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SeerCheckListforallfunctions
General
Thefollowingpagesgivethedetailsofthingstobepurchased/arrangedfortherespective
function.
Whileeverycarehasbeentakentoincludeasmanydetailsaspossible,Plinformmeany
modifications/inclusions/deletionstobedone.Iwillincorporatetheseafterverification
andcirculatetoallconcerned.
Forallfunctions,addManjal,KunkumamandSandhanamasthefirstitemsevenifnot
given

OtherBlogs

Girl'ssideincludesgirl'sparents,brothers,maternaluncle,aunt

Srini'sSpace

Boy'ssidemeansboy'sparents,brothers,maternaluncleetc

SampoornamVilas

Ifparentsarenomore,thentheresponsibilitywillpassontobrothers,sisters,father's
brothers,mother'sbrothersetcinthatorder.

BlogArchive

2015(1)
Generallyqty/weightetcarenotgivenforanyitemthatistobearranged.Itdependsonthe
affordabilityoftheindividualfamilyconcerned.

2013(1)
2012(9)

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SomeitemstobeprovidedarecategorisedasOptional.Itisuptothefamilytotakea
decisiononprovidingtheseitemsastheydeemfitandnecessary.
WhereverSareeismentioned,Blouseistobeaddedautomatically,evenifnotmentioned.
Similarly,whereverVeshtiismentioned,Angavastram/Towelistobeaddedautomatically
Forallfunctions,VenduthalamountfortheKulaDeivamtobekeptsepartelybeforethe
function.
Note:ThiswealthofinformationhasbeenextractedfromthevariousDairyNotesmaintained
byGirijaovertheyears.

August(1)
June(8)
Tracker
SeerCheckListforallfunctions

GeneralInfo

MarriageNischayathartham
Tobeorganisedbyboy'sside
Note:Thisfunctionisnormallyheldassoonastheallianceisfixedorafewmonths/days
beforethemarriage.
Girl'sside
Manjal,Kunkumam,Sandhanam
Zarigaiveshti,Angavastram,Pantandshirtforthebridegroom
Sareeforbride(Optional)
Dressforothermembersofthefamily(Optional)
GoldRingFortheBridegroom(Optional)
GoldChainFortheBridegroom(Optional)
GoldBraceletFortheBridegroom(Optional)
WatchFortheBridegroom(Optional)
(Note:Thoughgivenasoptional,providingatleastoneormoreoftheabovefouritemsis
desirable)
VelliPelaandVelliKunkumachimizh(requiredforuseonmarriagedayalso.Hencetobe
preservedcarefullyafterthefunctioneitherbyGirl'ssideorBoy'sside)
GarlandforBrideandBridegroom
Seer:ParuppuThengaikoodu2pair
Seer:BatchanamThirattiPaal,Anothersweet,TwoSavories
Seer:Fruits(atleast6differentfruits)Plantain,Mango,Apple,Pomogranite,Grapes,
Orange,Saathukudi,pineappleetc)
Seer:Dryfruits(Cashewnut,Badam,Pista,DryGrapes,Datesetc)
Seer:Sugar,Kalkandu,Chocolates,Gemsetc
Seer:VetrilaiPaakku,Thengai,Pazham,Poo
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Start

AboutMe

Srini
Bornandbroughtup
inCuddalore,Tamil
Nadu.Eldersonof
GSR(Chandru)&
Mythili.Worked20
yearsforGovt.of
IndiaunderDoTand
movedtoprivate
sectorin2002.
Startedmyown
company,VR1
TelecomPrivate
Limitedin2013.
Marriedto
Rajalakshmiand
havingtwobeautiful
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SuitableEversilver/PlasticTrays,Eversilver/PlasticDabbas,Basketsetctokeeptheabove
seer
Transparentsheets,Ribbon,etctodecoratetheseeritems
MariathaiforBridegroom'sparents(Dressandormoney)
TokenamountfortheBridegroom'smarriagedress(Optional)

