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Listening Switzerland
BeLoved Miracles Couple
Jean-Philippe And Liz
Timothy Owen
Evolving Patience And Listening Switzerland
BeLoved Miracles Couple Jean-Philippe And Liz
Love is not the same thing as logistics, and there are a lot of
logistics to bridging love from the shores of two different
cultures.
I have a lot of respect today for those who choose to build such a bridge of
love. I have learned from my own cross-cultural marriage that it takes
tremendous patience and listening. Much more than a normal human being is
capable of. :-) So sooner or later, one way or another it will require of one or
both super-human effort.
Interview Highlights:
12:57 The heart speaks with words the ___________ KNOWS nothing of.
14:33 Where does a SYSTEM enter into your ______________ together and
what did it change for you?
17:03 A system of writing and using videos as a TRUTH TOOL which can
share a message in a way that connects.
23:37 Good news, you can just be __________________ and talk with each
other a lot, so COMMUNICATION is the first thing.
24:23 Second thing, there comes a point when you are both going to want to
KNUCKLE DOWN and do some __________ .
26:25 What they are learning is that for at least an ___________ DAILY it is
important to plan some time of undisturbed productivity.
28:47 _________________ is the BEST WORD I can use to describe how you
are being with yourselves, each other and dancing with your circumstances.
30:15 Lizzies nature is ___________ , not in the SENSE that there is nothing in
there, just
Here are a few words about Jean-Philippe (J-P) and Lizzie Powell.
We met at work here in Basel, in 2009. Then J-P left his job as a
woodworker, to jump into the unknown and train to be a teacher of adults. His
dream was to teach adults carpentry, which had been his craft for the previous
30 years or so.
He lived over the border in Alsace, France, and I continued living and working in
Switzerland, for the same company where wed met. We saw each other every
weekend and probably could have carried on like that for a long time. Theres
something very rich in having ones own life and yet having a very special
person in it at the weekends and on holidays.
In 2010, J-P qualified with flying colours and then began the long slog to find a
suitable job. It took him over a year to find one and he had to expand his
search to the whole of France.
Whilst J-P was living in Paris, he was working in schools with young teenagers
from very challenged backgrounds. For most of them, French was not their first
language and their families were living in very difficult situations. For J-P,
learning how to relate to these kids was a massive undertaking. He received no
support or training from the schools or the state and had to work it all out for
himself. One of the first things he worked out was that if he wanted the kids to
change, he had to change his approach to them first. He turned to his yoga
studies for inspiration and found it. By the time his final contract came to an
end, he was making connections with kids who had always viewed teachers
and schools as the enemy.
Meanwhile, I was still living in Switzerland and by this time, dreaming of being
my own boss. J-P and I were seeing each other every 4-6 weeks, for
weekends and holidays only and as time went on, being apart for such long
stretches became tougher and tougher.
In the end, we both decided wed had enough of living so far apart. It was time
to make a decision! J-P asked me to marry him and in 2015, thats what we
did. : )
We have a great life! But its not been without its sacrifices. J-P gave up his life
in France to come and join me here. Up until now, he hasnt been able to find
work, as the Swiss dont recognise his teachers qualification. So hes spending
his time now on his yoga studies and practice, and on building his yoga school,
one student
Evolving at a time.
Patience And Listening Switzerland BeLoved Miracles Couple Jean-Philippe
And Liz
Evolving Patience And Listening Switzerland
BeLoved Miracles Couple Jean-Philippe And Liz
As for me, Im still not my own boss and for the moment, Im very thankful to
have a full-time job that pays our bills. On the other hand, working full-time
doesnt leave me much time or energy to devote to anything else.
Were evolving.
J-Ps English is getting better every day but he still struggles to understand
English when its spoken fast. So he needs a system thats in French and
thankfully, a lot of the trainings in the system we use has now been translated.
In the meantime, while he waits for translating of the back office and marketing
materials, hes working on building a yoga product that he will market to the
French-speaking world.
Thank you for the great reminders today JP & Lizzie! :-)
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