"Is it wrong for a married couple to have sex just for pleasure?

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Answer: Almost an entire book in the Old Testament is dedicated to the subject of passion and sex for
pleasure. Song of Solomon is so detailed in its intention of sexual pleasure in marriage that allegories
were used to tone it down and Hebrew boys couldn't read it until they were 12, when they became
men. God clearly intended sex in marriage to be pleasurable. First Corinthians 7:3-5 talks about not
abstaining from sex in marriage: "But because of immoralities, each man is to have his own wife, and
each woman is to have her own husband. The husband is to fulfill his duty to his wife, and likewise also
the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does,
and likewise also the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Stop
depriving one another, except by agreement for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer,
and come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control."

The feelings of sexual longings and pleasure during sex were created by God, and marriage was created
to fulfill those longings. What Paul is saying is to direct those feelings to your spouse and no other and
make sure that they are fulfilled within your marriage relationship, not outside of it. Notice that Paul
says if one of the partners is not living up to his or her spouse’s expectations, whether it be pleasure or
time, then both need to bring it before God so that one doesn't try to find fulfillment outside of that
marriage relationship. Because of the existence of pornography and the perversion of sex over the
years, many people (especially Christians) get the idea that pleasurable sex is wrong. We sometimes
forget that God fashioned us for sex and created the emotions to go with it; pleasure was intended. We
shouldn’t let Satan and his lies keep us from enjoying our spouses or fall into the counterfeit pleasure of
sex that the world offers. God's pleasure is real and satisfying; Satan's is counterfeit and empty.