daughtersVaishnavi
(Sruthi)and
Varshini(Sujani)
Viewmycomplete
profile

Boy'sside
Manjal,kunkumam,Sandhanam
SilkSareeforthebride
PantShirt,veshti,Angavastramforthebridegroom(Optional)
Dressfortheothermembersofthefamily(Optional)
GoldRingFortheBride(Optional)
GoldChain/necklaceFortheBride(Optional)
GoldBraceletFortheBride(Optional)
WatchFortheBride(Optional)
(Note:Thoughgivenasoptional,providingatleastoneormoreoftheabovefouritemsis
desirable)
PujaitemsManjal,Kunkumam,VetrilaiPaakku,Thengai,Poo,Uthiripoo,Pazham,
Sandhanam,uthuvatthi,Karpooram,Sugar,Kalkanduetc(ToobtainfromtheVaathiarthe
listofitemstobepurchased)
VaathiarSambavanai
Catering(SnacksorMeals)
Hallforthefunction,ifrequired
Video/photoCoverage
VetrialiPaakkuPazhamfortheinvitees
EthirMariathaifortheBride'sParents

Marriage
TobeorganisedbyGirl'sside
Girl'sside
Manjal,Kunkumam,Sandhanam

Veshti,SareeBlouseforanearbytempleswamyandAmman
MarriageHall(includingCookingvessels,Pujavessels,Chairs,VazhaiMaraminthe
entrance,Halldecoration,Electricseriallightforexterior,Genset,Beddings,waterfor
bathroomuseetc)
MarriageContractor(forarrangingfoodonthemarriagedays,Drinkingwater,Seer
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Batchanam,Nadhaswaram,JanvasaCar,Poo,Malai,FloraldecorationoftheHall,Welcome
board,KaasiYaathiraiItems(Umbrella,Thadi,Visiri&Religiousbook),MuhurthaMat,
MarriageMaterialsreqdbytheSastrigals,ThaambulaBagEtc)
PrintinganddistributionofInvitation
(1stInvitationtoKanchiMuttalongwithSwamySambavanai)
Photo,Videoarrangements
GoldjewellaryfortheBride
GoldRingFortheBridegroom
GoldChainFortheBridegroom
GoldBraceletFortheBridegroom
WatchFortheBridegroom
(Outoftheabovefouritems,theitemsprovidedduringNischayatharthamneednotbe
providedatthetimeofmarriage)
Thirumangalyam(50%shareifBridegroom'ssideagreestosharethebalance50%)
Silverarticles(Sombu,Vilakku,PanchaPatramutharani,Pela,kunkumaChimizh,Meals
Plateetc)
EversilverVesselsasreqd
Kitchenaccessorieslike,Mixee,Grinder,Oven,Electriccooker,Stove,Coffeemakeretc)as
reqd
Furniture,TV,Audiosystem,DVDPlayeretc(Optional)
Bedding,Pillows,BedSheetandBedCover
DressforBride(SilkSareesforViradham,Nischayathartham,Onjal,Muhurtham,Nalangu,
ReceptionandNuptials9yardsforMuhurthamand6yardsforbalance)Generaldress
fordaytodayuse
DressforBridegroom(MuhurthaVeshtiandPattuVeshtiforNuptials)
DressforBride'sparents,sisters,brothersandtheirchildren
DressforBridegroom'sparents(SambandhiMariathai)
DressforBride'srelatives(Optional)
DressforBride'sNaathanar(ForThaalimudithal)
ChappalforKaasiYaathirai
KaasiYaathiraiItems(Umbrella,Thadi,Visiri&Religiousbook),ifnotprovidedbythe
Contractor
MakeupitemsfortheBride
MehendhiforBride
NalanguItems
KoilPermissionforJanvasaMaapilaiAzhaippu
PolicepermisionforJanvasaOorvalam
TransportfortheGroomandhisfamilyfrom/toAirport/Station/Busstandto/from
MarriageHall
Transportforlocalvisits/emergencypurchasesetc
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Extrabeddingsforrelatives/friendswhoarestayingintheMarriagehall
RoomsinanearbyhotelforrelativesandfriendsofBrideandBridegroom,ifreqd
MakeupoftheBride
SastrigalSambavanai(ofBride'sside)
ArrangementforHoneymoon(Optional

Girl'smama'sseer
SareeandblouseforBride
GoldRingforBride
MettiforBride
SareeandblouseforBride'smother
VeshtiTowelShirtforbride'sfather
Boy'sside
Manjal,kunkumam,Sandhanam

