Basic Sex Positions

If you have a smaller than average penis size there is no reason why your sexual life should
suffer in all aspects. What you need to do is think outside the box and develop solutions that can
help you in small situations. Here are 2 sex positions you can apply right away to help you out
with this situation.

1. Missionary variance - Try this version of the standard missionary position. You're actually still
doing the position of the same stance, woman lying on her back and the man kneeling and
entering from the front. The variance comes with wedging a soft object like a pillow or a cushion
right under her lower back. This is going align you perfectly with her special place and ensure a
lesser distance between your groin areas.

2. The Missionary Position

The Missionary position is the basic sex position that almost everyone thinks of when they first
hear the words “sex” or “sexual intercourse.”

HOW TO DO IT:

The girl lies on her back, with her legs spread far enough apart for her partner to get in between
them.

The guy enters her, supporting his weight on his knees/thighs and hands (or elbows), and uses
thrusts of his pelvis to move his cock in and out of her pussy. The guy could also rest his weight
on the girl, but that tends to limit her ability to help control the thrusts.

There are a variety of things the girl can do with her body during this. She can just lay there with her
legs outstretched (boring), but she can also bend her legs at the knees, or pull her legs back as close to
her head as she can (either bending her legs or not). She can also wrap her legs around the guy. The
further she pulls her legs back, the deeper the penis can go into the vagina.
If the girl has control of her Kegels (PC muscles) , and can learn to flex them in time with the guy’s
thrusts, the guy can get off in a hurry. She can let her hands wander around various parts of his body –
she can play with his nipples if he’s into that, or grab his waist and help control the guy’s thrusting.

One variant of this position has the girl keeping her legs closed, and the guy positioning his legs on the
outside of hers. He enters her in the same manner. This causes the vagina to be tighter around the
guy’s penis.

PROS:

This position is very easy to do, and allows for deep penetration (this can be bad, too, for the girl, esp. if
the guy has a long penis).

The position allows for greater face-to-face contact – the two participants can see each other’s facial
expressions, etc. It is very easy to kiss each other.

CONS:

Because of the in and out nature of the thrusts, there is generally little direct stimulation of the clit,
which many girls need to achieve orgasm. This can be alleviated by having the guy thrust in and grind
onto the girl’s pubic area a little bit!  The girl can match or reciprocate the grinding to help things
progress as well.

Since the guy is the one supporting all of his weight (unless he is resting on top of her), he can tire
easily.

OTHER NOTES:

It is possible to do anal in this position, though it is not recommended for first-time anal due to the
angle at which the penis will be entering the anus, and the likelihood of it slipping out (esp. with
shorter penises).

3. Reverse Missionary - This is the reverse of standard missionary, with the woman on top and the
man on the bottom. The reason this is not cowgirl is because she will lye down close to your
chest just like the man in missionary position. The reason this little change of her lying close to
your body is so special is because your pelvic area will be rubbing against her clitoris area with
friction. This combined with her controlling the motion will help her find her magic spot. 

The 69 Position
The 69 position, so-named for the two bodies’ positions relative to each other – resembling a 6 and a 9,
is a mutual oral sex position.
HOW TO DO IT:
One person lies down. The other person will turn into a position with their feet toward the other
person’s head, and their head toward the first person’s feet, and get into a position on top of the first
person, such that their face is directly over the naughty bits of the person lying down. From that point,
the two people perform oral sex upon each other. Typically, the person on top is on his/her knees and
elbows, though some do it with the person on top literally resting on top of the bottom person.
 

When 69 involves a guy and a girl, generally, the guy is on the bottom. This allows the girl to go down
on the guy, and remain in control of how deep she takes the guy’s cock into her mouth. If the guy is on
top, it is harder for him to concentrate on how far into her mouth he’s pushing his cock if he’s the one
doing the movement. This can be dangerous because if he pushes too far into the back of her throat,
there can be negative consequences! Of course, it is possible for the girl to be responsible for all of the
movement required for the oral sex even if the guy is on top, though it is a little harder to do than if she
were on top. Allowing the guy to cum in your mouth in this position allows for the cum to go right
down the hatch as well!

