hey, thats not bad odds at all! Meanwhile,
just a bit over 10% (1 out of 10 women) not only are disappointed by this
fact, but they are downright Pissed Off about it. Now, at first, that
seems a little negatively intimidating, but really, when all is said and
done, those arent bad numbers, especially when you stop to take into
account the percentile of females who strike you, just of the top of your
head, as seeming to be out-right bitches, right? Thats means, when we go
to the numbers, that only three babes out of ten have any sort of negative
reaction to this Pre-Season concept, certainly not enough of a defensive
stand to prevent one from diving in and getting the education of a life
time, is it? Enough said!
Ok, so then with that issue put to rest, we need to now discuss the
truth that in order to even have a Playbook to start working at running
plays from, you need to decide what sort of player you are. So you can
officially begin learning the dynamics of your chosen system of sexual
strategies, and that my friend, comes from some very focused sessions of
learning how to See It, and then Be It!
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I prefer the usage of the term See it and Be It,. Mainly because it
reminds us not only to focus on what are objectives are, seeing our
success happening over and over again in sessions of in-depth
visualization. It also reminds us that we need to keep our eyes ever open
for the opportunity to put our new found confidence into practice. As well
as keep an eye out for those guys that seem to always score on a regular
basis with the total Hotties that have captured and excited our interests.
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So if you like chicks that have the Goth look, you keep an eye
out on what sorts of guys seem to score regularly with that sort of babe,
how they act, how they present themselves, how the handle the situation.
Does one have to be a Goth Guy to get a Goth Girl? Knowing what I
originally thought I knew about the whole Gothic Phenomena, I
would have quickly come to the conclusion that the answer would be a
certain Affirmative! However, I would have been dead wrong (pun
intended), had I not bothered to study the scenario in a more scientific,
research-oriented manner.
Turns out there are two very distinctive and differing types of Goth
Chicks. Which is something I never would have really noticed, because
thats not truly my personal cup of tea. So I never really paid much
attention, but I have friends who dig that Morticia Adams Lilly
Munster, Elvira look. So being around it more, I discovered that there
are those who are hard core, living the nightmare, devotes. Those who
wouldnt be caught dead (I know, I know, use a pun, go to jail!) going
out into the night with a normal guy like you or I. But they are actually a
very small percentage of the whole Goth Look. Most of those chicks are
pretty open to go out with anyone who is interested in dealing with them,
as they are, on their own terms! Who knew? Wellnow YOU do.
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having a blast as they play that role to near perfection. And if you watch
to see very carefully who is scoring and who is striking out, you will
increase your chance of making time with the story-book character of
your dreams on a consistent and regular basis.
So, the next important question is, does a guy have to be playing
the exact same ROLE in order to get the attention of a lady who has a
particular Stylistic Presentation to her way of approaching life? Heres
what our ladies said.
Does a guy have be coming from pretty much the same LifeStyle approach, the same Way of Dealing with the outer world, as
you, in order to have a good chance of making a connection with you?
I dont really care one way or another, as long as they are happy
with who they are and sincerely like me for who I am: 34%
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there will actually blow you off, by not fitting into the stylistic category
that they like to present themselves to the world as being a part of. Thats
good news right? So whats your pleasure? Step right up to the worlds
smorgasbord of delectable delights, and see what looks gets your stomach
growling and causes you to salivate just thinking about, the world of
women are readily available to you, all you need to do is simply go for it,
so GO FOR IT!
So you have determined the type of chick you are into. And
observed which types of guys seem to consistently hit it off successfully
with that particular style of babe. You now need to come to some set
conclusions on precisely how you are going to play out YOUR role in the
whole production.
Thats right, now its your turn to make some decisions about the
persona that you want to present to the ladies as you make your way up
and get close to the goal line. And thats where a lot of guys fall flat on
their face, so come prepared to do a little bit of thinking, planning and
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some actual soul searching, cause next, you decide the answer the all time
famous question, WHO ARE YOU?
Now its your turn, but thank God you arent going to be quoted
for all eternity in the great books of world wisdom, or even tested in a
final exam that determines whether you go on to bigger and greater
things, or have to re-do the course from scratch again. No my friend, this
ones just for you, and you alone.
