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March 2004 M I N- I S T R Y
EDITORIAL
Jesus the
ultimate pastor
ultimate Advisor, our unsurpassable
W
ith all we have to say about Consultant.
the "ideal" pastor, why do In this context, I recommend a pow
we say so little about Jesus as
the unsurpassable declaration of that
WILL EVA erful little volume from which I have
derived the essence of this editorial. The
ideal? book is titled ]esus the Pastor (subtitled
When Jesus and other New Testa Leading Others in the Character and
ment writers repeatedly refer to the Power of Christ). It is by John W. Frye
Lord as a "Shepherd," the original word (Zondervan 2000) and costs only
they use is the same as the one for "pas $10.99 in the United States.
tor." In Latin based languages, the word Among many other aspects, Frye
"pastor" is the word for "shepherd," deals with the question of how Jesus,
and vice versa. Thus when the New through the way He practiced pastor
Testament, or Jesus Himself, talks of the Jesus Christ, we realize it is not merely a ing, actually saw the pastoral vocation.
"Good Shepherd," one could say it quaint, charming, or touching view of Frye tackles such issues as what is at the
refers to Jesus as the "Good Pastor." the ministry of Jesus; it is, instead, our heart of the pastoral vision in the day-to
What does this mean to us? The consummate model. day work of Jesus. And, in the light of
most direct way to express the meaning How Jesus dealt with and felt about Jesus' pastoral work, what actually
is to quote well-known "Shepherd" pas people, what His innate attitudes were, brings authentic power to the pastoral
sages, using "pastor" rather than the way He thought and taught and task. The closing chapter of the book
"Shepherd." Take a look at John 10: "I lived and loved; this defines for us what ("How Jesus Shepherds His Under-
am the good [pastor]. The good [pas pastoring is all about. shepherds") itself makes the book a
tor] lays down his life for the sheep [his Jesus' way of pastoring is our model worthy read.
people]" (NIV). Another says: "And for pastoring. He is our Mentor before I am moved by a notation on the
when the Chief [Pastor] appears, you anyone or anything, including the best back cover of the book, which says in
will receive the crown of glory that will books, seminaries, seminars, and our part, "There are times when the best
never fade away" (1 Peter 5:2, 4, NIV). most inspiring human role models. training, the wisest principles, and the
Here's one other example: ". . . Our Jesus Christ as the Good Pastor must most effective procedures break down
Lord Jesus, that great [Pastor] of the be taken out from behind the stupen in the face of the realities of pastoring.
[people] sheep . . ." (Heb. 13:20, NIV). dous array of ideas and views of what How often have you wished not for a
Jesus' portrayal of Himself as "the constitutes pastoring. It is not that these method, but a mentor? Someone caring
good pastor," provides ministers with a views don't have a role, but they must enough to join you in the trenches and
pivotal way of not only viewing Jesus, play second fiddle as we seek to wise enough to guide you unerringly
but of looking into the heart of pastoral unearth, in the person of Jesus Christ, through your most impossible prob
work. Jesus as the definitive pastor sup the essence of our calling. lems? ... There is such a person: Jesus."
plies us with our unique identity as men We must confer with Him as our While some may consider such a
and women called of God to be lovers conclusive oracle so that He may actu claim overdrawn and typical of some of
of human beings, spiritual leaders, ally etch into our souls our "job the overextravagant pretensions we
evangelists, healers, encouragers, description." By His divine expressions sometimes make, the essential
teachers, and proclaimers of hope and in the New Testament and through approach and thrust of Frye's thesis will
faith. When we look into the face of this down-to-earth revelations from the go far in making this claim a reality in
divinely designed and appointed role of Holy Spirit, He must become for us the your ministry and mine. 58
the spiritual life that God had His hand on my life. I was in
the world but not of the world. Christian
schools provided me with a "cocoon" that
I
n June 2003, Rear Admiral Barry C. Black,
Derek J. Morris
Ph.D., D.Min., (Ret.) was elected the 62nd were usually selected to pastor there, so I had
chaplain of the United States Senate. Prior an incredible opportunity to be exposed to
to this appointment, Chaplain Black served some of the best preachers God ever produced.
in the United States Navy for over 27 years, I think that a great deal of preaching is
ending his distinguished career as the Chief of taught, but there is also a lot of preaching that
Navy Chaplains. Chaplain Black is a Seventh-day is caught. When exposed to powerful, lyrical
Adventist. preaching early, there is an accent that you
pick up that stays with you throughout your
Derek Morris: Chaplain Black, as you life and stamps your ministry. It's not some
think back over your life, what are some of thing that you'll get in a classroom. It's not
the influences that God has used to form you something that you'll get in a book. Very
spiritually? often, even now, I hear echos of my pastors
while I'm preaching, and I smile. I say, "That's
Barry Black: One is my humble begin Elder Leon Cox. He would have said it just
Barry C. Black, Ph.D., nings. I believe that growing up in the inner like that!" Or "That's Elder J. C. Smith. That's
D.Min., is chaplain of city, in the toxic environment of the public how he'd have phrased it."
