KWTC - Lecture

Date:
July 2, 1992
Location:
Espanola, NM
Start the ge, ge, ge, ge, ge, all the time like idiot beggars you go around e, e,
e, e, the attention seekers. Your dress up is attention seeker, your talk is
attention seeker. You know I have a one relative of mine she talks like a baby
talk, after three minutes I go to bathroom, I feel like vomiting, I leave the
room, can't stand the impact of it. (?) I don't know how they do it but God it's
nauseating.
Once in Los Angeles I was in a party and this woman was coming on and on
and on, I told her I said, "In spite of the fact you are very beautiful I don't
want to reject you but I can't handle, leave me alone."
Sometime precious things are not sold and bought. They are not required
and conquered, let the hand of God do it, let this will prevail. Life is a
privilege, let everything be privileged, don't have any right, you don't have
right anyway. Your total life is just two seconds, one breath in, one breath out
you are done, what are you fighting for? He rotates the planet Earth, He will
take care of your routine, believe Him.
You know, one of my staff member is saying, I said, "Well, you have not gone
there?"
He said, "Well, I don't have a car."
I said, "We have so many cars, what to do?"
She said, "But this is, (?)" explain me again.
I said, "Then stand impact, stand straight, you will get a car, see where it
comes from."
She looked left, she looked right but what to do, she is a uniform officer.
I said, "Stay steady, car will appear here, wait. If it doesn't appear, I will go
and deliver you to Santa Fe."

I have a jeep which I once a while drive and it does take care of me, incase
so they looked at Fateh, "Fateh what are you doing today?"
I said, "She maybe doing anything but she is not driving them to Santa Fe,
period. Car shall appear."
All of a sudden Niranjan walked into my (?) she said, "I am not using your
car, can I give my car to her?"
I said, "You should have given to her before,
(YB's laughter)
(?) you know it is your job."
So she got the car, she left. If God can manifest this universe, He can
manifest your need, Bin boleya, Nanak's words,
'Bin boleya sab kuch janoonga.'
Without speaking He knows but still pray to Him. Though He knows, keep in
touch. The total life is touch, touch somebody once that person cannot
forget, one touch and keep in touch. Somebody kept a touch with me today
at lunch, we were sitting, finally the truth came out, she put out a picture she
said, "Well in your divine wisdom what you think?" I looked around, before
she (?) the story I said, "I think it's gone."
She said, "Yeah, yeah, but this and this and what this mean?"
God these men by their features are walking creatures, they can never be
stabilized. God create people to harass people, some He creates to harness
people but very few He create who harness themself, they are the real.
Harness your own energy, harness your own soul and just remember, what
you say through words let your body certify it, let your body language notify
it. We will continue the body language tomorrow you have few minutes to
ask me any question you want, we will have a fun. Feel free yes, yes, yes,
yes, yes, yes, yes.
Student: (-----)
YB: Man? Everybody has their own caliber. How many times you have
successfully take a twenty-two barrel gun and put 306 on it.
(Student's laughter)
What you said?

Student: Blow it up.

YB: Blow it up she said.
(YB's laughter)
That's a quick action, yeah.
Student: (-----)
YB: Yeah, this is how the cycle of destiny understand, life cycle is that your
life is eighteen years, your intelligence is eleven years and your
consciousness is seven years, first seven years your consciousness changes,
eleven years, your intelligence changes, eighteen year, your lifestyle
changes, that natural, can't be stopped, yeah.
Student: (----)
(Student's laughter)
YB: What did he say?
Student: (----)
YB: What is this?
Student: (-----)
YB: That's why he meditates, he has, he has improved his situation, that's
why he meditates and I tell him in his presence too, just remember he is my
chief protocol officer, he has the privilege to be the maximum in my
company and he knows my feelings, that's why he meditates, he never
misses it, remember?
Student: (----)
YB: Well, in your house there are eleven rooms, they are all filled and if
twenty guest come, if three of your relatives can go and stay in a hotel you
can spare three rooms, that's what mediation is. When you meditate then
you clear up lot of your garbage, you can deal with lot of life. If the
subconscious is, now her father, I know him for eighteen years, I have only
heard one word done deal; I don't know what it means but I have tried
everything left and right with him to totally do him in and all he says done
deal and it happens. Finally I gave up.

Can you believe in the middle of European tour emergency came, I told him
leave tomorrow clock, be there tomorrow, day after evening New York take
care of it. Believe me on that he was on the plane, he is still hung up there.
All I wanted him to say in life once no, maybe, we will think about it, never
happened, he has to meditate, otherwise it can't be that way but basically,
when your subconscious load your unconscious blocks it, then your
weaknesses are unbearable, unbelievable and they are continuous, therefore
to meditate, get rid of daily garbage, keep the house clean, it's the right way
to do it, yeah.
Student: (-----)
YB: Oh it's everything is best, there is only one thing, company of the holy,
something which inspire you is the best, something which drags you is the
worst, simple thing, anything which scatter you... What you call when you
drink next day they call you, you are under, what they call thing?
Students: Hangover.
YB: Anything with hang you over is your executioner, anything which gives
you bright, ecstasy, joy is your friend, whether it's a toy, it's a man or
instrument, action, reaction, thought, policy, group, question is simple; does
it uplift me or it put me down. It doesn't matter it pat you or not pat you
because in the beginning, in the middle, in the end, you is you and you is the
only important thing, rest is all unimportant. If you are not you, all what you
have is useless, take it or leave it, agree or deny, fact is a fact.
I was talking to one kid and she said, "I am in love."
I said, "I have nothing to do with that."
"What I am doing then?"
I said, "You are on the hook like a fish, you are going to go in the frying pan
soon."
"Why?"
I said, "When the fish bites the bait she thinks she got food, next minute she
knows it is right in her mouth and then string pulls it up and tightens up and
then what she does is worst thing, that's what your life is."
Hung on a hook for the greed and the need of avoiding the hunger and you
become somebody's food, ah what a life is to live and if I tell you to look into
the alphabets you don't want to. What is your identity? ID, ID, induce,
deduce, investigate and detect and then find the balance and take the pros

