CAREER LIFE CONNECTIONS

Name:

Feelings
What ventilations do you need to work on? Why?

INACCURATE VENTILATION ACCURATE DESCRIPTION OF

FEELINGSS
1. Sarcasm: I resent your telling Joan and me that we
You know –I t-all! haven’t the foggiest idea about how to
invest money.

2. Labelling: I resent it when you refer to women as

You’re a male chauvinist pig, stupid and fickle.
that’s what.

3. Commanding: I’m so angry at your, I don’t want any

Get lost! further discussion with you.

4. Questioning: I feel uncomfortable at your office parties.

Why do you always want to go to Sometimes I feel jealous when I see you
those stupid office parties? enjoying a conversation with a man.

Do you love me? I feel insecure. I’ve treated you so badly I

wonder if your still love me.

5. Accusation: I dislike your spending so much time and

You don’t care about our family money at the tavern and I feel disgust
anymore? when I see you drunk. I’m concerned
about its effect on the children.

These days women are walking all I feel threatened by your increased
over their husbands. assertiveness.

You don’t love me? If you did, you I’m disappointed because you forgot our
would have remembered our wedding anniversary.
wedding anniversary.

6. Mind Reading: I wonder if you really mean what you say.

You don’t really feel that way.

7. Making threats: John, I’ve been very unhappy over the

John, if things don’t change soon peat year. Sometimes I feel like running
I’m going to walk out of this away. I would like us to go for marriage
marriage. counselling.

8. Judging I enjoyed your company. I hope we can

You’re a fine person. get together again.