the U.S. Senate in housing units where I lived on welfare, creat That is a marvelous legacy, a wonderful gift
Washington, D.C. ed in me an ability to relate to people across to have! This reservoir of material to draw
the socioeconomic spectrum. God seems to from—exegetical material, illustrations—they
have blessed me with an ability to connect pop into my head while I'm preaching
with people who may not have a lot of edu because of this rich heritage. I was a member
cation, who may not have many material of a great church for most of my childhood,
things. They seem to connect with me, and and each time the door of the church opened,
they are encouraged by my story. I've had sin my mother had us there. Early morning prayer
gle mothers say that the knowledge of my service. Wednesday night prayer meeting.
background and my roots has been an Sunday night evangelistic meeting. Sabbath,
encouragement to them, and they are more we stayed for the whole day! I didn't always
determined to bless their children by invest think it was wonderful, but it certainly pro
Derek Morris, D.Min.,
is senior pastor of the ing in Christian education and by insisting on vided me with a wonderful heritage.
Calimesa Seventh- Bible study.
day Adventist Church, A second influence that God used to form DM: So there was your mother and also
Calimesa, California. me spiritually was my mother. She was a some of the pastors from your church. Who
M.Div. STUDENT,TEXAS,
Y
ou are a pastor and you are mar be responsible for their sexual conduct.
ried. Are you married, just like Evidence shows that gender distinc
other people, including the inti tions deeply affect our choices and our
macies of marriage, physical and moral reasoning. We do not have male-
otherwise? ness or femaleness, we are male and
Well, yes. Ministers are servants of To avoid temptation, women's female; we do not have sexuality, we are
God, and they are "shepherds of the ankles and necks were scrupulously cov sexual beings.3
flock." They act as prophets and priests ered, and books by authors of opposite 2. Essential incompleteness through
for God's people, as teachers and spiri genders could not be shelved side by Adam. When God created Adam He
tual leaders, and yet they are married side unless those who owned the books said, "It is not good for the man to be
just as others are. were married to each other. 1 alone" (Gen. 2:18, NIV). This aloneness
Pastors and their spouses are sexual The courts of nobility in Europe bred of Adam was not an evil in itself.
beings. The Bible informs us that sexu raging promiscuity, and the population Singleness is not evil. Rather, God
ality is not sinful, that sex as it comes in general tended to follow suit. Closer noticed a need, an essential desire for
from God's hand is not sinful. It also to our time, the hippie movement of the companionship.
insists that sexual misconduct, by the 1960s ushered in a sexual revolution, When He finally brought Eve to
biblical definitions, is sin unlike any which viewed the sex act as a purely bio Adam, he who was but a few hours old
other sin. logical function, as the sole venue for exclaimed: "This of tost is bone of my
To understand these teachings and expressing one's sexuality. Proponents bones, and flesh of my flesh" (Gen.
to stand for them takes courage these of these values claimed that any control 2:23, RSV, emphasis supplied). A char
days. If you take such a stand, you will over sex hampers normal human devel acteristic of human sexuality is that it is
have much of Christian history against opment and that men and women are "never confined to the person who is
you, not to mention having to confront natural sex objects to be used for mutu driven by the urge, but rather seeks the
what might be called the surrounding al pleasure and gratification. partner. But it does not do so with the
contemporary playboy culture. What does the Bible teach about sole purpose of 'using' the other person
Certain Church Fathers traced the appropriate attitude to sexuality and merely as an object with which to stim
origin of sexuality to the tree of the sex? ulate and satisfy itself. Rather there is
knowledge of good and evil. There the something in the structure of the libido4
first couple, they say, gave in to lust and Sexuality as a dimension of itself that points to a two-way commu
sensuality. Thus their physical natures human nature nication, ... for the prerequisite for the
were impaired, and the resulting weak 1. Humans as gender-specific. "Male fulfilment of the pleasure is that the
nesses have been transmitted to all their and female created he them" (Gen. other person gives himself to it, that he
descendants, down through history. 1:27). With these words, the Bible [or she] participates."5
Procreation alone, says Augustine, affirms that sexual differentiation origi 3. Sexuality as an integral dimension
can justify sexual activity, and that only nated at creation. This means that, in of human nature. It is not possible to
partially. While the Protestant Reformers order for the image of God to be fully separate sexuality from the rest of what
insisted that sex was not inherently sin realized in a one-flesh unity, there must is native to our humanity. That is, it can
ful and that celibacy is not virtuous per be male and female.2 But in humans not be done without incurring serious
se, puritanism in America and during nature is never autonomous or fixed like damage to ourselves and to all others
the Victorian period in Europe returned as in animals. Humans need not be who may be involved. Human sexuality
to a negative view of sex and sexuality. under the control of their urges. They is lodged in the very temple of the Holy
2OO4
T
he Caravan del Poder began its Carlos Carpio lives in Lima. After
long journey in January 2003. being invited by some friends to attend
Cars, vans, and trucks loaded vespers, he joined a regular Bible study
with people eager to witness and with class. When he heard about the cara
equipment to support the witness
MARCIO DIAS GUARDA van, he decided to be baptized along
made up the caravan as it wound its with his daughter, Edda, even though
way from the border of Bolivia to they had to travel 930 miles.
