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BeLoved Miracles Couple

Erica and Alex Udeanu


Lifting Everyone Up As
Servant Driven Leaders

Timothy Owen

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Events Will Change Your Life!

Many things begin to be set in motion from the moment you


commit to attending an event.
Attending multiple events builds upon that initial commitment, and its infectious!
Youll invite team members to join you in attending events. And if home-base
happens to be half-a-world away then sooner or later a day will arrive when
you say to yourself, We need our own event closer to home here in Europe!

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Erica and Alex going through a similar process offered me my first opportunity
to attend Euromastermind 2016. The first European event which was held in
Bucharest, Romania.
It was there that I met the two of them and all the others in attendance. It was
to be a life changing decision for me, my family and you too if you are reading
this now! :-)

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Interview Highlights
1:13 SOMETHING HAPPENS and there is a ___________________ where
somehow your entire life gets flipped upside down on its head.
2:23 ___________________ and there was this WEIRD ENERGY going on
and were like WHAT JUST HAPPENED?
3:25 This is our TURNING POINT and everyone has one right
5:01 Why are you posting pictures of _____________ on the internet? Its kind
of like weird, WHAT ARE YOU DOING?
6:11 _____________________ happens at the right time for the right reason
and you are always in the RIGHT place at the RIGHT time for the RIGHT
reason.
7:01 We basically just _____________________ how things were being taught
to us. So thats our LONG STORY KIND OF SHORT.
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8:31 So WHAT CHANGED for us was connecting with the right people
_________________ like what youre doing here
10:05 One of the things is that they are so ______________ driven they
definitely want to help EVERYONE RISE UP.
11:51 If the fish stinks, it stinks from the head first . So the translation is like if
a whole _______________ stinks, its because whoever is at THE TOP
STINKS FIRST.
13:43 I knew there was SOMETHING DIFFERENT about this ____________
as compared to all the other ____________ I have been implementing and
spent a lot of money and time and frustration.
14:15 _________________ YOU have an audience out there waiting for YOU
to show up on the platform that YOU have here.
15:25 Some of us we only need to _____________ the lives of couple hundred
people to make a difference, to make a lasting difference and TO LEAVE A
LEGACY.
17:15 He or she who is the most ____________ for the longest period of time
WILL ALWAYS WIN
18:13 If anybody is thinking about getting into this system READ THIS BOOK
____________________________ three times.
19:47 The answers are already within you but you dont know the right
________________ to GET THE ANSWERS OUT.

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21:33 Such an interesting topic. COUPLES MUST ___________________.
They must _________________________. In our situation
23:03 On of the BIGGEST PROBLEMS a lot of couples have is
_____________ then they get NIGGLY and theyre like
26:27 BIGGEST PIECES OF ADVICE is ________________ then the
business will flow right. Otherwise you get stuff out of balance and stuff doesnt
flow.
27:01 Back in the day we were GRINDING. Like we were GRINDING you
know 10/12/16 hours a day was not unreasonable right. Sometimes wed
forget to
28:31 BIG KEY POINT _____________ development. I say that we are a
_____________ development company disguised as a business opportunity.
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Full Transcript Here:


Timothy We are live again from Norway. This is the BeLoved Miracles
couples project and in this case its BeLoved Miracles couple Erica and Alex
Udeanu. You might have to say it and clear me up on that Erica.
Erica- You did great.
Timothy Founders of the Totally Inspired Living Tribe and multiple 6 figure
earners. So Erica where does your story begin?

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Erica-Well first of all I just want to thank you so much for inviting myself and my
husband Alex who is kind of like the background of what we do here hence why
hes not live on the camera with me right now . But I just want to thank so much
for the opportunity to share with you and your viewers what it is that we as
couples in this industry are doing and to allow us to share our story with your
viewers. So thank you very much inviting me I really appreciate it. 1:00 So long
story short, you know I say this all the time. I think that no one really sets out
to begin an adventure online. you know we all start with you know a normal
education, we have normal jobs and you know we have normal careers and
then something happens and there is a pivotal turning point where somehow
your entire life gets flipped upside down on its head and you are kind of looking
around, like oh my god how did I get here and how do I get out of this mess
and you know fix things? And thats kind of like how you know my story with
you know Alex started online. Alex and I used to be art auctioneers on cruse
ships. We had this amazing life. We had an amazing career and literally for you
know many many years we just sailed all around the world selling paintings on
cruise ships. And it was a beautiful life, like it was charmed.

