GIRLS only!!!

How to tell if he likes you

(and if he's flirting with you in his special own guy-way).

A lot depends on the type of guy and his individual personality.

Shy Guys
These are tough to crack sometimes...
He'll look at you, until you turn around, then boom, he's looking the other way.
You may 'feel' like he's watching you - but he's hard to catch at it
He may do something physical - like grab you in a play
way, poke you, play with your hair...
(Remember when you were really young and the guy you liked
punched you or tackled you?)
He may be working really hard to pay attention to you, but
doesn't quite know how...
He may ask a friend of yours about you - he'll say it's
just for "friend of mine" that wants to know about you.
He talks to everybody else - but when you're around he
turns silent, or chokes up.
You seem to accidentally bump into him a lot of different
places.
He may not say a word to you, but he shows up in the
same line, at the same movie, etc.
He'll give you a little smile from across the room, but if you get near, he won't look up.
Basically - the BIG clue is that his behavior changes when you're around (compared to
when he's around his buds or other girls).
DEAD Giveaway - when you talk to him he turns red.
(Bingo - you can pack that puppy up and take him home...)

Step One, Eye Contact!

Usually the first contact made with a "Potentially Interesting
Person" (from this point forward they will be referred to as "PIPs")
is eye contact. There are a few different types of eye contact.
There is the "Across the Room" eye contact, the "In Passing" eye
contact (when a PIP is passing by you) and the all-important
"Conversational" eye contact. Each is different in many respects, but
similar in that they are all ways of sneaking in communication without
words.

In order for that contact to have the desired impact, it must be delivered
well. It is fun and easy when you know how. Perfecting this ability will be
incredibly useful for you in meeting and attracting quality men!

So you're at the 7-Eleven, a restaurant or club, the market or any public place
where you see a PIP. How do you get from hmmm?. . . TO HIM! Often in these
 situations, you'll need to make eye contact before a conversation can begin.

When making this kind of eye contact, remember that you are trying to
convey a message with your eyes. People have told me that they are no good at
eye-contact flirting because they always end up looking away - when really,
this action is in fact conveying the desired message.
Think about it. If a man stares at you and when you look back
at him he doesn't end up looking away, you feel
uncomfortable and intimidated - more like you're being
stalked than flirted with! A man will also feel uncomfortable
if a woman overstays her gaze.
The ideal "Across the Room" eye-contact flirt only makes contact for two or
three seconds, and then shyly, must turn away. Usually this will make you
smile, which is again a perfect communication - friendly and pleasant. It shows
you're happy that he looked back and showed interest in you. Even blushing
works in your favor, so don't try to hide it. In these ways, you are using your
nervous energy to your advantage. It's important that you let him catch you
looking back at him. Subconsciously, this tells him you are interested. If he
doesn't catch you looking back at him, he may decide you are not interested.
Then he may not be able to get up the nerve to come over and start a
conversation with you.
Side note: If he's looking at you when you look back at him, that's a pretty
good sign he is interested in you.
If he isn't looking at you, that's not necessarily a sign that he's not
interested in you. In a situation where you have the time, this entire sequence
of looking, looking away and looking back, should repeat itself a few times
before you move forward. This kind of eye-contact flirting is most effective
in a restaurant, club, or in line at an amusement park or the DMV. Use it in any
situation where you and the PIP are going to be in the same place for a while.

"In Passing"
If a PIP is walking past you, you must think quickly. You
must deliver a powerful enough, instant, high-impact
eye contact to warrant him coming back for more. A
deliberate and direct "pupil to pupil" contact is
necessary!
If you can think fast enough, say "Hi" and/or "How
are you?"

Either way you absolutely must SMILE!

This step is VERY IMPORTANT!!
If you are able to deliver a direct enough hit, the PIP may come up with some
excuse to come back and start a conversation with you.
Again, allow him to catch you looking back at him. If he's not looking back,
keep watching him so that if he does look back at you, he will see you looking
at him. If and when he does look back at you, show that you are happy with
 a huge, kind of shy, smile. This is the only way he will be able to get up the
nerve to come back and talk to you. It is also a good idea to try to find a
reason of your own to pass him again.

This method can be challenging. Even if you think

fast enough and get up the nerve, it may not work,
though often enough it does.
My clients and I have shared many success stories
about using this method.

