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The Approach
The Approach
By
Jamie D. Grant
by
Jamie
D.
Grant
The Approach
by
Jamie
D.
Grant
The Approach
Copyright 2013
Jamie D. Grant
Hiya Everyone! I’ll be honest. I can write something fancy here like
we’re all used to…
Or I can ask you, as a friend, to not copy this book, sell it after
you’ve used the information, or spread it around the Internet. So
that’s what I’m going to do. I’m just going to straight up ask you
(nicely)…
That’s it.
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Table of Contents
Intro ................................................................................ 5
1. How Many Tricks You Should Know ................... 8
2. Who Are You? ..................................................... 12
3. Developing Your Sets ~ Part I............................. 15
4. How to Practice ................................................... 18
5. Your Magic Fridays ............................................. 22
6. Business Cards ..................................................... 31
7. Websites ............................................................... 34
8. How Do You Look? ............................................. 37
9. What to Wear....................................................... 40
10. Funny or Serious .................................................. 42
11. Are You Any Good Yet? ...................................... 45
12. Starting Conversations ......................................... 48
13. Touching People .................................................. 52
14. How Much to Charge .......................................... 54
15. The Cocktail Party ............................................... 60
16. Getting Started ..................................................... 65
17. Volunteer Gigs & Charities .................................. 67
18. What to Say in E-mails ........................................ 74
19. The Telephone Call ............................................. 81
20. Getting There ...................................................... 84
21. Developing Your Sets ~ Part 2 ............................ 85
22. Silence .................................................................. 90
23. What Does My Contract Look Like? ................... 93
24. Transitions ........................................................... 96
25. Conquering Nerves .............................................. 99
26. How to Get Gigs ................................................ 103
27. Getting Ready for the First One ........................ 109
28. Fingernail Care .................................................. 110
29. How Much Time to Prepare ............................. 112
30. Pocket Management .......................................... 115
31. Your List ............................................................ 119
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32. The Big Secret.................................................... 120
33. Your Close-Up Case/Bag .................................. 123
34. Things to Never Forget ...................................... 124
35. Hat or No Hat.................................................... 126
36. The Handshake .................................................. 127
37. What to Put in the Lobby .................................. 129
38. Who to Approach First ...................................... 131
39. My First Effect ................................................... 133
40. What Rubber Bands to Use ............................... 135
41. Moving Through a Room ................................. 136
42. The First Words I Say ........................................ 138
43. Highs and Lows ................................................. 141
44. Getting Applause ............................................... 143
45. More Transitions ............................................... 145
46. Saying Goodbye to Your Group ........................ 148
47. Tables versus Standing ...................................... 150
48. Dealing with the Alpha Male ............................. 152
49. Staying in One Spot ........................................... 156
50. Busted! ................................................................ 158
51. Getting Compliments ......................................... 161
52. Letting Spectators Shuffle .................................. 163
53. Reset - Reset ...................................................... 165
54. The Venue Staff ................................................. 167
55. Kids at an Event................................................. 168
56. Burning Through Material ................................ 170
57. How Many Hours? ............................................ 173
58. Remembering Names ........................................ 175
59. When to Show the Event Planner...................... 181
60. The Card Force I Always Use ........................... 182
61. Accepting Tips ................................................... 184
62. Wallets ................................................................ 186
63. Handing Out Business Cards ............................. 188
64. What to Never Borrow ...................................... 190
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65. Someone Wants to Show You a Trick............... 191
66. A Regular Deck.................................................. 194
67. Weddings ........................................................... 196
68. Large Tables ...................................................... 200
69. Joining Them for Dinner ................................... 203
70. Vest versus Jacket ............................................... 206
71. The Second Big Secret ....................................... 208
72. “Do It Again!” .................................................... 210
73. Another Magician Shows Up ............................ 212
74. Gigs Outside ...................................................... 214
75. When Only Ten People Show Up ..................... 216
76. Do You Need a Stage Show? ............................. 221
77. Dance Floors ...................................................... 225
78. Checking Back In ............................................... 227
79. Dropping Cards ................................................. 229
80. Sponge Balls ....................................................... 230
81. Dealing with Disappointment ............................ 231
82. Hecklers ............................................................. 232
83. Open versus Closed Body Language ................. 237
84. One-Handed Spectators .................................... 240
85. Stock Lines ......................................................... 242
86. Lone Stragglers .................................................. 245
87. Journal................................................................ 247
88. Leaving Them with Something ......................... 248
89. Custom Decks .................................................... 250
90. False Memories .................................................. 253
91. Invoices .............................................................. 257
92. How to get Testimonials .................................... 258
93. Getting ALL the Money .................................... 261
94. Increasing Rates ................................................. 263
95. Busking ............................................................... 264
96. Repeat Gigs ........................................................ 266
97. Pictures ............................................................... 268
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98. Social Media ...................................................... 269
99. Agents................................................................. 271
100. Going Full Time ................................................ 274
101. Go Get It ............................................................ 278
102. The Beginning.................................................... 279
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Intro|Advice
Be awesome.