It is possible for the two partners to insert their fingers into the orifices of the other (vaginal or anal) in
this position, though it is much easier for the one on the bottom to do so than for the one on top. One
of my favorite things to do when someone is on top of me is to wrap my arms under and around their
legs to play with their asshole while I am performing oral on them. This can be done by the person on
top as well, but it is just a little harder to do.

One variant for this is for the person on top (the girl, usually) can lift herself up and basically assume a
position of sitting on the bottom’s face.

Another variant is for the two people to be lying on their sides, with one leg raised, bent at the knee,
and foot on the bed (or w/e). This will allow for easier access by both people. You can prevent the neck
from tiring by resting your head on the other person’s thigh.

PROS:

Orgasm contests – see who can make the other one cum first! 

CONS:

Doesn’t work well for couples who are not of reasonably similar heights.

For some people, having to focus on pleasing the other prevents them from enjoying the attention they
are getting! It is practical, however, for one person to bring the other one off, and then allow the roles
to reverse.

OTHER INFO:

If you’re into eating ass (rimming, etc.), the person on top (guy or girl) can assume the “sitting on the
face” position and the bottom can lavish attention upon the top’s anal region.

The bottom can make things easier on their neck if they find a small pillow or something to put under
their head to help hold their head up a little while performing oral. This will make it easier on the neck
muscles

The Doggy Position

This position is named for the position that dogs (and many other animals) have sex with each other.

HOW TO DO IT:

The woman assumes a position on her hands and knees, with her ass facing the guy. The guy gets behind
the woman, on his knees, and inserts his penis into her vagina (or asshole if they’re doing anal). One or
both partners can provide the thrusts necessary to make this position work.

The guy has a very nice view of the girl’s ass, and this provides a significant stimulation for the guy
(since guys are largely visually oriented towards sex).

The guy can reach around and either play with the girl’s boobs or masturbate her clit while he’s
thrusting. He can also play with her asshole, and even insert fingers or a dildo into her ass if she’s
willing to let him do it. Of course, she can also masturbate herself while doing it doggy style! 

This position can be very intense because it will allow both partners to thrust as hard as they want to,
assuming they’ve got their timing worked out. The guy can grab the girl’s shoulders and push deep into
her with each thrust. If the girl knows how to control her Kegels (PC Muscles), and can synchronize
those with her thrusts, it can be a powerful orgasm for the guy.

The movement of the guy’s penis typically causes it to brush against the front wall of the girl’s vagina,
thereby stimulating her G-spot. This, in combination with masturbation of her clit (by him or her) can
lead to great orgasms on her part as well.

There are several variants of this position – standing, with the female leaning against a wall; sitting,
with the girl leaning back onto the guy’s penis; spooning, where the two partners are lying down and
the guy is entering her from behind; and a position where the girl is lying flat on her stomach, with the
guy penetrating her from above (this one works best with anal).

PROS:

Visually intense for the guy. Good G-Spot stimulation for the girl!

Both partners can work on making sex as intense as they can stand it, since the position allows for the
maximum amount of movement by both of them.

Ease of movement from vaginal to anal intercourse, if desired.

CONS:

May be tiring for the girl after a period of time.

Some may not like the relative lack of intimacy in that the two partners can’t see each other’s facial
expressions, kiss, etc.

OTHER INFO:

This is *the* recommended position for first-time anal sex as far as I’m concerned. The ease of
movement, combined with the fact that the girl can be in complete control of the speed, the depth,
and just about all other aspects of the penetration makes it ideal for the first time anal experience.
Additionally, the guy has a good visual to assist him with inserting his cock into her ass.

Doing doggy from a standing position makes for an excellent quickie just about anywhere.

 The Cowgirl (Girl on Top) Position

The cowgirl position is basically the reverse of the Missionary position, and is another very common one.

