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DREAMS
BY : T.K.SURYA PRAKASH
Ever wondered how successful people make it happen? What makes
them different from everyone else?
Its not as complicated as it seems. In fact the knowledge for how to chase
your dreams is surprisingly straight forward . So lets get to the good stuff,
shall we?
Making the decision to chase your dreams can be a frightening one. Making
large changes to your life and how you live it is never easy, but by breaking
the path to your dreams down into manageable goals, you can make the
transition a much easier one. Achieving your dreams is possible, you just
need a good plan.
you will need to achieve your dream; do you currently possess them or will
you need further training or education?
Try to determine a ballpark figure for how much your dream will cost to
pursue. If your dream is to open a business your budget requirements may
be much higher than if your dream is to learn to play the guitar.
Depending on the scope of your dream, you may be a long way away from
being a position to achieve them, but dont get discouraged; a journey of a
thousand miles begins with a single step.
3. Identify the obstacles preventing you from chasing your dreams.
You probably face challenges in your life that can directly affect your ability
to pursue your dreams. Assess those challenges and consider what sacrifices
you are willing to make to overcome them.
Money is the most common limitation when it comes to chasing dreams. You
may need to wait for some time in order to Save Money, or you may have
things you are willing to sell in pursuit of your goals.
Other limitations may include job security, having time, or a lack of skills or
training.
Make a list of possible solutions for each problem you come up with.
4. Make a list of goals associated with achieving your dreams.
This step will provide you with the basic framework of your plan moving
forward. Start by establishing a few broad goals, then identify a few smaller
goals within each one. Some examples could be:[3]
If your dream is to open a restaurant, your first goal could be to learn to
cook. Within than goal, sub-goals may be to attend culinary school,
If your dream is to become a musician, your first goal could be to perform a
live show, with a sub-goal of purchasing the amp and other equipment
necessary for a concert.
5. Complete your plan.
Now that you have identified your goals and the obstacles you face, its time
to establish your plan to chase your dreams. Create a step by step list of
be like if you begin making sacrifices on the road to your dreams, but you
cant get to where youre going without leaving where you are behind.[5]
You may eventually need to leave your job or move to a new area. These
changes can be daunting, but they may be necessary in order to follow your
dreams.
You may need to give up on hobbies or spend less time with your family or
friends as you work toward your goal. You will need to be able to accept that
as you strive to accomplish each task.
When you receive help from someone in accomplishing your goals, make
sure they know how much you appreciate their effort and assistance. People
are more likely to help you again if you demonstrate your appreciation and
you may find that showing gratitude leaves you feeling better about yourself
as well. When someone goes out of their way to assist you, send them a
thank you card or thank them in person as soon as you can.
Demonstrate an appreciation for those that support you by telling them how
grateful you are to have them by your side.
3. Change your plan as necessary.
You may find that some aspects of your plan need to be changed along the
way. Maybe youll gain new information or need adjust the scope of your
dream slightly as you come to have a better understanding of what it will
entail. Dont be afraid to adjust your goals as you pursue them to keep them
attainable, realistic, and beneficial to your overall cause.
If you find that a goal you listed is unnecessary or will inhibit your progress
toward your dream, do away with it or adjust it until it would benefit you.
Dont be afraid to change any aspect of the plan necessary as long as it
continues to point you in a beneficial direction.
4. Try to enjoy the process.
Dont forget to live your life while pursuing your dreams. If you devote all of
your time and energy to a singular cause, you may burn out and lose your
momentum. Instead allow yourself to enjoy being with friends and family
from time to time and try to devote yourself to a line of work you find
satisfaction in.
Remember that the journey is as important as the destination; allow yourself
some time to enjoy life on a regular basis.
Make your dream-chasing life a sustainable one, so even if you never
accomplish everything you set out to do, you will still enjoy your life.
Never Give Up
There will of course be days where you dont believe in your dreams,
question them, rethink them, lose sight in them or even deem them a failure.
But failure is good it makes the next attempt better. Try it again and fail
better. Fail until you succeed. Fail for the sake of failing. Dont be afraid of
failing it is undeniably the biggest drawback to success because if you
dont try, youll never know.