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It was absolutely charmed and we met on cruise ships and we met in 2007.
And we had a world wind romance. 2:00 You know we were in Europe at the
time and you can imagine being on ships we really werent paying attention to
the news at all. And we got married 5 days before Lehman Brothers collapsed.
We went on our honeymoon to Paris and three weeks later we went back to
cruise ships to you know resume our career and there was this weird energy
going on and were like what just happened? All of a sudden our auction
rooms used to be buzzing and so full were like empty. We discovered pretty
quickly that people were desperately trying to work out just how to pay their
mortgages or pay their rent, let alone try to work out how to decorate their
homes. And we went from having this charmed life to having this extremely
stressful life, because we were commission only on the ships. And we went
from just knowing exactly where we were headed as a couple, exactly where
our futures laid. We had all our dreams mapped out, everything was just you
know perfectly laid out in front of us and all of a sudden we were like
scrambling. 3:00 We were just scrambling and it was terrifying. You know for
many people at that time and we tried for 3 years to hold it all together. You
know we tried for 3 years to salvage our careers. We tried to turn things
around, we hoped that the economy would change. We hoped that something
would change right. And then in the third quarter of 2011 this is our turning point
and everyone has one right. We opened up this commissioned check and it
was for 9 dollars and 38 cents and I got out the calculator and wed been
working for 50 hours that week the two of us. And I divided that check between
the two of us and I calculated that weve been working for 17 cents an hour.
And that was my breaking point and everyone has one

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You know and Im like Im worth so much more than 17 cents an hour. Like
this is just ludicrous. And Ill never forget that moment, I literally I grabbed-I
put out my hand and I put it on top of my husbands hand I looked him in the
eyes and I said honey if we worked as hard on our own business, any
business as we do this job we would have to be successful.

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And at that time you know about 6 months prior to that we had been really
really looking online for anything that would get us out of this situation. You
know we were looking at franchises, we were looking at restaurants, and we
were looking at coffee shops, we were looking at lawn mower business right.
Anything that would get us off cruise ships back on the land and bringing in an
income. And we had stumbled across this little MLM thing and I think thats how
most people get into this industry through network marketing. Because I dont
think anyone wakes up one day and goes you know what Im going to be an
onlineIm going to work a system online. Im gonna do something on the
internet. Like for me I didnt even know how to operate the internet right. I
have some horror stories about how clueless I was. I might share one with you
if it comes up, but just totally clueless. I didnt even have a Facebook account.
5:00 My husband did and I thought what are you doing on that thing? Like why
are you posting pictures of yourself on the internet? Its kind of like weird, what
are you doing? So thats how far away from the internet I was. And we
stumbled on to this MLM thing and we were told you can make $5000 a month
doing absolutely nothing and were like In! So we opened up that check right
and were like hey lets go home and do that MLM thing. It took us three
weeks to work out that nobody makes $5000 a month doing nothing and were
like oh this is awesome we just quit our jobs and this MLM thing is not
working. Now we went online seriously and were like ok weve got this MLM
thing. How do we get people into this thing right?

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So we went online looking for ways to get leads for our offline thing. And thats
how our journey on to the internet began, because one link led us to another
link which led us to another link, 6:00 to another link which ended us up where
we are now doing the system that were doing. And I always say this that there
are no accidents in this world. There are no accidents in this life, there are no
coincidences. Everything happens at the right time for the right reason and you
are always in the right place at the right time for the right reason. You may not
know what that reason is at that point in time but hindsight being 20/20 it all
makes sense right . So we opened up that check in 2011 in about the third
quarter and then at the very same time we found a system that was just
starting at the very same time right. Coincidence? Absolutely not. Like why did
we hang in for 3 years? Why not 2? Or if we hung in for 2, then we wouldnt
have found this system. Do you know what I mean? and so thats how we
ended up you know doing what were doing just through a series of what
seemed like unrelated events leading us up to where we are now . And so
basically we plugged in and we tried to work it how to make it work and then
7:01 we basically just flowed with how things were being taught to us. So thats
our long story kind of short.