HOW TO DO IT:

The guy lies on his back, legs together.

The girl straddles him and inserts the penis into her vagina, and moves up and down or back-and-forth
to cause the in-and-out motion. She rests on her knees/shins, and can lean down and rest her hands
next to the guy’s chest, face, etc. It is also possible for her to extend her legs outward, which will make
up-and-down movements harder to perform.

The guy can play with her chest with his hands, rub them over her body, and/or grab a hold of her waist
to help control the movements/thrusts. He can help with the sex by pelvic thrusts or rocking his hips
back and forth. The girl can sit up and play with her boobs for the guy if desired.

If the girl has learned to control her Kegels (PC muscles), then she can add this into the process to help
bring the guy off.

PROS:

Gives the girl better control of the stimulation on her clit, since it is possible for her to push against the
guy’s pelvic area. Girls typically get off more frequently in this position than the standard Missionary
position.

The position allows for greater face-to-face contact – the two participants can see each other’s facial
expressions, etc. It is very easy to kiss each other, and most girls *really* enjoy having their boobs
played with (fondle her boobs, lightly pinch her nipples, suck/lick/bite them, etc. - I *love* having my
nipple ring played with in this position!)

CONS:

Some girls may experience cramps in the legs in some cases (esp. if their legs are not as toned as they
could be).

No others to speak of, though the guy’s inability to thrust as intensely as he might want may be
considered less-than desirable.

OTHER NOTES:

It is possible to do anal in this position, though it is not recommended for first-time anal due to the
angle at which the penis will be entering the asshole, and the likelihood of it slipping out (esp. with
shorter penises).
One variant of this position involves the guy actually assuming a sitting position, and the girl sitting on
his penis in the same manner outlined above. This allows for a very intimate, face-to-face, “both sets of
hands around each other” embrace that can heighten the sensuality of it. Try sitting there for as long as
you can endure it after penetration, without moving – see how long you can make out before you
absolutely have to start having sex.

Backwards Cowboy
This is so pleasurable for both you and her. You want her to get on top of you like  normal. But have her
turn around, and lay her back on your chest. Why is this important? It gives you easy access to her
clitoris. This position allows her to control the speed of the movement and allows you the chance to
manipulate the clit. This is a great way to give women wild screaming orgasms. The

Reverse Cowgirl Position

The Reverse Cowgirl position is my favorite for sex with a guy. It has the benefit of providing great
stimulation to my G-Spot, and therefore ranks right up there at the top in my book! 

HOW TO DO IT:

The guy lies on his back, with his legs generally together.

The girl sits on the guy, facing his feet, and inserts his penis into her vagina. The girl can either sit on her
knees and shins, or can extend her feet out toward his feet. Since for most guys it is difficult to bend the
penis straight out, the most common position for the girl is with her feet extended out or to the side. If
the guy wants to spread his legs a little, the girl can accommodate him by moving her legs further apart
as well.

The girl leans back and supports her weight on her hands, placed next to the guy’s chest, face, etc. The
guy initiates the “in-and-out” through pelvic thrusts, which the girl can move against with similar pelvic
thrusts (opposing those of the guy, of course). The girl basically is in control of the angle, depth, etc. the
entire time.

 
Some girls require clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm, so it may be necessary (desirable) for the girl
to masturbate herself using one hand, maintaining balance with the other. Alternatively, the girl can
reach down and play with the guy’s balls/penis.

The guy can either hold on to the girl’s waist (or her ass even) to help control the thrusting, or can
reach around to the girl’s chest and play with her boobs.

PROS:

For girls who are capable of G-Spot stimulation, this position affords *terrific* stimulation potential
because the position forces the guy’s penis against the front wall of the vagina where the G-spot is
located. The action of the guy’s cock massaging the G-Spot can result in an intensely pleasurable
feeling.

The sensitive underside of the guy’s cock head rubs against the inside of the vagina, resulting in very
intense pleasure for the guy as well. 