That’s what this book is about. It’s not about getting discovered,
making a zillion dollars, or getting famous. It’s about bringing out
the best in you and showing it to the world; via the greatest art there
is: the art of Magic. That said, there’s no reason why you
shouldn’t be able to make money at the same time. And I’m here to
hopefully help you with both.
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share with you my route. I can tell you the exact steps I’ve
taken to get to where I am today and, let me tell you, it’s brought
me happiness, joy, and wonder. I’m excited! It’s going to be fun
sharing all I’ve learned with you!
Before we get started, let’s go over some ideas I have for this work
of mine. I’ll be including a lot of anecdotes, mistakes, stories and
lessons. Hopefully it’ll all make sense by the time this goes to press.
So bear with me as we go along. My plan was to go through my
career in chronological order; from the day I picked up my first
effect all the way through to yesterday. But there are simply too
many things that went on concurrently. So, instead, I’m simply
going to give you over 100 things to think about, study, and learn
from. They’ll be split up into:
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We may jump around a bit, so feel free to start (and finish)
anywhere you like. And, on that note, let me also mention this:
please use this book. Make it your own. Dog ear the
corners, write your name on it, doodle your logo in it - the one that
will one day be splashed across the TV - put notes in the margins,
own it. Help me make it awesome. You’re the only one for the
job.
different font sizes to help break things up. I’m also going to
be highlighting one sentence in each chapter that I think is the most
important. So have fun and jump right in!
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Chapter 1|Article
I just thought I'd offer some insight into how many tricks/effects are
actually required to do a working Walkaround gig. Please let me preface
this by saying that this is what I've found, after years of doing every kind of gig
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conceivable to mankind, and it is simply what works for me.
Now a lot of people will say it all depends and that each person is
different, etc. Me? I'll just straight up tell ya...
9.
There's an old saying that an amateur can perform a ton of tricks
with average skill, but a pro can perform three brilliantly. That's true,
to be sure, but it needs a bit of refinement...
Basically, I find that you need three sets of three effects. Here's
why: you're at the event; it's a cocktail party type of setting where
everyone is standing and drinking. You approach a group of four or
five people and absolutely kill it with three amazing effects (tricks
1, 2, and 3). They're laughing and screaming and can't believe you
pulled the card out of their nose.
So what's next? Well, you take two steps (if you're lucky - sometimes
you'll just turn around) and begin for the group of eight people who
were standing behind you and sort of already watching. And you
don't want to pull a card out of their nose as well. Remember:
Once is magic, twice is a lesson. This is where you'll bust out
your second set of three effects (tricks 4, 5, and 6). You'll
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show this group something completely new. This will also help if any
of the people from that first group are still watching.
Next? Same thing. Take a couple of steps and perform your final set
(tricks 7, 8, and 9). By this time you should physically be far
enough away from your original group that, when you approach
your fourth group, you can start over with your original three tricks
(1, 2, and 3 again).
This will also give you the added benefit of, if less people come to
the event than were intended (which will happen way more often
than you think), you will be able to start over from the beginning by
showing that very first group your second set and carrying on,
essentially allowing you three tours of the room.
~Jamie
After re-reading that, I think everything still holds true. The only
thing I might add is that, instead of thinking of it as nine separate
effects, start splitting them up into 3 sets of 3 right away. That way
you’ll get an idea of how one trick can flow into another and how
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they work together. That’s how I try to learn new magic;
“If I start using this effect at working gigs, where will it go? Will it be an
opener, a closer, or something in the middle?”
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Chapter 2|Study
better idea. Picture Brad Pitt. Okay, with a little less hair. Now
picture Brad Pitt walking around a party and showing
people amazing card tricks and sleight of hand illusions. Everyone’s
laughing and talking excitingly. People are making new friends.
This is probably the greatest party these people have ever been to.
It’s the party of the century. All because I’m here helping them have
an amazing time!”