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There are about as many ways of playing the Guy Gets Girl
Game as there are guys in the world who want to get the girls. But over
the years, if you really tend to study and pay careful attention to what
exactly is going on, you begin to find certain repeatable patterns, that just
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I also realize that we guys have all been told by practically every
female we have ever had the balls to have a serious one-on-one
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conversation with, that all they are really looking for is a guy who can
simply just be himself around a girl. So we naturally assume that women
must obviously know what it is that they want. And since they are so
clearly into talking up a storm all the time, and so much better than us
Cave-men at the whole, sensitive / feeling thing, theyll simply open
right up and tell us the truth about what exactly theyre looking for. All so
we can then happily give it to them.
So, for your own sake, please come to terms with the start reality of
this situation, as soon as humanly possible. Otherwise you will be
wasting a tremendous amount of time, energy and effort, as well as lonely
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nights, by yourself, frustrated and taking maters into your own hands, if
you know what I mean. Yes, sadly, what they often tell us is actually the
furthest thing from the truth, and those guys who believe this nonsense
about just being yourself and that being cool with the chick, will
continuously be shot down on a consistent basis.
Alright, without further ado, here is the list of the most commonly
used and sexually successful male personas / personality styles that seem
to do well with the ladies. Keep in mind this is not by any stretch of the
imagination, the only choices available to you. As I said before, many of
the most successful seducers are guys who just do their own thing. But
some men need that helpful, scripted role laid out for them, so that they
can experience enough beautiful women laid out for them, to get the
expertise and confidence to eventually do it all on their own, in their own
carefully developed manner!
Be sure that while you read about them, you honestly think about
what your personal thoughts have been about these types of guys in the
past. When you have been around them. Because thats most likely what
many guys will be thinking about you, when you are playing out that
chosen role! Remember your comfort level in being around guys like that.
Because once you make that decision, to become that person, it most
certainly effect, in a limiting way, the sort of friends that you will keep,
circles you will move in, and of course ladies you will be spending time
with.
Remember, all that dating really is, in the simplest of terms, is you
SELLING YOURSELF to the women that you are most attracted to.
The truth in all sales and marketing, which must always be adhered in
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The Playboy: 9%
Now check out the answers as to who these chicks really dont like,
its pretty damned interesting, if you ask me!
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Hey guys, be sure that you take the time to pay careful attention to
exactly how women feel about the BAD BOY!
Talk about not being able to make up your mind or clearly let
someone know exactly what it is that you really want. These chicks dont
even realize the depth of the mixed signals that they are sending out on a
daily basis as they both loath and despise this rowdy rebel. While at the
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same time dreaming of the moment that he rips their panties off and takes
them as a carnally conquered captive!
So, whats the best way of going about working through this
dilemma of deceit or denial? Well, as was clearly stated previously, I
wouldnt even begin to try to choose for you, as only you know the
particular type of action that you are looking for. Clearly, if you want the
score with the Blue Blooded foxy debutantes who were once the
revered high school Home Coming Queens then you would probably
do well as the Arrogant Ass-Hole.
If you get hot and bothered, just thinking about the wild rides
available from those rowdy biker chicks, or perhaps you find the
sensuously slutty, almost openly trampy whore-vixen to your liking, then
probably the Big, Bad-Boy Bastard is your best bet.
For the rest of us basically nice and normal dudes, who dont want
to play the part of the Bad Boy or the jerky prick, we probably will do
much better, simply learning to function as Cool, Calm, Calculated,
Charismatic and Confident Charmers!
Round and round and round they go, where they stop, nobody
knows. Chose wisely my friend, because whichever path you decide to
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take, there are consequences for those actions, some positive and some
negative. Obviously, you know that, and wouldnt be here right now,
reading this book, if you didnt know in your heart of hearts and believe
in your soul of souls, that our actions create observable reactions and
bring about definitive, long lasting effects. Getting dates, getting laid,
getting off, all that is the positive side of the coin, but dont forget to keep
in mind the balance of what lies on the other side of that coin, which is
the cost of a decision, poorly made or poorly played!
The Cost? Did you say COST? Hey buddy, real men like me
never pay for action, so whats this BS about COST?
THE COST?
Come on, this is no surprise. Youre a smart guy and admit it,
..you know it deep down inside, there is always a cost. Especially when
it comes to dealing with the opposite sex. And in this sense you need to
decide whether the type of woman you are excited by is interested in the
sort of guy you are, and is the forced transformation or determined effort
to play the game worthy of the effort. Is it valuable enough to sacrifice
your sincerest levels of integrity? Is it, in a way, just a matter of playing a
role, like an actor in a movie or a play? Are you not just following a
character outline pre-created for you to walk your way through, step-bystep, line by line, much as you would playing the role of a doctor on a
television series, having never, ever actually ventured or invested a single
moment in medical school?
