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Process Recording Univ 392
Process Recording Univ 392
Scott Harris
UNIV 392
July 6, 2016
where I sat down and chatted with Andrew, his mother, father and little
sister at the picnic just before this debrief. His mother hadnt seemed
nervous, in fact she was cracking jokes at the expense of her husband
and son. And Andrew hadnt seemed at all worried about having to
acclimate to life as a college student, always quick to laugh or make a
joke (the apple doesnt fall far from the tree).
Reflection: Yet, I realize, Im very much the same way when Im worried
or nervous: I put on a happy, Ive-totally-got-this face. Having moved 7
times before I turned 16 means I can slap on a happy, Ive-totally-gotthis face before I even realize Ive done so. I begin recalling Andrew
walking up to the front of the group as we walked between sessions or
asking me as I ushered them into a row of seats what I would
recommend for finding a niche here at Loyola, how close do each floor
of the res hall really get, and what my favorite thing about Loyola is.
And at the picnic his mother asked about academics and if he were to
join a fraternity would there still be anyone available to help him with
his studies; what was my experience with balancing social and
academic life? I was more than happy to talk about my experiences
here at Loyola and share my excitement with Andrew and his family. I
hadnt thought much of the questions or what possible motives for
asking those specific questions could have been, looking back now
though Im realizing that everyone actually does process big life
changes differently. Ive always assumed that Im one of the few who
can mask it well, but I was clearly mistaken. I dont think this
experience will cause me to act drastically differently in similar
situations, but perhaps Ill realize the possible significance of my
answers and make sure I am more intentional and as informative as
possible.