and the con, regression and progression, cost effectiveness and cost
incurred, net profit and the basic rate of interest to impact the investigation,
then talk to somebody and if you take one thousandth of a second, treee,
that's how it happens. What I have said all those things can you repeat.
Students: Induce, deduce, investigate (?).
YB: And then e, e, e, e, e.
Student: Find a balance, regression, progression (?).
YB: No there are two more left.
Students: (-----)
YB: Cost effect, cost effectiveness of that. Any product, any project, any
product, any project, any person who does not give you ultimate victory for
yourself is worth nothing. Whether it is California or it is Cuba it's same thing.
So, yeah, oh, oh, after a longtime, wow!
Student: (-----)
YB: Well, you can pay when you cannot teach somebody the evaluation, then
you just make a kind of deal or if you wear a turban and if you do this I will
give you a food or you know, that's a bargain. It means there is no love,
where there is a love there is no bargain. You don't bargain in love. That's
why love is God, bargain is a bargain, bargain then bargain, bargain anything
you want to bargain, then he is not your child, you are business with him.
That's what it is just like you can tell a watermelon, right? I will give you
dollar a day, look like a orange juice, I mean, I don't understand how can that
be? It doesn't make sense, yeah.
Student: What is the story with people who have children and they went into
four, five (?) and also disappeared from Khalsa women training camp (?).
YB: It's a privilege on whom God bestows will follow, whom He doesn't He
knows His accounting. My job is just to teach, my job is not to sell it, doesn't
bother me. I am not in this business, it's a privilege. You put a turban on, you
do your cranial adjustment yourself or you go to the doctor and pay him, get
it done. Every two and half-hour this twenty-six part of your skull changes, I
can't change it, it is not my problem. Your body impact of your rhythm is two
and a half hour, there are twenty-six bones in your foot, there are twenty-six
vertebrate in your spine and there are twenty-six part of the skull and they
all change, it's your job to keep their rhythm control otherwise you are out of
control, your basic energy is not there. I don't have a boutique shop to ask
everybody to put a turban but unfortunately, when your turban you know,

you have to now face it. Turban is a very difficult thing, I don't say it's easy
and with a turban you can't go in many places, it won't help you, you look
funny isn't it?
Bana is called uno, uno form, it's a one form, it's a Bana, Ba means get it, na
means there is no, no to it, there are two sounds in it. When you dress up,
when you dress up in your Bana and you look you are, then that's where you
start, then you have settled your basic value, you have evaluated yourself
and if we see something interfering with, in other words, when you wear a
Bana you are not for sale, that's what the nuns wear it, that's what priest
wear it. Pehrava (?) pehrava, my entire dealing has this basic value, it's a
kind of Bana. Bana.
What is this Sikh Dharma? Bana, Bani, Seva, Simran four things, Bana,
identify yourself, Bani, speak the words elevating, doesn't matter what,
whether you are talking to enemy or a friend, Seva, do service, it gives you
friendship and territory forever, Simran, purify yourself, without your purity
all other three you can't do. Your strength is not what you have studied in
college and study with me or this and that, your study and all the knowledge
is based on two things, your purity and your piety. If you are pure, you are
sure, if you have piety, you can go through all the variety, come out as one,
yeah.
Student: What is a Sikh?
YB: Sikh, S I K H shishya, one who wants to learn.
Student: (----)
YB: We don't ask anybody to do anything, it happens. In last twenty-four
years I have not said to anybody. Well those who wear and then go off, then I
read the words between the walls and I start getting after them because I
want to quick the process, they want to leave they should leave, they want
to stay, then they should stay, it's not, it's, it's definite, a situation which
people turn on to, there are some students of mine, they have been student
for a longtime they don't wear it, that's fine but if a Sikh, if he wants to be a
Sikh or a he wants to be a Khalsa then he must follow the discipline. You can
remain a yoga student all your life and don't do it, there is nothing between a
student, student is a student, anybody can come and learn, anybody can
practice, anybody can leave the practice. There is no, no, no chasing, it's not
a go and get it business.
A woman came to me here last year, "I have come to surrender to the
master."
I said, "Okay you have surrendered. Then what next?"

"Tell me what I can do."