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Keep in mind, this is not a value judgement in any way at all. Its
not a matter of what I or anyone else thinks is better, but simply comes
down to a level of comfort, and there is, as in most matters in life, a
definitive Trade-Off in the process, and that must be weighed with an
open and clearly honest mind. What one gains from working his way into
certain cliques, in order to spend time with particular styles of women
that turn him on, he loses in his over all sense of comfort and to some
degree, lets be totally honest here self integrity.
Lets just call it like we see it, no holds barred! Its not a matter of
right or wrong, good or bad, better or worse, its simply the facts are the
facts. To some degree, in some cases more than others. Or in order to fit
it, and play the role. Ato maintain the veracity of the staging, allowing
your lovely lady Co-Star to keep up her image, and play the role
through. There is a certain amount of Play Acting that is required, to
keep the show running, and that takes effort, creativity, dedication to the
role and a lot of effort.
Each new situation that arises must be dealt with. But not
instinctively or by relying on past experience and studies expertise. But
instead from a pre-written, scripted format of this productions particular
reality, and than that leaves plenty of room for things to go wrong. So if
you are going to play this game, you need to really psyche yourself up,
and be prepared to play the Hell out of it, to the very hilt. Be prepared for
the theatre to come down on your head in a crashing cascade of
Shakespearian Shambles, if you should accidentally fall out of character,
or reveal the woman of your fantasy to be a charlatan, hack, phoney, or
mere actress, pretending to be something special, that she isnt.
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Its just that sort of out-come driven, hyper- intensive, semiglorified grown-up version of playing Cowboys and Indians or Cops
and Robbers, that kinda freaks me out and leaves me in the lurch.
Perhaps its more along the lines of playing house. Now I do happily
remember getting in tons of serious Parental/ Teacher Trouble. It was
way back in my Kindergarten days, for talking my buddies into building
an immaculate miniature HOME, out of those Huge schoolyard building
blocks. Then getting busted for playing the Mommy-Daddy bedroom
scenes just a little bit too graphically to detail, during recess and lunch
breaks, but, perhaps, thats another story all together.
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off, its a rarely used talent by most men, and best of all, its completely
FREE and leaves them wanting more.
Ill give them this much, its sometimes easy to find a certain type
of babe that rocks your world. If she presents herself in such a way, as to
be somewhat clearly categorized, she is doing you both a bit of a favor in
already supplying most of the ground rules to be adhered to in order to
earn your way to spending some Special Time with her. So while it
leaves nothing left to the imagination, and there is truly zero sincerity,
originality, or personal uniqueness to the situation, it is a great way to
easily pave a road to direct contact with a little Honey who floats your
boat. Im not going to knock that in a million years.
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So, how does this apply to talking to chicks? Easy. Truth is, I never
have the time to sit there in panicked desperation, worried about what I
am going to say to a totally awesome babe, because I never give myself a
chance to have the tie to worry. When I see a complete package enter the
room, I immediately look up, look around for a reasonable observation,
then quickly turn to the woman, crack a sincere smile, as if I am clearly
pleased by what I am looking at, make my comment, then smile again
and continue on with whatever I was doing at the time she came along.
Boom, Crises averted, problem solved, score 1 point for Woody!
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the first word, which puts me in the top 15 percentile of guys, and if my
comment wasnt something completely inane, ridiculous or completely
out of context, then I have risen to the top 5% of men, which is a very
powerful and productive place to start any seduction strategy from.
(1)
(2)
Thats it. Keep it short, simple concise. Theres no need to take the
additional risks of attempting to perform verbal gymnastics or
impressing her with a $3,000.00, highbrow 7-syllable word, when
something charmingly simple and down to earth in a comfortable,
conversational style will do just nicely! Remember, short and sweet.
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Keep to the point, nothing too drawn out, and tie her into the comment, in
a way that makes it clear you like her being around.
If you are waxing your surfboard, and a bikini Goddess walks up,
smile, look her in the eyes, and say, WOW, now I cam see why all those
waves are in such a hurry to get to shore! Then smile again, and go back
to what you were doing.
If you are in the nursery picking out put some plants, and a lovely
lady approached in short shorts and a loosely tied halter top, just
something as simple as And here I thought it was the flowers that made
this such a beautiful spot!