2. Falling down - Ok, no one likes to be falling down this position but it will feel like it with this unique
type technique. So, this will fall into a from behind category with the woman's knees close to the edge of
the bed. Have her back up high so you are only supporting her with your body from falling down off of
the bed. This works well because first of all from behind is already good position for a less endowed
man. Secondly, she will feel like she may fall off the bed which will tighten her up as she tightens up her
body3. Opening end - You don't always have to get deep penetration for maximum sensation. Actually,
the opening area of her vaginal canal has the most sensitive nerve endings in the entire area. So with
this in mind, try using slow show for us along with a back and forth or a circular motion. 

4. Grab something - This works in the reverse cowgirl position. This one will require some props, well
one anyway. If there is a table or desk near the bed definitely try this position. While she is on top facing
away from you have her reach out and extend her arms, reaching for the desk or table. This angle will
create a perfect alignment for you to hit her G. spot.

Be her best lover ever by trying these 3 sexual positions.

1. The Pancake - Funny name, totally understandable. Women who have increased vaginal
sensitivity will absolutely become infatuated with this position. Have her lay flat on the bed. Lay
on top of her and enter her laying flat on her back. The whole point of this position is to
stimulate the G-Spot. It's not doggy style please note. Both of your are flat on the bed or floor.
 Once she feels what it's like to have her magical zone stimulated, it may be hard for her to try
any other position.
2. The Wheelbarrow - Are you in shape? Hopefully your are because this is going to be a little more
work, but man is it worth it. Stand next to the bed and grab her legs, with you between them.
She is on her back. Simply pull her into you and then let her go back a bit and do it again. This is
great for getting deeper penetration, especially if your are not all that well endowed.

3. . Piledriver - this position can be performed in regular in missionary. The only

differences is you're going to lift her legs up so that they're pointing towards the
ceiling. Rest her ankles on your shoulders or rest her feet on your chest.

4. Why it's hot: you should be able to apply lots of friction to her clitoris and provide
deep penetration. Also, the angle that is created from her arching her back will align
while to her G. spot

5. 2. Reverse missionary edge - this is the opposite of standard missionary because

the man will be on Bob in the woman will be on top. The reason it is missionary is
because the woman lies forward touching your chest.

6. Why this works: since she is on top she can control the movements and the pace.
Also, while she's leaning forward her movements will actually stimulate her clitoris
through body friction. This will also reduce the chance of your member popping out.

7. 3. Closed rear entry - position her were typical rear entry, down on all fours. Place
a pillow under her belly for her to rest on. Push her legs together so they are closed
or have her cross her legs.

8. What this does - by closing or crossing her legs you are tightening the area of the
vaginal walls. This will make your penis feel much larger and create a tighter fit
which will provide generous friction to all her pleasure points.

9. 1. The Lusty Mission: have her to sit on the edge of bed or sofa and spread her
legs. She lean backward slightly and support herself on hands. You position yourself
in between her legs, with your knees planted on the floor. As she faces you, she lift
up her right hand and rest on your shoulder. She can also bend her left knees for
ease of deep penetration. You will be able to thrust almost effortlessly and move at
any speed you want. As well, it allows your groin to hit the A-spot at the inner
vaginal canal. This joy button is often ignored but full of pleasure-receptive nerve.
When you apply consistently pressure to it, it will make her climax insanely
pleasurable!

10. #2. The Roller: with this position, you will need a firm wedge-shaped pillow. Put
the pillow beneath her pelvis. She raise her legs and keep them as close to the chest
as possible. You bend forward with your torso against her thighs. That way, you will
be able to thrust in-and-out. This pose will make her feel erotically thrilling thanks to
the tantalizing tight fit. To take advantage of this position, tell her to contract her Pc
muscle every time you thrust. It will intensify orgasmic response for you both!