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Timothy -Brilliant. Yeah so now things are starting to happen. Youre working
online, your implementing a system. What then began to change for you guys?
Erica-Well want to say up front it wasnt easy, like in the beginning it wasnt
easy. You know we started online 5 years ago and back then we didnt have
access to a lot of the tools and a lot of the mentoring and level of coaching that
we as a community have now. So back then it was a big struggle. It was a
really really big struggle. We had to try and work out how to put all the pieces
together by ourselves, you know we had to struggle. like really really struggle
right.

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But I think one of the biggest turning points for us was making a commitment to
get to our very first event and connecting with people who knew what we
needed to know 8:00 and making those connections and learning from them.
And then bringing that knowledge back home to a point where we started to
start actually seeing some results. So it took us about 10 months to get
traction but it was that first event and the knowledge we brought back and the
connections that we made that enable us to tweak some things in what we
were doing to get us to the point we actually had our first 5 figure month in our
first 10 months of being online. So took us 10 months to get to our first 5 figure
month. So what changed for us was connecting with the right people you know
like what youre doing here. Connecting with the right people. You know finding
out what other people know, making sure that youre really opened to the
messages that your mentors are sharing with you. You know thats one of the
biggest things we learned early on in the beginning. is that you have to find
mentors, you have find people who are prepared to show you the way, to show
you the path to show you the ropes and to shorten your learning curve
basically.
9:00 Timothy -So thats a key part of the system isnt it? The mentorship. The
events to meet people that otherwise like you and I would most likely had never
have met each other and then how that ripples out further and further and the
connections right. I mean really in a single word the connections we make
implementing a system isnt it?

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Erica-And this is a big thing you know a lot of people think that they can build
an online business by themselves and I in my infinite wisdom thought we could
do it by ourselves. Right I really did. I thought well you know heres the system
we can do it by ourselves and you know we just make it work right, but you
cant. It takes a community, it takes a village, it takes a whole group of like
minded people getting together lifting everyone up and sharing everything that
they have. Because here what the main goal is, is to lift the masses, to lift an
entire community. Not just for a couple of people you know bounce up and you
know have a great success but to lift everyone up 10:00 you know and you get
that sense of community when you get around people who are all heading in
the same direction. You know like a lot of the people that youre interviewing
here on your show. One of the things that rings true was so many of them is
that they are so servant driven they definitely want to help everyone raise up.
Which is really really important. So yeah really really important to plug into
community and to understand that you do not build this business on your own.

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Timothy -Can you say a little bit more about that because thats really rich? In
all of my years of wading through the sea of competitive internet marketing,
those words were nothing I ever heard right. I mean there were winners, there
were losers and you know basically youre trying to learn from the winners
which essentially means copying them, which never worked for me. I mean that
never worked for me and it was incredibly frustrating. So I think theres some
nuggets in what you just said. I wrote down lifting everyone up, a servant driven
attitude. Where did that show up for you guys?

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11:00 Erica-See heres the funny thing and I think one of the reasons why Alex
and I were so successful so quickly so to speak is because weve never done
anything before. Right so weve never been in any other system. Weve never
done internet marketing before weve never -we had no baggage you know.
So when we came into this community which was led by a man whose heart is
just bigger than the planet. His leadership, his guidance, his love trickled down
and it was from his example that we embodied that servant driven leadership
style. So you know we have an expression here in Romania, Im not Romanian
of course but my husband is Romanian and they have an expression here and
its something to the effect it goes something like this if the fish stinks, it stinks
from the head first . So the translation is like if a whole organization stinks, its
because whoever is at the top stinks first. Right and so the flip side of that is
that here everything is just so beautiful but it comes from the top right and it
comes from someone who has a vision to free the masses you know and to
really encourage people to dream again right. But again you cant do that on
your own. You cant raise the masses on your own. It takes an army of people.
People like yourself again doing these interviews and reaching out to other
servant driven leaders to share their stories. You know and to share with
absolute care free abandoned. And I think one of the beautiful things Ive
noticed here that Ive heard that doesnt happen at other organizations is that
people here share and they share willingly and they share without expecting
anything in return. They share so that the community wins. Right because when
the community wins everybody wins 13:00 and I think this is what is so different
here as Ive heard from other like experiences. Like you my have had in the
past where that just doesnt happen. People dont share willingly. But we didnt
learn any other way, weve only learned from one person.

