All upaya suggested here in this forum have to be done according to
the FOUR RULES for them to be effective. FOUR RULES : [ 1 ] All upaya are to be done during the day light hours when the sun is up, unless specifically asked to do at other times. Some suggest that upaya should not be done on a cloudy day. Cloudy day belongs to the Saturn as does the night. But in the west where winters are dark and bleak for most of the time , there should be no such restriction. [ 2 ] Upaya done over a longer period , say 6 day , 10 days ,43 days etc, should be done regularly without a break. If for any reasons there is an apprehension that there might be a break in the upaya , the best thing to do under these circumstances is to keep at home little rice rinsed in milk. Suppose it is a 43 day upaya , you had to go out on a journey for four days during which time you could not have done the upaya, you could get back and start the upaya from where you had left. After you have resumed the upaya , the rinsed rice you had kept earlier should be immersed in a river or fed to the birds. [ 3 ] Do one upaya at a time. Take up the next upaya only when the first upaya is completed. Follow the sequence of upaya if mentioned. The best way to sequence the upaya , if not already mentioned , is to take up one day upaya first and do the lengthy upaya later. I have come across a few cases where two upaya run into each other inadvertently. Some one was doing an upaya of offering rice at a temple for 6 days and next he was to do the upaya of keeping a silver toy elephant at home. On the sixth day , when he had already offered the rice at the temple , on his way back home he bought a silver toy elephant for the upaya he had to start next. Now , this was wrong because this meant starting the upaya on the sixth day of the previous upaya , because the silver elephant is with you already and the sixth day of the previous upaya is not over yet. Therefore : [ 4 ] Give a few days break before starting the next upaya. If possible , start it a week later. And finally , if a blood relation is doing the upaya on behalf of the native , he must make a mental `sankalp' that I am doing this upaya for and on behalf of so-and-so , otherwise it would be his upaya and that may not be desirable. Priya