"Happiness is not out there for us to find," author says. "Our genes do not determine our life experience and behavior," she says. Happiness and depression considered a behavior.
"Happiness is not out there for us to find," author says. "Our genes do not determine our life experience and behavior," she says. Happiness and depression considered a behavior.
"Happiness is not out there for us to find," author says. "Our genes do not determine our life experience and behavior," she says. Happiness and depression considered a behavior.
Citation: Parfitt, Matthew, and Dawn Skorczewski. Pursuing Happiness: A Bedford Spotlight Reader. Place of Publication Not Identified: Bedford Bks St Martin'S, 2015. Print.
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I use the term happiness to refer to the
experience of joy, contentment, or positive well-being, combined with a sense that ones life is good, meaningful, and worthwhile. However, most of us dont need a definition of happiness because we instinctively know whether we are happy or not. (pg. 184)
I completely agree with this statement! A
definition of happiness is rather unnecessary because we know when we are happy or not. We dont need someone defining when we are truly happy and we can figure it out for ourselves.
Happiness is not out there for us to find.
(pg. 185)
I like the way this woman thinks! So far I have
agreed to everything she has said about happiness. I am eager to read more.
Another big fallacy is the notion that if only
something about the circumstances of our lives would change, then we would be happy. (pg. 185)
I think I disagree with this statement. Yes, it is
not all about our circumstances but I believe that it can play a role in how happy we are in life. For example, when I get a poor grade it is hard for me, in that moment, to feel happy. I feel awful because Ive made such a bad grade. In that circumstance, my happiness has dropped.
But just because your happiness set point
cannot be changed doesnt mean that your happiness level cannot be changed. (pg. 190)
I dont know if I agree that everyone has a set
point that cannot be changed.
Our genes do not determine our life
experience and behavior. (pg. 190)
Yes I agree with this point.
So, our genes play an important role in
depression, as they do in happiness (pg. 192)
The writer just said that genes do not
determine our life experience and behavior. But isnt happiness and depression considered a behavior??
This means that no matter what your
genetic predisposition, whether or not that predisposition is expressed is in your hands. (pg. 193)
Well this makes more sense and definitely
answers my previous question!
Although we may achieve temporary boosts
in well-being by moving to new parts of the country, securing raises, or changing our appearances, such boosts are unlikely to be long-lasting. (pg. 195)
Looking back on my response to the third
quote I have posted, I do not know if I still agree with what I said. Now the writer has persuaded me to agree with what she is saying about how changes in circumstances are temporary and not long-lasting.