Abuse” is a word that is thrown around a lot in casual conversion; but what defines

abuse? How does one know if they are committing abuse or if they are being abused?
The abuse definition is actually quite simple. According to the Gale Encyclopaedia of
Medicine, the definition of abuse is the following1:

Abuse is defined as any action that intentionally harms or injures another person.
In short, someone who purposefully harms another in any way is committing abuse.
There are many kinds of abuse encountered by adults, including:

 physical abuse
 psychological abuse
 rape
 sexual assault
 verbal abuse
 elder abuse
 financial abuse
 spiritual abuse
 emotional abuse

All forms of abuse are illegal in the United States and can be met with criminal
penalties. (Information on child abuse and types of child abuse, can be found here.)

Abuse is most commonly committed by a person the victim knows and, often, lives
with. When one partner abuses another, it’s known as intimate partner abuse. Abuse
within families is often known as domestic abuse or domestic violence

Defining the Scope of Abuse in the United States

Abuse is a huge problem in the United States with almost one-in-three adult women
and more than one-in-five adult men reporting having experienced physical, sexual or
psychological intimate partner abuse in their lifetime.2 This equates to approximately
8.5 million incidents of domestic violence occurring each year. Young people are not
immune from abuse either with one-in-three teenagers having experienced violence
within a dating relationship. And perhaps even more alarming, over three million
reports of child abuse were filed with Child Protective Services in the United States in
the fiscal year 2010.3

Meaning of Abuse
While the definition of abuse is simple, the meaning of abuse isn’t so clear. Yes, abuse
is when one person purposefully hurts another, but that is a common occurrence in life
and most of us are guilty of engaging in that from time to time. But what abuse really
means is control. When a truly abusive situation exists, it’s because one party is seeking
to control the other through abuse. And while this might be an explanation of abuse,
it’s certainly no excuse. One person has no right to exercise control over another
through abuse. Victims of abuse must know that the abuse is wrong and that the abuse
is never their fault. Every person has the right to live an abuse-free life.

To learn more about escaping an abusive situation, read this article on domestic abuse
help.

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