Just use what ever is around, and find a way to connect her into the
scenario in a positive way, and you are set. It doesnt have to be brilliant.
Sincere and from the heart is better than clever most of the time, and
dont worry if it sounds a little corny. Most women appreciate the fact
that you had the balls, interest and drive to make the effort, and as long as
you are not rude, offensive, lewd, or downright retarded, you will be fine.
Women are honored that a guy will think they are special enough
to warrant the attempt to strike up a conversation, especially if it is in
some way regarding their Most Favorite of all possible topics in the
whole wide world themselves! They know coming up with Just The
Right Thing to say is no easy deal, and they respect a dude that has the
cajones to go just Go For It and play his cards with confidence and
comfort.
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Heres what our bodacious bevy of beauties have to say about this
subject.
What exactly are you looking for when you first meet a guy, and
he attempts to break the ice by speaking to you first?
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If you are using them to meet women, and more than 90% of the
chicks out there think they are a clear sign of a loser, then mathematics is
enough to tell me to leave well enough alone. Instead, to take my chances
with a quick comment about where we are, what we are doing, and how
much better it is when SHE is around. That is the key to unlock a
females subconscious interest, making her feel important and attractive.
Plus you get extra points for thinking of your own comments, rather than
some corny one liner that ripped right out of some crap Pick-Up Line
book you bought. Even if the book was free, you got your moneys worth,
so dont do it!
If you dont believe me, perhaps you will listen to the words of
those who know precisely how such things as Pre-Written Pick-Up
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one-liners affect a womans attitude toward a man. Lets hear from our
group of gorgeous girls again.
Its not a deal breaker, but hes definitely starting off in a big
hole, and losing ground fast: 41%
No way, thats the sort of B.S. I would just as soon avoid from
moment #1: 23%
Whatever you chose, pick your Part carefully and then get to
work, playing it cool!
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Playing It Cool!
So I believe the best and most effective advice is to just play it
cool. Seem happy to be there, comfortable around women, even if there is
a ton of hot babes all around you, you need to make it seem like you live
confidently in that environment on a daily basis. Its all a matter of how
you present and project yourself, and chicks dig guys that are cool and
confident, so give them what they want, and they are a lot more likely to
instantly begin giving you what you want!
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who make enough money to be able to afford arguing with the Wood
Man without giving it a worry in the world, believe it with all their
mind, heart and soul. So, I will have to say that the jury is still out on that,
regarding business, but when it comes to dating and seduction, the
opposite is definitely the absolute truth!
When attempting to make a positive impact, and successfully pickup on babes, especially the very hottest of babes, The One Who Talks
First, WINS! The first to speak sets the tone of the relationship, takes the
drivers seat, and places the other person, the lively lady, in a position of
catching up and having to respond. Also it sets off her alarm that there is
a Take Charge, confident and strong man in the area, and her attention
is automatically centered on you, as a rare and valuable anomaly.
Then, once you have got the party started, from that point on, just
be a really good listener and go with the flow of the conversation. Now
that you have coolly and calmly taken control of a situation that would
have proven to set most guys off in a sweating, stammering, tongue-tied
trance, you proved to the woman that you are The Man,. Youve taken
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circumstances by the short and curlies, opened the dialog with her, and
made the first contact, seeking a connection.
If theres any chance at all of you eventually scoring with her, she
will answer back, guaranteed! If shes impressed and interested, she will
respond back with something, who knows what, but something, though it
may not be in any way at all based on what you said. But who cares, if
she replies at all, congratulations, cause your willingness to break the ice,
has drawn the affirmation of a fine females response, a definite sign that
you are on track and on your way for a pleasurable pay-off. Now all you
need to do is listen carefully to whatever she says next, without looking
as if you are overly eager or intently interested, and she will naturally
supply all the cues to where the conversation can go next.
She just did you a huge favor, by helping you to qualify your
potential partners. So just think the words Thank You in your head,
dont allow her crappy personality and lacking attitude tick you off, cloud
your thinking, create a single bit of worry, doubt, stress and tension, and
simply move on to the next woman, without giving her a second thought.
Chances are, the very act of you handling her is such a cool, calm
and collected way will catch her attention and earn her respect. It may
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even freak her out a bit, shake up her confidence in her sex appeal, and
open her mind to suddenly wanting to give you a shot, if not now,
sometime in the future. So never act deflated and never let them see you
sweat. It makes you all the more attractive in their perception of things!
