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HOPC: Mark had his yearly physical check-up last week and he informed his GP that he
has not been happy in his life for about 6 months. The GP arranged for another meeting
today.
Mark has noticed an increasingly depressed mood. His home life has been affected, he
finds it hard to share his feelings with his wife, they really dont talk to each other a lot.
Their sex life has quieted down since his wife has a hysterectomy 5 years ago although it
does not bother either of them a lot.
Their three children have all moved out and the house feels empty.
He does not have many friends. He now understand the saying you can feel lonely in a
crowd thats what is happening to him!
His wife copes very well, she is a lawyer, always busy and she has lots of girl friends.
His appetite is o.k. although he does not enjoy food as much as he used to. No change in
weight.
He sleeps alright.
He works as accountant, although with his general situation he does not enjoy the job as
he used to. No conflict or financial problem.
He has never thought of killing himself but he feels isolated in his position and
marginalised from other people despite being around people at work and even at home
when they have the occasional gathering of people. He often feels helpless and that there
is nobody around to cheer him up.
PHx. + FHx.: unremarkable
SHx: married accountant, 3 children who have left home over the last 3 years, non
smoker, little alcohol, no recreational drugs, NKA, no medication.
DIAGNOSIS: LONELINESS
Loneliness is to some extent part of being a normal human being, but can become
pathological and then it is described as a feeling of loss and despair, a feeling of
helplessness (e.g. with single parents there is no-one to help me when I need support and
friendship or ..to cheer me up when Im down). There is also a feeling of isolation and
alienation or marginalisation from other people.
1. Inadequate levels of social relationships
2. Loneliness is a subjective experience
3. It is an unpleasant feeling in which people experience a strong sense of emptiness
and solitude. It has also been described as social pain - a psychological mechanism
meant to alert an individual of undesired isolation and motivate her/him to seek
social connections. Common terms used to describe loneliness include: pain, lost,
nothingness, overwhelming, numb, and afraid.