I told her three things, she couldn't do one, she wrote me a very nice letter, I
wrote her thank you for the experience.
Student: (-----)
YB: No nothing, there is no difference, we teach what we teach, some follow,
some don't, student can keep on following, not following, but when it come
to a Sikh you are on a hotplate, then you perform. I mean, now we are very
few and very funny looking, when the Aquarian Age is set in, just watch my
words for twenty years after this what people will be, they will be solid rock,
they will penetrate, there will be a time in people when one man will save
hundreds and thousands from all depression and departure of life. Our life is
not our own, what is the idea to put a, be a Sikh when you do not understand
ABC of our own self. I am trying to bring that whole scene together.
Somebody may come through, that's what I am looking for, I am not looking
for, what is the difficulty, I am a businessman, I do my business, I pay my
bills, I am fine. I have never asked anybody ever for help or money, I always
create it.
Somebody once asked me, she was a lady chief of staff of the Governor, she
said, "Yogi Ji, what is your faculty?"
I said, "Honey, I know how to make money."
This is no fun, it's a privilege if I ask somebody do something for me, it is just
a test and it is, I just have to test his accuracy, I don't care somebody is good
or bad, all I know is the person destiny, I want him to fulfill it and some do,
some don't. Some runaway, some fall apart, it's a organic process, it's not
that everybody is great and everybody is not great, it's the moment of test
whether the person pass it or flips it. Sikh is a Sikh, Sikh is a committed
being who has learned to learn to teach to learn and it's learning is his guide,
not he in physical, that's the difference and when somebody calls himself
Khalsa, then it's their purity, is their guide, not themself. That's why every
Sikh has to identify himself and we are called Singh, Singh means the beast,
the king of the beast, no hanky-panky. Woman is called Kaur, that's the
princess. If you call yourself princess and you start begging here, there,
jerking around, who will agree to it. They say there was a princess she slept
on a bed, there were about so many mattresses and she said, "I am very
uncomfort." They found on the sixteenth mattress there was a little wrong
braiding, so I mean, it's a how sophisticated you can be.
When I came to United State or Canada, it was not a on my forehead written,
I am a yogi, people didn't know my name, I was Yogi Bhaan, they didn't know

what they are talking about and we never told anybody to become a Sikh or
not Sikh, it all happened. It is on those who the God's will and His will has to
be sued and I wanted to take a chance, I took it once in last lifetime, I am
stuck here. According to my horoscope I was not supposed to live more than
forty-eight, so I came here about a thirty-nine year old, I said, "Eight, nine
years I will be gone." I am stuck, you think I am happy?
My day starts in the morning with first information, sorry to sir bother you
there is a bad news. If it's on the other side Niranjan will say, "Wow! Sat
Nam, havo ji, listen to this." That's her job, that's our job. What is our job? To
clean everybody's garbage. What we do? Whole day the staff of mine and
these people of mine you think them... You know I am very grateful I go after
Guru Ki's blood yesterday, this morning I say, "You didn't dress yesterday
properly because you are a commanding girl you should be dressed
gracefully and properly."
And she said, "I was so well dressed."
I said, "No, your skirt was not pressed.
It was silk skirt wasn't it?" Yeah.
I can't see but when I do this I can see very clearly, so she well get dressed,
stand-up, let us see how dressed up you are. That's good dress, at least she
is moderately dressed.
(Student's laughter)
Idea is not that you want something. The thing of beauty is joy for
everybody, thing of beauty is not to put a hook in somebody. You know that
is where we are different, we beautify ourself to hook somebody. If we beauty
ourself just to provide joy like a flower gives fragrance, so somebody can be
exalted, that's beauty, that's God but when you are beautiful, just to put your
hook into somebody, then it is a prostitution of the identity of a person's own
life and it's not forgiven by any way and mean, simple as that.
I don't know where we are going, we are going He is taking us, we are going,
that much we know. This is not what you see here, this is Aquarian Age.
There are millions people who ODed and died and left their homes to bring
this consciousness in America. We all worked hard, we started with nothing,
we are all kids, that's what this camp 3HO, healthy, happy and holy and I
said, "Everybody who has nine holes is holy, just watch how you use it."
Health is what you eat, change your food, you will be fine, happy you can be
if you can sacrifice beyond you, otherwise there is no happiness. Simple
things, they are so simple people don't like. People are, I see people in the
airplane having a five, six hundred page book, what they call, seven dollar or

something, this big thick book, they read it, I am just, my God, what this man
is hassling for. They can't kill their time, they kill themself, they can't kill their
time, what are you talking about? Watch these guys, nauseated all the time,
we are all nauseated, drunk, scared and for nothing.
How many gallons of gas you need to rotate this planet Earth once? Count,
we can't provide even the number, why are we are upset about? It's rotating,
just few days Los Angeles shaking, look everybody is falling apart. People
want to know where to go. When they are in Los Angeles tell them where to
go, they say, "You go we are here."
Twenty-three years ago when I came in, I landed in Los Angeles, I started in
Los Angeles, I came here, slowly and gradually we building it up. There is
nothing folks, the only thing in life is what you believe it is, there is nothing,
they all started believing, they all started trusting, they all started following,
they all started believing they are teachers, they all starting, many don't
come now, they are fat, they too much stuff.
Once I asked a woman, I said, "Let us swim."
She said, "I can't do it."
I said, "What's wrong with you?"
She said, "Oh you don't know, there is lot of bulk."
(Student's laughter)
I said, "Well I see it, what is the big difference?"
She said, "Sir, you know it's very embarrassing."
"Bhai, if so embarrassing don't eat all those sixteen, twenty-nine things in a
minute you eat." She gobbles, I told her, I said, "Chew the food," there goes.
(Student's laughter)
Then naturally you go this.
When I get fat I am so troubled because I know my metabolism is wrong and
it's a fatigue, it's overdoing all that, I know the whole thing but I take a
calculated risk and there are so many prayers anyway, they are working it
out but there are very funny people, they could have been A one perfect,
they just lost the goal, they lost the path for nothing. People are so lonely
here in this country I have never seen anywhere, they are so lonely, they
have no consciousness, they have a spirit, soul, they have no consciousness,

