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50 Shades of Foreplay
Keeping Marriage Alive by Seducing your
Spouse
For the Common Good
I Begin in the name of God the Compassionate the Merciful

Why Sex?
Sex is a blessing from the Almighty to
humanity. Following divine guidance can
enable us to enjoy heaven in a limited
way on earth.
Sex is a powerful life energy which if
harnessed can not only lead to new life
but through the process provide joy and
peace.
Accepting ourselves and our spouses as
we are and using creativity to keep
marriage fresh allows us to enjoy our
spouses till death do us part.
Sex is not dirty, it can lead to a life time of
intimacy and fulfillment that no other
experience in life can fill.
Go ahead and thank God for his infinite
blessings.
Acceptance
One of the secrets to happiness in life
is accepting who we are and
accepting our spouse for who they
are.
Unfortunately, especially in the
Western world where individuality is
prized and success measured by
materialistic gains sometimes it easy
to get lost.
Accepting our and our spouses
physicality, shape and size can lead to
contentment.
God has distributed his beauty both
inner and outer throughout humanity.
It us up to us to discover this beauty
and to share this intimately with our
spouses.
What is Love?
“Let there be spaces in your togetherness, And
let the winds of the heavens dance between
you. Love one another but make not a bond of
love: Let it rather be a moving sea between the
shores of your souls. Fill each other's cup but
drink not from one cup. Give one another of
your bread but eat not from the same loaf. Sing
and dance together and be joyous, but let each
one of you be alone, Even as the strings of a
lute are alone though they quiver with the
same music. Give your hearts, but not into
each other's keeping. For only the hand of Life
can contain your hearts. And stand together,
yet not too near together: For the pillars of the
temple stand apart, And the oak tree and the
cypress grow not in each other's shadow.”
― Kahlil Gibran, The Prophet
“Awesome sex can’t be had without awesome foreplay.”
Welcome and greetings of Peace.

Why have we created this online resource? Many of the books and
online resources focus on Sexual positions including the Kama Sutra.
Besides consisting of nudity which based on all religious and moral
teachings is wrong, they do not offer much in the way that normal
people can learn, experiment or practice.

Although we are not religious scholars we apply Islamic/common sense

rules of avoiding promoting things like anal sex, fantasy sex the kind
that implies fornication or that which leads to immorality.
We are trying to find that middle ground which is not a text based thesis
and guide, which is not helpful to most visual people or the other
extreme of full or partial nudity which is troubling in its own way.
We believe sex in history and across religion and cultures is something
that lawfully takes place between husband and wife. We want to
promote that sanctity.

In marriage what initially attracts you over time becomes boredom.

Rather than divert our emotions and energies to others we want to find
creative options for couples to every so often reinvent their marriage.

With the 50 shades title you may be expecting a lot of wild and possible
questionable things. We believe there is a lot of sexual exploration and
joy can be achieved without compromising dignity and self-respect, so
we have opted not to include BDSM, sex toys, Pornography etc. This is
what this content is about.
We do not claim any copyrights on the images and share what is in the
common good.
Let’s start with 7 Shades
1. Set the scene: Remove clutter, make the room look,
smell and feel gorgeous. Add mood candles, music

2. Create anticipation: Keep an element of surprise,

danger, secrecy that makes you feel like teenagers

3. Sensual thoughts: Let your mind wander about your

spouse and place both of you in a dream location

4. Cleanliness: Take a bubble bath or a shower. Both men

and women should clean their armpits, and private
parts of pubic hair. Fragrance can never mask bad body
odor.

5. Massage: Learn to give each other a full body massage.

Besides bathing this is one of the best ways to relax.

6. Creativity: Just as when you become bored with your

house, you don't just move. You can repaint it, move
the furniture around, the same holds true for your
marriage. Even more so marriage is for life. So go ahead
and make small changes that keep you motivated.

7. Massage her breasts and body with scented oils

Let’s continue with 3 more
Shades
8. In the privacy of your home flirt, strip, kiss, stroke,
embrace, and go wild with each other.

9. Play with the power of touch using a feather, or back

scratcher, brush.

10. Put an ice-cube or popsicle in your mouth and kiss your

way across your partners hot skin
11. Sexual Energy
Spiritual sex allows couples to give and receive sexual energy
12. The Kiss: door opener
13. Doing a striptease
14.or a Belly dance
15. Undressing each other
16. Have a pillow fight
playful flirtation
17. Enjoy a food fest
18. Erotic picnic
19. Relax in the bathtub
20. Make love in the shower
Make sure to have intercourse in vagina (not Anal)
 10 Rules of doing a striptease for
your spouse

1.No touching by the other partner

2.Lights on, but keep dim and if
possible a spotlight on the area
you will do your act
3.Chose music that you finds turns
you on (and your spouse)
4.Put on some baby oil for body
sheen
5.Extraordinary outfit
6.Go wild and throw your clothes
off one by one
7.Try to keep a side angle view
where possible instead of full
frontal
8.Draw out the tease
9.Touch yourself the way you
would like to be touched by your
spouse.
10.Have fun, laugh, and don’t
become self-conscious.
21.Blindfold your partner
Use the power of touch to build desire
 6 Steps to a Sexy Massage