PrintinganddistributionofInvitation
GoldRingFortheBride
GoldChain/necklaceFortheBride
GoldBraceletFortheBride
WatchFortheBride
(Outoftheabovefouritems,theitemsprovidedduringNischayatharthamneednotbe
providedatthetimeofmarriage)
Dressforthebridegroom(Pant,coat,shirtforJanvasam,Veshtishirtfornalanguetc)
DressforBride(forGrahapravesam)
DressforBride'sparents(SambandhiMariathai)
DressforBridegroom'sparents,sisters,brothersandtheirchildren
DressforBridegroom'srelatives
Thirumangalyam(50%shareifagreedto)
Dress(oramount)forBride'sbrother(Poriidudhal)
NalanguVilayadalSaamaangal
Air/Train/BusTransportarrangementsfromBridegroom'scitytothecityofmarriagefor
Bridegroom'sfamilyandfriends
SastrigalSambavanai(ofBridegroom'sside)
ArrangementforHoneymoon(IfnotarrangedbyBride'sside)
SastrigalSambavanai(ofBridegroom'sside)
VisittoKulaDeivamKoiltofulfillPrarthana

Boy'smamaseer
SareeandblouseforBridegroom'smother
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VeshtiTowel/Pantshirtforbridegroom'sfather
DressforBridegroom

Marriage1stYearSeer
Theseertobearrangedforvariousfestivalsduringthe1styearofMarriagearedetailed
below.
Girl'sSide
Manjal,Kunkumam,VetrrilaiPaakku,Pazham(commonforallfestivals)

8thDayafterMarriage(MaruAzhaippu)
Saree,BlouseforDaughter
Pant,Shirt(orTShirt)forsoninlaw
ParuppuThengai
KaradaiyanNombu
Saree,BlouseforDaughter
Shirt(orTShirt)forsoninlaw
TamilNewYearsDay
Gift(someamount)
AadiFestival
Saree,BlouseforDaughter
Pant,Shirt(orTShirt)forsoninlaw
SilverTumbler
VaralakshmiNombu(Ifapplicable)
SilverSombu
SilverAmmanmugham
SilverPlate
SilverPanchaPaathram,uddharani
Saree,BlouseforDaughter
Shirt(orTShirt)forsoninlaw

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Navaraathri
Saree,BlouseforDaughter
Shirt(orTShirt)forsoninlaw
GoluBommai(someoldandsomeNew)
Deepavali
SilkSaree,BlouseforDaughter
Pant,Shirt(orTShirt)forsoninlaw
ParuppuThengai
2Sweetsand2Savouries
Dressforsoninlaw'sparents
Dressforsoninlaw'ssister/brother(iftheyaccompanysoninlawforDeepavali)
KaarthigaiDeepam
Saree,BlouseforDaughter
Shirt(orTShirt)forsoninlaw
SilverVilakku
BrassAgalVilakku
MudAgalVilakku
AtokenamountforOil
AvalPoriinaEversilverDabba
NelPoriinaEversilverDabba
ParuppuThengai
1Sweet
Pongal
Saree,BlouseforDaughter
Pant,Shirt(orTShirt)forsoninlaw
BronzePaanai
SippalThattu,Karandi
Note:Ifachildisbornbeforetheendofthe1stYear,dressforthechildtobeincludedfor
therelevantfestivals
Boy'sside
Manjal,kunkumam,Sandhanam
CrakersforDeepavali
SambanthiethirMariathaiforallfestivals
Veshti,Towel,Saree,Blouseoratokenamount
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Pregnancy

