"The surprising science of happiness" by daniel gilbert, n.d., 21 February 2016 double entry journal. "We synthesize happiness, but we think I agree with this statement to be true! ", he says. "I believe that sums of money and fame will make us happy," he adds.
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alex montecalvo - play the believing game with dan gilbert
"The surprising science of happiness" by daniel gilbert, n.d., 21 February 2016 double entry journal. "We synthesize happiness, but we think I agree with this statement to be true! ", he says. "I believe that sums of money and fame will make us happy," he adds.
"The surprising science of happiness" by daniel gilbert, n.d., 21 February 2016 double entry journal. "We synthesize happiness, but we think I agree with this statement to be true! ", he says. "I believe that sums of money and fame will make us happy," he adds.
UWRT 1102-029 22 February 2016 Double Entry Journal Citation: "Transcript of "The Surprising Science of Happiness"" Dan Gilbert: The Surprising Science of Happiness. N.p., n.d. Web. 21 Feb. 2016. Source: Quote (Page# or Paragraph #)
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All of you have done this. Ben and Jerry's
doesn't have liver-and-onion ice cream, and it's not because they whipped some up, tried it and went, "Yuck." It's because, without leaving your armchair, you can simulate that flavor and say "yuck" before you make it. Minute1:48
This point is very interesting because without
him pointing out that we have to ability to lay things out in our heads before they actually happen brings a lot of things into perspective. We as humans mostly all the time think before doing something and while doing this we come up with many possible outcomes some bad and some good. I could see life being very different if we did not have this ability.
We synthesize happiness, but we think
I agree with this statement to be true! I believe happiness is a thing to be found. Minute 5:00 that we think happens can be found and achieved. We believe that sums of money and fame will make us happy. But that is not the case. Happiness come naturally Because when people synthesize happiness, as these gentlemen seem to have done, we all smile at them, but we kind of roll our eyes and say, "Yeah right, you never really wanted the job." "Oh yeah, right. Minute 8:04
We as a human race do this all the time. I
believe that if someone says something that we do not know to be true ourselves we often tend to think that they are lying and dont believe them. But we really do not know if someone else is happy. They may seem unhappy to us but in there minds they are happy and that is all that matters. Like the first drummer for the beetles, if he says he is happier than if he was with the beetles then who are we to tell him otherwise.
You're watching happiness be synthesized.
Would you like to see it again? Happiness! "The one I got is really better than I thought! That other one I didn't get sucks!" That's the synthesis of happiness. Minute 10:23
I agree that this happens to everyone no
matter what is given to them. I think that we try to always make the best out of every situation that we run into. Like if we were given a Toyota Prius but we really wanted was BMW M3. We would try to think of reason why the Prius is a much better car the the M3 because we are trying to make ourselves
believe that the choice we had chosen or was
given was the better option. The ability to make up your mind and change your mind -- is the friend of natural happiness, because it allows you to choose among all those delicious futures and find the one that you would most enjoy. But freedom to choose, to change and make up your mind, is the enemy of synthetic happiness. Minute 13:43
Freedom has so much to do with us being
happy. We can change what we are doing at anytime to try to make ourselves happy. If we not able to make our own decisions and everything was controlled for us we would not have the chose and we would try to make ourselves happy with what we are doing.
The lesson I want to leave you with, from
these data, is that our longings and our worries are both to some degree overblown, because we have within us the capacity to manufacture the very commodity we are constantly chasing when we choose experience. Minute 20:51
I agree with this statement. It is pretty much
saying that we can make up happiness even if we are not happy. With this we can always believe that we are happy even though we are not truly happy at all.