How to be a good Father

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What are the skills necessary to be a good father? My father taught e four
iportant skills necessary to being a good father. !how your children you lo"e the.
#ounicate with your children. $isciplining your children is iportant. !pending
%uality tie with your children is key to their success. &ets take a closer look at each of
these "ital skills.
#hildren first and foreost need to feel lo"ed. Many fathers are so obsessed
with aking their kids successful that they forget to show their children how uch they
lo"e the. 's en we think that paying the bills and keeping a roof o"er our children(s
heads should be enough. )hese are things that we are re%uired to do. !howing lo"e for
your children re%uires soe effort. )he easiest way is to siply tell your children that
you lo"e the. 'nd of course it should be sincere. )he other way of showing lo"e is
non"erbal* a kiss a hug and a lo"ing sincere sile.
#ounicating with your children is a big key to success. +t is also a "ery
challenging skill. ,nderstanding your children(s personalities will greatly enhance your
counication with the. &ecturing seldo works. -ou ha"e to talk to the on their
le"el. ,se a story that they ay know* to ake your point. .eeber counications
ne"er ends. -ou really ha"e to pay attention to the. /e"er ignore the or belittle the.
0r they will not e"en try to counicate with you. 1ach child is different.
$iscipline is the best gift you can gi"e your children. Many people think that
being tough with your children is harful. )he opposite is true. Many of the ost
successful people in all walks of life had parents who were tough on the. +t is not
necessary to beat your children. But children need to know that there are liits when it
coes to beha"ior. )hey ust understand that there are conse%uences if they do not
follow your rules. )hat no one gets e"erything they want* all the tie. )here are liits.
$iscipline is showing real lo"e as a parent. /o atter if you are rich or poor.
&ast and e%ually as iportant is spending %uality tie with your children.
.eeber these are your children. -ou should want to spend tie with your children.
)he ore tie you spend with the the sarter and ore* well rounded they will be.
'nd they will know that they are lo"ed. Many en are so caught up with aking a li"ing
and hanging with the boys. )hey forget to ake tie for their children. .eeber your
children need you. 'nd they need to know that you care. +f your children are acting
strange and undisciplined* it is probably because you are not spending enough tie with
the.
+n conclusion a good father is so iportant to the faily. ' father who akes his
children feel lo"ed. 0ne who acti"ely talks to his children? -et is not afraid to discipline
the if they need it. Who also akes it a priority to include his children in his busy
schedule? )his is the full definition of a good father.