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eye level. But Mom didn’t see it because she was staring into the
open closet. Half of it was empty, a stray tie dangling from a wire
hanger like an exclamation point. Mom gasped as she stared into
this void, not too loudly, but loudly enough. We all looked up at
her.
But when she turned around she wore a tight smile, although
her chin trembled. “Let’s find Daddy,” she chirped. “He must be
here somewhere.”
She began calling his name, stumbling from room to room,
finding the bathroom devoid of his toiletries and the linen closet
bare. Her act worked on me. My dread subsided, and I skipped
gaily after her, calling for Dad and thinking that he had devised a
new game of hide and seek, only removing his possessions to show
that he wasn’t hiding there.
After five desperate minutes of calling his name, my mother
switched on a Strawberry Shortcake video and filled our hands with
crackers. We sisters grinned at each other—watching cartoons was
more exciting than our usual routine of changing our clothes and
getting ready for dinner. But the change made me wary, and dread
began to pool in the bottom of my stomach. Usually Dad would
be here, too, just waking up or removing his tie if it hadn’t been a
late night.
Mom went to her bedroom and shut the door. Over the cheer-
ful cartoon voices, I could hear her talking in a hushed yet frantic
voice on the telephone. Chloe wanted to pick up the kitchen exten-
sion to see if Dad was on the other line. I wouldn’t let her. The
dread in my stomach made me think that Dad wasn’t on the line
and that Dad wasn’t coming home. Grandma was probably the
one comforting my mother right now; doubtless the envelope was
lying opened in my mother’s lap.
the weather or maybe why Daddy left, we turned on the music and
sang.
Dad would crank up the volume, and we would crank up our
voices. Singing together bonded us.
I know all of the words by heart. I’ve sung them my entire life,
trying to hold on to that feeling in the car, the one where we were
together belting out our love for each other. The words that stick
the most are: “Driving down the road I get a feeling that I should’ve
been home yesterday, yesterday!” We’d practically shout the end of
this line along with Mr. Denver, our voices cracking with the effort.
We’d laugh and keep on singing.
This line takes on new meaning to me now. Was my Dad trying
to tell us something? Did he wish that he were home with us? Did
he have a feeling that he should have been home yesterday? I don’t
know the answers to these questions.
My mom once mentioned that after she remarried, my dad
expressed to her the wish that he had stayed, that they had worked
things out, gone to counseling, made amends. I wish all of those
things had happened, too, but maybe that wasn’t realistic. Maybe
my dad only said those things when he realized my mom was
remarried, that he couldn’t have his old life back, that he couldn’t
see us as often because we had moved. I don’t know.
What I do know is that I love my dad and that I cherish that
memory of singing John Denver in his truck.