Crucero, the highest point in Peru. Pastor Agostin Ticona, part of the
Crucero threw open its arms to wel caravan staff, conducted baptisms every
come the Adventists, and the mayor day of a week, and on one of them, the
declared a holiday. More than half the ceremony lasted from 6:00 p.m. to
population of the city turned up at the midnight. During that one week, he
local stadium to celebrate the spiritual Tiempo radio network. In addition, 94 baptized 214 people.
power that the caravan brought. Adventist schools and colleges in the At Choquehuanca there was a partic
One of the principal leaders of the area, many pastors, Adventist youth vol ularly touching moment. In the early
caravan was its main preacher, unteers, and 41 theology students lent 1920s, the local priest tried to chase out
Alejandro Bullon, ministerial secretary of their presence and support to the cara the Seventh-day Adventists and their
the South-American Division. He held van's evangelistic adventure. pastor. Now, when the caravan arrived,
meetings in 17 cities along the route of The project took several months of the mayor gave Pastor Bullon the keys of
the caravan, and at times he had to organization and preparation, from the the city.
speak three or four times a day. original vision conceived by the local The last sermon and altar call were
Assisting him were scores of other evan mission administrators to its successful delivered in Puno, the state capital, to
gelists, pastors, and lay members. As conclusion. The Union organization over 20,000 people at the local stadium.
the caravan concluded its journey, the fully supported the venture. The local Following that, the mayor requested
power witnessed was Pentecostal in mission also recruited the assistance of that at least "one week promoting
proportion: Between September 16 and an experienced professional team in Christian values" be held every year by
23,10,534 people were baptized, near public relations, and with their help the the Adventist church in that city, where
ly a third of them in the beautiful event received maximum exposure and the Adventists constitute some 12 per
Huencalla beach of Lake Titicaca, others promotion, secured support of civic and cent of the population.
in the cold waters of Unocoya River, political authorities, and received press
near juliaca, the largest city in Peru. coverage. Thanks to this team, before A venturesome project
Compare this massive achievement of the caravan arrived in a particular city, "The impact of the Caravan of Power
the Caravan of Power with the total the entire city was made aware of it. cannot be measured in numbers; it will
baptisms for the same mission in all of have long-term consequences,"
2002: 9,024 baptisms. Incredible happenings exclaimed Melchor Ferreyra, president
The Caravan of Power was not a one- Right from the outset, the caravan of the Peru Union, who actively partici
person show. The Lake Titicaca Mission, witnessed so many incredible stories that pated in the project. Ferreyra now
headquartered in Puno, recruited and whatever success we had in soul winning wants to hold something similar in
trained over 112,000 lay persons from can be attributed only to the power and 2004 at national level, christened Mega
every part of the mission territory for presence of the Spirit. Consider Limber Impact: Mission Possible, and hopes to
several weeks prior to the caravan's pass- Cavino, a music teacher at the state col baptize 50,000 people by July.
ing through. The training included lege. Wanting to be part of the caravan The Caravan of Power was the most
prayer ministry, Bible studies, preparing but unable to move from his job, he ambitious evangelistic campaign ever
for discipleship, and identifying and chose to study the Bible where he was. undertaken by the Adventist Church in
using various spiritual gifts. Every church He invited 35 of his students and five Peru. The caravan focused on the Lake
entity and department was involved in parents for intense personal Bible study. Titicaca Mission, whose territory
the adventure, including ADRA, the They all were baptized when the caravan embraces the state of Puno. Located on
Odontomedical Clinic, and the Nuevo passed through their place. continued on page 19
The Sabbath:
Gocl's everlasting
'
Seventh-day Adventist Statement The creation Sabbath: "the
of Faith #19: The Sabbath. "The bene- Alpha and the Omega" of
ficient Creator, after the six days of covenant history
Creation, rested on the seventh day and A straight-forward reading of the
instituted the Sabbath for all people as a Creation account in Genesis ties the
memorial of Creation. The fourth com Sabbath inseparably to God's act of cre
mandment of Cod's unchangeable law ation (Gen. 1 and 2). The writer of
requires the observance of this seventh- Genesis sees it to be an integral part of
day Sabbath as the day of rest, worship, Creation. It is the climactic point, fol
and ministry in harmony with the teach lowing a six-day work of creation. God
ing and practice of Jesus, the Lord of the "rested on the seventh day," "blessed
Sabbath. The Sabbath is a day of delight the sabbath day and made it holy"
ful communion with Cod and one (Exod. 20:11).
