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“Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world;
indeed, it's the only thing that ever has.” —Margaret Mead
In the wake of what has been a steady stream of both human-made and natural
disasters, many people have been left feeling that they just can’t take any more. We may
experience compassion fatigue (the deep exhaustion that comes from prolonged
empathy) and feelings of powerlessness, anger, or frustration. While these feelings are
completely normal, they alone do nothing to create actual change. Our normal habits of
sharing posts on social media, watching repetitive news reports, and complaining to
friends can do a lot to further our feelings of anger and helplessness; however, they do
very little for the betterment of ourselves and society as a whole.
So, this past year, I made a resolution: I will not complain about anything I’m not
proactively doing something to change. For instance, I don’t allow myself to complain
about a political situation or social issue if I haven’t first taken direct action—such as
making calls to elected officials or volunteering to help with causes that are important to
me. This practice has resulted in a profound paradigm shift, which now leaves me
feeling like part of the solution, rather than a victim of circumstance.
This past year, I made a resolution: I will not complain about anything I’m not
proactively doing something to change.
If we want to make a difference in the world, we need to create both the internal and
external conditions that will support us in making the biggest impact. Here are some
important ways you can empower yourself to create meaningful change with both grace
and strength.
1. Ground yourself.
First of all, give yourself an opportunity to really experience your initial response. Take
time to feel sadness, shock, grief, or whatever emotions may be arising. Feel love for
those who are suffering, including yourself. Amidst this, invite feelings of safety and
comfort, and stay connected to the deep sense of being that is always present inside of
you no matter what is happening in life. Commit to a practice that helps keep you in
touch with this grounded state of being, such as going for a walk in nature, yoga,
meditation, breathing exercises, or yoga nidra guided meditation. Take care to eat well
and sleep soundly. You will be more effective when you come from this centered place.
3. Focus on issues that speak to your heart, and do something about those.
No one can do it all, so it is best to focus on one or two things you can do well, and
then commit fully to your cause. Trust that you will be the best at what inspires your
heart the most. Then consider how you can best make a difference. Maybe you can give
your time to directly help the situation. Alternately, use your voice to educate others
about a cause or make a monetary donation. The more you feel and see yourself making
a difference, the more passionate you will be about continuing to create change.
5. Find community.
Remember that we can do more together! Sometimes we are afraid to act alone, but
when we harness the power of community, we are empowered by this connection and
collaboration with others. Find people devoted to your cause, and build on the energy
that comes from working collectively toward a greater good. Broadening your sense of
community also helps with feelings of isolation and helplessness, as you witness others’
important contributions.
Remember that you can’t pour from an empty cup—depleting ourselves of energy
inhibits our ability to help others.
10. Remember the power of positive energy, meditation, and prayer.
Prayer and meditation are proactive activities that can strengthen you, inspire you, and
keep you peaceful in the midst of adversity. The next time fears or worries arise, flood
them with love, presence, and compassion. Remember, light always overcomes darkness
in the end. Always.
So…do you accept the challenge? Will you join me in not complaining about things that
you aren’t doing something about? Who else is going to do this essential work? Look
around you. Look in the mirror: It’s us. We CAN make a difference. We ARE making a
difference.
Let’s support each other in making this world the best that it can be. This is not an
ideological concept. The world is changed by those people who can feel the suffering,
and then show up to take action.