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Arrogant? Brash? Absolutely not! You need to get a mental image
of the type of person you want to become. You need to visualize how
you want others to perceive you. Yours might look like this…
Or,
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Seriously. Fill this in.
Who Am I (inside)?
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Chapter 3|Lesson
Okay, now that you’ve got an idea of who you are (and we’ll
be coming back to that) and who you’d like to become, it’s time to
start working out what effects are going to make up your sets. And
I’ll be honest, this list will change many times over the course of your
career. You’re going to be experimenting quite a bit and there will
be a lot of trial and error. But we can do a good deal of pre-planning
in the meantime. So let’s start with writing down 12 tricks that you
know.
I know I said you only need to know 9, but you’ve got to have a
couple extra that you learned along the way. If you don’t have a
dozen, then use this list as a list of effects you need to learn. And
don’t worry about whether these are the latest and greatest magic
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has to offer. Just get learning. The classics are the greatest
place to start but it’s okay to explore the entire magic world. Some
things to consider, though:
My 12 Tricks:
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8)_________________________by_______________________
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Chapter 4|Essay
How to Practice
Step 1:
The first step is reading the instructions. Or watching the DVD. Or,
my favourite, reading the book. Knowing the moves and
performing them on yourself, this is always the beginning.
Step 2:
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You must find a group of people who you can regularly
show magic to without fearing failure.
Who are your three people that you can show new magic to without
stressing yourself out?
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2)_______________________________________
3)_______________________________________
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Step 3:
My final step is taking it out into the real world for people who
aren’t paying you money. And this is where I can give you a
solution that I’ve been doing since 2006.
Magic Friday.
If you have a day job, you’re golden. From this day forward, you’re
going to perform magic at work. No job? Time to start visiting
friends, family, baristas at coffee shops, whatever it takes; because
the plan to is to perform one trick, and one trick only, as many times
as you can, every Friday. Do you work in an office with only
three co-workers? Well, you’ll probably only get to do it once. Are
you in a warehouse with over a hundred? You can probably get ten
performances out of it. I’ll even give you the exact script to get you
started.
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Homework:
their eyes, I am. And I only showed them one painting. Same
with juggling; “Jamie can juggle!” After only one time! So, the point
is, after showing someone one effect, they’re probably going to label
you as a magician. The only question is: are you a good one? And
how do you become a good magician? By practicing. Practice by
yourself, and then in front of other people.
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Chapter 5|Anecdote
Okay, let’s actually do this right and document it. You’ll be doing
magic every week so don’t lose great information. Write it down!
I’ll provide space to record your first month and then I’ll leave it to
you to carry on your own. Be ruthless! Make notes, write
down the script you used, any changes you made, what the reactions
were like, and how it made you and your audience feel.
I can still remember the rush of my very first Magic Friday. What would
they say? Would anyone actually want to watch? I had no idea! This will
change your game.
Ready?
Set?
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Week 1
EFFECT NAME:
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CREATOR:
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HOW MUCH DID IT COST?
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HOW LONG DID YOU PRACTICE IT?
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HOW MANY TIMES DID YOU PERFORM IT ON FRIDAY?
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WHAT WAS THE BEST REACTION?
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WHAT WAS THE WORST?
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WHAT WOULD YOU DO DIFFERENTLY?
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YOUR PATTER:
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HOW DID IT MAKE YOU FEEL?
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DID YOU ENJOY IT?
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IS IT A “KEEPER”?
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Week 2
EFFECT NAME:
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CREATOR:
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HOW MUCH DID IT COST?
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HOW LONG DID YOU PRACTICE IT?
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HOW MANY TIMES DID YOU PERFORM IT ON FRIDAY?
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WHAT WAS THE BEST REACTION?
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YOUR PATTER:
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HOW DID IT MAKE YOU FEEL?
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DID YOU ENJOY IT?
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IS IT A “KEEPER”?
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Week 3
EFFECT NAME:
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CREATOR:
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HOW MUCH DID IT COST?
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HOW LONG DID YOU PRACTICE IT?
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HOW MANY TIMES DID YOU PERFORM IT ON FRIDAY?
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WHAT WAS THE BEST REACTION?
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WHAT WAS THE WORST?
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WHAT WOULD YOU DO DIFFERENTLY?
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YOUR PATTER:
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HOW DID IT MAKE YOU FEEL?
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IS IT A “KEEPER”?
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Week 4
EFFECT NAME:
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CREATOR:
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HOW MUCH DID IT COST?
