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What are Irrational Beliefs?
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Ellis placed Irrational Beliefs at the very heart of REBT, as these are the primary
reason for human misery and dysfunction. By challenging, questioning, disputing
and acting against our Irrational Beliefs we can change our emotional responses to
events, from unhealthy to healthy, which better aid us in achieving our goals in life.
Before summarising the main types of Irrational and Rational beliefs, it is important
to ensure clarity about the use of the terms irrational and rational. Although many
people have wrongly assumed that Ellis argued that there was such a thing as
rational world, this was never his intention. Rather, he chose the terms irrational as
a euphemism for unhelpful, illogical and inconsistent with our social reality. Rational
beliefs on the other hand are a euphemism for beliefs that are helpful, logical, and
consistent with our social reality.
Albert Ellis, an important contributor to the ideas behind cognitive-behavioral therapy and
the founder of Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), discovered that peoples beliefs
strongly affected their emotional functioning. In particular certain irrational beliefs made
people feel depressed, anxious or angry and led to self-defeating behaviors.
When Ellis presented his theory in the mid-1950s (Ellis, 1962), the role of cognition in
emotional disturbance had not been fully addressed by the field of psychology. Ellis
developed REB theory and therapy in reaction to what he saw as the inadequate
techniques of psychoanalysis and behaviorism. He attributed the deficiency in the two
camps techniques to their conceptualization of personality and emotional disturbance. Ellis
felt that by ignoring the role thinking played in emotional disturbance both psychoanalytic
and behavior theory failed to explain how humans originally became disturbed and how they
remained disturbed.
The word belief means a conviction in the truth, actuality, or validity of something. So a
belief is a thought with an emotional component (conviction) and a factual component (truth,
actuality or validity). Beliefs can be either positive or negative. Having a negative belief is
not necessarily a bad thing; however, when one believes in something that is false, a
negative belief tends to become what Ellis called an irrational belief. Irrational beliefs are
not friendly to happiness and contentment and are definitely unhelpful for getting ones
basic desires for love and approval, comfort and achievement or success met.
When someone holds one of these irrational beliefs, they also tend to hold one or a
combination of the following irrational beliefs.
belief is true? With this question, one is looking for the scientific evidence
of the irrational beliefs validity. For example, Johns irrational belief is that
his love interest, Jane, should not reject him. But John is feeling very sad
and rejected because Jane turned him down for a dinner date and he
thinks that he cannot stand this rejection and that it is just awful! Where is
the proof that his belief that Jane should not reject him is true? There isnt
any. In fact, she did reject him, therefore, the irrational belief that she
should not reject him is clearly false. If John did not hold his irrational
belief about Janet in the first place, he would not feel overly sad or
rejected.
it make things worse for me? In other words, does the belief work to help
achieve basic goals? Is this belief helping happiness or hurting it? It was
clear that Johns irrational belief made him feel worse when his belief was
confronted with the facts.
3. The Logical Dispute. Ask is this belief logical? Does it ring true to
common sense? With this question, one is looking for ways in which the
belief does not stem from preferences for love and approval, comfort and
success or achievement. There may be overgeneralizing going on. Does it
make sense that Janet should not reject John because he believes that she
should not? Humans three basic goals of love and approval, comfort and
success or achievement are desires. They are preferences or wants. When
engaging in demanding thinking or absolutist thinking those preferences
become absolutes (Ellis and Dryden, 1987).
Preferences are not laws of nature. While it is true that humans have these basic desires or
preferences for their lives that does not mean that those preferences are necessarily
achieved. Remember in the Declaration of Independence Thomas Jefferson states that we
have the rights of life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. We do not have the inherent right
to happiness but only a right to pursue it. The reason why he does not say we have the right
to happiness is that happiness is not a law of nature. That we like happiness appears to be
law and that we pursue happiness appears to be law of our nature. That we like love and
approval, comfort and success is a fact. But because we like something or want something
or prefer something does not make it a law that we must have it. We definitely suffer if we
dont have happiness or get our goals met; that is true. It is not a law that we must have it. If
it were a law of nature we would simply be happyour desires for love, comfort and
success would just exist for everybody as a fact. And there would be no reason for
Jefferson to state that we have the right to pursue happiness. He would have just said we
have the right to happiness.
