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POSITIVE STRATEGIES
TO BUILD
DISCIPLINE WITHOUT
PUNISHMENT
What
we
Need
to
see
Discipline
Teaches:
Knows
effec>ve
ways
Is
well
Knows
Knows
self-‐
to
solve
behaved
boundaries
control
problems
and
limits
PUNISHMENT
DOESN’T
WORK
MATERIAL
SOCIAL
REWARDS
ACTION
REWARDS
REWARDS
10.
CONSEQUENCES
Ø Natural
consequences:
Allowing your child to understand
and experience the natural outcome of their misbehavior.
§ “Because you threw your toy and broke it, you will not have that toy to play with anymore.”
Have a bigger
vision and think
about the whole
picture
( the future)
Why
TIME
IN
or
POSITIVE
TIME
OUT
works:
*Children
are
likely
to
feel
that
their
needs
are
being
considered
*There
can
be
connec>on
between
parent
and
child
before
a
correc>on
is
presented
*Children
are
given
>me
to
properly
process
a
range
of
feelings
*Parents
don’t
feel
out
of
control
or
create
a
power
struggle
to
keep
child
in
the
>me
out.
*Children
don’t
feel
isolated,
shamed
or
scared
*It
gives
parent
and
children
an
opportunity
to
talk
about
the
real
issue
at
hand
SELF-‐CALMING
AREA
/
COOL-‐DOWN
AREA
S
Small
changes…
Big
differences
Ø Be Fair!
It may vary from one child to another.
Ø Be Firm!
Stick to your rules. No negotiation .
Ø Be Consistent!
Discipline the same way every time that behavior occurs.
Don’t forget that,