1) MAKE SOME SPACE

• An ideal massage area is firm, flat & stable
• Emphasis on comfort
2) BREAK OUT THE OIL
• Reduces friction, allows for better massage
capability, & makes it easier to alleviate tired
& stressed out muscles
• Opt for a lightly scented oil
 Warm the bottle of oil in hot water prior
3) CREATE A PEACEFUL VIBE
• No distractions
• Tie hair back & wear close-fitting attire
• Drape partner’s body with a sheet & slowly
uncover the parts of the body being worked
on
• Keep music slow & soft
22.Give a full body massage
It will help you to relax, but avoid going for the genitals
6 Steps to a Sexy Massage
4) PICK A SPOT, ANY SPOT
•Concentrate on a focal point or two
•Ask your partner where he/she would like to be
massaged
5) GET HANDS ON
• Compression: Lay one hand flat, press the other
hand on top of it, & rotate slowly.
• Stroking: Keep fingers together, thumbs parallel,
& palms in full contact with massage area, &
make long, gentle movements. Apply more
pressure towards the heart & less away from it.
• Kneading: Lift & squeeze the area, with palms in
full contact of partner’s skin.
• Friction: Done without oil to loosen up deep
muscle tissue. Anchor the massage area with one
hand, & use the other to deeply press or rub. Use
fingers for smaller areas.
6) FOCUS ON THE FEELINGS
• “The quality of your touch is more important
than technique.”
Erogenous Zones
 23.Going for Erogenous
zone 1
The Breasts and Nipple. They come in all shapes and sizes.
They are very sensitive, so work with your spouse for a
mutually pleasurable experience.
 24. Going for Erogenous
zone 2
The Naval. A beautiful canvas to explore
 25. Going for Erogenous
zone 3
Behind the thigh. A hidden gem
 26.Going for Erogenous
zone 4
Behind the ears. Go gentle
 27. Going for Erogenous
zone 5
Ears. Get ready for Aural Sex.
Flirtatious foreplay
28. Seduce your husband
Wear a trench coat and as soon as he comes into the house
you can meet and greet him. Or you can change in the
bathroom and then give him a show

Music On
Lights Dim
Slow moves
 Man on Top Face-to-Face

•Pros
–Ease of insertion of penis into vagina
–Good for kissing and eye contact
–Woman can touch/stroke the man’s
body
–Wide variation of leg positions for
woman
•Cons
–Difficult for man to caress woman’s
body
–Only moderate clitoral stimulation
from thrusting
–Less control of male ejaculation
29. Missionary Style
30. Perfect Angle
Can use multiple pillows to prop up her lower back and hips.
Woman on Top Face-to-Face

•Pros
–Woman has more control over angle
of penetration, movement, and angle
and speed of thrusting
–Usually considered best position for
woman’s orgasm
–Partners may caress each other’s
body
–Easier to control male ejaculation
•Cons
–Difficult for man to thrust with his
hips
–Less stimulation for man if he has
difficulty reaching orgasm
31. Woman on top 1
32. Woman on top 2
 Side by Side, Face-to-
Face
•Pros
–Neither partner is supporting own or other’s weight
–Not physically demanding
–Good for extended coitus
–Shallower penetration
–Good for controlling ejaculation
•Cons
–Difficult to insert penis into vagina
–Difficult clitoral stimulation
–Difficult for hard thrusting
–Chance of penis slipping out of vagina during thrusting
33. ‘Spiritual’ Sex
34. Rocking horse
35. On the edge of the bed 1
36. On the edge of the bed 2
37. Sex sitting on chair
38. Side-by-side positions
Make sure to have intercourse in vagina (not Anal)
39.Oral Sex
40. Different Angles
Make sure to have intercourse in vagina (not Anal)
41.Sex in the kitchen
42. Adventurous Sex
43. Sex with health issues
44. Thrusting Secrets
Although most men thrust in and out during intercourse, a
better way to help your spouse warm up is by placing the tip
of your penis in the vagina and using it to stroke the vagina’s
walls in circles. Again there is no one way, this is one of
many experiments you can try.
45.Sex in Fantasy Land
You could be in the King’s Harem, Doctor and nurse,
survivors on an island. Let your imagination run wild and role
play.
46. Have a Lingerie Fashion
show
Give your wife $100 or two to spend on Lingerie eg at
Victoria’s Secret and then in the privacy of your bedroom,
music and lights have a fashion show.
47. Exotic locations are sexy
48. Go Camping
Make love under the stars
49. Have a water fight
50. Make out anywhere
that’s not public
But you have the fear of getting caught
Thank you and hope you
found this to be helpful.
Foreplay in conclusion is an attitude. It lasts way longer than
the actual climax of intercourse and with it you can within
bounds try a lot of creativity. Foreplay is also art.

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