Think of it this way. If you try and fail, you have lost nothing.

If you don't try, you will almost definitely lose the opportunity to meet the
guy. We must be very direct in this situation because it takes an incredible
amount of nerve for the guy to do his part. Therefore, we must really do our
part.
"Conversational"
When you have the opportunity to "conversate" with a PIP, use it to your FULL
advantage. You may not get a second chance. The trick is, when you look at
him, look him straight in the eye.

Make an even stronger impact by focusing directly on his

pupils. You are almost searching for the inner anatomy of
his eyeball as you speak and listen. You must hold this
contact for a little bit longer than is comfortable in order
to get the desired result. Finally, you must let go of his
optic nerve.

You may notice him trying to get your "tractor beam" back onto him. This is a
very good sign that he is interested.
For the man on the receiving end of this communication, it is a clear sign of
interest in him not just as a date - but as an individual. You are giving him all
of your attention. He is highly complimented and feels deeply respected. If a
guy is interested in you, this will go a long way in empowering him to ask you
out... Incidentally, by looking this closely at people, you also get a great
read on exactly who they really are. Many times they will reveal to you
things about themselves that they ordinarily would not. They will say, " I don't
know why I am telling you all of this. I usually don't tell such details about my
life to a virtual stranger."

If a man cannot return your gaze, it may be a sign that he is hiding

something. It could also be extreme shyness or intimidation, but when
shyness or intimidation is the problem, he will usually try to reconnect with
you once you look away. Many of the women I have taught this method to
have agreed with me. "It's almost as though I can read his mind and see
through any facade when I look at a person this closely."

By using this method, I have found that I can get a sense of a person's
nature. Sometimes I see kindness or power. Occasionally, I have gotten a very
bad vibe or gut instinct. The times I have ignored that feeling, I was sorry.
It's important that you use this technique not only as a way of impacting a
PIP, but as a way to start figuring out if this person is right for you.
Do you know HOW to flirt?
Do you know if you ARE flirting (could you be accidentally flirting)?
The following actions are considered to be REAL flirting indicators -
check them out and see if you're sending (and receiving) the right
message:
How to tell she likes you:

She gazes in your eyes with deep interest

and her pupils are dilated.

Her skin tone becomes red while being

around you.

Her crossed leg is pointed towards you or if that same leg is rocking back
and forth towards you.

She raises or lowers the volume of her voice to match yours.

She rubs her chin or touches her cheek. This indicates that she's thinking
about you and her relating in some way...

She winks at you while talking to you or winks at you from a distance.

She exposes the palms of her hand facing you.

Biting of the lips or showing of the tongue,

licking her lips or touching of her front
teeth....

She starts sitting straight up and her muscles appear to be firm.

 She puts her fingernail between her teeth.

She laughs in unison with you.

She touches your arm, shoulder, thigh, or hand while talking to you.

Plays with her jewelry, especially with stroking and pulling motions.

She twirls her hair around her fingers while she

is looking at you.

Eyebrows raised and then lowered, then a smile usually indicates

interest in you.

While talking to you, she rests an elbow in the palm of one hand, while
holding out her other hand, palm up.

In a crowd she speaks only to you and focuses all of her undivided
attention on you.

While talking to you, she blinks more than usual, fluttering her
eyelashes.

Big smiles with upper and lower teeth showing with a

relaxed face.

She speeds up or slows down her speaking to match yours.

She rubs her wrists up and down.

At a Glance...

ARIES goes with Leo, Sagittarius, Gemini and Aquarius.

 TAURUS goes with Virgo, Capricorn, Cancer and Pisces.

GEMINI goes with Libra, Aquarius, Aries and Leo.

CANCER goes with Scorpio, Pisces, Taurus and Virgo.

LEO goes with Aries, Sagittarius, Gemini and Libra.

VIRGO goes with Taurus, Capricorn, Cancer and Scorpio.

LIBRA goes with Gemini, Aquarius, Leo and Sagittarius.

SCORPIO goes with Cancer, Pisces, Virgo and Capricorn.

SAGITTARIUS goes with Leo, Aries, Libra and Aquarius. `

CAPRICORN goes with Virgo, Taurus, Scorpio and Pisces.

