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There are endless questions that can spin around your head before, during and after a date, which
is why we’ve compiled a list of some top dating tips for men, to help make sure your date is an
ultimate success.
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3. Be confident
Across the board, confidence is attractive – enthusiasm will make you shine. If you’re a little shy, practice
beforehand by talking to people you don’t know. Or, whilst on the date, pick a subject that you’re enthusiastic
about, such as a hobby. She will sense your confidence as you talk passionately about it. Many people may also
be shy about their appearance. You may not be 6ft tall with a six-pack, but it’s more attractive to a woman to
show that you’re comfortable in your own skin and happy being you.
9. Follow up correctly
If you don’t want a second date, don’t say you’ll call her. You’ll end up feeling bad and she might feel hurt. Just
say, “I had a great time tonight”. If you do want to see her again, don’t play games. Yes, in films they always
leave it a couple of days to contact each other, but this is real life. If you don’t contact her within a couple of
days, you’ll seem like you couldn’t be bothered, or didn’t enjoy the date. The sooner you tell her what a great
time you had, the better.
We hope our advice has given you a bit more confidence in how to get more from dating, online and off. If
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