Never give up on your dreams. If you dont chase them, someone
else will.
Where theres a will, theres a way.
CHALLENGES TO BE FACED
Lets just get real and honest about a few things you can expect when you
take the big risk to pursue your dreams.
1. You are going to be very scared, more than once.
Fear may be paralyzing at times, yet the desire and passion to do what you
love has a stronger hold on you than fear ever could.
2. There are times you're going to be uncertain.
And it may be really, really uncomfortable. Its OK.
3. You're going to get way out of your comfort zone.
This is a good thing, because youre going to need to in order to grow and
expand the way your purpose asks you to.
4. Doubt will inevitably creep in.
You'll eventually learn to either laugh at it and yourself, or spend way too
long entertaining it and making tons of meaning out of it when you could be
chasing your dreams instead.
5. Youre going to piss some people off.
Not on purpose, of course at least I hope not! Sometimes people around
you are afraid of change, and they can certainly be intimated by happiness,
so if they try to create drama or conflict, remember: you cant control that
and you dont have get involved. The only thing you can control is how you
react to it. Choose wisely.
6. Youre going to learn what you're made of.
There will be times when you want to give up, when you question every
decision you made that day. Eventually you'll just decide to roll with it and
know that its part of the process. This will end up being incredibly rewarding.
7. You will get comfortable asking others for help.
Because you'll need to do it at some point along your journey.
8. There will come a day when you'll want to stop taking risks and
settle for something with more security.
You'll ponder it, you really will, then quite quickly you'll realize that living in
your genius is far more rewarding than a false sense of security. There is no
going back, because youve come this far and its simply time to just keep
going.
9. You will feel vulnerable.
You'll feel like you dont know if youre ready to share your art with the world
yet. Because its scary and so close to your heart, you almost believe it, or
maybe its simply you arent ready for it to be judged. This is normal.
10. There will be a day when youre as happy as a kid who just
discovered their first jump house, all smiles and laughter.
In this moment, you'll wonder, Why the hell did I wait so long? I've never felt
more alive in my entire life. The ups and downs are just part of this crazy
ride, and man, am I glad I didnt quit last week.
At the end of the day, the risk is always worth it. So have fun as you jump off
the cliff and enjoy the ride for what it is: a wild adventure.
Diagnosed with advanced testicular cancer at the age of 25, doctors gave
Lance Armstrong less than a 40 percent chance of recovery. Tumors were
discovered in his lungs and stomach along with multiple lesions on the brain.
His biking career was over or so everyone thought; but no one counted on
the indomitable belief Armstrong had in himself and the lessons which his
mother, Linda Walling had taught him.
One of the first things that he did was to acknowledge the disease that had
captured him in its talons and learn everything he could about it. He
devoured books, resources and found help in support groups with people
going through similar difficulties. One of the first things that he did was to
acknowledge the disease that had captured him in its talons and learn
everything he could about it. He devoured books, resources and found help
in support groups with people going through similar difficulties.
Lance sought strength in three things his mother had instilled in him. His first
comeback after beating cancer was not a success and he finished fourteenth
in the race. He returned from his training a transformed man and never let
the constant difficulties plough him down again.
player from Uttar Pradesh, lost her leg three years ago when some burglars
demanded her gold chain, and on her refusal, pushed her out of the moving
train. She was hit by a passing train and suffered severe injuries.
The ugly incident in 2011, which she describes as her darkest hour,
changed her life completely. But 26-year old Sinha stood tall and converted
this challenge into an opportunity, becoming the first woman amputee to
climb Mount Everest.
She joined Eco Everest Expedition group in the Tata Steel Adventure
Foundation-run training camp in Uttarkashi and got trained under ace
mountaineer Bachendri Pal. While going through a year-long rigorous mental
and physical training she would sometimes feel disheartened when she could
not catch up with normal people, but her strong dedication kept her going.
I would not have climbed Mount Everest if I had not met with the
accident. Though I lost my leg in the incident, it made me much
stronger. When I was going through a tough time, I remembered my
mothers words who told me that when on the edge, look behind
and see how much you have climbed and you will realize that you
are only one step away from your destination, she says.