AQUARIUS goes with Libra, Gemini, Sagittarius and Aries.

PISCES goes with Scorpio, Cancer, Capricorn and Taurus.

Adjoining Sun Signs

Those born in adjoining Sun signs are also often alike enough through the Mercury
or Venus links they may share to be compatible. Because Mercury and Venus are
never far from the Sun in a person's chart. Often one or both of these planets might
be in a sign adjoining yours in the zodiac. Those relationships that really work may
also have their Moon, Mars, other planet or rising sign in their partner's Sun sign,
giving them traits or interests in common.

For GIRLS only!!!

How to tell if he likes you

These are some of the more subtle clues - keep

your eyes open - you may have more guys flirting
with you than you realize!!!

He remembers little things you mention in

casual conversation.
It may take you by surprise. You might have been
talking when he was around and two weeks later he'll say, "Well, you like orange fizz..."

His voice changes when he talks to you in a group. He may say "Hey." to everyone with
you, but the "Hey." to you is a little different.
 His voice gets softer when the two of you talk.

Sometimes he stares straight into your eyes.

His eyes get 'soft' when he looks at you. They change slightly or get relaxed around the
edges. It's subtle, but you can tell if you watch...
(You may already be aware of it at a subconscious level - that's what made you start
wondering if he likes you...)

When he's near you or talking with you, his eyes travel in a little circle around your face
and land back on your eyes. (Like he's looking at your whole face - then back to your eyes.)

He watches your lips. (Dead give away.)

His friends start asking you questions - if you haven't met him yet - they may ask what
your name is. Or may ask you what you think about 'him.'

If his friends are paying attention to you after he's been staring at you - it can mean
that he's been talking about you.

He tells you that you smell nice...

(No hidden meaning here - it's a good thing.)

He might act weird around you or seem very nervous. His behavior may just plain change
when you're around.

If he's normally quiet, he may get louder, or

vice versa. It's the difference in behavior
that's the clue.

GIRLS only!!!
How to tell if he likes you
(and if he's flirting with you in his special own guy-way).

A lot depends on the type of guy and his individual personality.

Shy Guys
These are tough to crack sometimes...
He'll look at you, until you turn around, then boom, he's looking the other way.
You may 'feel' like he's watching you - but he's hard to catch at it
 He may do something physical - like grab you in a play
way, poke you, play with your hair...
(Remember when you were really young and the guy you liked
punched you or tackled you?)
He may be working really hard to pay attention to you, but
doesn't quite know how...
He may ask a friend of yours about you - he'll say it's
just for "friend of mine" that wants to know about you.
He talks to everybody else - but when you're around he
turns silent, or chokes up.
You seem to accidentally bump into him a lot of different
places.
He may not say a word to you, but he shows up in the
same line, at the same movie, etc.
He'll give you a little smile from across the room, but if you get near, he won't look up.
Basically - the BIG clue is that his behavior changes when you're around (compared to
when he's around his buds or other girls).
DEAD Giveaway - when you talk to him he turns red.
(Bingo - you can pack that puppy up and take him home...)

