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IN THIS ISSUE
April 2007

From Our Desk to Yours

For those of us with children, we have weathered Spring Break and come out of it unscathed! There are some of us who have managed to spend quality time with our kids during this time, some of us who have not been affected by the break at all and then there are some of us who have simply prayed and hoped for schools to re-open so that we could get back to our lives! Team Masala has been working consistently in bringing forth yet another issue through which we can continue to entertain you. On the cover for this issue, we have Viji Reddy. Viji is an accomplished artist who creates a successful fusion of eastern and western interiors with textiles for home furnishings. She is an important part of our community and has a great personality that goes really well with her talent.

On The Cover
12 8 14 16 18 22 36 Viji - An Artist with a Cause Achievers Club: Real Estate Gurus. Beauty with Shahnaz: Take Care of your Hands. The Legal Corner: PERM - Procedures & Changes. Cricket: The World Cup Line Up. Bollywood: The Return of Madhuri Dixit. Spotted Around Town: Issues faced as desis in the US.

The real estate market bubble has popped, or has it? If you were to believe the screaming headlines in the media, you would be eager to jump in and get a great deal. More sellers than buyers, is this really the time to buy real estate in Florida? Dont want to miss the boat? Read what our featured realtors in Achievers Club (pages 8, 10 & 39) have to say. Find out what makes each person we have featured stand out and become successful in their business. We also provide contact information of the people we feature so that it is easier for our readers to contact them. As promised, we bring you a brand new column, Spotted Around Town (page 36), where we interviewed a few people in the Tampa Bay area. The question for this month was, what issues/advantages/ disadvantages do desis face in America? We would love to get your feedback on this column and we would be happy to address any concerns that you may have. Send in your questions. We may choose one of them as the featured question for the column. Write to us at desi@citymasala.com. Also, when you see Team Masala in your area trying to interview you, please dont be shy. Come forward so that your views can be heard through CityMasala. Our hands are the most used part of our body and possibly the most ignored! Shahnaz writes about taking better care of your hands, and gives you ideas on various ways to pamper them. Amit Dehra unravels the Perm process in The Legal Corner, which is a two part article. As always, DJ Jafar brings you the music scene while Javid, an avid fan and player of the game of cricket, talks about the World Cup. Nandini brings you the latest buzz along with information on some movies in the making from Bollywood. Auntyji addresses concerns that parents-in-law have expressed and Sanjay Puranik tackles the pecs in the effort to help you build on your core exercises to keep you physically fit and strong. Daru Ka Nasha is about alcohol from Canada, where Ashish has spent some amount of time. A wireless TV? Believe it or not, Samsung is launching one! Turn to page 30 to see what Vish has to say. Please remember that taxes are due by April 17th , 2007. For those of you who have not yet completed them, please contact your tax consultant or refer to our March issue to find a tax consultant. We love to get your feedback, keep writing to us at editor@citymasala.com or info@citymasala.com.

Also In this Issue

18 20 20 23 26 28 28 30 32 32 34 38 Top Ten Desi Countdown. Health Talk: Raising Self Esteem In Your Child. The Parents Chat Room. Reel Talk: Movie Reviews. Auntyji Ko Pucho. Daru Ka Nasha: The Canadian Connection. Dining: Restaurant Review. TechTalk: Top Gadgets for 2007, Part II. In The Kitchen: Recipe - Chana Chaat. CityMasala Book Club: Book Review - The Palm Leaf & Other Stories. Body Talk: Perk Those Pecs. Star Lite Star Brite: This Months Horoscope.

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Ameer and Sofia Lakhani PINNACLE MORTGAGE REALTY

self? Sofia: We were very fortunate that we started in this industry during its boom. Ameer focused on business opportunities and commercial investments, while I worked with residential clients. We have been involved in at least 200 buy-sell transactions, and have been multi-million dollar producers every year. We have also won numerous awards, in addition to investing and flipping for ourselves. Were more interested in building long-term relationships rather than making a quick buck. Message to people aspiring to get into real estate. Sofia: In spite of tough competition and other unique challenges, this can be a fulfilling career. You need good people skills and lots of patience. You cannot take rejections too personally, and must be prepared for major fluctuations in income. Ameer: If youre willing to work hard with a sincere desire to serve your clients, enjoy meeting a wide variety of people, dont get too frustrated dealing with some unethical and disloyal people you will inevitably encounter, then this could be a rewarding pursuit.

Where do you come from? Sofia: I was born and raised in Karachi. My parents are from Gujarat. Ameer: I was born in Deccan, Hyderabad. My parents were also Gujarati; my mom was from Porbandar (Gandhis birthplace) and my dad was from a small town called Rojka.

What is the most important rule of purchasing commercial real estate? Ameer: Look ahead 5, 10 or 15 years and try to gauge the growth and then buy along that path. Be sure you have enough sustaining power in case projected growth is delayed due to fluctuations in How would you describe the real estate market the economy or other international situations. PheWhen did you come to the US? as it is right now? Sofia: I came here in 1983 to visit my sister in nomenal results can be achieved by buying well Sofia: It is a Buyers Market! Interest rates are Houston and then returned in 1990 to settle down ahead of time! still quite low, and sellers are really motivated. permanently. What is the most important rule of purchasing There are more sellers in the market than buyers. Ameer: I came here in the early 70s to pursue a residential real estate? What would you advise people who want to buy Business Management degree at Southern Illinois Sofia: With the tax breaks and inherent equity real estate during the present market condiUniversity. appreciation, buying instead of renting your pritions? mary residence is a no-brainer! Buy the most When and how did you get into real estate? Ameer: If youre renting, you must buy whatever Ameer: Sofia has a degree in Microbiology, and home you can afford in a reputable community you can afford. If youre a residential investor, be had been working as a Microbiologist for a few with higher-priced homes, so the property gains sure you have sustaining power of at least a year greater appreciation. Be sure it is located within 30 years. I had entered the hospitality industry right or two. Mortgage payments, property taxes, insurafter college, and held management jobs with sev- minutes of your work, and has A-rated schools ance, and routine maintenance can drain you around if you have school-aged children. eral organizations for a number of years. We had quickly. Quick-flip time is over for a while! Comboth experienced job burnout, and also had a demercial real estate is holding its value so far, and What sets you apart from other realtors? sire to move closer to water where most of our should for some time. Buy with caution, and a bit Ameer: Our honesty and integrity is beyond refriends lived. This was about eight years ago when further away from big cities. proach. We have never intentionally directed a we decided to move to Palm Harbor and pursue client into a wrong business or investment venture We would like to sincerely thank the Indo-Pak/ real estate as a second career. We now live in just to make our commission! Were equally loyal Bangla community for their continuing support Odessa. to buyers and sellers. We emphasize due diligence and trust. We credit you for our success. What struggles did you face establishing your- in business transactions to verify seller claims.

Website: www.AllTampaBayHomes.com Email: Sofia@PinnacleRG.com; Ameer@PinnacleRG.com Krish Pillay - PRUDENTIAL ROBERTSON REALTY
What struggles did you face establishing yourself? I came to the US without a penny in my pocket. I worked at a restaurant, day care and even as a dishwasher on campus to make ends meet. I had to study as well as keep myself afloat in a new counWhen did you come try. to the US? I left South Africa What is the most important rule of purchasing due to the political commercial real estate? conditions there and I would say the profit potential of the estate. came to the US in Weigh how much the value of the estate is likely 1976. to appreciate in the future and only then invest in it. There is no point in investing in an estate which When and how did has reached a saturation point in terms of its value you get into real estate? appreciation. I got a US degree in accounting and worked for various places in the accounting field. Then I What is the most important rule of purchasing residential real estate? Here again I would say joined MetLife Real Estates accounting departthe profit potential but, in residential estates you ment and was there for 15 years. Meanwhile I also have to look for comfort and accessibility. See acquired a CPA license and finally started on my what suits your needs best and if it comes with a own as a realtor in 2003. Where do you come from? I hail from Durban, South Africa, where I was a school teacher.

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good appreciation potential, youve hit the jackpot. What sets you apart from other realtors? Hard work and extensive research. I understand that being in the real estate business is not a parttime job. Dealing with people while keeping a close tab on the market is my absolute strength. Message to people aspiring to get into real estate. Remember that disclosures are very important. You must be honest and upfront both while selling and buying real estate. How would you describe the real estate market as it is right now? Its a buyers market for sure. There are too many sellers and fewer buyers. What would you advise people who would want to buy real estate during the present market? Research and negotiate. This is a wonderful time to invest in real estate so make your move now.

Website: wwwrealestatepillay.com

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Contd. From Page 8 Michael Maharana - AVALAR REALTY SOURCE (Previously known as MICHAEL MAHARANA REALTY & MORTGAGE)
Where do you come from? I was born in Guyana, South America. When did you come to the US? At age 17. I moved to New York in 1977 for a better life and education. I graduated from Erasmus Hall High school in 1979 and then went to Brooklyn College. I got married in 1983 and this year, my wife and I will have been married for 24 years. We don't have any children. When and how did you get into real estate? We moved to Florida in 1988 because we needed a change. We bought a retail business in St. Petersburg in 1990 and owned it for 5 years. I have also worked for Danka & Xerox Corporations as a technician for about 8 years. I purchased some real estate in 1996 and remember feeling unhappy with the deal. I felt that I had paid too much and that my mortgage was not the best deal. In 1998, I got my mortgage brokers license and in 1999, I became a licensed real estate salesperson. I worked for several real estate companies in Tampa but felt that I didnt get the training I had been promised. I was also giving away almost half of my hard earned commission. In 2003, I got my real estate brokers license and started my own company called Michael Maharana Realty & Mortgage Inc. in January of 2004. In 2004, I sold over 30 new homes & in 2005, over 40 new homes. alism. I work with each client on an individual basis to fit their needs.