their mind is their servant, not their master, they have no consciousness that
they are they and everybody is seeking somebody and when you seek
somebody, you pay for it, nothing is free. What's wrong with that? You ask for
it, you got it, what they say that?
Student: (-----)
YB: Tayota?
(YB's laughter)
You ask for your trouble, I ask for mine, I create them if I don't have them,
that keeps going.
We have been collecting watches and somebody say, "What you are going to
do with these watches?"
I said, "I want all old good watches." Which you can wind and all that. What
you, (?) twenty years from now, there nobody will know a watch can have
one thousand parts working at the same time in absolute harmony, that's
what watch has a impact, that's what watch means. Then I said, "What our
generation will know this fifteen dollars movement tik, tik,tik, electric and
when you wear a electric watch your heart beat goes off, lot of heart attack
happens everybody knows it."
So try to understand this life is ours, it can't be given.
What else? No, there were somebody here, yeah.
Student: (----)
YB: When a girls become a teenager what part is it child, what part is adult?
No, she is, when she is a child she is very wise and she moves by the psyche,
when she becomes a teenager she wants to deal with a logic and when
parents don't have a logic they lose her. First of all a child is very powerful for
first eleven years and they can move psyche as they want.
There was a girl she was so powerful, if her father will not give her something
she will stop his urination. They went to every doctor, catheter and this and
that, finally they came to me, I said, "Well, this is a simple problem you got
to understand it. This is what she is doing."
I said, "In your home there is a psyche, she can do anything."
He said, "That's why when she leaves the door shuts automatically, she
never touches it."

I said, "Now you know?"

It's very funny her mother wants to serve some big piece to somebody, she
psychically directs it that her mother put in her plate.
(Student's laughter)
So first eleven years the child can moves with psyche and after that they
move with logic and then after eighteen they move with reason, that's all the
three ways to communicate in life, there is no other way. If you are above
eighteen and you are not rational you lost the game. Between eleven and
eighteen you deal with anybody you have to create a logic, you mean you
have to create a lobby, you have to put pros and con, plus and minus, bad
and good and then you have to give love and affection, assurances and
promises, logic is such a heavy stuff. Reason is like a rational is debate and
psyche is unlimited. There is no such thing teenager, it's a development.
And these little girls they sit with me sometime they tell me what to do,
yeah, they are very good at it.
"Sir I am this and that."
After listening all that I said, "Do you think I was never seventeen ah?"
"Yeah, you were but you are a Yogi."
I said, "No I don't exist right?" You know why they say call me at that time?
You are Yogi Ji or you are Siri Singh Sahib, it means you are out, you are
somewhere else, you don't know anything what is happening. Then I start
doing Yogi number, I said, "Day before yesterday you did this, this, right, and
your mom doesn't know it?"
(Student's laughter)
Then it goes like this, I said, "Well, now you call your friend and you have this
plan, right ah? And that boy is meeting you through that and you are going
to do that and you are going (?) tell me this, this is true."
"How you know, how you know?"
I said, "Well, I am a Yogi, I am out."
I said, "I am with you."
"Okay what we want to talk sir, let's talk."

I said, "Okay let's talk."

Just now the girl was saying, now why you are taking me round and round,
let us talk.
I said, "Talk what? Hell with it, talking what? First try to know whether you are
in a position to talk, then are you in a position to listen and then can you
rationalize it? Can you do it with a logic? Can you debate it with me? Prepare
your, give you three days, then come, let us sit, we will debate it."
"Okay sir, what I have to do now."
I said, "Well, be a puppy dog, follow this girl, wherever she goes, whatever
she will copy it."
It's called monkey training; put a person with a senior for monkey training for
two and a half hour everything changes in the brain because once a monkey
training child start copying it, the brain neurons have to rearrange themself
in their slides, you save a child. There are easy things to do. If you just yell
and scream and fight and, and this and that with children, don't make sense,
to them they don't understand what you are talking, it's not their language. If
a girl is a teenager and you are not moving with her logically, you have lost
her already, you don't speak the language she wants to hear, you are out.
That night I went up there at Guru Ram Das Puri these teenagers are going
through survival course, I taught a class, (?) taught them philosophy
everything is set. I told the commanders to implement it and packed it, now
they are doing it everyday, by the time they come by passing out parade, it
will be part of their life, they can go, done a deal. There is nothing to it.
When a girl is above eleven you have to talk to her logically; below eleven
you have to talk to her psychically, above eighteen you have to be rational.
Yeah.
Student: (----)
YB: Yeah, it's same for boys, girls and for dogs, ah, oh, oh, don't laugh, it's
true, doesn't matter what you talk to Akal, whatever Niranjan says goes, he
knows I am his master but rationally he knows she is her guide, so he totally
deals with me 'yes sir' and with her he has all the emotions.
(Student's laughter)
A dog, they, they are very good because that's why it is dog because God
and dog they are opposite of each other.

Student: (----)
YB: Ah, ah dog is infinite, you know that? If you are the master of dog you
misbehave to the worst, all it say, put his face down, humans can't do it.
Human cannot serve a master and those who can serve a master become
masters. That's why you have Johnson and masters something like that here.
Your problem is sexual, not anything else, yes dear.
Student: (----)
YB: Ah can you sound your question.
Student: (----)
YB: Oh stepparents, stepparents have to just one step forward, no difference.
Stepparents has to be like one step advanced than the biological, biological
or natural gene and have understanding but in step parent you have to be
one step ahead of it, you have to be very aware that you are stepparents,
then you have to be little extra cautious. Parents are nothing, they are
teachers. They are God given teachers, beyond that they have no personality
because when a child is going to grow up, they are going to go on their own
way and what are you dragging yourself with them? You have to pay the rent
as parent, pay the rent, let the tenants go, when they find their own house
give them a blessing, send them a gift, don't create a rift. Every father has to
marry a girl or she is going to go away anyway, every boy is going to find his
own career, he is not going to follow in the footstep of anybody, so why you
are attached to?
Yeah, go, go speak right from there, you don't have to get up.
Student: (-----)
YB: Um, Um.
Student: (-----)
YB: United States, oh there are lot in the community.
Student: (----)
YB: Oh is there any nurse here?
Student: (----)
YB: Yeah they send, there are lot of them.