another. It is a symbol of our redemption Three acts of God are described in
in Christ, a sign of our sanctification, a becomes a sign that God's creative connection with the Sabbath: God rest
token of our allegiance, and a foretaste of order continues to exist in the present," ed, blessed, and made it holy. Thus the
our eternal future in Cod's kingdom. The and that it "will once again be com Creator gave the Sabbath a historical dis
Sabbath is Cod's perpetual sign of His plete, will be realized as at the begin tinctness. God "blessed the seventh day"
eternal covenant between Him and His ning" when all humanity will rest on the (Gen. 2:3; Exod. 20:11) and made it a
people. Joyful observance of this holy time heavenly Sabbath. 1 beneficial day for all humankind.
from evening to evening, sunset to sunset, The preamble to the Ten Com Humans were made to live in a loving
is a celebration of God's creative and mandments links the law to God's and joyful fellowship with their Maker on
redemptive acts. (Gen. 2:1-3; Exod. 20:8- deliverance of Israel from Egyptian the seventh day, so that "the Sabbath is
77; Luke 4:16, /so. 56:5, 6; 58:13, 14; bondage: "I am the Lord your God, one of the greatest blessings bestowed
Matt. 12:1-12; Exod. 31:13-17; Ezek. who brought you out of the land of upon men by a loving Creator."2
20:12, 20; Deut. 5:12-15; Heb. 4:1-11; Egypt, out of the house of slavery" Thus the Seventh-day Sabbath may
Lev. 23:32; Mark 1:32.) (Exod. 20:2). This redemptive well be called the "alpha" of God's
covenant relationship lies at the foun covenant relationship with humankind.3
^X"he fourth commandment dation of all Israel's laws. Only those The Protestant Reformers overlooked
I requires: "Remember the sabbath who have received a particular or spe this particular truth, assuming that God
I day, to keep it holy. Six days you cial revelation of the Creator are able had merely blessed His own "rest,"
shall labor and do all your work, but the to "remember" what has been which "rest" could be detached from
seventh day is a sabbath of the Lord revealed to them. Only from the the specific seventh day of the week.4
your God; in it you shall not do any Creation account did Israel know that For the Christian, the critical issue
work.... For in six days the Lord made God made the seventh day holy—that today is the truthfulness and trustworthi
the heavens and the earth, the sea and is, "set apart for holy service." ness of the Creation narratives of Genesis
all that is in them, and rested on the The Creation account is also linked to 1 and 2. Christian believers need to take
seventh day; therefore the Lord blessed God's redemptive act, for His redemp into account Christ's view of the Creation
the sabbath day and made it holy" tion aims at the restoration of His original account in order to learn Christ's view of
(Exod. 20:8-11).* creation (Isa. 65:17-25; Rev. 21; 22). the Sabbath. Jesus accepted the Creation
Sabbath remembrance is founded God's works of creation and redemption narratives of Genesis 1 and 2 as possess
on the work/rest rhythm of the Creator have a progressive and unbreakable ing unquestionable authority.5 Hence to
Himself, as recounted in Genesis 1 and unity (Pss. 8; 24; 104; 136). The New Him the Sabbath was of paramount
2. There we learn that "the seventh- Testament endorses this unity of God's importance. The Sabbath is seen to be of
day" Sabbath is a creation ordinance, works in their consistent proclamation great importance when it comes to
and therefore cannot be abolished by that Christ was the Co-Creator of all restoring true worship in "spirit and
human decrees. From the Decalogue things (see John 1:1-3; Col. 1:16, 17; truth" (John 4:24), and for saving "what
we see that "resting on the sabbath Heb. 1:1-3; Rev. 3:14; 5:13). was lost" (Luke 19:10).
the fellowship of other ministers. we move into the realm of purely phys 214, 215.
2 K. Earth, Church Dogmatics (Edinburgh: T. & T. Clark, 1961),
There are some wonderful ministerial ical and psychic reactions, the more we 01/4:118.
3 Lisa S. CaMl, Between the Sexes (Philadelphia: Fortress, 1985),
conferences that take place around remove ourselves from the dimension of 90; and Carol Gilligan, In a Different Voice (Cambridge, Mass.:
the world every year. Going to a con the 'once for all' and move into the Harvard University Press, 1982).
ference which is designed to build us dimension of the general and inter 4 A psychic energy mostly sexual in nature. It Junctions as a
motivating force, as a life instinct opposing the fear of death
up can be a wonderful tonic. changeable." 19 (Freud). It affects all the activities and relationships of human
And third, if you don't already Finally, a wounded person injures life.
5 Helmut Thielicke, The Ethics of Sex (Grand Rapids, Mich :
have a friend to whom you are other innocent and legitimate relation Baker, 1975), 46.
accountable, preferably another min ships in his/her search for personal 6 Lewis Smedes, Sex for Christians (Grand Rapids, Mich.:
Fierdmans, 1994), 29
ister, with whom you can be fulfillment. So Paul insists: "Flee 7 C. Baroni, "Pourquoi sommes nous monogames?" in
transparent, someone who can pray immorality." L'lnfidelite Pourquoi? ed. et al., C. Baroni (Nyon: Edition Lynx,
1970), 42-49.-
with you and for you, I would recom The final argument in verse 19 8 Thielicke, 40.
mend that you find one. The Bible reminds Paul's readers that our body is 9 Ibid., 57.