How to say I Love You in 100 Languages

English - I love you

Afrikaans - Ek het jou lief
Albanian - Te dua
Arabic - Ana behibak (to male)
Arabic - Ana behibek (to female)
Armenian - Yes kez sirumem
Bambara - M'bi fe
Bengali - Ami tomake bhalobashi (pronounced: Amee toe-ma-kee bhalo-bashee)
Belarusian - Ya tabe kahayu
Bisaya - Nahigugma ako kanimo
Bulgarian - Obicham te
Cambodian - Soro lahn nhee ah
Catalan - T'estimo
Cherokee - Tsi ge yu i
Cheyenne - Ne mohotatse
Chichewa - Ndimakukonda
Chinese
Cantonese - Ngo oiy ney a
Mandarin - Wo ai ni
Comanche - U kamakutu nu
(pronounced oo----ka-ma-koo-too-----nu) -- Thx Tony
Corsican - Ti tengu caru (to male)
 Cree - Kisakihitin
Creol - Mi aime jou
Croatian - Volim te
Czech - Miluji te
Danish - Jeg Elsker Dig
Dutch - Ik hou van jou
Elvish - Amin mela lle (from The Lord of The Rings, by J.R.R. Tolkien)
Esperanto - Mi amas vin
Estonian - Ma armastan sind
Ethiopian - Afgreki'
Faroese - Eg elski teg
Farsi - Doset daram
Filipino - Mahal kita
Finnish - Mina rakastan sinua
French - Je t'aime, Je t'adore
Frisian - Ik hald fan dy
Gaelic - Ta gra agam ort
Georgian - Mikvarhar
German - Ich liebe dich
Greek - S'agapo
Gujarati - Hoo thunay prem karoo choo
Hiligaynon - Palangga ko ikaw
Hawaiian - Aloha Au Ia`oe
Hebrew
To female - "ani ohev otach" (said by male) "ohevet Otach" (said by female)
To male - "ani ohev otcha" (said by male) "Ohevet ot'cha" (said by female)
Hiligaynon - Guina higugma ko ikaw
Hindi - Hum Tumhe Pyar Karte hae
Hmong - Kuv hlub koj
Hopi - Nu' umi unangwa'ta
Hungarian - Szeretlek
Icelandic - Eg elska tig
Ilonggo - Palangga ko ikaw
Indonesian - Saya cinta padamu
Inuit - Negligevapse
Irish - Taim i' ngra leat
Italian - Ti amo
Japanese - Aishiteru or Anata ga daisuki desu
Kannada - Naanu ninna preetisuttene
Kapampangan - Kaluguran daka
Kiswahili - Nakupenda
Konkani - Tu magel moga cho
Korean - Sarang Heyo or Nanun tangshinul sarang hamnida
Latin - Te amo
Latvian - Es tevi miilu
Lebanese - Bahibak
 Lithuanian - Tave myliu
Luxembourgeois - Ech hun dech gaer
Macedonian - Te Sakam
Malay - Saya cintakan mu / Aku cinta padamu
Malayalam - Njan Ninne Premikunnu
Maltese - Inhobbok
Marathi - Me tula prem karto
Mohawk - Kanbhik
Moroccan - Ana moajaba bik
Nahuatl - Ni mits neki
Navaho - Ayor anosh'ni
Ndebele - Niyakutanda
Norwegian
Bokmaal - Jeg elsker deg
Nyonrsk - Eg elskar deg
Pandacan - Syota na kita!!
Pangasinan - Inaru Taka
Papiamento - Mi ta stimabo
Persian - Doo-set daaram
Pig Latin - Iay ovlay ouyay
Polish - Kocham Ciebie
Portuguese - Eu te amo
Romanian - Te iubesc
Russian - Ya tebya liubliu
Scot Gaelic - Tha gra\dh agam ort
Serbian - Volim te
Setswana - Ke a go rata
Sign Language - ,\,,/ (represents position of fingers when signing 'I Love You')
Sindhi - Maa tokhe pyar kendo ahyan
Sioux - Techihhila
Slovak - Lu`bim ta
Slovenian - Ljubim te
Spanish - Te quiero / Te amo
Swahili - Ninapenda wewe
Swedish - Jag alskar dig
Swiss-German - Ich lieb Di
Surinam - Mi lobi joe
Tagalog - Mahal kita
Taiwanese - Wa ga ei li
Tahitian - Ua Here Vau Ia Oe
Tamil - Nan unnai kathalikaraen
Telugu - Nenu ninnu premistunnanu
Thai
To female - Phom rak khun
To male - Chan rak khun
Informal - Rak te
 Tunisian - Ha eh bak
Turkish - Seni Seviyorum
Ukrainian - Ya tebe kahayu
Urdu - mai aap say pyaar karta hoo
Vietnamese
To female - Anh ye^u em
To male - Em ye^u anh
Welsh - 'Rwy'n dy garu di
Yiddish - Ikh hob dikh
Yoruba - Mo ni fe
Zazi - Ezhele hezdege
Zuni - Tom ho' ichema

This is another cool craft for Valentine's Day. You can also wear them in parties, or
special meet like with school friends with school logo on them. Just use your
creativity, and you would be having fun in making them again and again. You will
need:
Salt Dough (The instructions are given here)
A piece of card
Rolling pin
Varnish
Biscuit Cutter (optional)
Baking Tray
Adult Supervision Oven gloves
Cooling rack
Paintbrush
Fine sandpaper
Acrylic paints
Scissors