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Timothy -Hmm that is refreshing and I think that speaks highly of where were
at now, maybe in the evolution of internet marketing and online business and so
on. and with people such as yourself and Alex bringing such a clear spirit and
adding to it as you said from a few key people who kept a seed like this alive,
because, its been rather poisonous waters to swim in for a long time in my
experience and when I first came across this Erica I realized how precious this
was. And it doesnt mean it was perfect. It just means that I knew there was
something different about this system as compared to all the other systems I
have been implementing and spent a lot of money and time and frustration. You
know basically trying to copy others and I think the question Im leading
towards is there is something here of an ability to really freely express who
each of us is isnt there?

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Erica-Yeah and thats a key point and I say this a lot you know when Im talking
to people. Its like a lot people think well how can I make this system work?
What makes this different you know to everything else? And I always tell
people you know what you have an audience out there waiting for you to show
up on the platform that you have here right. And from my experience look there
are 6/7 billion people on this planet, you only need to reach a couple hundred
people to achieve a freedom lifestyle. Right so when you really really break
that down into what that means is like hmm so I can be me on the internet
using this platform and I only need to reach my audience whos already waiting
for me? Hmmm how fascinating right. And so what we do here we teach
people to tap into their unique talents and their unique gifts and their unique
voice 15:00 and to simply share what they were put on this planet to do. See
everyone has a purpose. Everyone was put on this planet to do something very
very special and within every single human being theres a unique talent, a
unique gift that will find is expression on the internet and will affect the audience
that it was meant to affect right. Some of us sure were here to affect millions
of people, but some of us we only need to affect the lives of couple hundred
people to make a difference, to make a lasting difference and to leave a
legacy. You know and I always say to people you know you only need to touch
one person a day for your life to have meaning.

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One person, and that one person goes out and touches one person and that
one person goes out and touches one person. And then after a while youve
created this amazing ripple in the community and boom everyone lifts up. Thats
my theory anyway.
Timothy -Oh its more than a theory and you know it. That is literally how we
live day by day implementing this system. 16:00 You described it eloquently
and thats exactly it. The joy the adventure the opportunity every day to realize
in some way right every day in some way I get feedback that the signal Im
broadcasting out is being received by someone and its making a difference for
them . And I hear the same in you.
Erica-Youre beautiful. I love listening to you. I could listen to you all day.

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Timothy -Oh thank you. I mean its quite interesting really and the more we look
at this and we wont go into depth of it now. Its just I think what were
referencing is the fact that today 2017 online every one of us because of the
drive of social media, we are more a media company today than has ever
existed with the use of technology and systems like this before .
Erica-Absolutely
Timothy -So the question is what are we broadcasting? And I think the
fascinating thing Im noticing is if I think like I can just opted out and not
broadcast anything, 17:00 someone else will broadcast me for me and usually
thats not the best .
Erica-You know what this is the key point consistency is key right consistency
is key. And Ive heard this one expression that I just think is so perfect for this
industry and its that he or she who is the most consistent for the longest
period of time will always win right. So consistency means showing up in one
way shape or form every single day.

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And it doesnt mean that you need to create you know a video every day or a
blog every day or something on Instagram every day or a post on Facebook
every day, but you got to do something. Just something right every single day
so the universe knows that youre still plugged in, youre connected to your
purpose, youre connected to your passion and youre connected to the mission
of making a difference. And I think thats whats so special about this
community, is that they are committed to making a difference. And I think a lot
of other systems so Ive heard are more focused on a message that is not as
18:00 soulful, that doesnt come from a place of meaning you know. And can I
recommend a book for your viewers?
Timothy -Absolutely