Message to people aspiring to get into real estate. As in any other job, in order to be successful in real estate, you have to be ready to work very hard. This is a business that requires your attention 24/7. Once you have proven yourself a true profesWhat struggles did you face establishing yoursional, have earned trust, have learned to work self? No struggles as such. I established myself by being within your clients needs and have offered good customer service, you can then become a very involved in community events. successful realtor. What is the most important rule of purchasing commercial real estate? How would you describe the real estate market Location, Location, Location with lots of visias it is right now? bility. The real estate market is very slow right now but, it's showing signs of picking up soon. It is a buyWhat is the most important rule of purchasing ers market if you are looking for your dream residential real estate? home. There is a lot of inventory to choose from. You should ensure that your needs are met with the property you consider and what you can afford What would you advise people who would want comfortably. If you have children, or plan to have to buy real estate during the present market? I would advise them to educate themselves and I children, you should look for a community with would offer my best advice on current market congood schools, shopping centers and hospitals. ditions. What sets you apart from other realtors? We are moving into our new Wesley Chapel office I offer my clients complete honesty, extensive knowledge of the market and thorough profession- this month. I have bought an Avalar franchise and our new company is called Avalar Realty Source.

Website: www.avalarrealtysource.com ; Email: michael@avalarrealtysource.com; 813-785-0302, 813-994-3300

Pat Patnaik - SIGNATURE GMAC REAL ESTATE

Where do you come from? I come from Bombay, India. When did you come to the US? In 1973. After graduating from the renowned Institute of Catering Technology and Applied Nutritions from Bombay, I worked at the Taj Hotel and then I got an opportunity to move to the US. I fell in love with the quaintness of central Florida. After graduation, I worked in management for the Ramada, Hilton, Sheraton and Hyatt Hotels in the Orlando area. In 1980, my brother and I had the opportunity to open a very elegant Indian restaurant in the exclusive neighborhood of Bay Hill in Orlando. Even though the cuisine was very new to the area, we did teach central Floridians how to eat and enjoy curry! at that time and the transition was a very easy one as this was a core need that I could address. What struggles did you face establishing yourself? The biggest struggle I faced was in getting my name out. I kept reminding family, friends and acquaintances that I was in real estate at every opportunity I got. Otherwise, I didnt have to go through too many struggles. I guess you could call it being at the right place at the right time. Real Estate gives me the chance to serve my clients efficiently through their Premier Service Programs, One Stop Shop for financial needs and home insurance needs. Message to people aspiring to get into real estate. In Orlando, which is such an unique market place, it could provide a great opportunity for individuals getting into the real estate market. With so much of land and new construction and the influx of 1100 new people moving into Orlando every week, this is the business to be in.

What is the most important rule of purchasing commercial real estate? Using an educated professional who can determine How would you describe the real estate market the needs of the commercial client in regards to as it is right now? It is a very different housing market than it was a their investment goals. year ago. It is an opportune time for buyers as there What is the most important rule of purchasing is a housing inventory of over 22,000 homes, and residential real estate? interest rates are at an all time low. Buyers have a Again, using a professionally educated and a local unique opportunity to select the best house for the realtor who understands the needs of the client best price. family and finds them a home which best suits their needs, be it community, schools, recreational What would you advise people who would want or cultural. to buy real estate during the present market? People who are still on the fence about property What sets you apart from other realtors? When and how did you get into real estate? prices in central Florida and are waiting for prices After the restaurant, I tried a lot of different things My motivation to help people satisfy their core to drop further need to wake up and take hold of needs professionally, ethically and in a friendly to keep busy but the satisfaction factor was not the great market conditions. Buyers who remain on there. What I missed most was the close interaction manner. I love to see people enjoy their homes and the fence will likely encounter fewer incentives share it proudly with their family and friends. with people that I had in the restaurant business. and higher prices in the long run. Real estate was booming in the central Florida area Working for a company like Signature GMAC

Website: www.srgmac.com/ppatnaik; Email: ppatnaik@srgmac.com; (Cell) 407-761-1416; (Office) 407-992-5030

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By: Shaphali Jain

Viji is an artist. She lives and breathes the art form in her paintings, in her textiles, in her interior design, in what she wears and in her very essence. As most artists go, she is one who seems very much at peace with herself and seeks to find the same peace around her. Her home is the epitome of what she believes in and stands by - the Indian art form that lives here in all its vibrancy, beauty and energy. She is passionate about her country of origin, India, and all that it stands for, particularly in the arts. She works tirelessly towards bringing various art forms to the US along with their history, with the conviction that if she couples her art with an accurate background of where it originated and how it evolved, she will be able to make it permeate across borders. She has enlisted a lot of support for her work, both in India and in the US, and this is because of her passion for not only preserving the art form but also the artisans. Read on to get to know yet another local hero in our area. Please visit www.aalamwaar.com for more information. CM: Viji, tell us a little bit about yourself. Viji: : I am from Hyderabad, India. I did most of my schooling there and then went to the MS University in Baroda to study painting and ceramics. Ive also studied at the Brooklyn College in New York where I graduated with Honors in Painting and Ceramics. Im a self taught textile designer as well and have done a lot of independent study in different forms of art. CM: What brought you to the US? Viji: I was one of those people who never wanted to leave India. I had so much there to identify with, so much that I wanted to do with design and bring my own interpretation to. I married Uttam when I was 21 and we moved to New York. It was an exciting place to be in but, at that time, I remember being very lonely. I really couldnt identify with much in the beginning and the worst part was not being able to see the sun for days on end. When people used to say, isnt it a beautiful day?, I used to wonder what on earth they meant! And then I began to understand that when the sun actually did come out, it was a beautiful day! CM: Would you say that you are able to incorporate this blend into your interior designs as well? Viji: Absolutely, I use the same approach in interior design. My designs have to have an Indian identity not overly so they have to be cleverly incorporated. I try not to get too Indian either. People from other countries are able to relate to my work and find it beautiful. I showcase textiles in my interior design work it is an extension of what I do. I am currently remodeling our own house in India and am working on a restaurant cum boutique which is on the drawing board right now. It is going to come alive with the textiles that I have in mind.

CM: What do you do to bring textiles into your world here in the US? Viji: Well, let me give you a little bit of background on what I do. I support a group of artisans or crafts people in India. I have been draw and paint to get my bearings. I met a lot of doing this for over 10 years now. We revive older artists and became familiar with things. New York crafts such as Kalamkari or pen work a 17th grows on you you have to get to know it. My Century art form which uses extracts from natural husband didnt baby me either. He told me, take dyes and then prints are made with those dyes. this train and go get your license. I was terrified! This used to be a very strong trade that developed I eventually got very comfortable there and after in many parts of the world. Europeans had no living there for 5 years we moved to Florida. CM: What facilitated the acclimatization procconcept of this art in the 17th Century until they ess? came to India. It evolved further when Europeans CM: What was the move to Florida like? Viji: Art is so much a part of that city that I brought their own designs ... Viji: Moving to Florida was another experience. gradually started to find my rhythm. I started to go After being in the Mecca of arts, we moved to a to the Art Students League which was a turn of Contd. On page 24 place which at that time was quite starved for art. the century building in New York and started to Things are different now. We have a stronger Indian community but there is still very little serious art. I go back to New York and Miami fairly frequently because of my art. CM: What about textiles in particular drew your attention? Viji: Indian textiles have always intrigued me. Textiles are a big part of India. Interior decorators and fashion designers have always created a repertoire with textiles and have tried to incorporate textiles within their work. Textiles are timeless because of the colors. They are an amalgam of so many cultures a beautiful blend of Persian, Islamic and European with the Indian. This art form needs to be revived because India is changing so fast. People do not associate with the traditional so much any more and these age old aspects of our tradition are rapidly dying out. The younger generation does not think its cool and fashion is following the more modern trends. I constantly demonstrate and wear what I believe in and I blend it with modern or American clothing. I wear tribal saris which are woven in villages. They are so unique that they draw people to them.

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By: Shahnaz Husain

Our hands are always on display and they begin to show neglect and aging sooner than other parts of the body. The skin on the back of the hands is thin and has fewer oil glands. Our hands are also exposed to soaps and detergents on a daily basis while we perform our chores and this makes them rough and dry. A weekly manicure goes a long way in keeping our hands in good condition. Here are ways to give your hands a luxury treatment at home. without polish. Again, sharp metal instruments should not be The first thing to do is to protect our hands by used for this. wearing gloves while washing dishes. Massage Using lighter shades of nail polish make cream on the hands, the nails and the skin around Step 5. Apply hand cream on the nails, cuticles small and short nails look longer. them after each exposure to detergent or soap. and hands. Massage the cream into the skin of the This takes only a few minutes. cuticles and hands. Wipe off excess cream with a If the nail polish chips, avoid peeling it off. This can remove the protective layer on the moist towel. Do It Yourself Manicure nail as well. Step 6. Apply nail polish, using smooth strokes, Put together a small bowl, an emery board, an Home Tips from the base of the nails to the tip. orange stick, nail clippers, cotton wool, cotton To soften the skin and lighten skin color of buds, nail polish remover, nail polish and hand Points to Remember the hands, take some sugar in your palm and cream. Avoid using very hot water to soak hands as add lemon juice. Rub this on the back of the this can cause dryness of the skin and nails. Step 1. Remove old nail polish with nail polish hands and wash off. remover. Do not use too much remover, as it If you have brittle nails, avoid frosted nail Take 2 tbsp sunflower oil and 3 tbsp coarse tends to dry out the nails. Then shape the nails polish. sugar. Mix together till it becomes a paste. using an emery board. You should file the nails Apply and rub into the skin on the hands. in one direction only, not back and forth. If you have any kind of nail infection, avoid Rinse off after 15 minutes. filing them or sing nail polish. Seek medical Step 2. Add a few drops of shampoo or soap-free attention as there may be a fungal infection. bath gel to warm water in a bowl and soak your Put a cup of warm milk in a bowl. Soak your
hands in it for 5 minutes. Then, use a soft brush on the nails to clean them. Wash hands if they feel soapy. If you have brittle nails, include adequate protein and calcium in your diet. Add skimmed milk, yogurt, cottage cheese, fish and sprouts to your diet. Useful Tips for Nail Beauty Rub a slice of lemon under the nails to make them look cleaner and whiter. hands in it for five minutes to strengthen nails and soften the skin.