10 Ibid., 48.
says that one will chase 1,000. Two the shrine of the Holy Spirit,20 and there 11 Ibid.
will chase 10,000. There is a synergy fore, when we sin sexually, we are 12 Smedes, 171.
13 Thielicke, 49.
and an energy in that kind of rela attempting to force the Third Person of 14 The word "immoral" in English translations is not used here
tionship that will help you in those the Trinity to cohabit with our sin. And in technically ethical sense of the word where stealing and
lying is immoral behavior. Here it is used more causally refer
plateau experiences, those arid that is a serious matter indeed. ring specifically to a sexual sin, rendering the Greek term
wilderness experiences that we A minister and his or her spouse are porneia.
15 Albert Barnes, Notes on the New Testament (Grand Rapids,
inevitably go through. created as male and female. Far from Mich.: Baker, 1953), 106.
16 See Gordon Fee, The First Epistle to the Corinthians (Grand
being shameful or sinful in itself, sexual Rapids, Mich.: Eerdmans, 1987), 261, 262.
DM: What counsel would you ity is a marvelous, God-given aspect of 17 See "Body" in Colin Brown, gen. ed. Dictionary of New
Testament Theology (Grand Rapids, Mich : Zondervan, 1979).
leave with preachers who long to humanness. God recommends it (Gen. 18 Gaston Deluz, A Companion to First Corinthians (London:
experience a deeply spiritual ministry 2:24) and Paul treats it as a matter of Darton, Longman Sc Todd, 1963), 74, 75.
so that they can preach out of the married right (1 Cor. 7:3). Within the
19 Thielicke, 39.
20 See SDA Bible Commentary (Hagerstown, Md.: Review and
overflow? covenant of marriage, sexuality offers to Herald Pub Assn., 1980), 6:700-703.
Who moved
books, wrote that he believed it probable that
some, and perhaps all, of the Gospels were
written in close to their present form, within
30 years of the events.
Pornography:
computer?' By now I felt really terrible, but I
did not know how to fight this addiction.
There were no Bible studies I could find to
help me; the leaders in my church would
healing pornography."
It wasn't long before James began spending
more time on the computer than he did with
his family, particularly his wife. Slowly but
I
surely their relationship was becoming more
t was an accident really," James began as and more strained. It was easier to turn on the
Peter Powell
he sat talking with me. "I was in my computer than to engage in intimacy that
study thinking about the sermon I had required a commitment on his part. Excuses
just prepared, 'The Power of Evil versus such as "I'm just overtired from working too
the All-Encompassing Love of Jesus much" aroused suspicion.
Christ.' I started to think about evil. What did His wife thought he was having an affair
I personally know about it?" arid confronted him. Quite truthfully he
He went on: "I had grown up in a answered that there was absolutely no "other
Christian home, married a Christian woman, woman" in his life. He just didn't mention his
filled my days with quality activity, studied addiction to pornography.
for the ministry, and given my life to serve
the God I loved. Addictions were something Taking the initial steps
I had not considered. I never really under James is not alone in his dilemma.
stood the true meaning of being gripped by a Pornography is a pervasive, common issue
force that was beyond my control. I decided, among men, including Christian men. This
Just a quick look at the Internet pornography, it's does not excuse it, but simply reminds us that
right here in the study, no one will ever know. as long as humans have lived on the earth,
That's how it started." pornography of one sort or another and pros
Like many men who sit with me in my titution have been part of the male/female
office, James was a family man. In 90 percent dynamic. In churches, there are more men
of his life he presented a sound, Christian with sexual deviation than many would like
impression, the image of a minister, leading to admit.
his congregation from the Word of God. In It takes courage to own up and face this
just a small area he had come to know, via the fact, and most men have not yet come to that
Internet, the power of evil. The Internet, point. It was important for me to encourage
which provides such inspiring, uplifting, and James for having begun by asking for help. By
Peter Powell, Ph.D.,
life-changing words, pictures, and descrip doing this, he was taking the first step forward
is executive director
of the Pastoral
tions, also provides destructive, addictive on the journey that could lead to recovery.
Counselling Institute, pornography. The worst thing a man can do is to dwell on
North Parramatta, "At first I was just curious," James contin the guilt and anxiety that inevitably sur
New South Wales, ued, "a quick scan and then logging out rounds the behavior, especially if the man is
Australia. feeling rather ashamed. This progressed to Christian, let alone a Christian minister. It is
thoughts of what I could do at night after all important, of course, to stop the behavior
Why is pornography
jlisMiva •J^sfeiMiMttM*''!^ addictive?