Girl'sside
Manjal,Kunkumam,Sandhanam
During5thmonthofpregnancy
Saree,Blousefordaughter
1Sweetand1Savory
Valaigappu(tobedoneseparatelyin6thor8thmonthoralongwithSeemandham)
VeshtiforPillaiyar
SilkSaree,Blousefordaughter(blackSareecanbeboughtonlyforthisoccasion)
GoldKaappu
SilverKaappu
Gold,KarugamaniBangles1pair
PattuPaai
KannaadiBanglesfordaughter(oddnoinonehandandthenextevennointheotherhand,
forexample21inonehandand22intheotherhand))
KannaadiBanglesforallladieswhoattendthefunction
KannadiBanglesforcloserelative/friendladieswhocannotattendthefunction.
SareeandblouseforMarumanailady
DressforMarumanaiKanyaPenn.
SambaavanaifortheValaiyalKarar
Poo,Pazham,Vetrilaipaakku,Thengai
Seemandham(Tobeperformedin6thor8thmonth)
VeshtiTowelforsoninlaw
9yardsSaree,blousefordaughter
SeerBatchanam(2sweetsand2Savouries21or31each)
Batchanamfordistribution
Poo,Pazham,Vetrilaipaakku,Thengai
Maalaifordaughterandsoninlaw
Gifttotheladiesattendingthefunction
Breakfast/lunch(tobesharedwithSambandhi)
Boy'sside
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Manjal,kunkumam,Sandhanam
Valaigappu
Seemandham
Dressfortheson
Dressforthedaughterinlaw
Hallforthefunction
Breakfast/Lunch(tobesharedwithGirl'sside)
VaathiarSambaavanai
Itemsreqdforpuja(listtobeobtainedfromSastrigal)
Thaambulamfortheinvitees

Delivery(Whenthefirsttwochildrenareborn)
Girl'sside
Manjal,Kunkumam,Sandhanam
HospitalExpenses
Dressforthenewborn
Accessoriesneededfordaughterandthenewborn
Sweet/Chocalatefordistribution
Boy'sside
Manjal,kunkumam,Sandhanam
Sweet/Chocalatefordistribution
Dressforthenewborn

Punyahavachanam
TobeorganisedbyGirl'sside
Tobeperformed(onthe11thdayafterbirthorasadvisedbythedoctor)
Girl'sside
Manjal,Kunkumam,Sandhanam
SareeBlousefordaughter
Veshti,Towel,Shirtforsoninlaw
Dressforthenewborn
NaaiKaasu,thayatthuforthenewborn
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GoldAranaforthenewborn
Poo,Pazham,vetrilaiPakku,thengaietc
Breakfast/Meals
ParuppuThengai
Poojaitemsasreqdbythesastrigal
DecorationofThottil
Boy'sside
Manjal,kunkumam,Sandhanam
AthaiKaappu(tobedoneon7thdayafterbirthbytheatahi/sorthegrandparentsofthe
newborn)
PonKaappu
SilverKaappu
CopperKaappu
Kaaparisi
VaathiarSambavanai
Dressforthenewborn
GoldChain/Banglesforthenewborn

KuzhandayaiKonduViduthal
(HandingoverthenewborntotheSambandhi's)
Girl'sside
Manjal,Kunkumam,Sandhanam
Dressfordaughter
Dressforthenewborn
Dressfortheotherchildren,ifany
Jewellaryforthenewborn
ParuppuThengai
1Sweetand1Savory
Poo,Pazham,VetrilaiPaakku,Thengaietc
Boy'sside
Manjal,kunkumam,Sandhanam
Ethirmariathaiforthesambandhis(Optional)

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Tobeorganisedbyboy'sside
Tobeperformedonthe1stbirthday(asperbirthstar)
Girl'sside
Manjal,Kunkumam,Sandhanam
GoldJewellaryforthechild(Chain/Banglesetc)
GoldEarRing1pairforthechild
Silverplateforthechild
SilverTumblerforthechild
SilkPaavaadai,Blouseforthechild(ifgirl)
Pant/Drawer,Shirt(ifboy)
Saree,blousefordaughter
Veshti,towel,Shirtforsoninlaw
ParuppuThengai
ThirattiPaal
SeerBatchanam1Sweetand1Savory(21or31each)
Kaaparisi
Maalaiforthechild
Poo,Pazham,VetrilaiPakku,Thengaietc
Photo/Video(byeitherside)
OnEnglishBirthday
Dressforthechild
Boy'sside
Manjal,kunkumam,Sandhanam
Hallforconductingthefunction
Catering
Jewellaryforthechild
Dressforthechild
PoojaitemsasreqdbytheSastrigal
VathiarSambavanai
SambandhiethirMariathai(dressoramount)
ThengaiPai,Giftfortheattendees
OnEnglishBirthday
Dressforthechild
Cake