Glue Roll out a large piece of salt dough to about 1cm (1/2in)
thick. Using a heart shaped biscuit cutter (or you can male an outline and cut it with a
kitchen knife) cut out five hearts. Place the hearts on a baking tray lined with parchment
paper and bake them in the oven for about four hours at 120degree C/250 degree F/Gas

1/2. Ask an adult to remove the tray from the oven using oven
gloves & to transfer the hardened shapes to the cooling rack. When cool, smooth the
edges with sandpaper then paint the hearts in lots of bright colors. When dry, apply a coat
of varnish. Cut a strip of card 20cmX 5cm (8" X 2"). Check that it

will fit easily over your wrist before gluing the ends. Glue the
hearts on to the bracelet, holding them in place until the glue sets.

And your love band is ready to flaunt!

You will need:

1. Chopping board
2. Tall, thick glass
3. Ruler
4. Drying modeling material
5. Acrylic paints
6. Modeling tool
7. PVA Glue
8. Paintbrush

Sun and Zodiac Round Box

This is a lovely gift not only for valentine's day, but for all occasions. It is made from
slabs of modeling material. The slabs are joined by smoothing the inside seams with a
modeling tool. When the pot is complete, smooth the out side seams. This pot is ideal for
storing small valuables. To make a nest of pots, make two more pots- one smaller and
one larger than your sun and star pot. Roll a large slab of material
until it is 5mm (.25 inch) thick. Use an upturned glass to cut out two circles. Cut out two

strips, one 25cm X 5cm (10inX2in) and one 25cm (10in X 3/4in)
To make the lid, roll out one of the circles until it is 5mm (1/4 inch) wider than the other
circle. Score around the side of the lid before pressing on the narrow strip. Bind the edges

together. Score the side of the remaining circle and carefully wrap
the wider strip of material around it. Support the sides of the pot as you bind the edges

together and smooth the joins. Press an upturned glass on to

rolled out material to make the outline of a circle. Into the center, place a small circle of

material. Carve the sun's rays around it using the modeling tool.
Cut out the sun with the modeling tool and position it on the flat, upper surface of the lid.
Place the lid on the upturned glass to dry. Allow the pot and the lid to dry for 12

hoursbefore turning them over to dry for further 12 hours. Paint

and decorate the insides and the out sides of the pot and the lid. When dry, apply a
varnish of 8 part PVA glue to 1 part water. And
here is the Zodiac and Sun pot ready! Here are some painting tips to help you thru:
Paint the inside and outside of the pot first. While this is drying, paint the top and the
bottom of the lid yellow. Decorate the pot with stars and then go on to complete the lid
with the blue and green paint. To finish, paint stars on the lid.
*To make the Zodiac and the moons really shine, sprinkle gold or silver glitter in the wet
paint.

Make some grand heart or star shaped rings and wear it with your sweetheart or friends
together for the valentines day. A easy but attractive craft to make for celebration of love.
Just follow the simple pictorial guide and surprise everyone, with these little nothings.
You can also make them, stuff them in the love treasure chest, and then gift it. It would
be a smashing one, with romanticism guaranteed.

You will need: Salt dough (click to 4 instructions on how to prepare it); Varnish; Baking
tray; PVA glue; Metal ring attachments; Parchment paper; Oven gloves; Fine sandpaper;
Cooling rack; Paintbrush; Acrylic paints; Modeling tool, Rolling pin.

Roll out a piece of salt dough 1cm thick.

Place the heart and star templates on the
dough and cut around them. Place the
shapes on a baking tray lined with
parchment paper and bake them for about
four hours at 120 degree C, or 250 degree
F/Gas 1/2.

When the shapes have hardened, remove the

try from the oven (using oven gloves) and
transfer them to a cooling rack. Once they
have cooled, smooth rough edges with
sandpaper before painting your rings. When
dry, apply a coat of varnish.
 Glue a ring attachment on to the back of
each shape and leave the glue to dry before
trying on the rings.

Your Rings are ready to adorn you and

your loved ones! They are so easy to make
that you might as well wear one on each of
your fingers!

