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Turn Around Thinking Speech
Turn Around Thinking Speech
After
heading
back
to
the
therapy
office,
I
shared
with
a
therapist
about
how
I
simply
can-not
order
food.
His
words
were,
Try
changing,
I
can
not
order
food
to
I
can
try
to
order
food.
And
then
change
that
to
I
will
order
food.
And
further,
I
am
ordering
food.
I
can,
I
will,
I
am.
This
change
in
mind-set
is
very
powerful.
Also,
what
do
you
think
well?
What
went
well?
I
guess
I
used
good
eye-contact,
but
that
doesnt
matter
cause
I
was
still
stuttering
really
bad.
Try
changing
but,
to
and.
You
used
good
eye-contact,
and?
AndI
got
the
food
that
I
wanted.
Nice.
And?
AndI
said
thank
you
and
the
person
taking
the
order
smiled.
Cool.
Now
you
can
keep
asking
yourself,
and.
And
Im
sure
you
can
find
a
dozen
more
things
you
did
well
Rather
than
knit-picking
on
the
negative
things,
try
knit-
picking
on
the
positive.
The
things
you
did
well,
and
more
things
you
did
well.
This
process
is
also
very
powerfully
positive.
His
words
rung
through
my
ears.
6-weeks
later,
I
was
back
in
Guangzhou.
I
was
sitting
at
a
Toastmasters
meeting
listening
to
an
announcement
about
a
club
speech
competition.
Ive
never
participated
in
a
speech
competition
before.
What
if
I
stutter?
I
felt
hot,
scared
and
afraid.
I
then
remember,
turn-around
thinking.
I
can
do
it,
I
will
do
it,
(raise
hand),
I
am
doing
it.
I
raised
my
hand
and
participated.
After-giving
my
International
speech
at
the
club
competition,
I
was
beating
myself
up.
I
did
well
but
I
missed
a
line...waitturn-around
thinking.
And..I
used
good
eye-
contact.
And
I
spoke
loudly
and
audibly.
And
I
used
excellent
facial
expressions.
And
I
think
I
used
my
stage
well.
And
here
I
am
today.
By
turn-around
my
thinking
after
international
speech
competition,
I
went
on
to
compete
in
the
club
Table
Topics
competition.
And
I
won
1st
place.
I
owe
my
success
to
Turn-around
thinking.
Now
Id
like
you
to
picture
a
dream
you
have.
A
dream
you
really,
really
want
to
achieve.
And
tell
yourself
-
I
can
achieve
it.
I
will
achieve
it.
I
am
achieving
it.
Andafter
achieving
it,
remember
all
the
positives
feelings
you
experience
throughout
journey.
Turn-around
-thinking.