Any irrational belief stems from a core should, must, have to, need to statement. The
illogical inferences of low frustration tolerance, awfulizing, and self or other downing (global
rating) all flow from the demands for comfort, love and approval, and success or
achievement. In a logical dispute the first question to ask is, Do my conclusions stem from
my preferences or do they stem from some demand that I have made? Lets take a look at
how making a demand can lead to false conclusions.
The statement all dogs must have white hair followed by the presence of what appears to
be a dog with black hair leads us to incorrectly conclude that this dog-like creature with
black hair is not a dog. When we say I must have love and approval and we dont get it
from someone we find important, we then tend to conclude that it is awful, that it is
intolerable, and that maybe we are unworthy.
We can also argue against these conclusions as being illogical. If it were a fact that not
getting the love we want was truly awful or intolerable we would just drop dead. We would
not be able to survive. And if we conclude that we are unworthy or unlovable because we do
not get someones love we also make a false statement. It is impossible for ones basic
worth to be based on getting the love or approval of one particular person. It is our judgment
of ourselves that makes us feel bad or good. When we judge our self-worth on external
events we conclude that our value as a person is dependent on getting someones love or
approval and it clearly is not.
Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy was first called Rational Therapy, later Rational Emotive Therapy,
then changed to Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy. It was first introduced in 1955 by Dr. Albert
Ellis who had become increasing frustrated with the ineffectiveness of psychotherapy. Ellis drew from his
knowledge of philosophy and psychology to devise a method which he believed was more directive,
efficient, and effective.
unhealthily and self-defeatingly horrified, terrified, panicked, depressed, self-hating, and self-pitying.
finding core-beliefs and deep-rooted philosophical evaluations. These are usually the automatic causes
of negative inferences and higher level evaluative thoughts.
REBT teaches that:
Unconditional self-acceptance, other-acceptance and life-acceptance is of prime importance in achieving
mental wellness.
People and the world are fallible and that people better accept themselves, life's hassles and
unfairnesses and others "as is".
They consider themselves valuable just as a result of being alive and kicking; and are better off not to
measure their "self" or their "being" and give themselves any global rating, because all humans are far
too complex to rate, and do both good and bad deeds and have both, not either-or, good and bad
attributes and traits.
REBT holds that ideas and feelings about self-worth are largely definitional and are not empirically
confirmable or falsifiable (Ellis, 2003).
REBT believes that the client has to work hard to get better, and this work may include homework
assigned by the therapist. The assignments may include desensitization tasks, i.e. by having the client
confronting the very thing the client is making himself afraid of. Often Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy
focuses on specific problems and is used as a brief therapy, but in deeper problems longer therapy is
promoted. Another factor contributing to the brevity of Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy is that the
therapist helps the client learn how to get better through hard work, and help himself to get through future
adversities. It holds that hard work, and hard work only, is the only way to get, and stay, better and not
only temporarily feel better. An ideal successful collaboration between the REBT therapist and a client
results in changes to the client's philosophical way of evaluating himself, others and his life, which is
likely to yield effective results: The client's better move toward unconditional self-acceptance, otheracceptance and life-acceptance.
Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), was developed by Dr.Albert Ellis in 1955. It
has since flourished and spawned a variety of other cognitive-behavior therapies.
REBT's effectiveness, short-term nature, and low cost are major reasons for its
popularity.
REBT's comprehensive approach works best for individuals desiring a scientific,
present-focused, and active treatment for coping with life's difficulties, rather than one
which is mystical, historical, and largely passive.