Treasure your Love

This Love treasure chest is a great place to
keep those lovely nothings, and you will be
sure that your sweetheart would always use
this to store those little love-filled gifts in
them.

Tip: Roll out the modelling meterial for the

base and sides of the chest to about 5mm in
thickness. If the meterial is rolled too thinly,
the sides of the chest may collapse.
You will need

Modelling Tool
Tall thick Glass
White drying meterial
Paintbrush
PVA Glue
Acrylic Paints
Chopping board
 Ruler

Roll out the meterial. Cut out two sides and

a base each 6cmX4cm (2.5in X 1.5in), and
two more sides each 4cm X 4cm (1.5in X
1.5in). Cut a strip 8cm (3in) long for the lid

strap.

Score around the

sides of the base with the modelling tool.
Position the first side and smooth the inside
join. Position the remaining sides and
smooth the inside joints. When all the sides
are in place, smooth the outside edges with
the tool. Use the point of the tool to make
dots in the modelling meterial to create the

effect of studs.

Decorate the lid and

fix the strap on to the lid. Place the lid on the
chest. Place the lid on the chest. Decorate
the chest with a skull and crossbones cut
from modelling meterial. Allow the chest to
dry for 24 hours. When the chest is dry and
hard, paint it inside and outside with acrylic
paints. Allow the paint to dry before
applying a coat of varnish made from 8 parts
PVA glue to 1 part water.
 And your little love
chest is ready to be filled with treasures. Fill
it with heart shaped chocolates wrapped in
gold foil, or anything you please. V

Woven heart pouch and holder.

It is a terrific gift for Valentine's day or for events like anniversary. We have used two
colors, but it is also attractive if you use just one color card. You will need:

Card
Pencil
Ruler
Scissors
Glue
Ribbon
Shredded tissue
Paper
Chocolates, bonbon etc.
 Measure and draw 23 X 15cm (9"X6") oblong shape on

two different color pieces of card Cut the oblongs.

Fold each pieces of card in half widthways.

Lay the twqo pieces of card together in an L-shape, with folded

sides facing away from you, to form a square where they overlap, and lightlky mark in

pencil the central point at the top[ edge where they meet. Along
one short edge of each peice of folded card, measure and mark in p[encil two equally

spaced 11.5cm/41/2 in lines. Cut along the marked lines throught

both layers of card. Amrk smooth ends at each end of the uncut
short side of each folded piece of card and cut off the corners to make thr rounded top

edges of the heart. Place the two pieces of the card side by side,
with the folds at right angles to each other, and facing outwards. Weave the first strip
from the right-hand piece over the nearest strip from the left-hand piece, through the

second strip and over the third. Weave the second strip in the
same way as the first, alternating the over and under sequence. Weave the third strip in

the same way as the first. Turn the heart over and weave the strip
on the underside in the same way to make a pouch shape at the top of the heart.

Dab a little glue under the ends of the strips and stick each one

down. Stick lengths of ribbon to the center back, and center fronth
of the heart, on the inside. Pack some shredded tissue paper into
the heart before loosely filling with chocolates or whatever you please.

Tie the ribbons in a bow to close the packet, and hold the

chocolates inside.
Your Magnificient heart pouch is ready for a proud display and presentation. If possible,
present it on a plate. A nice way to offer your heart!

Make your salt dough.

For some of the crafts given, you will need salt dough, which is very easy to make. Just
follow the steps given below:
You will need:

300g salt
300g flour
30ml (2 tbsp)vegetable oil
200ml (7 fl oz) water
Mixing Bowl

Weighing Scales
Wooden Spoon
Measuring Jug
Plastic Bag

Use the weighing scales to weigh the correct amount of flour and salt in the bowl.

Mix them together using the wooden spoon

Measure 200ml (7 fl oz) of water in a measuring jug. Pour the

water gradually over the flour and salt and mix well. Pour the oil over the mixture and
mix it in well. When all the oil has been absorbed, remove the dough from the bowl and

place on a clean surface that has been sprinkled with flour.

 Knead the dough until it is firm, then put it in a plastic bag or
wrap it in plastic food wrap. Place the dough in the refrigerator for 30 minutes before you
use it.
TIP: You can store the unused dough in an airtight container or plastic bag, and out it in
the refrigarator.