Step 3. Use cotton buds or wrap cotton wool around the orange stick and gently push back the cuticles. Dont use a metal cuticle pusher, as this can injure the skin. If the cuticles tend to adhere, apply some cream and then try to push them back. Step 4. Wrap cotton wool around a thin stick, or use a cotton bud to clean beneath the nails.

For stains on the hands, take lemon peel

and rub on the stains.

Take fresh orange peels, pierce them with a fork and rub the peels on the hands to brighten the skin.
Dont forget to write in with your questions to beauty@citymasala.com.

Broad nails can be made to look narrow if

you leave a very narrow strip on each side

Percentage of Legal Permanent Residents by state.

implementation of a new permanent labor certification program to be effective on March 28, 2005. The Program Electronic Review Management system (PERM) was developed to replace the Reduction in Recruitment (RIR) and standard labor certification process. How does PERM differ from old regulations i.e., Reduction in Recruitment or Standard Labor Certification? The most important differences between PERM, RIR and Standard Labor Certification are procedures, prevailing wages and adjudication time. Under PERM, the application is essentially approved automatically as long as the application does not trigger the DOL computer to send out an audit request. Under the RIR and Standard Labor Certifications, all applications had to be reviewed by the State Workforce Agency and the Department of Labor before they were approved. Note that prior to the implementation of PERM, the processing time under the old labor certification was usually 2-3 years, sometimes even more.

for that occupation in the area of intended employment and that the employment of the alien will not adversely affect the wages and working conditions of similarly employed U.S. workers. Where are cases processed? Applications are processed at either the Chicago or the Atlanta National Processing Center. The choice of the National Processing Center depends upon the state where the job offer is located. What are the processing times? The Department of Labor has set the goal for making decisions on electronically filed PERM applications at 45-60 days. However, the 45-60 days processing time frame is only a goal, which means that DOL is not bound to this time frame. Please note that all the above facts are general in nature and that all cases are unique. Before making a decision on any immigration matters on your own, do consult an immigration attorney.

PROGRAM ELECTRONIC REVIEW MANAGEMENT (PERM) A permanent labor certification issued by the Department of Labor (DOL) allows an employer to hire a foreign worker to work permanently in the United States. In most instances, before the U.S. employer can submit an immigrant petition to the Department of Homeland Security's U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services (USCIS), the employer must obtain an approved labor certification request from the DOL's Employment and Training Administration (ETA). In summary, PERM labor certification is the first step towards the majority of employment based green cards. What is PERM?

What does Labor Certification mean? To improve the operations of the permanent labor It means that DOL has certified that there are no certification program, ETA published a final regu- qualified U.S. workers able, willing, qualified and Please send your questions to lation on December 27, 2004, which required the available to accept the job at the prevailing wage legal@citymasala.com.

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By: Javid Lateef

It is the eve of the World Cup as I pen this. The practice matches have had some bizarre results. All the fears that we have had about such a tournament being held in the Windies also seem to be coming true. Only time will tell whether I will be proven wrong or not, but I highly doubt it! Let us start with the teams. Realistically, the minnows have no chance of winning the cup, but I think that Bangladesh and Kenya are capable of an upset or two. Both teams have swashbuckling batsmen, who can change the course of any game and have the results to back them up. Their biggest problem has been stringing a few wins together, but not taking them seriously might end up hurting any of the more established teams. As far as an open field is concerned, I believe that this World Cup has NO odds on favorite. The Aussies, who have dominated the shorter form of the game for almost a decade, seem to be on the decline. Their bowling has lost its incisive edge that it possessed in the last few World Cups. Glenn McGrath is an aging warhorse and will be shouldering the bowling. The absence of Brett Lee and Shane Warne is going to hurt Australia. They have lost the last two series they have played, and in a few games, after racking up a huge score, the bowlers could not contain the opposition. They will have the same problem in the World Cup and the rest of the field is sensing that their aura of invincibility is crumbling.

match and seems to be ramping up well towards the first game against the Windies. The absence of Asif and Shoaib Akthar, The Nandrolene Twins, will be a big blow to Pakistan. It is the end of the road for Akthar, but Asif is an immensely talented bowler. Pakistans biggest deficiency will be their fielding, I feel, and it will cost them a game or two, but they are previous World Cup champions, like Sri Lanka and India, and are capable of making it to the final dance. India seems to be getting their act together. I am very happy with the new ball attack. Zaheer and Agarkar are a great combination. The left-right combination is working well for the Indians. The batsmen have all struck a rich vein of form, in the recent past, and apart from Sehwag, all have runs under their belt. I believe with a little bit of luck, India is capable of surprising the whole field. The host, West Indies, will have some rethinking and restructuring to do before the start of the World Cup. The batting just seems to collapse. The Indians bowled them out for 85 runs in a practice game and they have a lot of work ahead to rectify the situation. They have a lot of pressure playing at home, and I am curious to see how they handle the heat.

We then have South Africa, England and New Zealand to finish off the Elite Eight. South Africa is now the #1 ranked team in the world. It has beaten every single team in the last few months and is on a roll. The players do have a reputation as being chokers, and are desperately trying to shake that image. England is an enigma wrapped in a riddle! They look like world beaters one day, and pathetically inept the next. Collingwood and Pieterson are in good nick and Flintoff is the games best all-rounder. They have not had a happy The south Asian teams seem to be performing well, of late. Sri Lanka, with Jayasuriya Muralidharan and Jayawardhene is always a threat. Their batting time in the last few World Cups, and will be looking to change that. New Zealand is riding high right now. They demolished the Aussies at home and and bowling are well suited for the conditions in the Windies. They are alwill be looking to continue that trend through the World Cup. ways dangerous and if they make it to the 2nd stage of this World Cup, they can go all the way. Pakistan beat South Africa convincingly in a practice And that wraps it up for now let the games begin.

The Best of Both Worlds!

Is Indian music the next big genre to take over the States? You better believe that its already here! Indian music has contributed to a lot of different music groups that are played on the radio today. A perfect example is the mix of hip hop and reggaeton (Latin reggae). The larger segment of 2nd and 3rd generation Indian Americans has contributed largely to the increase of this music type and this is what I have been doing for some time now. The blend of beats and melodies is amazing. In 2005, the internationally acclaimed Latin artist, Daddy Yankee teamed up with an Indian singer by the name of Deevani and released Mirame, a hard blend of reggae beats with an Indian melody. It uses a sample of Eli re Eli from the movie Yaadein. This blend and a handful of others is setting the club scene ablaze. Remember where you heard it first. Until next month here are your top ten club bangaz to keep your heads bopping and your hearts pumping.

1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10.

Javeda Zindagi ANWAR Main Jahan Rahoon (Dhol Mix) NAMASTEY LONDON Leja Leja (Remix) USTAD AND THE DIVAS Albela Albela HONEYMOON TRAVELS Barso Re GURU Chanda Re EKLAVYA Salaam-E-Ishq SALAAM-E-ISHQ Doorie (House Mix)- ATIF ASLAM Ya Rabba SALAAM-E-ISHQ Har Manzar (Remix) BAABUL

DJ Jafar can be contacted at 941-238-8243 or via email: djjafar9514@aol.com.

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By: Dr. Adarsh Jain

Increasing Self Esteem in Your Child

Children seek parental attention and approval. If rewarded for a particular behavior, the child will do it again and again. Through consistent instructions and examples with regard to the correct behavioral patterns, parents can help a child to be more focused and disciplined and to be productively occupied both mentally as well as physically. Without a strong and wholesome sense of I, no individual can survive the complications of adult social relationships. Here are some examples of how to instill the right level of self esteem in children. Be a happy critic. If a child has done something wrong, do not criticize or talk down to him. Tell him what the right thing is or how it should have been done. and kisses. Do not bribe your child to get a task done. exhibition. Encourage your child to play with other children outside of school, in a park or in your neighborhood. They learn to share and socialize and also get a sense of self in comparison to others. Teach them to own up to their mistakes. Support them by not rebuking them when they make a mistake. Instead, gently guide them towards the right way.

Let the child make her own decisions about the smaller issues such as music, food, clothes or hairstyles. You may choose to discuss the pros and the cons of a particular decision and stress your views. Try to leave the final decision to your child. This gives them a feeling of control and helps raise their self esteem. Avoid making dramatic statements. Often parents make statements like, My son does not like vegetables. He likes to eat only meat. These statements act like written words on the brain and the child feels compelled to act the same way. The statement may be modified with one such as, My son is very flexible. He eats more meat than vegetables and he likes trying new things every day. Dont be afraid to show off! Feel free to share your childs good work with other family members, friends and guests when appropriate. Frame and hang paintings or drawings in their room for

Avoid saying an outright NO or being negative too often - it puts you in a position of opposition. Speak in affirmatives and align yourself on your childs side. Instead of saying, no candy for you or do not eat candy, you could try, we will eat fruits instead. Using alternatives as much as possible conveys the impression that the desired item is being replaced instead of denied to the child. Reward good behavior such as helping siblings, doing small chores or keeping toys in place, by appreciating and rewarding the child. Rewards can be in the form of praise, gifts, hugs

Do not force your will on them. If they have an interest in something else, this will only lead to conflict and poor performance. Let them follow their heart and their own sense of well being with your guidance and support. Teach them to respect themselves as well as others. Often, the birth of a second child produces intense sibling rivalry. Prepare the first born for the arrival of the little one and ensure that the firstborns environment changes as little as possible with the new arrival. Please write to Dr. Jain with questions or feedback at healttalk@citymasala.com.