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Erica-Ok this is my bible; The Millionaire Messenger by Brendon Burchard and
I strongly recommend that if anybody is thinking about getting into this system
that they read this book three times. Once super-fast right, just to skim it and
just too kind of get an idea of where this guy is going. Second time a little
slower. By the end of the second reading alarm bells will be going off and your
viewers will be like ohhhhh I can get where shes going with this right. And
then on the third reading to read so super slow and to pull out every single
sentence. Sentence by sentence by sentence. It could take you 3 months to
read it the third time right because within this book are a series of questions
that will elicit the answers to your online success. Because within every single
human being there is something that that human has overcome, there is
something that human being has discovered, there is something that human
being has learned, there is something that human being is passionate about, is
an expert at, and there is something that that person will then take that those
answers and create a business online with this system. For me this is the bible.
Its the absolute bible. Everyone needs to have it this book The Millionaire
Messenger. And I promise youI see a lot of people when they get into you
know like a system like this they go well who would listen to me? Well your
answer will be answered in this book. And they go well what can I talk about?
The answers are in this book. Well what can I create? The answers are in the
book right.

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And the truth of the matter the answers are already within you but you dont
know the right questions to get the answers out. You know what I mean and I
think if everyone who you know gets involved in the system has this book
beside them, Bam game over, 20:00 thats it. The answers are all right there.
Timothy -And those answers to our own questions are literally the writing of the
next chapter of our story right. We all have a story to share and again the
social media driven world were living in today and us being a media company
its as simple as documenting isnt it. I mean its basically documenting a
journey. Its our journey through whatever it is were going through and then as
were doing here, sharing what inspires. Sharing what uplifts others.

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Erica-Thats a great point uplifting others. You know theres so many people in
this planet who do not read right. So if you chose to read inspirational content
and share that content in your own words, you become the inspiration that
makes some elses day right. And that is a great way to build your audience.
Because Im telling you there are-who was it, I think Jim Rohn said 90% of
the population do not read. Right 21:00 so if you fall into the 10% that do and
then you share what youre reading with your audience you become I would
say you become the guru in their eyes right. Because if people arent reading
they dont know where youre getting this information from right, but when you
kind of regurgitate it with your own twist with your own flip on it, it becomes
yours you know. So Im glad you brought that up yeah.
Timothy -Thank you. Well to wrap it up what other advice? Youve already
given some. Is there any other advice that you would give to couples building
something together?
Erica-Ok so couples this is such an interesting topic right. Couples must play to
their strengths. They must play to their strengths. In our situation which is one
of the reasons Im talking to to you and Alex is not is because Alex quite frankly
hes just not comfortable in front of the camera but behind the camera hes a
genius and hes in his comfort zone right. Weve tried to do a couple of
interviews you know together and you can see that its just completely
uncomfortable for him.

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So why put him in a situation that makes him uncomfortable right. His strength
is behind the scenes. You know his strength is in the technical training, his
strength is in the technical wizardry side of what we do right. Thats not my ball
park at all, like Ive tried to do that stuff, its just a nightmare right. And one of
the things one of the key concepts you learn in this industry is if you dont know
how to do something outsource it. So I outsourced to my husband. You know
sometimes people theyre not technical right, so why bang ya head against a
brick wall when youre not good at doing something unless you choose to
become proficient at it when you can outsource right. So for me my strengths
are everything thats in front of the camera. You know my strengths are videos,
my strengths are content creation, and my strengths are you know Facebook.
My strengths are anything that has to do with you know social media. The
media company which is you know pretty much like what we are. Thats where
I play right. 23:00 So as a couple you have to work out what each others
strengths are and respect your differences. You know I think one of the biggest
problems a lot of couples have you know working together is they cant clearly
define what each others roles are . You know sometimes they get niggly and
theyre like well you should have done that. You should have done that ni ni ni
ni ni. And that doesnt work at all right. So imagine that youre at a job like a
real job right. You have your job description, your coworkers have their job
description, you would never go to your coworker and go ni ni ni why did you
do so and so? Right thats the bosses job to go Oi! So and so you know pull
up your socks. But its not for coworkers. Its not a coworkers responsibility to
do that right. So you respect each others strengths, you play to your strengths
and you allow what will be to be right

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And I think one of the most important things when youre working as a couple is
to respect each others time , respect the way each other handles their parts of
the business and 24:00 to find a smooth flowing schedule that works for both
of you . And thats another key point you must make family time you must make
like we have this kind of rule like well Ive broken it tonight.