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HOW LONG DID YOU PRACTICE IT?
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HOW MANY TIMES DID YOU PERFORM IT ON FRIDAY?
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YOUR PATTER:
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HOW DID IT MAKE YOU FEEL?
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IS IT A “KEEPER”?
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Chapter 6|Advice
Business Cards
them, and then goes and creates a terrible name for all the rest
of us. Well, that may be true, but that’s not you. Why? Let’s
recap…
I’ve seen this mistake time and time again. We get so caught
up in design that we forget that most of the time the person looking
to hire a magician is someone who has just been told to organize the
company holiday party, and she remembers getting a card from this
awesome magician one night, and she just wants to get a hold of
you. The ONLY thing she wants is your phone number or e-mail.
That’s it. She couldn’t care less if the card has stripes.
JAMIE D. GRANT
MAGICIAN
604-555-1234
SendWonder@gmail.com
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That’s it. Flashy? Nope. Easy to read? Yep. You’ll have to trust
me when I tell you what’s more important. And, make no mistake, if
someone can’t easily find your contact info, they’ll move on to one
won’t keep it!” No, if they don’t want to remember you, they
won’t keep it. Focus less on design and more on making
yourself memorable.
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Chapter 7|Tip
Websites
I remember one time I was doing Magic Friday at work, back when I was
a bike messenger and I would perform for the people I delivered to, many of
whom I had never met before. This particular delivery was to the office of
Canada’s wealthiest businessman. I gave my usual pitch to the receptionist
of, “Sign here, please. And Happy Magic Friday!
What’s Magic Friday? Well, I’m a magician and I do a
super quick magic trick for people for free today if
they’d like to see something.” Well, the receptionist called out
the entire office! Luckily it was a great trick and had everyone screaming.
They were so loud that the Head Office Manager came running out and,
after some explanation, she mentioned that they were having a holiday
party next week and was wondered if I was available to work it. Before I
said yes, however, she had one question. What do I WEAR when I
perform...
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She had decided that I was a good magician based on the
reactions of her staff, but she still had to decide if I was a good
fit for their event. She obviously couldn’t have someone working the
party who wore a helmet and a messenger bag. So when I replied,
“Suit and tie.” she looked at my website to double-check and said,
“See you Tuesday.”
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think, that surely it’s flashing lights and things to click that get people
to like your site, but after networking with receptionists and event
planners for years, I can tell you what they say behind the scenes. And
for the most part it’s not pretty. People will talk about your polka-dot
suit (in a bad way) far more than how much they liked the spades
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Chapter 8|Study
Okay, describe the person you just saw. Tall, dark, and handsome?
Short, scrawny, and in need of a haircut? Describe yourself…
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Now is time for some brutal honesty. Is there anything you don’t
like?
I’ll go first. I need more hair. I’m not sure how to get it but I’m
working on it.
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Your turn.
I don’t like:
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Here’s the question of the day: “Can you fix what you just
wrote?” Did you write, “Poor posture” “Overweight” or
“Missing teeth”? If so, fix it. Make yourself better. Get it done.
Being a professional entertainer is about bringing the best of you to
every gig. If you’re not offering them the best you’ve got, you’re not
committing to your art. It’s not all about tricks, it’s about making
people feel amazing. And the first person you need to make feel
that way is yourself.
Your turn.
I like:
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That is the day you’re going to get your headshots. And it’s plenty of
time to create a whole new you - if that’s what you need. You need
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Chapter 9|Advice
What to Wear
What are you wearing? Not right now! For your gigs. Believe
it or not, this will be one of your most important decisions
and will affect not only how you look (obviously), but also how you
feel! Because now we’re starting to talk about character. What is
character? Well, in essence, it means the role you’re going to play. Is
your character an easygoing, funny personality? Or is he or she the
more mysterious James Bond type? That person you described a few
chapters ago, what do they look like? All of this will be reflected in
So go get dressed. Put on the actual outfit you’d wear if you were
going to work a gig today. I’ll wait.
Okay, are you wearing anything with pictures of playing cards on it?
If so, take it off. Why? Because clichés are the bronze standard (if
that). And you are the gold standard. Clients in the
corporate, wedding, and private party world want elegant. Cool. Fun.
Not cheesy, outdated, or dangerous. I know you love your card tie. It
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says “magician.” But trust me, we’re going to let them know that in
another way.
So where does that leave us? Surely we don’t all want to look
the same? How can you stand out if everyone’s wearing the same
suit?