By: Dr. Maulik Trivedi

Q. My question is about my niece and nephew.
They are both very good children but are extremely fussy eaters. My sister has tried to introduce many different foods into their diet but they like to eat only bread, pasta and potatoes! Vegetables, daals and fruits are completely missing from their diet and this concerns both my sister and I as we are also vegetarian. They are 7 and 5 yrs old. Can you advise on how we can get them to eat a healthier diet without each meal time being a battle for all involved? Shalini from Winter Haven A. Your niece and nephew are not very different from most kids. They love to eat feel good foods. Your concern is appropriately rooted in the long term negative effects of improper eating on the human body. Here are some basic tips on how to get them to eat a balanced diet. Tip # 1 Have the kids eat at regular intervals. Have them eat 3 meals (breakfast, lunch and dinner) alternating with 3 snacks. Make sure they eat healthy snacks (fruits, vegetables and granola bars or non-sugared cereals). Feel good foods such as white bread, pasta and potatoes may tantalize our taste buds but they are high in carbohydrates and lead to increased fatigue. Tip # 2 Keep healthy snacks around. Stop buying junk food. If the kids dont have it, they wont eat it. Tip # 3 Instead of feeding the children first, make dinner time a family event. Having fun conversations that unite the family automatically gravitate children to the dining table. Lead by setting a good example. Eat a well balanced diet so that your children, who are natural imitators, will try to follow. It is important to note that in some cases, craving carbohydrate rich foods like pasta and rice can be a warning sign of early diabetes. If you have a family history of diabetes, or if the children are severely over-weight, it is necessary to have them evaluated medically. fulfill our desires is a common source of our sorrow. But sometimes, obtaining what we desire is not in our control. Should one put a stop to desires in ones life? The answer is NO. That would be unnatural and contrary to our nature as human beings. To desire what we do not possess gives us the motivation and zeal to go forth in life. We have to dream.

But sometimes, life has a different plan for us from the one we made. Sometimes we are so Q. Dear Dr. Trivedi, I am writing to you about invested in our own plan that we fail to see the opportunities waiting on the sidelines when we my wife. I am not sure if you can help me but fail. Very often, if we look for other options, we have been trying for a long time to have a there is an alternate way to have something very second child. We have a daughter who is 10similar to what we desire. years-old and I feel truly blessed to have her. However, my wife is very depressed because Perhaps an alternate way for your wife to experishe is not being able to have a second child. ence the same joy is to consider adopting a child, We have gone through various medical proce- or to sponsor a child through humanitarian produres and everything is fine with both of us. I grams, or even to volunteer time at a childrens try to tell her that we should be thankful for group home or a play group in your neighborthe one we have but she feels she has failed in hood. some way. How can I help her feel better Help you wife discover the alternate opportuniabout this? ties waiting to be explored. This will help her put Name withheld upon request. her sorrows behind. More importantly, dont let A. Your intent to help your wife shows your cayour desires get drowned by your sorrows. pacity to be a good friend as well as a good husDr. Trivedi is a Board-Certified Psychiatrist with band. This is the ultimate comfort that you provide for her in this situation. If and when you feel a private office in Tampa. He treats children, adolescents and adults. Please visit it is appropriate, you may discuss the following www.MINDvantage.com for more information. ideas too. Send your questions to: We all have desires in life. Not being able to theparentschatroom@citymasala.com.

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B O L L YWO O D
By: Nandini Chakraborty

Neta B
Big B for president? Apparently thats the latest

Paani Paani hai

Deepa Mehtas Water went to the Oscars as Can-

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rumor going around. Now that candidates are trickling in for the post of President, the Samajwadi Party plans to propose Aby Babys name. For the man himself, though, mums the word.

something guys who have some genetic risks take heed! South Asian men are notorious for cholesterol issues. Quit smoking, start exercising, and streamline your diet! Okay, no more lecturing my hubby gets more than his share!

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Tera karoon din gin gin ke intezaar

adas official entry and was nominated for Best Foreign Film, but unfortunately didnt win. John Abraham was mistaken for Antonio Banderas by some, despite the fact that he was wearing an achkan and was among a bevy of desi women (i.e., Deepa Mehta, Lisa Ray, Seema Biswas)!

Chhota B
Abhishek and fiance, Aishwarya Rai, have not decided on a wedding date or venue as yet. But then again, being the achchha bachchas they are, Im sure their parents will be making all the decisions for them. There was talk of March 19, and of Umaid Bhavan in Jodhpur, but nothing seems to be finalized yet. I have heard that Jaipur and Gwalior seem to be front-runners for the locale.

Chak de chak de chak de

YashRaj has been very busy indeed! This production house has several releases lined up for 2007: Chak De India: SRK is a girls field hockey coach. I know hes great at soccer, but hockey?
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Pooree Phamilee
I might as well finish all the news regarding the Bachchans in one blow. Looks like the entire family is getting into show business now. Shweta Bachchan will be hosting a television talk show called NextGen to cater to todays youth. For those of you with satellite television, please let us know what you think of this Big B offsprings foray into show business! Well folks, looks like the wait is over! Of all the heroines that people wanted to see back on the silver screen, Madhuri was by far the winner. Aaja Nachle is Mrs. Dixit-Nenes comeback movie. If nothing else, she looks FAB!! Man, if I could look like her (which I dont) after having two kids (which I do), I would be very happy indeed!

Aaja Nachle: Mads comebackand she plays what else? A dancer! Also starring Konkona Sen Sharma & Kunaal Kapoor. Jhoom Barabar Jhoom: Another sports movie. Abhishek plays an avid soccer (oops, football) fan. Preity Zinta, Bobby Deol, and Lara Dutta co-star. Tara Rum Pum: Yet another sports movie (did they run out of ideas??) Starring Saif Ali Khan and Rani Mukherjee; Saif is a race car driver in this one. Lagaa Chunari Mein Daag: Looks to be a traditional family-oriented movie. With Rani Mukherjee, Jaya Bachchan, Abhishek Bachchan, Anupam Kher, & Konkona SenSharma, and directed by Pradeep Sarkar (of Parineeta fame), this looks to be a winner. Bangali der chhora chhori! Kudos to anyone who knows what I just said!

Chhote Nawab
Saif Ali Khan has been discharged from the hospital after experiencing chest pains earlier in February. Hes received a clean bill of health and has been advised to make some major lifestyle changes, specifically regarding smoking and his diet. Heads up to all those thirty and forty-

Bijli giraane main hun aayi

Speaking of comebacks, Mrs. Sridevi Kapoor is keeping up with Mrs. Nene with two upcoming projects, one of them which is to be produced by her hubby, Boney Kapoor. They made waves with Mr. India; hopefully this next venture will be just as successful!

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By: Kavita Trivedi

NEHLE PE DEHLA
Dir: Ajay Chandok; Cast: Sanjay Dutt, Saif Ali Khan, Bipasha Basu and Kim Sharma Johnny (Sanjay Dutt) and Jimmy (Saif Ali Due to the films delay, some scenes appear to Khan) are two small time crooks who dream of be outdated but expectations are high for debubecoming rich and famous but keep getting tant director Ajay Chandoks comedy caper. caught and end up behind bars. Sanjay Dutt and Saif Ali Khan have done a While fleeing prison, the hapless pair comes good job and though the movie bears some across a hotel manager (Shakti Kapoor) and resemblance to their earlier performances in discovers that he is involved in shady dealings Haseena Maan Jayegi and Main Khiladi Tu and embezzles thousands of pounds from his Anari, they are a lot of fun to watch together own company. In an attempt to get rich quickly, on screen. both Johnny and Jimmy become waiters at the Renowned composers Anand Raj Anand have hotel and hatch a plan to blackmail the boss. provided the music score for this film and the However, their plans are thwarted after the boss tracks Parva Digara and the title track Nehle is found dead having been killed by a mobster Pe Dehla are the only dominant songs worth trio (Mukesh Rishi, Aashif Shaikh and Shiva). listening too. www.erosentertainment.com The duo then attempts to make the mob believe Overall, a slight disappointment but a good that the boss is alive in an attempt to catch the reader (Kim Sharma) in the picture, will they be movie for light entertainment purposes. culprits. But, with the hotel owner (Bipasha Basu) able to get away with the dead body in public? and her friend, the obsessive romantic novel

NISHABD
Dir: Ram Gopal Verma; Cast: Amitabh Bachchan, Revathi, Jiah Khan, Ruksaar and Aftab Shivdasani After the hard hitting smash hit Sarkar, acclaimed director Ram Gopal Verma teams up once again with superstar Amitabh Bachchan for this controversial love story. Based on Vladimir Nabokovs novel Lolita, Nishabd tells the story of Vijay (Amitabh Bachchan) a wildlife photographer, who during one of his outdoor shoots, accidentally spots Gia, (Jiah Khan) a sweet 18-year-old, and captures her innocence on camera. He later comes to know her as his daughters friend, and then as far more, as their relationship crosses into the forbidden boundaries of love. The films sensitive theme focuses on human relationships and the controversial liaison between a 60-year-old man and an 18-year-old girl. The story may be a bit too bold for the Indian www.erosentertainment.com masses to digest, but depicts situations that occur in real life. As always, Amitabh Bachchan gives a stellar performance and brings forth an intense persona. Debutant New York born actress, Jiah Khan, performs well and brings a sense of freshness and innocence to her character. Revathi and Aftab Shivsdasani do a good job with their supporting roles. The films cinematography captures the beautiful scenery of Munnar and Kerala and the background musical score provided by composer turned film maker Vishal Bhardwaj sets the correct tone for the movies theme. The films only track Rozanna has been especially penned for Amitabh Bachchan who lends his vocals once again after Baabul. A controversial film worth a watch!

