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for me. While I have not been called upon to physically die for my children, I have
been called to die to the selfishness that characterized my life before kids. Life was
about me back then. My schedule, my needs, my wants, my time, my money, my
desires, my dreams, and my plans dictated how I spent my life. But that is not what
God wanted for me. He wanted my life to be about Him and His plans for me. So in
march not one, not two, not three, not four, but five little beings to make sure I am
reminded on a daily basis that acts of service to others is what the pathway to joy is
paved with. Little stones of service that, when carefully laid beside each other, lead
to great places.
Braiding this ones hair. Tying this ones shoes. Fixing this one his favorite cookies.
Changing this ones diaper. Taking this one out for coffee. Cheering this one at her
sports events. Praying this one through a hard time. Washing this ones clothes.
Dusting this ones room. Cleaning up this ones spilled drink. Teaching this one to
roller skate. Planning this ones birthday party. Helping this one catch a frog. Putting
a bandaid on this ones scraped knee.
And thats just one day in the life of a mom.
I am convinced there is no greater way to model for our kids the heart of God than to
serve our families with a happy heart. Not that we are to become our childrens
slaves. That would teach them laziness and disrespect. But to model for them the joy
that can be found in giving our lives in service to our Lord and others. When we
model this for our kids, we set the standard for what we expect from them. I expect
my kids to have a good attitude when serving family members and others. I want for
them what I have discoveredwhen you serve, you look at lot like Jesus.
We give of ourselves when we give gifts of the heartlove, kindness, joy,
understanding, sympathy, tolerance, forgiveness.
We give of ourselves when we give gifts of the mindsideas, dreams, purposes,
ideals, principles, plans, inventions, projects, poetry.
Emerson said it wellRings and jewels are not gifts, but apologies for gifts. The
only true gift is a portion of thyself.
Jesus gave the one true gift in the most profound way. He gave His very life so I
could find new life. My scars, therefore, are precious reminderstreasures, really
of my service that started the moment of my childrens conception and continues to
this day. Giving of my body gave my kids a chance at life. Modeling Jesus example
of service points them to a new life they can have in Christ. They dont have to fall
prey to the selfishness that reigns in this world.
I dont have to fall victim to the selfishness that screams for attention sometimes as
well. I become a giving person by giving. I become a caring person by caring. I
become like Jesus by acting like Jesus. Not by thinking about it, not by making