Student: (---)
YB: Over there.
Student: (----)
YB: Ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah,
(Student's laughter)
Ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, you know sea lions, ah, ah, ah, ah.
(Student's laughter)
That's a Trinidad language, that's called Island language, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah,
ah, ah, you know where you are right, that's fine, but you are wrong then you
are wrong, takeaway all the books, takeaway all the teachings, there are
fourteen books on woman in training, they are all in English you know how to
be have English, read them, find out the eleven moons of the woman and all
that whole big deal, fourteen years knowledge is right there pick it up, go
and study and share. At least these women have done one thing. Every year
lecture they have put in a book. So far so good, um?
Student: (---)
YB: This is Guru Terath Kaur, doctor PhD, psychology, deals with the dying
people, something like that, um?
Student: (----)
YB: Old student of mine.
(Student's laughter)
Very old, very old, very loyal but she does it when she feels like, go ahead
question, I am just teasing.
Student: (----)
YB: You look very pretty today.
(Student's laughter)
What you did this morning?
Student: (----)

YB: No your eyes are very bright go ahead ah...

Side B
Question.
Student: (?) communicating logically and rationally.
YB: Logically is you have to cover all laws, laws of the body, laws of the mind,
laws of the self, laws of the environments, laws of the government, laws of
the God, laws of the faith, laws, laws, laws, laws, all laws, and when you are
rational it is reason to reason, it is debate. It's easier to be rational, it's very
difficult to be logical. That's why word psychological is when you move the
psyche with logic. In psychology we told the wholesome of the person but
professionally what we do is, just we talk, take the case and start te, te, te,
te, that's why there is a tremendous failure, yeah.
Student: (----)
YB: I will love to, what you want to be explained, go ahead.
Student: (----)
YB: Ah?
Student: (-----)
YB: That's all you have to choice, what is left other than that? You have to
sacrifice something to do something. There cannot be anything without
sacrifice.
Student: (----)
YB: Mostly. When I became a teacher, you know I used to hate being a
spiritual person? I used to mock at people who are spiritual, I used to go and
just wipe them out because I can say certain words which men of practice
understand and they know what I am hitting, I mean, they were very polite
words, like somebody is his holiness so and so and I said, "Where lives the
His?" Because he is holiness of His, normally speaking one who is holiness is
His holiness, that's the person, it's not true, he is His holiness and I will say,
"Where does the His live?" I mean it's a very polite word of mockery and he
know where I am coming from. He say, "Where His lives in which hole?"
I can play with words to the point that person will run, you know what I
mean, sometime sacrifice chooses you, sometime you choose the sacrifice

but life is nothing, everything is sacrifice. You lose one, you get another, you
lose your virginity you get married, you have your children, you lose being a
woman, you become a mother, then you are a householder, then you are a
mother, you are a wife, you are a person, now you are professionals, now you
are a nurse, then you are cook, God knows there are about sixteen things,
they say every woman has to know, thirty-six, Shatti Bhadarath, thirty-six
values every woman has to have. They are on the last page of Siri Guru
Granth, thirty-six things she must be perfect at.
Hey kids, just in Siri Guru Granth in the last reference whatever those things
are mentioned, there is a whole list of three, four pages, just read them or I
think we should duplicate them.
All right who is in charge of this camp? Guru Ki, give me the copy from Moon
Singh's last few pages of references, there is a index there four pages I think,
let me have it. You have ten minutes, yeah.
Student: (----)
YB: The Rishi knot actually is between these two solar centers what we give,
you must understand something, watch this funny thing. As your life proceed
the front hair and back hair will go away, the side won't, that's the law of
nature. So what you do is, you take the hair and put them in the middle of
the solar centers, there are two solar centers because you have two part of
the brain, the Rishi knot is always here and then we put always a wooden
comb so electromagnetic field is not changed, so by tying the hair up, up
there, we almost stop the movement of the bone structure of the skull and
once we are in fit morning young position, then we put a turban on it, seal it,
it's a simple human own energy gift, it is nothing to do with it.
Now why we cut the hair? First it started a slave cannot have hair, period, so
they wanted him dumb, so everybody, every tribe who slave another tribe
they cut the hair of everybody, that was a thing and secondly that you have
to have a iron hook around your neck, so you can tie in anytime when you
are just not behaving properly. Two things were the sign of a slave, then later
on it became, there were so many slaves and few masters, then it become a
common fashion and now I had a wonderful idea, I went to my cardiologist
office one day there was a nurse, she has the biggest, the richest and
thickest hair I have ever seen and she knew I have a beard, so she start
appreciating my beard.
I said, "Whether you appreciate my beard or not you don't have it but you
have so wonder gorgeous hair, once I used to have them like that." And I
related to her, month later or so I went back there and her hair was gone she
was almost in a boy cut.

I said, "What happened?"