HONEYMOON TRAVELS PVT LTD

Dir: Reema Kagti; Cast: Abhay Deol, Minnisha Lamba, Shabana Azmi, Boman Irani, Amisha Patel, Karan Khanna, Dia Mirza, Kay Kay Menon, Raima Sen, Sandya Mridyul and Arjun Rampal The envy of everyone is the perfect couple Aspi Oscar Fernandez (Boman Irani) and Nahid (Shabana Azmi) are two divorced pensioners (Abhay Deol) and his childhood sweetheart who are happily married a second time around. Zara (Minnisha Lamba) but unknown to the others, they hide a dark secret from each other. Partho Sen (Kay Kay Menon) and Milly Sen (Raima Sen) is a couple that comes from a The films climax revolves around a mystery small town in Bengal. Pinky (Amisha Patel) biker who follows the honeymoon travelers and Vicky (Karan Khanna) come from Delhi from Mumbai to Goa on their hectic holiday and are poles apart from one another; Pinky is schedule which becomes the talk of a radio talkative and bubbly and Vicky is the typical show that reveals their secrets and their past. quiet introvert. Madhu (Sandya Mridul) is a With a great musical soundtrack by Vishaltraditional girl from Mumbai who met her Shekhar, Honeymoon Travels is an exciting and settled-in-America husband Bunty (Vikram upbeat movie that explores the nature of love Chatwal) online. Gujarati couple Hitesh and the complexities of human relationships in (Ranvir Shorey) and Shilpa (Dia Mirza) is a light hearted manner. finding life hard after their arranged marriage www.erosentertainment.com and raise the question of what is more imporWorth watching. tant in life: love or marriage?

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and artisans in India incorporated it into their own work. I have my own crafts unit in Hyderabad and we produce hand crafted home furnishings with a range of natural dyes on natural products such as jute, linen, cotton, silk and wool. I design the concept and the artisans incorporate it. I have built an environmentally sustainable industry which is also a fair trade organization. We do not employ any child laborers and we believe in empowering people. We teach and train people with no skills and help them create a livelihood for themselves. There are two aspects to this business - garments and home furnishings and we are now able to retail to very high-end stores in both countries. Part of the proceeds from this goes into helping the artisans in India. CM: Tell us what the home furnishings comprise of? Viji: We have everything ranging from block printed and intricately embroidered bed linen, jute rugs, curtains, drapes, blankets, quilts, cushions & wall hangings. The designs are timeless and we constantly work with older antique art designs to protect and preserve them. I also work with Turkish and African designs in order to reach out to a wider audience. CM: With all of this, you paint as well? Viji: Oh! Yes! Painting is my second terrier. It fits in well within my realm of art. I always work with a series in mind. I practice yoga and meditation and my art is abstract. Freedom from the Known is a series that I have done which follows the Shree Yantra, the geometric form from our scriptures, based on the Tantrik aspect. It signifies Shakti which is the mainstay of the Tantrik belief system. I work with the concept of the union of the male and female, the energy of reaching God in an uplifted state of mind. My work is processed through my interpretation and my paintings depict my visual vocabulary. CM: So, what, or who, would you say was your inspiration? Viji: I remember the passion for painting set in at about age 10. I insisted that I be allowed to take classes at the Colour Wonder Institiute in Hyderabad. It was in Baroda where I finally found myself. I was surrounded and taught by some of the foremost artists of our country, Gulam Mohammed Sheikh, Jyoti Bhatt, K. G. Subramaniam, to name a few and the influence that they had on me was phenomenal. My father, Narain Reddy, has also been a major source of inspiration and support in my life. He is very artistic and an amazing designer. He is self taught and I remember growing up with copies of the Architectural from my parents in my business today. What I bring to this field is through their support. CM: Tell us about your children. Viji: My son Udayan is 17 and my daughter Anjali is 14. Uday is quite creative and a risk taker. He is a good photographer and sculpts as well. Anjali is organized and meticulous. Uday plays the tabla and Anjali the piano. CM: How would you describe your husbands role in your life? Viji: Uttam is very supportive and is my back bone. He has always believed in giving me the freedom to explore my creativity. CM: What would you say keeps you grounded and focused? Viji: The fact that I work with grass roots people or my crafts people and the fact that they depend on me. It is because of them that I keep going forward. They have stood by me, they realize I am sincere and they see in me a means to improve their existence. This is important to me because I want to do all that I can to improve their lives both at the basic as well as the artistic level. CM: Any time left over for a hobby? Viji: Yes, my music! I play the Sitar. Painting is my profession but music has always been my hobby. I host house concerts at my home and music is a very important part of our lives. CM: Tell us about something you are very passionate about. Viji: I am passionate about India and all of my work. I try to bring India into every aspect of my work. In 2006, I curated an exhibit on textiles called Sari, Six Yards of Magic at the Maitland Art Center in Orlando. It ran for 6 weeks and was seen by hundreds of people. I had every imaginable sari in the exhibit from seasonal, ceremonial, traditional and modern. I also took part in the textile exhibit at MOSI for the Demystifying India project which is on exhibit currently and is ongoing for about 2 years. I also work with a pioneer in textile revival, Suraiya Begum, and a major part of what we do is teach widows and women to weave. I work towards incorporating the history with the art itself. Ive realized that thats the way to bring in the support. I have also set up a trust fund to help fund the health needs of the artisans who work with me. I am now attempting to start another fund to help with the education of their children. CM: How do you enlist support for all that you do? Viji: People ask me all the time, how can we be involved? How can we help? The best way is to visit my website and to buy the products there which are made by these artisans. Part of the proceeds go to these people. It will help to connect the two worlds and it can only happen with everyones support.

Digest lying around at home. He is as accomplished with structural designs as he is with the interiors. He is a man who is way ahead of his times. I get a lot of encouragement and support

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By: Auntyji
These days Auntyji is hearing a lot about how you cannot escape taxes or death. She would like to add one more thing that you cannot escape yourself! There are a lot of people out there who try to avoid paying taxes (you know who you are), but that is a different story. There are also many of us who chase after the fountain of youth, try to prolong life and try to postpone death. We are proponents of a healthier lifestyle, eating better, exercising more and know how to take advantage of modern medicine. However, how many of us actually improve who we are on the inside? Our parents give us the genes that we are born with, and these genes dictate a lot of the characteristics within us. We cannot control how tall or short we are (hanging on branches really does not help much), what our features look like (only plastic surgery will change that), the color of our skin (bleaching can only do so much), our eyes (color and eyesight can be changed and corrected), hair (which can be bleached, dyed or transplanted), or a multitude of internal organs that might be more susceptible to disease. Thanks to advancement in science, a lot of these can be rectified for those who want changes. Mentally and spiritually as well, we have a lot of the characteristics that we derive from our parents or our environment, some that we suppress within ourselves and others that are intensified as we mature. Some people try to run away from their problems. Everybody around them seems to be to blame except they themselves. They blame their parents, their friends, their job, their family and just about everyone else for all that is wrong in their life. They never seem to get the right breaks. It always rains on their parade. They always complain and seem to thrive on negatives. They Q: Auntyji, I am a retired man and have spent my working years in Patna. My son is a doctor and a green card holder. He lives in a big house in Orlando with his wife (who stays at home) and their young girl, age 6 and boy, age 10. Last year my wife and I came to here on a 5 year multiple entry visa as our son wanted us to spend our time divided equally between the USA and India. I write to you with a heavy heart. My problem is that I find that my son and his wife have changed a lot. They do not want to listen to anything we have to say. We are older, and should be respected. Back in India, my wife touched her in-laws feet every day and it never occurred to me to say no to my father. Here, our son argues with us and tells us that we do not understand. His wife has become too independent. A housewifes duty is to take care of her family and her home, but she insists on hiring a maid to do the cleaning. They eat out a lot or order food from outside. They have also started to eat meat. Our daughter-in-law drinks alcohol with our son and my wife and I find this very hard. When we try to bring up our concerns, we are met with rudeness and disrespect. The only silver lining here are the children. They are well behaved and love and respect us. They always do very well in school and have a desire to learn about Indian culture. We are proud of the fact that our son is successful and rich. How do we make him see that he has lost the values that we raised him with? Vishnu in Orlando never win. They have no friends or all the wrong friends. They are stuck in life. Sometime they move on to a different city or even a different country to start a new life, but what they fail to see is that at the end of the day, the problem lies within themselves. Acceptance of who one is, is the key to understanding oneself in order to attain any kind of fulfillment in life. Auntyji looks at herself as honestly as possible and finds that she is truly her mothers daughter. Her mother was a self made woman, a strong willed woman, a stubborn woman, and a woman with many great qualities and some that were really not that great. Auntyji would have liked to have inherited only the good ones, but heredity comes as a package and she didnt get to pick and choose! It is now up to Auntyji as to how she wants to cultivate or suppress each of these behaviors that are part of her being. Auntyji sees herself as having similar speech patterns, liking similar foods, dealing with people in a similar manner, similarity in the acidity of her tongue, likeness in the love of animals, and recently, a similarity in ailments as those that her mother had. Sometimes, Auntyji finds herself cringing when she catches herself behaving like her mother (having sworn to herself on numerous occasions that she would not become her mother). At other times, she simply accepts and embraces the feeling (this is what I liked and cherished about my mother), and at other times still, she finds herself striving to embody her more (this is what I admired about her). In the end, we are who we are and should learn to make the most of it. refuses to discuss anything with us. She would rather talk to her friends than spend time with us. Please help. Panicking in Daytona Beach

maybe it was the way it was expected of you, but that was your choice. Your values, life experiences, desires, or expectations cannot be the same as those of your sons. It is not that your son does not love you or is being disrespectful, otherwise he would not want you to spend time here with him and his family. Your expectations are not being met, mainly because you are equating them to a different set of circumstances with different people involved. Your son has chosen non-traditional ways to show his respect for you and your wife. As an older and wiser person, you should try not to get upset about petty issues. Your daughter-in-law is also probably doing a fine job if she has a happy husband and two smart kids. What Auntyji suggests to you, Vishnubhai, is to live and let live. Give up your complaints and try to look at the positives in your life so you can truly enjoy the golden years. Enjoy your grandchildren. Take up a hobby. Read a book. Do some gardening. Tell your wife how much you love her. Just stop trying to tell your son how to live his life.