Like many others, James asked,
"Why is all this the way it is?" "How
can a man be so addicted to this
behavior?" There are many answers to
this complex question. One critical
issue constantly emerging in treat
ment is that men who behave this
way are often experiencing deep grief
over the losses in their lives. This help break up the addiction. When a • pornography. Being prepared to put
could be the loss of parents through man feels the need for help, a mentor in hard work on the missing father
divorce, abandonment or illness, the needs to be available to take a tele image can assist men develop stronger
loss of purpose in their life, a mid-life phone call and offer support. Such a identities. Just as the "Father" image
crisis of loss of direction, the realiza mentor needs to be someone who will of God can be a difficulty for women
tion that their partner is not going to call on the telephone or visit at any who have been abused by men, so a
meet every need they have, or other unexpected hour to check on the positive "father" God who is present
issues of unresolved grief or lack. Men man's progress; someone who can be rather than absent can be a healing
addicted to pornography often feel physically present, showing the love of image for men.
unloved and unlovable. Usually, how
ever, they are unaware of these issues.
F
One way some men cope with INDING A MENTOR IS A CRITICAL ISSUE FOR MEN
their losses and abandonment is to
try to attach in dependent ways, CAUGHT UP IN PORNOGRAPHY. A MAN CAUGHT
much as they did when they were
children. That is, they snuggle up to
the breast and try to suckle the good
ness back in. Pornography may be an
emblematic way of trying to be nur
tured, or find nurture. With this in
mind, a critical strategy when inter
vening is to talk about feelings of
grief and loss that have been experi God and encouraging accountability. The hardest conversation that
enced so that men have an The feelings of loneliness and grief James undertook was to tell his wife
opportunity to work more specifically often come and go; consequently, the truth, to tell her he was asking for
on their losses or lacks, rather than there is a need to keep reassuring the help and then to ask for her support.
acting out their feelings of grief and addicted man and encouraging him Thankfully, in this case she gave it,
deprivation in inappropriate ways. to transition into positive activity. For but the issue is often more destructive
There is sometimes a deep empti the man this will sometimes mean for the marriage.
ness in men that they need to fill. As being in a crowd or with the family James is still traveling on his jour
in the case of alcoholism, pornogra and still feeling that isolating sense of ney. He has a mentor, a wife who is
phy and other sexual deviations aloneness but learning to say, "I know supportive (even though she cannot
become a way of numbing the pain what this feeling is, and I can take understand why some men behave
and filling themselves with something care of my isolation." this way), and an active prayer life.
that will make them "feel better." Like The key strategy is for the mature James and I still spend time together
alcohol and other drugs, pornography part of the man to feel in control and discussing his recovery journey,
can develop into an addiction that is able to nurture himself. Once the always knowing that it will be easy
just as difficult to treat. man falls into the trap of feeling sorry for him to return to pornography
Despite the amount of support for himself, it is easy to crawl away should he not be vigilant in his
they may get, many of the men I into a quiet, hidden space where he Christian life and in his relationships.
work with still feel loneliness and can indulge the more childlike side of James is not alone. There are many
emptiness. Sometimes despite all the himself. men who find this addiction so easy,
good things that have been given, Another key issue opening the way so apparently relaxing, an escape
there is a sense of ungratefulness to sexual addiction in men can grow from the need to be intimate or a sub
because these things are not enough. out of the absence of a strong and car stitute for it. It feeds their childlike
Often the man's partner will report, ing male figure in a man's life. In obsession that someone or something
"It doesn't matter how much I give, order to develop a strong gender else will always be there to provide
he always wants more." identity, it is helpful to have a strong nurture. While it is a difficult issue to
bonding relationship with the same treat, it is possible.
What can be done? gender-parent. When that is absent, What is needed in the church is
Finding a mentor is a critical issue there is a risk of men developing anx less denial and avoidance of such
for men caught up in pornography. A iety about their identity. issues. When men realize that there is
man caught in these struggles needs a This gender immaturity puts such treatment and that they will not be
person who will be available to talk men at risk for engaging in a variety of vilified if they come forward, they are
and pray with him, and be there to sexually deviant behaviors, including more likely to seek such help. •
Past application
Using these modern insights and applying
them to sacred stories from the past, we can
analyze why biblical characters acted as they
did in a given situation and then draw con
clusions for our own time.
"Bless me": an
Moses, for example, is the most revered fig
ure of the Jewish Scriptures. He is regarded as
the finest model of teacher, prophet, -and
opportunity
leader. "Never since has there arisen a prophet
in Israel like Moses, whom [God] knew face to
face. He was unequaled .. . for all the mighty
missed?
deeds and all the terrifying displays of power
that Moses performed in the sight of all
Israel" (Deut. 34:10-12).