She said, "Well, it was very difficult to get ready, very difficult, very difficult
so I just got."
I said, "Well that must have been made it everything easy."
She said, "No, it is a miserable hell, my husband has send me with divorce
papers."
So you know you can't say... Today hair is a problem to everybody, they can't
have it, that's why we have tons of psychologist, psychiatrist and we don't
make sense because once the cranial adjustment shifts your faculty of life
and facets of life are in conflict. That's why this Rishi-knot is here. The boy tie
frontal, you see this little boy? They all, there he is, because they push
forward but when you grow old, old people you find their Rishi-knot,
(YB's laughter)
It's natural, it's not something you can make it but right thing is to get it
together and be there because on the sides pressure then the base of your
hemisphere is steady, that's all it is.
Student: What is the impact on male children when the father does (?).
YB: It's a very simple relationship, mother is the first teacher, father is the
second, third is the teacher, teacher, fourth is the universe and fifth is the
time, unfortunate are those who learn from the time, their life is full of
tragedy, yep.
Student: What is the power of the Kanga?
YB: Power of the Kanga is to organize the impact of the hair so you can have
a basic standard to tie up there and then you stick with it, you know you
have to organize, it's when you comb the hair that way, you line it up, so
every, hairs have..., remember, hairs have a root and root is in the skull, it is
on the skull with that little, little meat and secondly the root of the hair is just
nothing but a pure protein, heavy protein they call it. If you want to see what
your hair can do, gather cut hair, put it with a mulch, stick it with the plant,
just see how fast it can grow, how big it's grow, how better it grows. It is only
the human's skull which has the longest hair among all creation, yeah, you in
the back, yep.
Student: (-----)
YB: Cry time.

Students: Quiet.
YB: Oh no, no, no, quiet time, sit with them and be quiet, don't give child
only quiet time, you are making a phobic out of the child, you sit quietly and
tell the child come on join me, that's the only quiet time the child is
supposed to have, crying time is okay, child must cry, that open up their
lungs, louder he cries, better it is, yep.
Student: (----)
YB: Divorce is the most wonderful thing because you admit you can't make
it, otherwise there is no divorce, either one of the party or both agree to not
make it and according to me, it's not, it's my personal, it's mine, any woman
who has gone for a divorce, either has gone because of father phobia or
father phenomena or there is already another man come in her life, period. I
think I have divorced uncountable people and net result comes to the exactly
same.
Student: (----)
YB: Divorce impact on children it's a disaster, it's totally disaster when you
have four parents, you play one against the other and this game will take
you from non reality to non reality in life and you are just becoming neurotic
yourself, there is never you will be in balance, it's very funny, it's very
difficult, it's very difficult and also where parents are not together, I mean to
say mother is fighting for the control with the father, that's a worst situation
than a divorce, a parents have, parents but God children are so sensitive
they know everything but they can't say, so that bring in them the
vengeance, the, they get mad.
I am going to deal with a girl, young girl sometime she must have gone mad,
now she has a impaired personality, I mean psychology has no idea what is
impaired personality is. If she sees this, she sees this is not this, this is that,
that's called impaired personality. Now what is wrong with this little girl to
suffer under them and it's a uncurable disease, I am going to work hard and
see I can pull her out of this nonsense but otherwise her life is done with. (?)
Something else, what a hell is that.
I was talking to her today she said, "(?) I am this, I am engaged, I am this."
I said, "Just fine, fine, fine, we talk. But personality is whatever you are
saying yours right but what you are saying it, you know it is not right."
She said, "That's so."

What you can do with it? There is nothing you can do with this children, the
children are totally damaged by parents, mother has a ego, she lays the
number, father has the impact he lays the number, between those two these
are little soft, sweet things damaged, I end up even not talking to them, first
of all they told all the children Yogi Ji is a yelling, screaming, bad guy, keep
away because for them it was a control issue, now everything is a come out
of the hell, now I have to work ten times more to go in and take care of it. It's
very painful to see on a cherry tree lemons growing, I can't understand, I
don't want to understand. Anybody who is here and if has any confused self
within self, you are all damaged by the circumstance environments, that's all
it is. I am not saying you have a fault, you are not in fault but what should I
do? If road is a damaged road what you can do, there are lot of pits, there
are lot of bumps, forget about the driver and the car, the tires, the gas, and
all that stuff but if the life road is damaged and damaged by those who are
supposed to nurture it.
I had a impact on a young boy, I raised him like mine and one day I found out
he is this, he is that, I took him on the corner and I said, "Say your last
prayer, I am going to kill you."
And he said, "What for?"
I said, "You are my grandson, you let me down, you be dead here." And I
don't tell because you are ladies what I did other thing I put myself, I hold
something of him which he couldn't understand I will ever do.
He said, "Okay, give me a chance." I gave up. He is fine today.
I caught one of my grandson, I like him very much, I found something wrong,
I gave him forty days of something he doesn't have even sleeping time but
he is good. Now I have to interfere now just with that impact and that's
heavy.
That day one of my kid total my car he came in, I said, "Hey, good luck."
"Are you not mad at me?"
I said, "What for?" Car is car, so long you are Ek Ong Kar, one car, hundred
cars, I just, I just had to act at that time I don't know what happened,
absolutely it's okay, it's natural, this is Espanola farting.
(Student's laughter)
This happens here in this town, this is the originality of this town, this is the
language they speak, low cars in this sound.