After picking themselves up off the ice, trying to forget the image
of even a Bronze Medal slipping away in as they collapsed in a hobbled
heap of humanity, they get to go home, empty handed once again,
because they just couldnt remember to Keep It Simple.
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from a mile away, and to them, it is a stinky odor that they want nothing
to do with, psychologically, instinctively, and biologically genetically!
Do yourself a huge favor and just dont be stupid. Dont make that
mistake, not after you have been so very severely warned, because you
will want to kick yourself in the ass or head, if at the moment there is any
difference between the two, if you let this chance just slip through your
hands like sand.
Hey, take a look at the situation here. Youve got her talking to
you now Amigo, and its smooth sailing from there on. She will bring up
this and that and you will in turn come across as clearly tuned in, but
cool, paying her just enough attention to show her that you think she has
some real potential, but not so much that she can get overly confident
herself. This keeps her off center, always second guessing, which makes
her work all the more harder to ensure that you two hook up for some
personal contact, as she is driven genetically by the need to be attractive,
appreciated, and wanted. Its just the natural make-up of a woman, so use
it to your advantage, as a tool, dont let it become a bomb that explodes in
your face! Never let her think for a moment that you are a sure thing, a
Slam-Dunk victory for her to snatch (pun intended! LOL)
Keep your eyes and ears open, pay attention to what is going on
around you. Talk about things that you are able to clearly observe she is
interested in, which may mostly be herself, but then, so what, youre
looking for some hot female companionship, not a new best friend and
confidant. Just short, concise, to the point comments, avoiding the typical
caveman 3 to 4 word gruntings or the annoyingly meek and imperceptible
mumbling of a madman!
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Its now a game of tennis. But each time you successfully hit a
volley back to her, and she responds by putting the ball back into your
court, you have scored another Brownie Point in her mind, plus
valuable experience and growing confidence that you will continue to
use, today, tomorrow, for ever!
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Women tell me that they usually have a pretty good idea if they are
going to date a guy (now days, the term dating basically means sharing
a meal, an entertaining event and then sex) within the first 60 seconds of
meeting him. And the chance of closing the deal is pretty much out of
your hands if you started off with a bad first impression, so say thank you
for not wasting your time and move on, once she makes it clear you
arent her cup of tea!
You simply dont have the free time to get yourself caught up in
the drama of the pursuit of a chick who doesnt make it clear as a bell that
she is interested. Once she has passed judgement, and found you wanting,
you will be a much happier person, far, far away from that proverbial
hornets nest, trust me!
Is that cool? No! But it is the reality of the world we have been
dropped of in, and so we might as well make the best of it, right? We may
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not like it, but theres NOTHING that can be done about it, so simply be
forewarned and move forward. Just as it is a waste of time blaming the
scorpion for acting like a scorpion, or hating a black widow spider for
acting like a black widow spider. It is a complete waste of time going
over the spiritual, ethical and philosophical reasons why such behavior in
chicks is so utterly uncool. Just deal with it, roll with the punches, and
know the way of the world before you even step out onto the playing
field, prepare ahead of time and have fun playing the game!
Does this mean that women are jerks and should be held in
contempt and disrespect by men? Absolutely NOT! As off the wall and
illogically unfair as the female of the species may seem to us most of the
time, we seem just as lunk headed and retarded to them, as well. So what?
What are we going to do, Boy-Cott (Does that mean what I think it
means?) No way. We get back up, dust ourselves off and get back in the
game, willing to move on and find the next potential partner in pleasure
and companionship.
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In Conclusion:
And there you have it, all laid out nice and easy, just like we like
our women! I hope you will be one of the few smart guys that actually
goes back and reads this book at least 3 times, because I promise you, you
will discover some very valuable information, that your brain was ready
to absorb, the first or second time through the program.
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So here is the info you will use to better understand the nature of
the prey, the strategy of the hunt, the layout of the hunting ground, and
the numerous rules of engagement (Rule #1, never get engaged! :-D.)
This is the data, presented to you in a well-organized and easy to follow
up on and follow through with. Begin to use this system immediately, and
you will be amazed at just how quickly you get huge improvements in
your success with the ladies. Its truly amazing how much better a player
can perform in a sport, once he knows and understands how to apply the
rules of the game being played.
Go get em tiger, and Ill see you next time round, when the good
folks at Platinum Dreams LTD release their next informative and
entertaining treatise on making it with the honeys. Till then, see ya!
Your pal,
Woody O. Wilcox.
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