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Upanayanam
Tobeorganisedbyboy'sside
(tobedonewhentheboy'sageis7/9/11etc(running)
Girl'sside
Manjal,Kunkumam,Sandhanam
Pattuveshtifortheboy
Dress(PantShirtfortheboy)Optional
Goldchain/RingfortheboyOptional
SilverPanchaPaathiram,uddharani
GoldandSilverpoonal
SilverPlateforBitchai
SilverKinnamforBitchai
EversilverVesselforBitchai
Saree,BlouseforBoy'smother
Veshti,TowelforBoy'sfather
SeerBatchanam(ParuppuThengai,ThirattiPaal,1sweet1Savoury)
Poo,Pazham,VetrilaiPaakku,Thengaietc
Boy'sside
Manjal,kunkumam,Sandhanam
Two4muzhaVeshtifortheboy/DressforBoy
DressforBoy'sparents/grandparents
Dressforboy'sbrothers,sisters,broinlaw,sisinlawandchildren
Invitationtobeprintedanddistributed
Hallforthefunction(11/2days)
1VeshtiTowelfortheBrahmachari(KumaraBojanam)
VaathiarSambaavanai
Catering
Pujaitems(ListtobeobtainedfromSastrigal)
EthirMariathaiforSambandhis
Thaambulamfortheinvitees

Grahapravesam
Tobeorganisedbyboy'sside
Girl'sside
Manjal,Kunkumam,Sandhanam
SareeBlousefordaughter
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Pant,Shirt,Veshti,Towelforsoninlaw
Dressforthechildren
Dressforsoninlaw'sparentsOptional
SilverVilakku
Goldjewellaryforsoninlaw(Chain/Braceletetc)
Jewellaryfordaughter(Chain/Necklace/Banglesetc)
EversilvervesselandKarandiforboilingMilk
OnePairParuppuThengaai
SwamyPadams
Poo,Pazham,VetrilaiPaakku,Thengaietc
Boy'sside
Manjal,kunkumam,Sandhanam
Dressforson(Optional)
Dressfordaughterinlaw(Optional)
Dressforthechildren
Catering(Optional)
Poojaitemsasreqdbythesastrigal(Optional
VaathiaarSambavanai(Optional
EthirMariathaiforSambandhis(Dressoramount)Optional

Shastiapthapoorthy
Tobeorganisedbyboy'sside
Girl'sside
Manjal,Kunkumam,Sandhanam
Tirumangayam
Metti
Saree,Blouse
,,Veshti,Angavastram
2,Garland2
,,,,,Flower,Coconut,Betalleaf,Supari
Boy'sside
Manjal,kunkumam,Sandhanam
Dressforself,wife,daughters,sons,sonsinlaw,daughtersinlawandgrandchildren.
Invitationtobeprintedandditributed
Hallforthefunction(twodays)
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Catering
VaathiarSambaavanai
Itemsreqdforpuja(ListtobeobtainedfromSastrigal)
Thaambulamfortheinvitees

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SSKrishnan
March2011

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46comments:
Anonymous December27,2012at3:07AM
CanyoupleasepostforSadabhishekam?Thanks.
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Anonymous August7,2013at10:50PM
Veryuseful!Thanks.
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Anonymous August18,2013at7:43PM
reallycool!
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Anonymous September17,2013at9:45AM
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Lovely.Itsveryuseful
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usha September22,2013at7:40PM
excellentitisveryusefulfortheyoungergeneration
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Anonymous September25,2013at1:02AM
Veryveryuseful.Thanksmuch..Iamreferringthisformybrother'swedding
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bhavanivedhagiriselvi October1,2013at4:03PM
Hithere,awesomesite.Ithoughtthetopicsyoupostedonwereveryinteresting.Itriedto
addyourRSStomyfeedreaderanditafew.takealookatit,hopefully
Icanaddyouandfollow.