(Student's laughter)
Once a while they come here to let us know they exist but it's all right that's
part of life, isn't it? That's what we have created, you know what we have
created in two hundred years? We started with gangs and we end up with
gangs but in old time they were good guys, gang guys, they had a purpose,
they got it for some reason, now it is for destruction. You must understand,
children have more sensitivity than us. Some of my students, forget about
children, children is another thing, the students, they think I am after them,
they still feel I am going to take away their businesses, take away their
secret, God knows what I am going to take and if a take where I have to
take? They are so much phobic, it's unbelievable phenomena, what he
wants? What he is saying? I just saying is enjoy yourself that's all I am
saying.
These days everybody is in trouble with me because you know I have to
handle, well somebody has to takeover, I am looking for somebody.
Everybody flips, flops, freaks, last word I don't want to say. I know all the
English words but you know I am a Holy Man, so I have to keep some of my
holes clogged up, that's all it takes.
I used to teach some people are just balloons, some are just bags, some are
just being, that's a human being. Human beings, you are three things, either
you are a bag, you take all the dirt in you or you are balloon so big you can't
know, either you are being, being mean for the time being, hu means light,
man means mental, human being means now for the time being you are the
light of God, that's all practical it means.
The God is God, God is the infinite God but you are also give audience
because you are the light of God. I don't think you are all mis-produced or
you are a misprint in your destiny, I think you are misguided.
You need somebody to agree with you, a teacher is somebody you have to
agree with, so this is a very terrible relationship, it's... What do you say?
Student: (----)
YB: Oh yeah, difference? My teacher did me one day. He said, "I have to go to
meet the deputy commissioner, you must come." So you know, I was chief
son, so I went with him, on the way, he said, "Bhajan can you go on this tree
how fast?"
I said, "As you say."
He said, "Then go."

So I with my boots, suit, the whole thing, totally dressed up, I went on the
tree, he said, "Well, be here, I will comeback and take you with me." Three
days later he showed up. I was on that tree for three days and when I got, he
said, "Come down, let us go." And he started walking, I joined, he never said,
"How was it? What was it?" Nothing, not a word; as nothing has happened
and neither he told whether he met the deputy commissioner or not, never
heard what happened, I kept my mouth shut, I said, "Okay, let's walk." Then I
realized what he has taught me that things can turn on you how to survive,
yeah.
Students: (----)
YB: Oh that one? We are investigating, we don't want to share anything,
there is nothing to share, she went, went home but it's okay, we are
investigating, matter is under review, I know it's a tragedy and tragedy and
comedy is a part of life and it's, it's a sad thing to be so neglectful but when
time and space comes,
When time and space meets then it happens.
So they were all going, she was the last child, she got entangled with a light,
live wire and that's it, took a minute, that's what I have been told but now
because we are processing the whole thing, it's very difficult to make any
statement. As far as soul is concerned she is home, there is no problem, very
few goes that way. Dilde ki laaj, Guru Ram Das house hai na, it has to be that
way but it's unfortunate, administration is very neglectful, what has
happened is very careless and it will be taken care of within the rules, sad
thing but what is sad? If you are sad or you are mad or you are happy, then
you go nappy, big deal, that's, that's a human cycle but he went for a very
beautiful mission and sacrifice and that was the, sacrifice got him.
Okay now, yeah, what is you asking?
Student: (----)
YB: Oh yeah, talking to a child psychically? How you look, how you look, how
you feel, how you engross, how you entangle, it's called impact, impact,
there is a impact talk, we talk it one day. You know we have five weeks, hold
on, everything cannot be taught in one day, we have five weeks, we will, we
will have dessert in the end. Nobody leaves Earth is, Earth is round, um?
Student: (----)
YB: We know, lot of mothers have a responsibility, that's okay. Our children
one way lucky they go twelve thousand miles all the way half of the planet,
which is a very rare endurance taught to a normal children and when they

are there in that foreign land they keep themself together. When they come
here they freak out.
One girl was telling me, she said, "Siri Singh Sahib, I want to go back soon."
I said, "What's wrong here?"
She said, "All my year I didn't want to eat ice-cream, now everyday, I am just
a ice-cream freak."
I looked down, I said, "What is her age?"
But you know, we are emotional parents, we want to give them everything
including a box of ice-cream but we are all right, we are keeping up isn't?
Good and bad we are not sad, we are keeping up, yep.
Student: (----)
YB: Because you are not confused, those parents who are not following to
pay the rent are shitty tenants, you know what I mean? And they are raising
garbage and they are blaming others and they are blaming their children, it's
a fact what I said and I wanted to give them a message to clean the house.
Mostly children have suffered because of parents and their faults. I don't
want to punish them, I want to improve the situation and I hope that I can do
what I can do but I have to tell them what they are. If you factually want to
know all the stories which I know, you can go flat, it's such a criminal thing
these parents do, so criminal and some damages are irreversible, that's how
bad it is. What should I tell them? They are great and gorgeous? Here I am
teaching for the future, there I was talking a facts, you want to know the
difference? Here I am inspiring, teaching, laying down the rules for tomorrow,
there I was telling them as it was, on the strength of the history of yesterday.
Don't try to be confused with me, that's one of the best job I do - to confuse
people; to see where they are at.
Normally thirty percent people have left me because this art I cannot give up
- to confuse, second thing I am very good at it, first I try to confuse
everybody, second I try to see how they recuperate, what is the ratio to
comeback to normal, third I try to get to a person to conquer impossible and
within those three structures of mine I am willing to lose everybody but if
God's will is one will remain, that will take care of the Age of Aquarius.
Sometime I am myself relaxed and I kid around and all that stuff, but
normally these are the three things I am looking in everybody, because I
have to measure the depth of a person to know his height, I am not looking
for all height. Majority of time you won't find me talking very elevated, I
balance it out, I let people know, it's all not great but I also let them know

