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PSYCHOLOGY 2
Self hatred is a condition that develops slowly in an individual as a result of several triggers
within and without an individual. It is a condition that can be defined as defined as an extreme
disliking or hatred for oneself through being angry or by being prejudiced against oneself. It is
associated with other conditions that may affect an individual and how he/she relates to other
people around. Some of the impacts of self hatred include paranoid beliefs that make an individual
feel more vulnerable to the external society. This feeling makes one to fear other people and thus
his relationships with other people are hampered. In addition, self-hatred is a form of hatred
whose products are similar to hatred on other people. For instance, hatred lead to a strong
negative feeling that may eventually lead to acts of violence on the hated person. Likewise, self
hatred may eventually lead to thoughts of harming oneself or even suicide. This research, on the
contrary finds that low self esteem is not related to violence or aggression, implying that people
with high esteem, or rather who feel good about themselves tend to be more aggressive, especially
if their ego is challenged. However, having low self esteem or self hatred creates relationships
hinged on fear of conflict and failure, thus dishonesty in such relationships. Generally, self hatred
is destructive to an individuals relationships with other as it induces character change that may be
hostile to other people. They house self-defeating mindsets that tend to push away other people.
The Psychology of hatred by Jos I. Navarro, Esperanza Marchena and Inmaculada Menacho
Navarro, Marchena and Menacho (2013) define hatred as a deep and an emotionally extreme
dislike that can drive a person to extreme behaviors such as murder, violence, war, and suicide.
Hatred is thus a strong negative feeling against an object of the hatred and thus the object hated is
Hatred is seen in day-to-day experience and cannot only be expressed in words but also in deeds.
For instance, the constant attack of the blacks in the US by the white supremacists, the Jews
killing the Palestinians, pro-abortion gynecologists being murdered by anti-abortion fanatics, the
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genocides such as that of Rwanda, and the terrorist attacks such as that of September 11 are signs
of hatred. It is however important to note that not all instances of violence are a result of hate.
Hate is built on a complex mix of cognitions and emotions with the cognitive component arising
from the devaluation of the person hated and the perception of them as a threat. The emotional
part of hate come from the feelings of anger, fear, hostility, and distress (Navarro, Marchena and
Menacho, 2013).
Hatred develops gradually from minor feelings of being hated, disliked, oppressed or
discriminated. Therefore, as time goes, devaluation of the person takes place slowly such that at
the end the person being hated loses all moral and human consideration in the eye of the hater. As
the intensity of the hatred increases empathy reduces, a fanatical obligation to get rid of the
person arises and this may be manifested in inflicting damage to the person or even murdering the
person. Certain adversity in our lives such as jealousy, failure, guilt can trigger and intensify
hatred.
Therefore, from the above definitions of hatred, self hatred can be defined as an extreme disliking
or hatred for oneself through being angry or by being prejudiced against oneself. A person with
self-hatred can thus develop similar feelings and opinions about himself as would have been felt on
another person, thus he/she, after devaluing himself, can go ahead and harm himself.
Threatened egotism, narcissism, self-esteem, and direct and displaced aggression: Does self-
In a study to determine if narcissism and low self-esteem leads to violence, Bushman and
Baumeister (1998) found out that indeed narcissism leads to violence, especially if their ego is
threatened. It found out that narcissists are more aggressive and hostile than any other group of
people. Likewise, they found out that people with lower self esteem are not as violent as common
knowledge would predict, rather people with high esteem would become more violent if their ego
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is challenged. Their results suggested that self-esteem, as measured by the Rosenberg scale, did
not have any direct link to aggression and that the most aggressive people are likely to be those
Self hatred is a symptom of low self esteem, therefore it can be concluded from the findings that
self hatred makes an individual less aggressive and thus may relate well with other people.
However, it is important to note that such relationships are based on submission and avoidance of
conflict by the individual with self hatred. Therefore, such relationships are not healthy and are not
stable. Therefore, in as much as some people with self hatred show politeness, they only do so due
Paranoid Beliefs and Self-Criticism in Students by Mills, Gilbert, Bellew, McEwan and Gale
In their study to explored hostile and compassionate self-to-self relating in regard to paranoid
beliefs among students, Mills, Gilbert, Bellew, McEwan and Gale (2007) found out that paranoid
beliefs in students are associated with being highly self-critical. It also found out that problems in
being self-reassuring and kind to the self is another cause of paranoid beliefs. Thus, they
concluded that self-hatred is a significant predictor of paranoid beliefs. An elevated sense of threat
Paranoid beliefs tend to show that the social world is experienced as threatening rather than
helpful, thus the need to defend self against social threats (Mills, Gilbert, Bellew, McEwan &
Gale, 2007). The people with paranoid beliefs more often feel may feel vulnerable to others and to
their own self-criticism. This belief is heightened by self-hatred. Therefore, it can be concluded
that self hatred increases the changes of an individual being protective against the social world.
This ultimately affects their relationship with other people as most of the people with self hate will
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tend to withdraw from the social gatherings and would tend to be secretive rather than open and
Dumitriu, Tobolcea and Dumitriu (2010) found out that communication is an essential element of
any relationship. They however realized that lower self esteem or self hatred creates
communication barriers due to the psychological and social distance created. Subjects with high
self esteem are very confident in their abilities, thus they develop communication relationships
with ease. In addition, they are assertive, and they get involved easily in group activities.
Eventually, such individuals succeed in reaching their goals hence are successful. Generally, in a
group, a person with self hatred will find it hard to associate with other members of the group and
thus will not contribute in the processes of the group. This is because such an individual will find
it hard to accept that others will accept him/her as well as her opinions which he seen as inferior.
References
Bushman, J., & Baumeister, F. (1998). Threatened egotism, narcissism, self-esteem, and direct
Dumitriu, C., Tobolcea, J., & Dumitriu, G. (2010). The effect of self esteem on the development
Mills, A., Gilbert, P., Bellew, R., McEwan, K., & Gale, C. (2007). Paranoid beliefs and self-
Navarro, J., Marchena, E., & Menacho, I. (2013). Psychology of hatred. The Open Criminology
Journal, 6, 10-17
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