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Contempt
You don't meet my standards
You would never have done that, you are morally superior and you feel contempt for the pathetic person.
Definitions
1. Feeling morally superior to an offender. 2. Disapproving of anothers action. Root: from Latin c o n t e m p t u s , past participle of c o n t e m n e r e , to despise.
Related Terms
The words appalled, despise, distain, indignation, and reproach are approximate synonyms for contempt. We snub someone when we dismiss them with contempt. Contempt is similar to disgust, but pertains to people and their behavior rather than to chemically toxic substances. There are some data to suggest that the concepts and labels of contempt, anger, and disgust are related to each other. These emotions arise when moral codes of a community are violated.
Upward Contempt
Upward contempt allows a person of lower status to claim superiority, at least along one attribute. It is a form of rebellion, or a way to cope with humiliation or defeat. It is generally a false display rather than a genuinely felt emotion.
Enjoying Contempt
Because contempt declares your superiority, it is often a somewhat enjoyable emotion.
Meeting Expectations
Guilt, shame, and contempt are each based on meeting expectations: Guilt: I did not meet your moral standards and expectations, Shame: I did not meet my own standards of behavior, and Contempt: you did not meet my moral standards and expectations.
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Facial Expression
The facial expression of contempt communicates your disapproval.
The facial expression of contempt has these distinctive features:
Chin is raised, making it easier to look down your nose at the offender, The lip corner is tightened and slightly raised on one side of the face, A slight smile can show enjoyment This expression is often called a sneer.
References
[laz] Passion and Reason: Making Sense of Our Emotions, by Richard S. Lazarus, Bernice N. Lazarus [Ekm] Emotions Revealed: Recognizing Faces and Feelings to Improve Communication and Emotional Life, by Paul Ekman [OCC] The Cognitive Structure of Emotions, by Andrew Ortony, Gerald L. Clore, Allan Collins [Gol] Destructive Emotions: A Scientific Dialogue with the Dalai Lama, by Daniel Goleman Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life: Create Your Life, Your Relationships, and Your World in Harmony with Your Values, by Marshall B. Rosenberg, Arun Gandhi Scalar Ratings of Contempt Expressions , by David Matsumoto, San Francisco State University
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