A: Where and how does Auntyji begin with this

situation? You seem to have come to the USA physically, but even after 10 long years, you refuse to even attempt to accept that you are no longer in India. Coming to the US was a choice you made, knowing well that this country is very different from the place you hail from. Auntyji says that you are not just making it difficult for yourselves, but you are also pulling your innocent daughter in two opposite directions. She is growing up in America and will adhere to the ways that she sees around her. This is normal and exactly how you grew up. Sit back and think - what actually matters more to you? Your daughter eating pasta, wearing western clothes and having friends or your daughter eating what you want her to, wearing what you want her to and having no friends?

A: Vishnubhai, I come across this situation so

many times. You have to realize that you are not in India anymore, nor are you in your own home, and the year is 2007. Times have changed!! You have lived your life the way you wanted to, or

Auntyji suggests that you get to know your daughter and understand her instead of dictating too Q: Auntyji, I am very disturbed. I originally many rules. Try to create an atmosphere at home hail from Kerala, India. We moved to the US where she feels she belongs and doesn't feel the 10 years ago. We have a 9-year-old daughter need to lock herself in her room. Try to take an who is just not what we had imagined her to be. interest in what she likes, her friends and the She is totally Americanized. All her friends books and magazines that she reads. When you are are non-Indians and she does not even attempt able to make her feel more comfortable with you, to mingle with Indian kids of her age. Her food you can then gradually draw some comparisons habits, way of dressing, language and hobbies between the two cultures so that your daughter are also not Indian. It distresses us to see our does not find a drastic change in what is around only daughter eating pasta and fries all the her and what she experiences at home. Wouldnt time, wearing only western clothes, calling us you rather that she be a confident girl who grows Mom and Dad (instead of Amma and Appa) up to be successful in this country? and reading books and magazines that she On this note, Auntyji bids her readers alvida and should not be reading at her age. We are not against her, but would like to see some traces of waits to hear from you at our culture and values in her. To make matters auntyji@citymasala.com. Dont forget, life is short - live it to the fullest with attitude! worse, she shuts herself up in her room and

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By: Ashish Jain

Fellow daru bazon - lets talk Canadian - eh? Since I spent two wonderful shivering years of my life in the land of the little brother, Canada, I thought it only fair to address the daru habits of the great Canadians. which is known as the Caesar and is made with clamato juice. The Caesar is a lot heavier and spicier than any Bloody Mary made in the US. group. There was drinking, dancing and plenty of eating (the food was delicious) as we cruised along the Toronto skyline which is quite beautiful. The weather was glorious, which hardly ever happens in Canada, and the cool breeze, the desi bhangra music and desis of all shapes and sizes actually managed to make a pretty good evening. The night ended around midnight and since we were still not partied out, along with the fact that we were at the harbor, we went to a different party on another cruise boat which was one of the many that are anchored along the harbor and function as clubs or restaurants. One can jump ship as many times as one likes and there is a boat that suits every hearts desire - but that is another story that I will have to wait and share with you another time! Until then, drink responsibly and hope you have a swinging time. Write in with questions or feedback to darukanasha@citymasala.com.

As far as whisky consumed by our neighbors up north is concerned, the First and foremost is the Canadian obbiggest and most easily recognizable session and absolute resolve that Cana- name is the Crown Royal. Recently, I dian beer is the best and unlike anything had the distinct pleasure of tasting the else that comes from the south of the Crown Royal XR ($150 - $200 a bottle) border. No full blooded Canadian will which is a limited edition Canadian be caught drinking American beer. Mol- whisky blended with the last remaining son and Labatt are sworn by with much whisky from the Crown Royal distillery. pride by all Canadians. Beer is as much It has a heavy wooded full flavored taste a national heritage as is Hockey. with a distinctive vanilla and toffee creamy smooth finish. All Canadain daru is sold by the government (in Ontario anyway) so the pricing The other popular drink in Canada is the is not as flexible as it is down here. The Seagram and coke or the Seagram and good part is that there are enough desis sprite which is a nice heady drink. The in the country to warrant the presence of coke or sprite mix takes the edge off the Old Monk XXX rum in most stores. Seagram which is otherwise quite a rough drink. The other booze that is quite unique to the Canadians is frozen wine called Ice- I also have a weakness for Canadian wine which is made with frozen grapes Mist Whisky which is priced affordably and is shipped and stored cold. The wine and is a light and smooth whisky. itself is pretty smooth and a definite As in most of my articles, I must include must for all collectors. a personal story which began during a The Canadians are different in their nice summer evening when we went to a consumption of the Bloody Mary as well party on a cruise boat chartered by a desi

Restaurant Review: Ahmed Restaurant

By: Surabhi Jain
you, you also have the choice to pick from a variety of burgers. There are simple cheese The menu also offers beef speand veggie cialties. The chef recommends burgers, Chapli the Nihari (tender pieces of beef Kabab Burger, Chicken Burger, Fish Burger, The huge menu caters to almost every cooked in a thick curry sauce) Lamb Kabab Roll and Steak Roll. taste and preference. But, the restaurant and the Beef Korma (cooked And if you are still thinking Alcohol free and is really known for its Kababs. From with a special korma sauce). wondering what to drain the food down with, there charbroiled Seekh Kababs, Lamb Seekh With 10 chicken, 6 goat, 7 is Mango lassi, salt lassi, frozen drinks like virgin Kababs and Chicken Kabab Special, the lamb, 6 beef and 9 seafood spemargaritas and a special cream soda drink from 15 varieties listed on the menu include Shami and cialties on the menu, this is a delightful restaurant Trinidad, apart from the regular soft drinks. Boti Kababs which are mixed with special herbs. for meat lovers. Says Shamsul The kababs we serve are made From $3.00 a meal one can with a special recipe and are very famous among, The veggie lovers can pamper spend as much as one wants their taste buds too. The vegetarnot just the Indian customers, but also the nonto indulge their taste buds. ian section offers mouth waterIndians who frequent the restaurant. One can And, do not leave without ing Aloo Chole, Paneer Makhni also try a collection of the Tandoori Kababs with sampling the sweet pan cooked in a butter cream sauce, the mixed tandoori special. which is made desi style Chole Palak cooked in a mild The appetizers section has the usual Indian platter with lime paste, grated cococurry sauce and spicy Paneer of samosas, pakoras and salads. Whats interesting nut, pistachio powder, gulab Vindaloo to name just a few. is the Keema Samosa which one does not find at and nuts. The restaurant also serves Birymany restaurants. The restaurant also provides ani with a choice of meat or catering service for parties The main menu offers a huge selection of meat, vegetables. There is a vast bread and weddings. fish and rice dishes, including specialties like Pan section with freshly made garlic naan, keema fried Pomfret, Masala Spiced Mahi Mahi, Chicken naan, home made paratha, aloo naan and homeAhmed Restaurant is located at 11301 S. Orange Tikka Masala, Goat Jalfrezi cooked with onions made roti. Blossom Trail, Orlando, FL 32837 and can be and bell peppers and Palak Lamb in a thick curry reached at 407-856-5970. If this vast delectable array of foods does not tempt sauce. The Alcohol Free Restaurant- this is the slogan for Ahmed Restaurant which is owned by Shamsul Ahmed and was first called Mughal Restaurant. It was renamed Ahmed Restaurant in 1990 and today, the restaurant is listed on the aolcityguide as one of the best dining places in Orlando. The owner regularly samples the food cooked in the kitchen which is run by 3 talented chefs. I have to know what we serve to our customers.

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By: Vish Viswanathan

I hope you enjoyed my pick of the top gadgets for the year 2007 from the Consumer Electronics Show that were covered in the March issue. For this issue, as promised, I bring the rest of the gadgets that I had picked out for your review. POWERCAST A Pennsylvania start-up company says it has the answer to one of the biggest problems in mobile phones - battery life. Powercast could change the way we interact with our handheld gadgets. Powercast uses the energy from a transmitted RF signal to power small, battery-operated devices cell phones, wireless PC peripherals, and hearing aids may never go dead again. The transmitter can be placed in anything that plugs into the wall (lamps, alarm clocks, and so on) and can send a low, continuous signal to small gadgets that contain an embedded receiver. Charging batteries may never be necessary again. Major CE and IT manufacturers will have to agree to build Powercast capability into their products, and thus far, Powercast is revealing only Philips as a future partner. The first Powercast product will come to the market by the end of 2007, the company says. PHILIPS HTS8100 SOUNDBAR We've seen single-speaker virtual-surround systems before, but the Philips HTS8100 is the first one that includes a built-in CD/DVD player. Wire up the external subwoofer and run the ence through a one-piece, fully integrated, home theater system." Playing up the system's high-end credentials, Philips says the built-in DVD player offers 1080p up-conversion via HDMI and Faroudja DCDi circuitry. Sounds good to me. If that $1,000 price tag scares you a bit, Philips has also introduced a sleek 2.1 virtual surround system that will list at $599 when it, too, hits the stores in the second quarter of this year. The HTS6600 features HDMI connectivity but it upconverts video to 1080i, not 1080p. However, I suspect that only hard-core videophiles will be able to tell the difference. SANDISK SANSA CONNECT Wireless connectivity isn't a brandnew feature for MP3 players (hello, Zune and Apple iPhone), but SanDisk takes connectivity in a different direction by allowing users to hop onto any open Wi-Fi connection to trade and to recommend songs from any distance. The Sansa Connect also offers a sleek design, a fun, user-friendly interface and access to streaming Internet radio. screen is ample at 2.2 inches (diagonal). The Connect also features simple, tactile controls, a fun, user-friendly interface, photo playback, and support for subscription. WMA files (MP3 and unprotected WMA are also supported). Noticeably absent is video playback capability and an FM tuner, though I suppose SanDisk figured you could do without the latter given that you get access to Internet radio? That's right, Internet radio. Sweet. Where do I sign up? The Connect came out in March with a $249.99 price tag. SAMSUNG FP-T5894W Samsung's wireless TV, the first of its kind, comes with a separate base station that accepts connections from A/V gear and wirelessly transmits to the 58-inch plasma panel via 802.11n at a range of up to 300 feet. That means fewer holes in the wall and maybe even a plasma by the pool (for you lucky Floridians).