11. 1. Missionary with a mission: Next time you go into the regular old-fashioned
missionary position, go into it with a new mission - to make it a nonstandard and
mind blowing position. Here's how to do it. Have her lying on her back and apply a
 pillow under her hips. To make sure she is fully propped up use a firm pillow to do
this. Enter from the front in half kneeling position and close her legs together.

12. The Sensation: By closing her legs you create a tighter fit leading to increase
stimulation against the vaginal wall. By using the pillow you create a direct line of
contact between your groin in her vaginal canal.

13. 2. Lap Dance: You'll want her to straddle on top of you facing away. Instead of just
doing an up-and-down thrust, try thrusting in small circles and grabbing her hips to
stable her. Have her dance round and round in a circular motion and also lift up your
knees.

14. The Sensation: A circular motion creates lots of friction on her your groin areas and
her clitoris. By lifting your knees you are able to create much deeper penetration.

15. 3. Desktop Rear Entry: Have her bend over while standing up onto the surface of
desk or table. Enter her from behind rear entry position and have her keep her legs
closed.

16. The Sensation: With her legs closed the extra tight fit will make both of you satisfied.
Also, the angle of this position creates generous G spot stimulation and increase the
overall likelihood of an orgasm.

17. 1. The bridge - this is a form of a butterfly position whereas the man is entering
from the front. This starts with missionary position with the woman lying on her
back. Next the woman will suspend her self in the air by reaching her 2 arms back
and placing her hands on the bed. Also, she will have her feet flat on the bed. The
man enters kneeling. Hold her back or her hips to help her support herself in the air.
The position helps for deep penetration and for finding the G. spot.

18. 2. Butterfly on the edge - this is a butterfly position with the woman laying down
towards the edge of the bed. The man will kneel on the floor next to the edge of the
bed and enter from the front. Place the woman's legs up word towards the ceiling.
Her casts or ankles can rest on the man shoulders. This is one of the most deep
penetrating butterfly positions that you can perform.

19. 3. Scissors - this is a position with bowlful partners lying on one side of their body.
Place her legs pulled between your legs. The way this position is angled is in a way
that looks like your bodies are forming a T formation. The man will be this side to
side of the T and the woman will be the up-and-down line of T. this position allows
for any unusual angle of penetration.

20. PLEASE NOTE: these are more advanced sex positions that can be uncomfortable
when first trying. Also, if you are little bit smaller than average with the size of your
penis you may consider performing some more basic techniques. Or,
consider increasing the size your penis through a penis enlargement program.

21. Now, we will discuss the cowgirl position. This is such a great position especially for
women while many men make this their favorite position as well. The reason many
women enjoy this position is because they get to control the movements, the pace
and angles. Most women know what they want as far as the location inside them that
 brings the most pleasure. Most people only think about the cowgirl position being
only one position. That's not the case.

22. Here are 3 different cowgirl positions to try:

23. 1. Reverse Asian cowgirl - this is they reverse cowgirl position with a slight
variance. The woman is on top facing away from the man's face. Instead of her
knees resting on the bed or whatever object you are laying on, she will be planting
her feet on the surface. Lift your knees up so she can hold onto them with their
hands for support.

24. 2. See-saw - to set up in this position the man sits up straight with her is legs
straight out. The woman sits on top of him with her legs planted on the sides. The
woman can put her hands on the man's shoulders to support her and hold her up.
This position allows for limited movement but provides maximum friction in the groin
areas.

25. 3. The armchair - this is a little more advanced cowgirl position and may take a
couple times to get this one down. The man sits up with his legs flat and supports
himself up by placing his hands on the bed. With the woman on top, she will place
her legs over the man's shoulders around her knee area. She will also hold herself up
by placing her arms and hands on the bed. This one may be a little bit difficult but
the rewards are great if performed correctly.

26. Men with bigger sized penises have the biggest advantage in pleasuring women. If
you feel like you are little bit on the short end of the stick, so to speak, you may
consider performing some penis exercises that can help you increase size rather
quickly and train you to last longer.
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