Moses is not only the teacher, prophet, and
leader. At various times, he also is Israel's com
O
forter, advisor, and yes, even chaplain. From a
n the road to becoming a board contemporary perspective and using the four
David J. Zucker
certified chaplain, I learned a Bs, how does Moses fare—even in regard to
lesson that I have reformulated his chaplaincy?
as the four Bs: Be there. Be pres
ent. Be honest. Be gone. Moses and Pharaoh
Be there. Your time, and that of others, is In Exodus 12, the Bible relates the final
valuable: If you schedule to visit with some direct encounter between Moses and the pow
one at a set time, honor that commitment. If erful ruler of Egypt. Pharaoh implies that he is
not, you convey the message that, in your defeated by the God of Israel, Moses' deity.
eyes, they do not count or that they lack Egypt lies in chaos. Ten plagues, each one
value. Conversely, simply being where you said worse than the one preceding it, devastate the
you would be when you said you would tells land. The Nile turns blood red. Frogs overrun
people that you respect them and that you the country. Insects invade the land, soon fol
care. lowed by the blight of boils and blain.
Be present. When you are there, be focused. Darkness over all of Egypt follows the brutal
Make eye contact. Listen, carefully; also listen storms. Pharaoh's own advisors tell him to
to what, perhaps, they are not saying. Notice relent (Exod. 10:7). Yet he refuses to bend, and
body language and gestures. Be with them, the last blow comes raining down on him: the
compassionately, emotionally, and mindfully. death of all the firstborn in the land.
Be empathetic and interact with them. Now, for the last time he summons Moses
Be honest. Never promise what you can't and says, "Take your flocks arid your herds, as
deliver. Do not overstep your limits or your you have said, and be gone." The mighty
authority. Know when you need to say "No." ruler, with his own firstborn dead before him,
Even when you are working with somewhat still has a final request. He plaintively begs
demented people, know when you need to Moses, "Bless me" (Exod. 12:32, NKJV).
"cross over the street" to meet them where Pharaoh is at his lowest ebb. His own child,
David J. Zucker, Ph.D.,
they are. Be honest, even if that means being his link to the future, is gone. It is a devastat
is chaplain and
director of spiritual
honest with them where they are.1 ing moment. In his dejection and depression
care and recreation, Be gone. Leave the office at the office. Leave he says, "Bless me."
Shalom Park, Aurora, the meeting at the meeting. Leave the resi At an earlier occasion Pharaoh had turned
Colorado. dents at the long-term care center. Leave the to Moses and said, "Plead for me" (other ver
patients at the clinic or the hospital. Leave sions, "pray for me," Exod. 8:28 [8:24
work at work, and do not carry that emotion Hebrew]), and the Bible says that Moses did so
Ta kin a the
M
y congregation lived in denial moderate consumption—the reality
until the moment our notions forces us to concede that alcohol use
of how things "ought to be" among our membership exists and is
were startlingly interrupted when a increasing. My colleague, Dr. Peter
prominent member offered to lead an Landless, Associate Director of Health
Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) group in Ministries, states: "On balance, the
our church. hypothesis that alcohol consumption
Explaining that she, herself, needed improves health is scientifically unfound
regular attendance at AA meetings, my ed. This is especially so when all aspects
church member convinced me to pres of alcohol and health are reviewed."
ent the concept to our board of elders. And, rather than berating our college
Their first response, "Why? Adventists and academy campuses for not "doing
don't drink!" our schools, our churches, and some of enough to expel students who drink," as
Boldly venturing "where Adventists our pastoral families. one correspondent recently demanded,
typically don't go," we announced to And what a heritage we have. Early we should applaud those schools which
our members the formation of various Adventists stayed at the forefront of the take this challenge seriously and provide
12-step ministries including Sunday "temperance" movement by preaching spiritual programs, group and individual
morning AA meetings in our facility. against demon rum and lobbying for counseling, and 12-step recovery pro
Within six weeks we had welcomed prohibition. Mrs. S. M. I. Henry, co- gramming. Remember, the child or
more than 200 alcoholics attending founder of the Women's Christian grandchild who is spared might be your
"the meetings" and discovered that Temperance Union (WCTU) became an own.
ours was one of only two locations in a Adventist and was strongly supported in As you struggle with appropriate
metropolis of four million where people her activism. Today's WCTU world pres responses to these challenges which
could attend AA on Sunday morning ident Margaret Jackson, is also a infect your own congregation, consider
when most other church facilities were Seventh-day Adventist in New Zealand. the following initiatives:
in use. Within six months, some of my A century ago, many Adventists •f Pray that together we will impact
own members began to trust enough strongly supported suffrage in order to the rule of evil and resist the addictive
to seek help in their own church homes. register thousands of women who were control that alcohol exerts.
Some may ask, as did my elders, if most likely to support prohibition. Ellen 4- Preach biblical temperance and
temperance is a fundamental belief of White even advocated that Adventists teach the evil of alcohol abuse.
Seventh-day Adventists, why would we should vote in favor of Sunday blue laws •f Provide 12-step programming for
need to sponsor AA. And here's the nub if it meant closing the saloons and tav your community and your members.
of the challenge. What we believe and erns for at least one day. + Pledge your personal abstinence
how we behave are not always conso Have we abandoned our heritage? In and encourage your members, especial
nant. 1989 Duane McBride published statis ly the young, to follow your example.
