Create MEANING In Women's Lives

Today's newsletter goes DEEP, this is not KOOL-AID drink here, this is ADVANCED FUEL
FOR SUCCESS WITH WOMEN.
One of the coolest things to me is the fact that a man CAN attract virtually any woman by
the power of his PERSONALITY.
This personality is really a combination of PSYCHOLOGICAL SKILLS at a supremely
high level, and these skills have nothing to do with controlling HER, they have to do with
accessing parts of your mind you mat not even realize you HAVE.
Three fundamental components of these skills involve:
1. Creating MEANING in her life.
2. Creating HUMOR through emotional RISK, VULNERABILITY, and TRUTH.
3. Social INTELLIGENCE.

NUMBER 1:
CREATE MEANING IN HER LIFE
Help give a woman MEANING in her life, and she will be yours forever. Especially if this
meaning is linked to improving her self-esteem on a very deep level.
Of course, step one in this is practicing what you preach.
We are currently living in a time where there is almost ZERO pressure on anyone to have
ANY values whatsoever.
I dont think its a coincidence that more people are depressed and find their lives
meaningless, ESPECIALLY attractive women, than ever before, during a time when there is
very very VERY little moral code being enforced socially.
So, because there is no moral code to live BY, there is very little for people to life FOR.

Let me be specific:
In previous generations, there was a value on various different things, for example, things
like FAMILY, things like LOYALTY, things like FIDELITY, things like EXPERIENCE, things
like INTELLIGENCE.
These were actually promoted.
Today, however the OBSESSION is with YOUTH.
Its all because of societal changes, and how everything became about "me" and making
money rather than anything else.
It's not a conspiracy though, it's just business gone out of control because there aren't any
many competing forces or competing values anymore.
Companies know that if they can get the KIDS, they can have them for LIFE, and milk them
financially for LIFE. And a lot of parents are themselves the product of these values, so
they aren't helping.
Also, kids and youth have LESS EXPERIENCE, are LESS WISE, and are easily
manipulated by their EMOTIONS, especially by appealing to violence and to the most basic
sexual things.
So for example, the vast majority of the movies that come out are focused on youth, to get
the youth audience, they are also focused on violence and sex in the most non-creative,
non-artistic, and primitive ways, because to a bunch of teenagers whose hormones just
kicked in, this appeals to them, its all a new thing to them.
But while in the past this was just one part of what was available in our culture, now its
virtually EVERYTHING.
In the 1950s, Superman was played by an actor in his 40s. A couple of years ago,
Superman was played by an actor in his 20s or 30s.
In the 1950s, sure, a womans beauty was attractive, but today its her YOUTH that is
the main thing. In fact, I would say that if you took a sample of the women who were in
billboards, movies, tv shows in the 50s and 60s, and 70s, they were on average MORE
beautiful than the women being celebrated today, but they werent as young in general.

In even the recent past, Cindy Crawford and Madonna were hitting their prime only PAST
the age of 25, while today its gone nuts with Britney Spears priming at 18, Miley Cirus, etc.
And the obsession with the sexual, as soon as any celebrity gets any fame whatsoever,
its BOOM straight to the maximum graphic display immediately.
Its not just movies, its almost everything that is being advertised- and that totals BILLIONS
of dollars a year, billions worth of MESSAGES being bombarded everywhere telling us its
only about youth.
So of course women are uptight and nervous, especially the ones who think they have a
chance, i.e. the attractive ones, because other ones have to let go of this illusion fantasy
and are probably happier for it, learning the lesson early that self-esteem is not about being
under 20 years old.
This obsession with youth stems from marketing efforts by companies, and on a smaller
level, there is nothing that is considered TABOO now- so there are companies that sell
dating sites on cheating on your spouse with other cheating people, companies will do
whatever they need to do to SELL, period, regardless of the moral questions involved,
in fact they will turn things around and try to make it seem like a morally good thing.
Its not a coincidence that more women than ever are on PROZAC. Its not a coincidence
that relationships are disintegrating while the obsession with material and youth is on the
rise. People are chasing after what they hope will bring them MEANING, but they aint
getting it no matter how high they climb.
If you want to attract a woman on the deepest level, then you need to have a STRONGER
SENSE OF MEANING than most people have. And this means a stronger sense of
VALUES than most of our society has.
This requires taking a RISK, it means that you have to NOT be afraid of going AGAINST
social convention in this respect and in fact you should be PROUD of it.
This is part of what I mean by the difference between a GREAT MAN and a nice guy.
Nice guy seems to have a weak connotation to it, while a great man does everything in
his life out of genuine CONVICTION, he doesnt do things out of PRESSURE to fit in.
Next time, youre chatting to a woman, see if you can make a comment or lend a
perspective that ILLUSTRATES that in fact you HAVE MEANING in your life and that it
shows through the things you say.