REBT is based on a few simple principles having profound implications:
1. You are responsible for your own emotions and actions,
2. Your harmful emotions and dysfunctional behaviors are the product of your
irrational thinking,
3. You can learn more realistic views and, with practice, make them a part of you,
4. You'll experience a deeper acceptance of yourself and greater satisfactions in life
by developing
a reality-based perspective.
REBT distinguishes clearly between two very different types of
difficulties: practical problems and emotional problems. Your flawed behavior, unfair
treatment by others, and undesirable situations, represent practical problems.
Regrettably, your human tendency is to upset yourself about these practical problems,
thereby unnecessarily creating a second order of problems--emotional suffering. REBT
addresses the latter by helping you:
1. Take responsibility for your distress. The first lesson in healthy emoting and
relating was stated by the Roman philosopher Epictetus more than 2000 years
ago: only you can upset yourself about events--the events themselves, no matter
how undesirable, can never upset you.
Recognize that neither another person, nor an adverse circumstance, can ever
disturb you--only you can. No one else can get into your gut and churn it up.
Others can cause you physical pain--by hitting you over the head with a baseball
bat, for example--or can block your goals. But you create your own emotional
suffering, or self-defeating behavioral patterns, about what others do or say.
2. Identify your "musts." Once you admit that you distort your own emotions and
actions, then determine precisely how. The culprit usually lies in one of the three
core "musts:"
o "Must" #1 (a demand on yourself): "I MUST do well and get approval, or
else I'm worthless." This demand causes anxiety, depression, and lack of
assertiveness.
o
"Must" #3 (a demand on situations): "Life MUST be fair, easy, and hasslefree, or else it's awful." This thinking is associated with hopelessness,
procrastination, and addictions.
Preference #2: "I strongly PREFER that you treat me reasonably, kindly,
and lovingly, but since I don't run the universe, and it's a part of your
human nature to err, I, then, cannot control you,"
Preference #3: "I strongly PREFER that life be fair, easy, and hassle-free,
and it's very frustrating that it isn't, but I can bear frustration and still
considerably enjoy life."
Assuming that you take the above suggestions to heart and thereby greatly reduce your
anxiety, hostility, depression, and addictions, what remains? Will you exist robot-like,
devoid of human feeling and motivation? Hardly! Without your turmoil, you'll more easily
experience love, involvement, and joy. And without your addictions, you'll be freer to
engage in the gratifying experiences of spontaneity, commitment, and self-actualization.
As you can see, REBT will appeal to you if you relish quickly taking control of your own
life, rather than remaining dependent upon a therapist for years. By giving you tools for
identifying and overcoming the true source of your difficulties, it will prepare you to act in
many ways as your own therapist. And by helping you to reinforce realistic, selfbenefitting beliefs, it will enable you to eliminate present emotional and behavioral
problems, and to avoid future ones.
awful, and I can continue to function. Anothers might take the form: This
absolutely should not have happened, and it is horrific that it did. These
circumstances are now intolerable, and I cannot continue to function. The first
persons response is apt to lead to sadness, while the second person may be
well on their way to depression. Most importantly of all, REBT maintains that
individuals have it within their power to change their beliefs and philosophies
profoundly, and thereby to change radically their state of psychological health.
REBT employs the ABC framework depicted in the figure below to clarify
the relationship between activating events (A); our beliefs about them (B); and
the cognitive, emotional or behavioural consequences of our beliefs (C). The
ABC model is also used in some renditions of cognitive therapy or cognitive
behavioural therapy, where it is also applied to clarify the role of mental
activities or predispositions in mediating between experiences and emotional
responses.
The figure below shows how the framework distinguishes between the effects of
rational beliefs about negative events, which give rise to healthy negative
emotions, and the effects of irrational beliefs about negative events, which lead
to unhealthy negative emotions.
In addition to the ABC framework, REBT also employs three primary insights:
1.
challenge themselves and to accept the discomfort which may accompany the
change process.