VedicAstrologyPredictions
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Unknown November24,2013at10:12PM
CanyoupleasegivethedetailsofNathanarseer(vilaiyadalitems)inmarriage?
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Changer December16,2013at6:10PM
MostofeveryexpensesistobeincurredbyBride'sparentswhataboutBoy?nothing.Due
to this long customs No parents interested to give birth to Girl child. Today Every thing
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changing but demand is as it is why because in the mind of Indian People FREE is first.
Duetothistypeoftypicalmentalitytodayrationofgirlchildisdroppingdaybydayineach
and every community and if this type of trend is continue then one day all the above
customs reversed and then after also NO GIRL available for Boy. So beware and stop
demand from bride's parents and harrasing them in the name of customes. Otherwise See
todaysituation,Girlsarerejectingboyandafter10years?
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prabhakaran August12,2014at7:25AM
Nowadaysgirl'smothersareaddingsomanythingsassheistakingasprestige
and also the girls are earning much. Beacuse of this so many unwanted items
are added( one item for example is Bracelet). If we follow the original demands
(ratherwecancallitasrequirements)initiatedbyourelderseventodaywecan
celebratethemarriageeconomicallyandhappilyonlyrequirementisMindset

renijiya February20,2015at11:59AM
Attheendonlyboyngalgoingtolivetogethernnotthiskattusadhambracelet
necklacechainsilvertumblerwillnotgivepeaceinliferatheritcreateallproblem
likeexpectation,pokingnmakingfunifnotfullfilled
gender equality is imp.........both parents should expect tat their children r living
happilynpeacefullynbehaveaccordingly,duringthoseoldendayswen nothing
is there to eat where does they(gals father) afford for a silver or gold.these
customs are to bind the relatives like athai mama sambandhis now a days no
onedoeslikeeachother,turnawaytheirfaces.ultimatelybridengroomshouldbe
happy in getting together.Now a days girls r going for work n getting equal
importance in the society so no one bothered n r least interested in getting
marriedortheyliketobeinlivingrelationshipsochangeaccordingtothecurrent
generations.i think in coming years after 2 3 gen ppl may comeback for these
kindofcategorywentheyvelotofmoneynnopeaceintheirlife.
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gurumurthyvenkatesan February4,2014at1:03PM
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thanksveryuseful
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umasekhar April2,2014at5:47PM
Great!Itwillbeveryusefulforeveryone.Ilookeditupformyniece'sengagement.I think
weneedtotakeaprintoutandmakeitachecklisttoo.
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Mathangi May17,2014at3:01PM
Canulistdownbasicvilayadalseeritems??
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sudhakar July8,2014at10:24PM
good. It will be useful to add the Seerbatchanam(kai murrukku adirasam,gopuram sweets
etc)sudhakarifuneedSeerbatchanamplcontact8939579923
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GRSubramanian July19,2014at5:15PM
IamfromGavarapattuandsettledatChennai.Nicetoseeablogonausefulsubjectfrom
apersonbelongingtofamilyfromGavarapattu.Youcanalsoaddthesignificanceofrituals
performedatmarriage.
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kiranmayi October6,2014at1:20AM
Beingaladyireallydontlikethesetypeofcustomsandtraditionsonlytogirlsidefamilies.
Itmakesthegirltobesadinsteadofmakingherhappyatthepregnancytime.Nogirlwill
like these type of consequences.please try to keep all the girls happy atleast during this
timeassheisdoingalotforthesocietyasaawhole.

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Anonymous October23,2014at5:29PM
verynice
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AshokSwaminathan January12,2015at7:55PM
Deliberately and with full attention, avoid these girlboy / region / sub sub sub caste /
generationcomments.Personalgrievancestoo.Youareonthispageonownvolition.
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Anonymous January28,2015at9:43AM
Onlyonedeliverygirl'ssidenotfortwochildren.Nowadaysitstoomuch.Plddon'tburden
girl'sside.Trytobebroadmindedtoshareecpensesandgivingcomforttothenewcouples.
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Majority of the formalities r from girls side..This really shows how much burden the boys
side family will put on girls side.. These customs will never help a family grow it just
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nicelycollecteverythingfromgirlsideinthenameofmappilaiorsoninlaw..
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Anonymous July27,2015at1:17PM
Iagree...totalburdenongirl'sside!
In my case too.. they demand gold chains n rings n silver articles openly without any
hesitation. but when i am bearing their grand child not even a gram of gold. If asked they
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T.Bhavya August2,2015at11:55AM
Thoughbridegroom'sfamilydon'tdemand,agirl'sfamilydoinfearthattheguy'sfamilymay
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T.Bhavya November10,2015at5:26PM
In iyengar for seemandham all expenses need to be beared by boy's side. No sharing of
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