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BeLoved Miracles Couple Erica and Alex


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But we have a rule that 5 oclock thats it. Thats it. Facebook down, you know
phones turned upside down, ringers off. Its family time right. Because one the
biggest mistakes Alex ad I made in the beginning is that I was grinding, like I
was a woman on a mission and it would be nothing for me to get up at 4
oclock in the morning and I wouldnt see him again till maybe 9/10 o clock at
night because we didnt have our roles clearly defined at that point and we
were both doing everything. Right and I was so focused on the business that I
lost focus on my health, that went down the drain, I lost focus on my
relationship that was strained, I lost focus on relations with my friends, with my
family. Like was completely 100% focused and tunnel vision on what I was
doing. Thats a big mistake and I share this with people a lot you know, you
need to respect all aspects of your life when your building your business and 5
years in I got up to the point where I come first now and the business comes
second . So you know I have a set of morning rituals between 6 oclock and 7
oclock. Nothing gets in the way of my morning rituals right. Work is from 7
oclock until 9 o clock. Were very lucky with this system that the owners of the
company create all the content for us. So like we have to work a lot less now
than we did back in the old days. Also I do content creation well I do my work
between 7 and 9 and then between 9 and 10:30 it is back on me. Fitness,
health, stuff like that then its family time and then the afternoon you know I do
my work again. 5 o clock its family time you know and I never ever ever put
anything before-so the business always came first and so my biggest advice
to couple out there 26:00 is that you prioritize. And you make sure that you
look after your health, you make sure you look after your spirituality, you make
sure you look after your relationships and business really it kind of comes a bit
of a fourth. It really must cause otherwise all the other things they suffer

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BeLoved Miracles Couple Erica and Alex


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Whereas if youve got a strong relationship, you got strong spirituality, you got
strong health right and youre looking after everything, you can be amazing in
your business right, but you cant be amazing in your business if youve broken
those things down you know. So put you first that would be one of my biggest
pieces of advice. Put you first and then the business will flow right. Otherwise
you get stuff out of balance and stuff doesnt flow.
Timothy -Yep the words come to mind go within that I dont without. Yeah
theres something of tending to these things within ourselves the balance the
harmony of it. Even the self-respect, the self-awareness that then our story as
a media company broadcast out has a chance to encourage others right, to
consider those same questions for themselves.

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BeLoved Miracles Couple Erica and Alex


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Erica-Absolutely absolutely and again one thing I want to pick up on was the
fact that you know back in the day we were grinding. Like we were grinding
you know 10/12/16 hours a day was not unreasonable right. Sometimes wed
forget to eat right. Wed look at the clock its like 9 oclock. Did we have
dinner? No. did we have lunch? Oh my goodness when did we eat. You know
what I mean but now like what weve got in place with the system now you can
work like less than an hour a day and get everything done. Like Im so jealous
of people who get in now right because its so simple. Anyway its all good all
makes for a good story.
Timothy -It is right and thats what it comes down to. Its a good story and we
might be the lucky ones because the story we have to share to inspire these
just getting started now is yeah how lucky they really are. With that Ill wrap it
up here from Norway to where you are in Bucharest yes. In the proper city
area yeah Romania Bucharest.
Erica-Yep yep right in the heart of the city.
Timothy -Fantastic. Thank you so much for making time first of 2017 to share
the inspiration that your and Alexs story is. I have no doubt it will reach many
couples and individuals as well to recognize and realize that within ourselves is
a strength of self-awareness and added to that an opportunity to self-develop.
Develop these skills, develop these tools to better take care of ourselves and
inspire those around us to like wise consider how they from within to without
can shine the brilliance that they are like you and Alex do.

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BeLoved Miracles Couple Erica and Alex


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Erica-Thank you and you just hit it on a really big key point personal
development. I say that we are a personal development company disguised as
a business opportunity.
Timothy -Well said well said and the words I wish to close with actually add to
what you just said. So thank for that. This idea that together, together we truly
all have an opportunity to overcome. Thank you Erica.
Erica-Absolutely absolutely. Thank you for having me and I really appreciate
this opportunity to be with you and to impart you know hopefully some
inspiration to your viewers. So thank you thank you thank you.
Timothy -No doubt it has been done. Bye bye from Norway.
Erica-Bye from Bucharest.

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