Samsung's FP-T5894W, the first mainstream large-screen "wireless" TV, aims to make those wireless-looking installations a lot cheaper and easier. Like most "wireless" A/V gear, it does require one cord - to supply AC power - but that's it. The rack full of A/V equipment that accompanies any self-respecting plasma installation conThis sleek MP3 player uses built-in wireless tech- nects to the FP-T5894W's "wireless A/V center," nology (802.11g, to be exact) to hop onto any which the company claims can sit up to 300 feet available hot spots, allowing the user to grab away from the panel itself. The panel and the music and photos without connecting to a PC. It included wireless center communicate using the HDMI output to your flat-panel TV (it upis designed to work with online music services 802.11n wireless standard at bit rates up to converts DVDs to 1080p resolution), and the (specifics are yet to be determined), meaning you 150Mbps, plenty for 1080p video, for example. result is the most minimalist home theater system could potentially find and buy a song from just The FP-T5894W is a 58-inch plasma display with to date. about anywhere (Starbucks comes to mind). 1080p (1920x1080) native resolution. The HTS8100 is only five inches thick and feaThe Sansa Connect does have other things going Available in September, the wireless FP-T5894W tures Philips' proprietary Ambisound technology, for it, of course. The player comes with 4GB of will list for a mere $5,799. with five amplifiers integrated into the single flash memory and offers an SD card slot to add horizontal "sound bar" to create what the commore. The body is sleek and compact, measuring Please send your comments and feedback to pany deems a "full 5.1-surround sound experiin at 2.05x3.58x0.63 inches, and the bright color techtalk@citymasala.com.

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INGREDIENTS

1 cup chickpeas (chole or chana) soaked overnight 1 medium onion, diced 2 medium tomatoes, diced 4 green chillies, chopped 1 leaf tej patta 1 big or 2 small cardamom pods 1 tsp red chilly powder 1/4 tsp haldi 1 1/2 tsp dhania powder 1 tsp amchur powder 1 1/2 chana chaat masala 1 tsp tea leaves 1 cup water 2 small cucumbers, diced 1 small onion , diced

1/2 small tomato, diced 2 green chillies, chopped 1/2 cup coriander leaves, chopped 3 tbsp yogurt, beaten A few pinches of red chilly powder and chana chaat masala. Boil the soaked chana along with the tea leaves (tied in a cloth) until tender. Remove excess water and discard the bundle of tea leaves. Heat 4 tbsp of oil in a heavy bottom vessel and add tej patta and cardamom pods. Add diced onions and cook until they are slightly brown in color. Add chilly powder, haldi, salt and dhania powder and mix well. Let this cook for a minute on medium heat. Add the boiled chana and mix well. Let this cook for 3 to 4 minutes. Add diced tomatoes, chana chaat masala,

METHOD
1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. amchur powder and green chillies and stir. Add a cup of water and let it cook for another 3 to 4 minutes. Garnish with the ingredients mentioned under "Garnish."

Serve with potato cutlets or samosas along with mint chutney. Note: Adding tea leaves tied in a cloth with thread (small hand kerchief ) to the chana while boiling makes the chana slighly brown in color and adds a lot of flavor to this dish.

FOR GARNISH

BOOK REVIEW The Palm Leaf & Other Stories: By: Kwai-yun Li By: Sheniz Janmohamed
The Palm Leaf & Other Stories is a vibrant montage of life in the Chinese community in Calcutta. Lis stories are simple but poignant, using the clarity of her language to display the tragic beauty of life. From tales of arranged marriages to searching for suitable jobs, these narratives take on lives of their own, allowing characters to breathe within the page. The most striking element of Lis writing is her ability to synthesize delicate, rich imagery with the dirt of reality. This writing technique is essential in effectively representing Indian life, because it is that very contradiction that defines the Indian experience. In Rally at the Ochterlony Monument, Li masterfully describes the scene after a monsoon, Two buses stood silent and submerged to the bumpers, their exhaust pipes clogged with mud and slime. Two girls in white blouses, navy ties and starched navy skirts sat on a rickshaw. The Palm Leaf & Other Stories candidly explores the challenges the Chinese minority faces in a place where the majority is ethnically Indian. The most powerful example of this experience is Last Dragon Dance in Chinatown in which Chinese Indians were victimized by Indian authorities as a result of Chairman Maos Communist agenda and the autonomy of Tibet. The story is told from the perspective of a child, heightening the sensitivity of the subject, One day, I found a copy of the Peoples Monthly under a chair in the courtyard. Mom told me to throw it away, for we might get into trouble with the police. But I hid the magazine under my bed. Although Li captures the atmosphere of Calcutta with innate accuracy, some of her characters seemed to lack the specificity of regional dialect and mannerisms of speech. However, this observation certainly does not take away from the thrust of the stories, as they are still powerful. Li is able to tell a story that is amusing, lighthearted and satirical and then follow with a story that is pathetic, political and heartbreaking. Her stories encompass a wide spectrum of historical events, family politics and simple childhood memories. The Palm Leaf Fan & Other Stories is a collection brimming with sorrow, laughter and an air of grace. To buy The Palm Leaf & Other Stories, visit www.tsarbooks.com or www.amazon.com.

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By: Sanjay Puranik

Chest muscles (pectoralis major) are one of the largest muscle groups in our The exercises in this column represent some of the major group of exercises upper body. They play a crucial part in upper body strength and play a signifi- for the chest which are especially beneficial for beginners. Mix up your roucant role in defining that sought after V-shaped definition. tine by changing the sequence of exercises and rest the muscles for at least 48 hours before working the same muscle group. Historically, exercises for the chest have consisted of two major groups: Again, remember to drink plenty of water and eat a well-balanced and healthy presses and flys. In recent years, more innovative chest exercises have diet. If you encounter chest pain or any other physical discomfort, stop and evolved using cables/pulleys, the stability ball and a host of other appurteconsult your physician before undertaking further physical training. nances. Beginners should start with some of the illustrated and more traditional exercises before moving to other advanced options.

PEC FLY Sets: 3 with 10 reps per set.

Adjust the seat height so that the handles are in line with the point just below your shoulders. Draw your belly in towards the spine and maintain a strong contraction. From the starting position, slowly bring elbows together as shown in the ending position. Hold the position for 1-2 seconds and slowly return to the starting position. Hold your head pressed against the head rest and do not let it jut forward at any time.

CHEST PRESS ON BENCH WITH DUMBBELLS Sets: 3 with 10 reps per set.

Maintain a stable pelvis by drawing your navel towards the spine. Slowly raise the dumbbells from the starting position. Hold the dumbbells in the ending position for 1 second before slowly lowering it back to the starting position. DO NOT let your back arch at any time.

SEATED CHEST PRESS Sets: 3 with 10 reps per set.

Adjust the seat height so that the handles are in line with the point just below your shoulders. Draw your belly button inward to stabilize the core. Slowly, push the handles to the ending position. Hold for 1-2 seconds before returning slowly to the starting position. Keep your wrists in line with your elbows during extension.

CHEST PRESS - FREE MOTION Sets: 3 with 10 reps per set.

Adjust cable arms parallel to the floor. Hold the cables with arms parallel to the floor and stagger feet as shown in starting position. Brace the spine by drawing in the abdomen towards the spine. Press slowly till you reach the ending position. Hold for 1-2 seconds before returning to the starting position.

Please send in questions or feedback and comments to bodytalk@citymasala.com.

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Spotted Around Town is CityMasalas newest column and features people Team Masala interviews throughout different spots in the Tampa Bay area. For this particular column, we spotted people at Malani Jewelers and Apna Bazar on Fowler Street in Tampa. We would like to thank the owners of both the locations who acted as gracious hosts as we spotted their customers and interviewed them. The question - What issues have you faced as a desi in the US? Some of the people we attempted to interview were very shy and some were forthcoming and very willing to share. Speak up, Tampa (Orlando to begin soon) so that people may hear you. Write to us at desi@citymasala.com with ideas for questions you feel we should ask so that you can get to know how different people have tackled different issues or what peoples views are on various issues.

Jipsa Patel - I had to go through a little bit of adjustment from British English which I grew up with in India, to the American English that is used here. The standardized tests also took a bit of getting used to in the way the language is formatted. After a few practice tests, I was able to adjust fairly quickly. Other than that, I think being a desi here is an advantage. I was able to get a scholarship to USF under the minority program and that is a definite plus!

Shadab Shaikh - (Shadab was too shy to have his picture taken but
was willing to comment on our question!) Im having a good time so far! I go to USF and when I came here, I already had lots of friends who helped me get familiar with things. Academically, being a desi hasnt put me at an advantage or a disadvantage. My professors have made it clear that the serious students will go far and I believe that. This country is very fair. If you work hard, you will succeed.

Raj Suxena - I think the biggest issue Ive had to face here is how much I miss my family. Not only that, but the entire social environment that exists back home - the festivals, ceremonies and your friends circle. The friends that you make here are quite Americanized and it takes time to establish comfort zones. Professionally, I also lose out here. Im in the IT field and back home, I would be making much more than I do here. I cant go back for a few years until Ive gained some more experience. Other than that, there are no major issues. Once you get into the flow of things and understand the difference in culture, you adjust.

Shabnam & Saqib Khan - We love this

country and cant think of any issues, other than good ones, that we have faced as desis or Pakistanis. We like the conveniences that are available here to every person such as the cleanliness, the travel opportunities and the general ease of day to day living. We travel at least 2 - 3 times a month and have never faced any issues post 9/11 either.

Anthea Pitysingh - My parents are from Trinidad and I grew up in New York where I feel its easier to be a desi than here in Florida where you have fewer desis. I felt that I fit in less here because I look different but I have an outgoing personality and make friends easily, so I was able to adjust fairly quickly. My friends find me and my background very interesting and Im comfortable with that.

