1. Is being a spoiled brat good? Why?

Answer: Is this your question pertaining to the reason why both parents are
abroad then there is a tendency for the child to be a spoiled brat? Not everybody
can be a spoiled brat ah, but is there something good about spoiled brat? Yes
theyre good, theyre good as spoiled brats, but the category of being a spoiled
brat is not given alone to the child ,kasi binigay mo yun eh.kung totoo lang kaya
kong ibigay lahat sa anak ko, ibibigay ko sa lahat yun ,pero is it bad for the child
to receive all the good things coming from their parents no its something good
karapatan nila yun eh ,dahil binigay sa kanila lahat tinag lang natin na spoiled brat
kasi mayroon siyang ugali na pangit.but he/she gets what he/she wants.eh hindi
nya kasalanan yun binibigay sakanya eh,ang may kasalanan dyan yung magulang
nila kasi yan yung binibigay nya sakanya .
2. How can they say that they are longing for a love from their parents?
Answer: Everybody needs love and its because they are away, they of course
everybody longs word love they are away eh. Why do you long somebody that is
around?
3. Was there a time where they thought that their parents dont want then anymore
because theyre just giving them whatever they want without even thinking the
consequences?
Answer: If you still ask them, if for example I am a spoiled brat, was there a time
that ,every parent will always wish their child well.
4. I feel that there like far away from me, theyre out of reach because there in the
Middle East right now and its hard to bond with them only through social
networking sites; Facebook or skype, there is no physical contact with them, so
its hard.
What are the possible reasons why he feels this way?

Answer: Because of he give it already, yes they are so far of course its natural
it is natural they are a far of course no physical contact with the exist, because
theyre far but do they wish them to be far? Do they want to be far? So what is he
saying is just the realities of both parents being abroad, but still what he is saying
is just thats collateral damage if his parents can go every day from. Lets make it
this way so theyre working in the Middle East and every night they will go home.
can it be possible? It is possible, but it is not, no every day they will go home
from middle east they will go home to the Philippines to sleep at night .is it ok?
Pwede ba yun? Yes. Theyll go home they will ride the very super-fast vehicle
you go home diba but its not practical, tama, o ano gusto mong gawin? Stay at
home, work at home? And for you to be there all alone everyday being youre
alone .it is more on the battle of the needs and wants .
5. I dont take it in a good or bad way because sometimes I have to make hard
choices in life, in order to finish college I have to do this alone, with them
working abroad.
It is affected in a way that our communications and bonding have decreased into
minimum.
How will his decreased communication with his family affect him?
Answer: Regardless whether they are not around ,where you are a teen you would
decrease youre communication with your parents more or so they are abroad.pero
meron nga dyan mas lalo sila nagiging communicative because they are like yung
sabi ko kanina ,why is it you long for somebody because they are not around. But
if you are there araw araw kasama mo and you talk almost everything everyday
dba? Ganun yung human nature eh it explores some things that they dont have
but do not explore the things that they already have.

6. Good parenting, yes I think so because this would help me teach myself how to
manage my time and to be able to make decisions on my own, and basically to get
to know myself more.
What are the possible negative effects of living without the guidance of his
parents do to him?
Answer: Of course if you are not guided, but it doesnt necessarily mean that they
are alone, they are not guided,tama? Thats the premise hah. Doesnt necessarily
mean if youre parents are abroad youre not guided .No guidance mean you are
not giving them guidance ,not giving guidance will not give you choices, because
the only person that can really decide the matter is yourself.nagyayabang lang yan
.papunta palang kami pauwi na kayo,kahit anong sabihin naming
ayaw mong sundin then you are rebelling .lahat ng matataas na yung mayayaman
na mga businessman this persons are not pulling in constant agreement with
everybody else.they are always rebelling on so many things,1st rule nga
pagkagraduate break all the rules ,why? Because in breaking all the rules you
begin to prosper, Im not saying break the law,but Im saying break the rules if
there is no rules everything is possible.
7. Is it advisable that the parents should come home sooner or later?
Answer: I dont understand why is it if they come home soon, then no jobs awaits
them here and then If theres no more money available then your life is in
complete misery ,you will not be well communicating so on and so forth then
because eh. The fight will no erupt because you cant provide things in life .so it
is better for you.
8. Why is it that some of them seem like they didnt care that both their parents
arent here and some were devastated?
Answer:

9. Does distance between the parents and the child affect the childs decision
making?
Answer: There are other options that would influence the decision making, your
teacher, your friends, reading material, media, and rebellion. In some part, yes.
10. What would be the tendencies of the child if their parents are away from them?
Answer: Before its looked upon as bad, we say that the guidance. These are
collateral damage of insights. It is bound to happen, so knowing that it is bound to
happen, because of the many things that have been studied that this can happen.
Its all your choice, you left and this will happen but it is not 100% right. So, its
your choice.
11. How would the distance affect the relation between the parents and their child?
Answer: There is a saying your so close, yet so far. So what is the question
now? Would distance be a way for you not to communicate? They communicate
through letters in the past, if theres a will theres a way. So would it differ? Differ
if you are the one who chose to be distant, but if you dont want to be distant,
youll always find a way to communicate to the one you love.