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Chapter 10|Anecdote
Funny or Serious
Funny is money.
I know what you’re thinking, “What about the guys we see on TV?! The
ones making gazillions of dollars!” Well, I can’t speak for them. All I
can tell you is that if I’m in charge of throwing a party and the
then you can safely assume that I’m going to book someone who I
think is going to make the party fun. You’ll hear what workers
these events is that they’re parties. The event planners are not
(for the most part) looking for serious method acting type evenings of
enchantment.
So what does this mean? Well, it means that for your headshots –
that will go on your website – which will be visited after someone
looks at your business card – which will be handed out when they
ask for it – which will be asked for when you show them how much
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Chapter 11|LESSON
Remember those 12 tricks you wrote down? Let’s go back and revisit
them for a second. How good is your pass? Are you able to double
lift better than anyone? Awesome! Unfortunately, that tells us
almost nothing…
Ask yourself - what does “good” mean? I’m not talking about
method. I’m talking about “hire-ability” (I think I just made
that word up). Are you hirable? And the answer to this question has
(almost) nothing to do with magic tricks. It has more to do with
people. Are you a likeable person? Do people enjoy your
Make no mistake, this is what will get you hired and invited back.
people who hired him to ask each other, “When can we have him
back?”
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So let me ask you, when you leave a room, are you missed? If not,
why not? Are people, instead, happy to see you go? Maybe you’re a
mean person? Or perhaps you embarrass people? Do you make
cutting side remarks to try and be funny? Because, if you do, a few
great card tricks aren’t going to help you. People don’t
remember what you did; they remember how you made them feel.
Just like you practice your pass, you need to start practicing,
immediately, making people feel good. And it’s not just about
complimenting them or tossing out flattery, even though that’s a
great place to start. The ability to compliment someone, without it
sounding weird is actually hard to do in a convincing manner. So,
without performing a single magic trick, write down the names of
three people and try to make them feel good about themselves with
a single sentence.
1) _______________________________________________
2) _______________________________________________
3) _______________________________________________
I’ll give you a couple of examples. If it’s a male friend I know, but
whom I haven’t seen in awhile: “Dude, you’re looking sharp!
What gym have you been going to?” Notice the question isn’t
“Have you been going to the gym?” There’s a difference there. If it’s a
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woman, I’ll say something like, “Have I ever mentioned that
you have the greatest smile?”
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Chapter 12|Advice
Starting Conversations
And before we go any further, let me tell you right up front that this
chapter is the one that will save you in a future gig. I guarantee it.
Because when you walk into a gig where there are supposed to be
three hundred people and only eight have shown up, it’s the best
conversationalist in the room who is going to be
earning the money.
1) “The ace of hearts, right?! Amazing!! I know!!! Hey, you look kind
of familiar, where did you go to high school?”
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2) “The ace of hearts, right?! Amazing!! I know!!! So, does everyone
work here?”
Now, anyone can ask those questions. The first question isn’t
what makes a conversationalist. It’s how you respond to their
response.
So, what would you say if they responded with the following?
1) Quesnel.
2) Yes. Yes. No. We’re married.
3) Groom. Groom. Groom. Groom.
4) It’s a thing for your car.
5) John.
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Write your follow up question here:
1)_____________________________________________________
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2)_____________________________________________________
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3)_____________________________________________________
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3) “Who’s known him the longest?”
4) “C’mon, specifics man! But explain it in twenty words
or less. We’ll count.”
5) “Which one’s John? And, why? What does he do?”
They key is to not let them off the hook. People often
only hate talking at first and feel socially awkward when they feel
like they’re in the presence of a stranger. And the only way to not
be a stranger is to spend time with them. So buy time. The longer
you spend, the better they’ll feel about talking and chatting.
This is what will separate you from everyone else. Because if you can
do this and show them amazing magic at the same time, you’ll be
golden. Don’t forget, your goal isn’t reactions. Your goal is
connections.
Ask questions.
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I hope you've enjoyed these first free dozen chapters.
As with everything I do, I don't want there to be any
"surprises"- I want you to know exactly what you're
getting. And these first 12 are just the beginning. As
we go along further into the book, I'll tell you
everything I know about my work as a professional
Walkaround magician, from what my contract looks
like to how I approach groups. Not only that, but I''ll
also be telling you a couple of my secrets that I've
never shared with ANYONE.
Your pal,
jamie
SendWonder@gmail.com
www.SendWonder.com