It's time for the Adventist Church to tics on the drinking habits of North •f Print and distribute the temper
come out of denominational denial. We American Adventists. At that time, five ance pledge (sample on page 30). Lead
must seriously address the reality that percent of those over 65 years of age your members in pledge signing. Our
we have members across a broad range had consumed wine at least monthly in world president, Pastor Jan Paulsen, led
from tee-totalers to occasional social the previous year compared with 25 the General Conference Committee in
drinkers, to falling-down drunk bingers percent of the 18-29 age group. Three signing the temperance pledge last
and chronic, unrehabilitated alcoholics. years later, the Valuegenesis study con April.
They are in my family, they are in my firmed these findings and the trend •f Prioritize relationships which con
church, and they are in yours as well. appears to be ongoing. nect your members with Jesus first, and
Despite our long temperance her Debate if you will—and some spend then with one another as encourage
itage of fighting against alcohol, far too much time and energy arguing ment and example in discipleship.
tobacco, and addictive substances, we over the alcoholic content of commun •f Promise that by all means you will
discover the current battle has come to ion wine or the cardiac/gastric value of do something in order to save some! H
preacher and his interaction with his audiences. They are analyzed, and
congregations, while it also presents the approaches to them are viewed. Four
outlook of Mervyn Warren when it dominant factors of Black audience
comes to preaching. Writing on Dr. dynamic are presented. For King, a good
King has given Warren an opportunity sermon appealed to the intellect, imagi
King Came Preaching: The Pulpit to reflect on and present his views on nation, and heart. His sermons appealed
Power of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., preaching without presuming another to the three principal emotions Broadus
by Mervyn A. Warren. homiletical pretext. Readers will benefit outlined—happiness, holiness, and love.
More than another biography of Dr. from both perspectives. Chapters four and five view the con
Martin King or a book on preaching, Chapter one gives a homiletical biog tent of King's sermons—four approaches
more than the glamorization of a Black raphy setting King's life in historical, content as reflected in the person; five
preacher/hero, King Came Preaching is homiletical, and preaching contexts. It does it from the perspective of logos and
an informative, sermonic biography examines his academic preparation for pathos. Warren says the person of the
with a foreword by Dr. Gardner Taylor. It his God-chosen lifework. It reflects preacher "constitutes the strongest con
explores the sermons, preaching tech Warren's interviews with King, his fami tent of any preaching situation." Thus,
niques, pulpit gifts, and audience ly, and professors. traits relevant to the content of King's
impact of a man whose preaching and Chapter two presents this Black person are highlighted.
leadership in the Civil Rights movement preacher's approach to Scripture. It Chapter five takes actual gl.mpses at
changed America. looks at the beginnings of Black preach sermons of King and analyzes his use of
Viewing King as among Western his ing, tracing its development and generalizations, pathos, examples, nar
tory's more effective and celebrated exploring King's use. This triumvirate of ratives, statistics, quotations, etc.
preachers, the book revisits his life outlooks and dimensions is instructive Chapter six presents sermonic
through his sermons. Giving biographi in the context of Black preaching, and themes. It notes the impacts of Thoreau,
cal glimpses into his life, it explores for that matter, of any preaching. Niebuhr, Rauchenbusch, Gandhi, and
"practical, understandable, doable Warren's narrow definition of genetic Jesus upon King. The individual themes
homiletical theory." Interviews, insights, issues is problematic. Black preaching, dominating sermons are presented, and
and illustrations capture diverse sermon while intrinsically linked to African theological tenets and concepts com
ic moments. Coming with King's original Americans, should include the contribu mon to sermons are surveyed.
"personal permission and cooperation," tions of and the "longing need for libera Chapter seven examines King's ser
it aims at experienced practitioners and tion from injustice" felt by Africans and monic language. Sermons are analyzed
beginners. others of the African diaspora. No such by Flesch's measures. His oral and writ
The book gives insights into King the allowances are made. King is viewed in ten language styles are contrasted.
priestly, prophetic, The final chapter outlines Dr. King's
Temperance Pledge (see page 28) and apologetic contributions to preaching and theolo
styles as one who gy. There are four appendices with
My Pledge had a balance unpublished sermons, and a fifth ana
between scholarship lyzes his use of sources.
Recognizing the responsibility to both myself and others,
by the grace of God, / pledge to avoid alcohol and tobacco, and the affirmation This well-researched, thoroughly
as well as other harmful substances and practices. of the gospel. documented, and engagingly written
The sermons volume meets the author's purposes
reflect "the best of and the reader's expectations. Its valu
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Christian preaching- able information benefits all readers—
relevance, theologi homileticians, pastors, college and
"Choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve . . . but as for me and cal consciousness, seminary students, and those wanting
my household, we will serve the Lord." —Joshua 24:15
and biblical ground another look at King the pastor, preach
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