"Misery! - happiness is to be found by its side! happiness! - misery lurks beneath it!" "when you're the happiest you've ever been, you can't stay on that happy high forever" "the direct pursuit of happiness is likely to lead to unhappiness"
"Misery! - happiness is to be found by its side! happiness! - misery lurks beneath it!" "when you're the happiest you've ever been, you can't stay on that happy high forever" "the direct pursuit of happiness is likely to lead to unhappiness"
"Misery! - happiness is to be found by its side! happiness! - misery lurks beneath it!" "when you're the happiest you've ever been, you can't stay on that happy high forever" "the direct pursuit of happiness is likely to lead to unhappiness"
Citation: Joshanloo, Moshen, and Dan Weijers. "Aversion to Happiness Across Cultures." Pursuing Happiness: A Bedford Spotlight Reader. By Matthew Parfitt. Place of Publication Not Identified: Bedford Bks St Martin'S, 2015. 267-79. Print.
also get worse. When youre the happiest youve ever been, you cant stay on that happy high forever. It will end soon; but the same goes for misery. Just keep pushing through and your circumstance will change. Its just life.
Expressing Happiness Is Bad for You and
Others 1st Paragraph Pages 272-273
Its hard to contain happiness when you feel
it. I dont think its a bad thing to express happiness and Im not entirely sure how others could take it negatively.
the Japanese participants frequently
mentioned negative social consequences of expressing happiness, such as arousing others envy Page 273
I feel as if people would stop worrying about
other peoples happiness and focus on their own, then there wouldnt be as much envy and anger towards others. When they became comfortable with this, then they could go and create their own happiness instead of standing back and being envious of others.
some people fear extreme happiness
because you fear that God is going to single you out and make you die because things are going too well. Page 274
God is loving and wants you to be happy. The
reason people feel this way is because life has its ups and downs, and if youre up then you have to come down eventually.
-that the direct pursuit of happiness is likely
to lead to unhappiness Page 275
I agree with this because if youre constantly
seeking happiness that has to be obtained, youll never find happiness in the journey. Youll keep wanting more and more things to make you happy, yet youll never be satisfied with what you have.