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There was a psychologist propose a tendency that if someone want to say something, he

will on a mode “ready for speaking”, before he finishes, he will not listen to your opinion. So, if
you want to give him any advice, to achieve the purpose of convince him, then you must listen
what he said. In that way the person will have a feeling that you do respect him and willing to
listen what he going to say, leave a great impression of you, and follow your thought to solve
the problem.
People may make mistake during speech especially they are really in to it, but don’t
correct them immediately, because as long as we interrupt them in the middle of somewhere,
they may lose the emotion to sharing things with us.
This situation happens a lot with my boyfriend and I, every time I was willing to sharing
things to him if he trying to interrupt me, I will be mad and ask him to shut up, cause I’m in my
mood that’s my moment, and that is really not polite. As I already know that feeling I will do my
best to avoid interrupt people when they talking to me.

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