Aakash Hansoti - I study

at USF and find that being a desi here has been somewhat of a struggle more so because of the program I am in. I am doing my Masters here and have to constantly run after funding and money. I had to adjust to the difference in the style of teaching here too. In India, you could study at the last minute. Here you have to study all the time! Another issue I face is that I have to work part time in order to take care of my bills. Life is definitely a struggle for the average desi student in the US.

Gautam Patel - I finished my medical schooling in India and came here about 3 years ago. My family was already here so I cant say that I faced any issues after moving here. The only thing I would say is that we desis have to have some kind of an organization to help new desis when they move here, especially the students.

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Star Lite Star Brite

Zodiac of the Month
Aries: Mar 20 - Apr 19 Ruled by: Mars; Gemstone: Red Coral; Lucky Day: Tuesday Full of confidence and vitality, you are blessed with a steadfast and persistent nature which makes you follow your goals to the end. Ambition is your second name and you love to be showered with praise under the number one slot. Impulsive and self centered at times, your sharp and direct tongue can attract a fair share of conflicts. You need to keep a watchful eye on your temper and your tendency to be accident prone due to your carelessness. Raunchy and incredibly passionate, your sheer stamina and endurance will ensure many a pleasurable experience in bed. The opposite sex is swept off their feet by you. You know what you want and will always go for it. You know how to express your feelings in a very direct way and are prepared take risks for love. Impulsive in matters of the heart, you sometimes fall head over heels in love only to wake up the next morning to realize that it was merely lust. Your Horoscope: A time of introspection and reflection as you find yourself pondering upon your lifes purpose. A fruitful time to meditate and seek those all-important spiritual answers that have been plaguing your mind. You prefer to stay behind the scenes as you take a backseat from the usual fun and frolic. Taurus: Apr 20th - May 20th Rules by Venus Gemstone: Diamond Lucky Day: Friday
You shine with confidence as you take steps to make an impact upon those around you. Your mind flows with abundant ideas that are just waiting to materialize. Remember to be practical otherwise you can fall flat on your face through carelessness of a proper thought process and the eventual outcome.
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Virgo: Aug 23rd - Sep 22nd Ruled by Mercury Gemstone: Emerald Lucky Day: Wednesday
You are popular at work as relations with superiors and fellow workers run smoothly. You are more likely to get your own way around you so use this to your advantage. There can be a special someone in the work place that takes your fancy. Just look before you leap as you might be taking on more than you can chew.

order to completely appreciate what you already have.

Capricorn: Dec 22nd - Jan 19th Ruled by Saturn Gemstone: Blue Sapphire Lucky Day: Saturday
This in an ample time to collect and express your thoughts through writing or verbal communication. An expressive time, you need to utilize it to get things off your chest that have been bothering you. Honesty along with tact will help you go a long way in your pursuit.

Gemini: May 21st - Jun 20th Ruled by Mercury Gemstone: Emerald Lucky Day: Wednesday
You are sociable and in the mood to party as your popularity is likely to soar. Gatherings and little get-togethers can prove to be very beneficial for you. This is a time to update your wardrobe as a change of image can boost your confidence and open new creative avenues.

Libra: Sep 23rd - Oct 22nd Ruled by Venus Gemstone: Diamond Lucky Day: Friday
Health and fitness consciousness can keep you spending a lot of time in keeping trim. Trips to the gym and exercise related activities can consume your time. Try not to overdo it as you may find yourself completely drained of any energy. Get some nutritional advice before commencing any diet.

Aquarius: Jan 20th - Feb 18th Ruled by Saturn and Uranus Gemstone: Blue Sapphire Lucky Day: Saturday
A rebel at heart, you can be quite a risk taker this month as you do as you may have a tendency to do as you wish without thinking of the consequences. Just remember to enjoy yourself without stepping on other peoples toes, as there can be conflict and arguments with those who dont see your point of view.

Cancer: Jun 21st - Jul 22nd Ruled by the Moon Gemstone: Pearl Lucky Day: Monday
Travel and trips abroad can be the highlight of the month as you experience new cultures and get the needed rest & respite. People from foreign lands can prove to be very beneficial for you. Curious to explore, your worldly horizons can take a hike as you divulge into philosophy, theology and higher learning.

Scorpio: Oct 23rd - Nov 21st Ruled by Mars and Pluto Gemstone: Red Coral Lucky Day: Tuesday
Romantic and flirtatious, you will shower your beloved with the sweetest of sentiments and nights of passion that simply indulge and fulfill. More creative than usual, you may find yourself taking up a new hobby or craft that proves to be more exciting than you had thought. It could turn into a fully fledged career before you know it.

Pices: Feb 19th - Mar 19th Ruled by Jupiter and Neptune Gemstone: Yellow Sapphire Lucky Day: Thursday
Quite impulsive and moody, you can be like a sea-saw swaying from one extreme to the other. Take some time out to contemplate and gather your thoughts so they are not as scattered. You will find that the answers you seek lie within you. A little luck may be waiting for you in the lottery department. Nicolas Aujula is a certified astrologer with the New Age Foundation and an accredited LCFS fashion designer. He is a qualified Hypnotherapist and Past Life Therapist accredited in emotional and psychological health. He is a Counseling Code of Conduct Registered Counselor and Registered with the United Fellowship of Hypnotherapists. Visit Nicolas at www.inspiredartisan.com.

Leo: Jul 23rd - Aug 22nd Ruled by the Sun Gemstone: Ruby Lucky Day: Sunday
Bills, bills and bills can simply pile up if you are not careful in keeping up to date with your paperwork. Take the time to sort out your priorities and try to curb your entertainment expenses. Your overspending and extravagances could prove to be extremely troublesome later on. Dont forget to save a little for a rainy day as itll come in handy.

Sagittarius: Nov 22nd - Dec 21st Ruled by Jupiter Gemstone: Yellow Sapphire Lucky Day: Thursday
House proud, you are quite driven to make those allimportant changes within the home that have been waiting for some time. Remember that a lot can be achieved by small things so dont get carried away as others around you may not appreciate too drastic a change. Rearranging furniture may bring you as much satisfaction as a complete make over, so start slow in

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Contd. From Page 10 Sabahat Khan COLDWELL BANKER DOLPHIN REALTY

Where do you come from? I come from Peshawar, Pakistan. When did you come to the US? I moved to the US in 1997 after I got married. My husband was already here and so I came here as well. We were in New York until 1999 and then decided to move to Florida. we moved to Florida, I got my license and got into My faith which makes me capable of delivering the best for the customer. real estate on a full time basis in 1997. What struggles did you face establishing yourself? I would say I was fortunate that my husband was already well established in the business and I just had to join in. The only struggle, if I can call it that, was that I had to spend some time in understanding the business and the market. What is the most important rule of purchasing commercial real estate? Returns and appreciation. See what will fetch you good returns. What is the most important rule of purchasing residential real estate? Location is the primary criterion. It decides not just the comfort but also the appreciation that the estate will have in the future. Message to people aspiring to get into real estate. Ask yourselves if you have the honesty and the capability to devote time, energy and enthusiasm in this profession. If the answer is yes, plunge in and do your best. How would you describe the real estate market as it is right now? It is a very realistic market. Also this is the best market for a buyer. What would you advise people who would want to buy real estate during the present market? There are a lot of options right now. Look around and do a lot of research before you buy. Also pick the right person to help you. Someone who knows the area you are looking to buy in.

When and how did you get into real estate? My husband was already in this business for a long time and I joined him after we got married. When What sets you apart from other realtors? Email: sabahatkhan27@hotmail.com

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Madhuri Gudla REGENT ASSET MANAGEMENT & REALTY CORP.

Where do you come from? I'm from Vijayawada in Andhra Pradesh, India. made the transition a lot easier. What struggles did you face establishing yourself? I faced the typical learning curve challenges that most of us go through when we venture out into a new field. The biggest struggle was to accept the fact that you cannot always please everyone at all times. I was fortunate enough to have good mentors in the field and I learned the ropes quickly. I When did still have a long way to go but am far ahead of you come where I was when I started. to the What is the most important rule of purchasing US? commercial real estate? I followed I dont deal in commercial real estate my husmy broker takes care of that. What is the most important rule of purchasing residential real estate? Talking to a mortgage broker to see what amount of loan you qualify for and then looking for a home accordingly. Some people find a home they really like and get disappointed later when they find that they were not able to qualify for the loan amount to purchase that home. What sets you apart from other realtors? Besides our rebates for our buyers, I think what sets me apart is the fact that I am extremely detail oriented and ensure that my clients get all the reEmail: mgudla@ramrc.com lated information that's required before and after closing a real estate deal. I also believe in being very much involved in discussing all the options and alternatives that are available at various stages of the buying or selling process. This is especially comforting and useful for first-time buyers. Message to people aspiring to get into real estate. Each field has it's own pros and cons and no profession is easy. Realize the fact that you cannot always please everyone and be prepared to meet all kinds of people. Leave your personal prejudices at home. How would you describe the real estate market as it is right now? It has been a tough market and I believe it has been good for some people. Adapting to the market is the key to being successful. What would you advise people who would want to buy real estate during the present market? I would advise people to be patient and to wait until you can bring in more money to the table. Over leveraging yourself or being in a hurry could prove to be a nightmare later on. Don't let anybody talk you into a interest only loan or a negative ARM loan.

band here in 1995

When and how did you get into real estate? I was working in the field of GIS-Remote Sensing and Information Technology back in India and continued in the IT field in the US. 8 years later and now, with a growing daughter at home, I ventured out working part-time in the Real Estate field. I wanted to get a feel for it in order to attain flexibility at work and strive for balance between work and home. Things worked out well, especially on the home front, and I moved out of the IT field completely and into real estate full-time. The fact that Im a people person Website: www.ramrc.com

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If you would like to recommend someone who you feel should be featured in CityMasalas Achievers Club, please write to editor@citymasala.com or info@citymasala.com. Dont forget to give us some contact information so we can follow up on finding out more about that person. We want to continue to bring noteworthy south Asians to the forefront through our publication and look forward to hearing from you.

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