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It’s starting again, as usual, right after your son gets off
the school bus. He is frustrated from things that
happened during the day, and now he’s yelling and
stomping around the house. You’re feeling overwhelmed
and don’t know what to do next.
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Express Their Anger
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Rip paper
Pop bubble wrap
Squish playdough
Wrap your arms around yourself and squeeze
Write a letter to someone
Jump on a trampoline
Do wall push-ups
Write down what’s bothering you and rip it up
Squeeze a stress ball
Talk about it
Scribble on paper and crumple it up
Do jumping jacks
Put the palms of your hands together, push and
release
Do stretches
Do a hookup - see it in action!
(https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dap-
9fNt7uU&t=4s)
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“I love you.”
“I understand.”
IDENTIFY TRIGGERS
Start by talking about what’s making them angry. Help
them identify those triggers, so you both know for the
next time. Is it a particular school subject that makes
them frustrated? Perhaps being hungry or thirsty? Are
their specific noises or locations that are frustrating?
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Identify one coping skill your child would like to try. Take a
few minutes during the week and have them practice a
coping skill they may be able to use next time. For
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Managing are
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Coping toKids
Skills for try using shapes for deep
breathing
(https://store.copingskillsforkids.com/products/deep-
breathing-printables), have them practice before, so they
know how it feels. The idea is to have them practice, so
they know what it feels like to do it when they are calm.
Have the child pick out three colors, one for each
section of the thermometer and color it in. Then talk
about each section.
Ask what it looks like when they are just a little
angry, at the bottom of the thermometer. Do they
sigh loudly, growl, etc.?
Then move on to the middle section of the
thermometer. If they are medium-sized angry, what
does that look like? Does their voice get louder? Do
they stomp their feet, etc.?
Finally, talk about what it looks like when they are
experiencing big anger at the top of the
thermometer. What does that look like? Is it yelling,
throwing things, etc.?
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It isn’t Managing
alwaysAnger
easy for kids to do this. If they are having a
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Managing anger. It’sSkills
— Coping essential
for Kids to have a variety of
coping skills for each level because not all coping skills
will work all the time. For some kids, taking a drink of
water can help calm them down when they are just
slightly angry. However, when they are furious, getting a
drink of water won’t help. They need to do something
different at that point, like take a break.
USE SELF-TALK
Here are some phrases that may help you as you are
working with your angry kid:
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