If youre in a bookstore and a woman is reading VOGUE in the magazine section or

whatever, maybe TELL her, with a sense of HUMOR, I hope you dont take those articles
seriously.
Theyre just trying to make women insecure, in fact theres a big conspiracy where the
mens and womens magazines just share the same articles but change the titles so they
can sell them to each audience!
And when you say this, COMMIT to it with your voice tonality, dont say it with a nambypamby attitude. Make it REAL.
This is TRUTH mixed with HUMOR mixed with a sense of VALUES, particularly the value of
SELF-ESTEEM!
NUMBER 2:
HUMOR IS RISK, VULNERABILITY, TRUTH
The reality is that humor makes a woman FEEL good, and women are often MORE affected
by FEELINGS when it comes to most things than men are. Men DO get emotional about
CERTAIN things, but not as MANY things as women do, in general. So humor is VERY
POWERFUL with women.
The irony of making humor work is that you have to say the very things that most people
would NOT say, and the things you say have to have TRUTH behind them, AND the things
have to be said in a way that is not mean-spirited.
Most guys dont want to take the emotional RISK that there wont be a laugh, theyre too
afraid of their own ego.
But as Robin Williams says, this is COMEDY, this isnt about you having to jump off a
building, its about TALKING, the worst thing is that they dont LAUGH, so what??????
You can actually learn to get an adrenaline RUSH from this risk, and get ADDICTED to it in
a good way, which will make you VERY FUNNY VERY FAST.
And again, there has to be truth to it. Like when Robin Williams talks about how
UNREALISTIC beer commercials are and how people get sucked into drinking beer by
believing its a healthy thing! All these beer commercials usually show BIG MEN, MANLY
MEN, doing manly things! Youve just killed a small animal, its time for light beer!

Why not have a REALISTIC beer commercial show a REALISTIC thing about beer?
Its 5 oclock in the morning, youve just pissed on a dumpster- ITS MILLER TIME!
Or when Dave Chappelle makes the comment, Chivalry is dead. And women killed it!
This is FUNNY, because it takes guts to say, and its TRUE in many ways because
FEMINISM tried to make women and men the SAME, thereby destroying things like
chivalry.
So you have to take the comedy RISK, and you also have to be VULNERABLE, you cant
be afraid to BRING OUT WHO YOU REALLY ARE.
Yes, the irony is that being courageous enough to bring out the perspectives that you see,
that other people wont say, INCLUDING THE THINGS THAT MAKE YOU VULNERABLE,
are actually very often the things that everyone has on their mind but are just afraid to say,
and so now you have her RESPECT as well, and she sees all this as STRENGTH.
So you are revealing your identity, you are being strong, you are being vulnerable, you are
being honest, and you are being FUNNY all at once. No wonder humor is such a powerful
drug when used right.
NUMBER 3:
SOCIAL INTELLIGENCE
This is a HUGELY important concept you want to put into action when socializing or
interacting with any woman.
The other day I happened to see something on television. Talk show host Jimmy Fallon had
a certain guest on, she was talking about one of her many luxurious homes, and how she
was enjoying FISHING from the very backyard of one of her homes, how it connects right to
a POND, etc, etc.
Now, I know everyone knows these people are wealthy, but really, do people WANT to know
about all of her homes? Do people want to hear HER talking about her luxury life? The
answer is NO, its not cool to talk about this and no one is interested really in this- and
Jimmy Fallon KNOWS that this is not making the audience feel better, so what does he do?
He says how he just went ICE FISHING LOCALLY and froze his butt off, and how he didnt
even HAVE THE TALENT OR SKILL to make the hole himself and how he and his friend
just froze out in the cold trying to catch a fish but ended up getting NOTHING.

Ahhh, now the audience LAUGHS and feels GREAT. Its winter now and they are all
freezing their butt off too.
Normally, he won't be so self-deprecating, but in the MOMENT it was the right thing
to do because he tapped into the VIBE of the audience and he knew where they were
emotionally at that moment.
This is exactly what you want to be doing with women, you have to know what's going on
and how to adjust for the situation.
And do they think that Jimmy Fallon is a loser for this? Of course not.
If anything, they like him even more from all this, and its obvious from the audience
response.
When chatting up a woman, think about HER emotions, and realize that showing off is
basically NEVER the right thing to do, and Im not just talking morally, its actually NOT cool
at all.
It makes you seem needy and insecure.
By the way, Im sure the guest didnt intend anything negative at all, and that in reality she
IS a cool person who was just nervous at the moment. Just like a lot of guys who are
decent guys UNINTENTIONALLY sabotage their results with women. And I used to be
the KING of these mistakes, thinking to myself I really want to impress this woman, so Ill
tell her the most impressive things possible about myself. I cringe to think about the
mistakes I made even if they were years ago.
And if youre reading this right now, and want to learn the RIGHT way to interact with
women, and especially the right way to get a GREAT quality woman for a fantastic
relationship, then I suggest you get my MOST POWERFUL program: WARRIOR WITHIN.

Till next time,

Michael