Multiple Relationships

Q: I have two girls whom Im fond of.

B: Oh, all right. I have many.
One moment.
The ideas that we are discussing here have to do with what your society thinks relationships ought to be
and what relationships can be, normally. Do you follow along? The idea to understand is that
relationships happen for a reason. If relationships do happen naturally then you can learn many things
from them. In other words, if certain things go on that seem difficult and they are not the product of
running away from something then they can serve a positive purpose. If the situation you are in is not
the product of denial it can be something which results in much expansion for all involved. Are you
measuring your present situation against a particular idea you think ought to be happening instead? Is
there difficulty being experienced in your situation? And if so, what type?
Q: The difficulty is I want to decide on just one.
B: Why?
Q: Why?
B: Yes, why? This may seem like a strange question to your society but it is not a strange one to me.
What we are suggesting here is that the idea of your desire may simply be the result of an expectation
rather than a natural act. So, why? Are you suggesting that things would be easier if you could make a
decision?
Q: [silence]
B: Do you not feel like talking about this? Im not here to force what you do not want to discuss. This
does not have to be complex. What are you experiencing right now? What is your hesitation?
Q: Talking on this topic in front of so many people.
B: No, youre all alone. These [indicating the audience] are all aspects and extensions of you. You are
simply in a room full of mirrors. But they are all tilted at various angles and all the different reflections
look slightly different from one another. So, speak freely; it is just you talking out loud. No one will
judge you. For understand, if they judge you they lower their vibration to the same level.
Q: I feel as if I cannot run away from them, either of them, and I want to know where this feeling comes
from?
B: Well thank you very much. First of all, you are obviously connected to both of them very strongly.
Running away would only be a denial of the relationships you naturally attracted. Understand that if you
really believe you are functioning with full integrity to the best of your ability, then if both relationships
still remain, then thats the natural result.