The document provides guidance on techniques for ignoring inappropriate behavior, encouraging positive behavior, and promoting positive self-concept in children. It advises that if behavior is not dangerous or too distracting, one should avoid giving attention to the child [1]. However, harmful or property-damaging behavior should not be ignored [2]. When ignoring, the desired behavior should be stated [3]. Encouragement helps children feel confident and recognizes their efforts [1]. Promoting positive self-concept is important and can be done through praise, activities, and experiences that make children feel good about themselves [2-3].
The document provides guidance on techniques for ignoring inappropriate behavior, encouraging positive behavior, and promoting positive self-concept in children. It advises that if behavior is not dangerous or too distracting, one should avoid giving attention to the child [1]. However, harmful or property-damaging behavior should not be ignored [2]. When ignoring, the desired behavior should be stated [3]. Encouragement helps children feel confident and recognizes their efforts [1]. Promoting positive self-concept is important and can be done through praise, activities, and experiences that make children feel good about themselves [2-3].
The document provides guidance on techniques for ignoring inappropriate behavior, encouraging positive behavior, and promoting positive self-concept in children. It advises that if behavior is not dangerous or too distracting, one should avoid giving attention to the child [1]. However, harmful or property-damaging behavior should not be ignored [2]. When ignoring, the desired behavior should be stated [3]. Encouragement helps children feel confident and recognizes their efforts [1]. Promoting positive self-concept is important and can be done through praise, activities, and experiences that make children feel good about themselves [2-3].
If inappropriate behavior is not dangerous and not
too distracting, avoid giving the child attention.
Do not ignore if:
Don not look directly at child
Avoid acknowledging the behavior Behavior is harmful (verbally or physically) Damaging property
If you ignore, tell child what behavior you are
ignoring and the behavior you desire. Ex: Emily whines and uses baby talk to speak to Ms. Alexis. Ms. Alexis tells Emily seh will not pay attention to her until she uses her big girl voice. Emily continues to whine and Ms. Alexis ignores Emilys request.
Encouraging
Helps children believe in
themselves! Recognize their efforts and improvements Successful teachers want children to feel good about themselves Examples of good phrases to use:
You can do it all by yourself!
You know how it works. I know you can fix it. You were able to do it last week. You must be pleased.
Promoting Positive Self Concept
A childs self concept includes qualities the
child believes he or she possesses Promote a positive self-concept
Words and actions
Reactions Subtle messages Verbal and nonverbal feedback
Activities that make children feel good about
themselves Experiences that provide for student success