where great is but you know where fight is? They don't want to walk the
distance and I am not going to walk for them because I have walked mine
and I hope they will walk theirs and that's a direct fight. My students and me
are just bull fighter and the bull and we always get into a arena and I have
only four swords and one to go through and the bull has two horns, both has
matter of chance; if I miss I am dead, if they miss they are dead, if they are
dead, they can resurrect, if I am dead there is nobody to resurrect them. So
that's I think the God has lingered my time, otherwise I should have gone
home on time, I had no problem with that.
Yeah yours is the last question now, go ahead.
Student: (----)
YB: Some people are not going to go back to India because some kids are
reaching their parents and they are laying number on them and some
parents have become impotent and commotional and emotional and you
know, these parents, they have their own ideas, they love me and they like
me but when it comes to children, nobody knows where they are coming
from.
My idea to send children was, send them away from the emotion, commotion
and the impact of parents own fight, secondly let them go some place and
stay there to learn to be steel sons and daughters, third was that they will
know through the system better grammar, better mathematics and they will
see beyond America there is another world too and normally I am true
because when they came back here their scale of education and study was
better, they stood well, they have a international attitude and they kept well
but moment they come home, God knows what these parents do, I don't
know because children are very good, they lay the number, if I do this test, I
do that test, I do this, I do that, these parents are so blind, all they know is,
they don't know their child, all they know is the school grades, they are no
parents at all, they have no, nothing, they think if they, this kid gets A, A,
straight A's everything is going to be straight A, doesn't work.
Child has to have straight A's in a personal behavior, straight A's in person's
dimensions, straight A's in the person's decisions, straight A's in his personal
life and his impact, his total ambitions and his impact in his manifestation
what is his faculty, what he wants to be and all that? He has to classify all
those eighty-four aspects. If a child has even A, B and C in eighty-four, that
child can be something, if he has D, E and F, forget it. These education
grades are nothing.
I know of a person, he was my classmate and we used to beat him up, we
take him on the side and beat him and then sit four, five of us, we say, "You

always copy us but don't exactly copy, don't make us thieves, otherwise we
will beat you."
And he said, "Okay no, no." So what he will do is copy my question one, that
is this way, hardly he is passed the tenth grade, so when I was posted at
Faridabad, it was a industrial town which I was supposed to be there, I met
him one day in the club.
I said, "Hey, what are you doing here?"
He said, "I work here in a factory."
I said, "Ah, ah."
"Would you mind to see me."
I said, "You are the only my classmate friend, I wanted to see you, which
factory?"
He named the factory. I said, "Fine, okay, thank you, we will meet, but come
on, sit down with me, let's have fun, let's have old memories talk."
So I was very much happy that so when I took care of everything area and all
that, the first visit I wanted to go to that factory because I wanted to actually
meet him, so when they knew I coming so that reception was there and all
thing and we went in and, he came out to see me, I said, "Oh my God, I was
going to find from somebody where are you but I am very lucky, come with
me, let's go and meet the owner of this factory."
He said, "Oh please come, I will take you to his office, it's my job to receive
you."
I said, "Okay."
So he went to his room and his office room was bigger than this tent, yeah,
must be and it was huge and round room and I said, "Wait a minute, your
boss sits here?"
He said, "Oh yeah, he does everything here, sits and walks and travels and
his walking time and this is his walking track and this and that." And then he
said, "Come on, sit in the owner chair."
I said, "No, no, no, how can I do that?"
He looked on me, he said, "Sit."

Now I understood the language, I said, "What do you mean?"

He said, "I am the owner."
So I said, "No, no, no, no don't, let's not do that, that's okay, you sit there, I
will set here." And I said, "Where you studied? What you did? All this, it's a
huge plant, it's one of the."
He said, "I have seventeen Phd's."
I said, "You couldn't without copying pass the tenth grade, you cannot do,
you cannot write what PhD means, it's a doctor of philosophy, do you know?"
He said, "I will show you my degrees and then I will let you know, is that
okay?"
I said, "Fine." So he pressed the button, a secretary came, he said, "Bring my
PhD's." Seventeen, eighteen men, keeping their PhD degree in hand walked
in. He said, "This is doctor so and so, this is doctor for chemical present, this
is doctor for some."
I said, "Shut up, send them back, it's enough."
(Student's laughter)
He said, "What do you mean? How many PhD you want?"
So what you people can say? If we let our children be and give them the
basic spiritual values, deal with the spirit and uplift and keep it and give
them faith, that's the only important things they have, none of our children
will fall apart. I mean to say, you feed your child lot of ice-cream and then
you think, she or he is not going to have pimples, I don't know where you
learnt that. You give them all the emotional raps and you just lean on them
and the worst thing in child life is when the parents, either of the parents or
both lean on him, the child thinks the whole world in the palm of hand, he
starts seeking that all is life, he never gets it, he is miserable rest of his life.
We do it the very first day, that's what I say, "If my grandfather, my father
would have asked me hold my hand, I will walk you, I would have been nuts
too."
He said, "Walk in front of me, you are my future." I learnt, my impact is in
future.
May the longtime sunshine upon you.
(Students sing 'May the longtime' in the class)

YB (Talks over the song): All love, do it properly, you see you are, hey stop
this.
(Song stops)
Your discipline is so weak and your impact should be one, two, three.
(Students sing 'May the longtime' in the class)
YB (Talks over the song): Good girls, Sat Nam.
(Song stops)
Thank you very much, you made my day. In future doesn't matter what I do
never fail to follow the procedure. Men come and men go, system lives. If
you can remember my one word, you will never fail. Create a system,
organize it, put it three ways, action, cover, support, life will be convenient.
You see there are two cars to drive me, one is driving me, one is a cover, one
is a security and one will just follow for sake of curiosity.
(Student's laughter)
(YB's laughter)

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