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COMM 1080
Brittany Keefe
March 1, 2017
Conflict Analysis
There is a problem that I thought was resolved in my relationship with
year ago, while he was down in Cedar City for school. I knew he lived with a
girl named Laura and her brother. They had been friends since they were
stories. This never bothered me at the beginning because I trusted Mitch and
every way you could think of. Websites, friends, high schoolers, the whole
nine yards. I found this all out by looking at his phone one night. So basically,
I have a looking at someone elses phone problem now that Ive been
working on. Now about 2 or 3 months into our relationship I was down
visiting and while Mitch was in the shower, I looked at his phone. There was a
text from Laura saying: Ill do your laundry if you let me sleep in your bed.
This caused a lot of problems because I called him out on it and how that
After he tried to explain their relationship with me, all I asked was that
he set a boundary with her now that he has a girlfriend, that those types of
things arent okay. I never said he couldnt hang out with her, just that he
has respect for me and our relationship. Now everything went fine for a
couple of months. She signed up for the peace core and had her going away
party was the next incident. I saw a text from her saying I love you. I sort of
lost it at him that night and we almost broke up. He followed up our fight
with I love you and want to start a family with you possibly before my best
friend even comes home etc. I thought we had figured our stuff out until a
recent conversation that brought the subject up again and he still felt like I
was the unreasonable one and I should get over it because he wasnt going
to do anything.
after 4 months.
3. I wanted Mitch to set boundaries with his roommate/friend now that
he was in a relationship and tell her that some of the things she
scene at the girls going away party trying to make Mitch choose
my trust and he never responded back to Laura with the same type
of responses.
6. I always told myself that I was a loyal person and deserved to have
the situation and they all feel the same way I do.
8. I thought the problem was resolved until recently, and now its just
sitting there probably waiting till she gets back or I see a message
again.
9. I dont think I am wrong about any part of this situation. Regardless
of the intent of the messages, I dont think they are things to say to
unresolved.
11. I dont think he is having any problems with this being
unresolved.
12. I want to talk this out and figure out how Mitch can keep his
with Laura.
14. I can confront Laura if something ever happens again and be that
arguments.
16. It seems to be a problem that I often forget about until
leave and that it had to do with both of us, not just him.
19. The most difficult part of this assignment was trying to look at
the other side of the story and look at it the way Mitch might be.
20. The hardest thing I had to try and answer was how I would end