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Different Ways of Daily Expressions
Different Ways of Daily Expressions
We need lots of different ways to talk about these things so we don’t repeat ourselves all the time —
and so that we don’t sound like zombie robots.
Now, let’s start learning various ways to express what you like, what you don’t like, what you think
and what you want.
This phrase is almost like “I need.” It’s like saying “I know what could really fix this situation!”
“Those trousers could really do with a wash! Weren’t they white before?”
I feel like …
That’s exactly what this phrase means — a spontaneous desire for something.
This one is more light and fun. You know those situations when you’re with lots of people, and
you’re all trying to decide what to do this evening, and everyone has different ideas.
You could say something like:
You’re explaining what you want to do but without too much pressure.
Or an action:
Like in this song, there are different ways to say "I want"
I really fancy …This is similar to “I feel like,” but this phrase is mostly used in the UK.
I’d kill for …If “I could really do with …” means “I need,” then “I’d kill for …” means “I really, really,
really need this, and I must have it under any circumstances!”
I’m dying for …You often hear people using both these phrases for things they’re addicted to:
Sometimes we need to talk about how we like something, but we don’t just want to keep saying “I
like it,” “I like it,” “I like it.”
I’m really into 1970s Japanese underground noise music because that takes a lot of
dedication.
Like “I’m into,” use this one to talk about something you’ve liked for a period of time. It can range
from something big, like Star Wars, to something more everyday, like using a shaving brush to clean
your laptop.
Or an action:
“Toby? Yeah … he’s OK. He’s a big fan of skateboarding. Is that a good thing?”
I’m fond of … This means “I like” but with a little extra emotion.
Notice that we often use “quite” with this phrase — at least I do.
I’m big on …Similar to “I’m into” and “I’m a fan of”: use it for something you’ve got experience with.
Or an action:
“As a company, they’re really big on putting small family shops out of business.”
Like with “I’m fond of,” we can use this for people, things or actions.
I’m not a big fan of …This sounds quite soft, right? I mean, there are lots of things we’re not big fans
of. In fact — almost everything.
This is the same as “I’m not a big fan of.” Use it to reject something politely.
“Let’s go somewhere else. Most of the kids aren’t really into this.”
“Into what?”
“Into bowling.”
“Sorry — I’m not really big on insect museums. Can we do something else?”
“Sorry. I’m not crazy about this idea. What about chess instead?”
“Then she told me that she wasn’t crazy about hippo wrestling! I mean — what’s wrong with hippo
wrestling?”
If you want to tell your excitable cousin that the swimming-with-sharks holiday in Florida is a terrible
idea, you can say this.
It puts the focus on you, not on the terrible idea, so she won’t be offended.
Although that might not matter too much if she really does decide to take that holiday. She’ll have
other things to worry about.
“Sorry. I’m going to pass on your offer — mountain trekking holidays are just not for me.”
“Yeah — you won’t see him out much. He’s not much of a people person.“
But we can use it with almost any kind of activity:
“Mike won’t want to come. He’s not much of a camping person — not since what happened at
Beanfield.”
You can also make it even softer by saying “It’s not really my thing.”
“These ideas are all great. But doing anything outside isn’t my thing.”
I can’t stand …
Or actions:
“Ha ha! Yeah, I’m not surprised she said that! She can’t stand dancing with people!”
But of course we need to respect other people’s ideas, and it’s probably smart to avoid seeming
aggressive. Especially if you’re talking to Henry.
Henry
I reckon …
Or as an afterthought.
In my honest opinion …
“In my honest opinion, we shouldn’t be selling these toy knives to kids. Just feels wrong, you know?”
It’s a great way to express your opinion without secretly saying “I think I’m right and you’re wrong.”
“I’d say that it’ll only take a few days to build this. Then we can go home!”
Again — a soft, polite way of expressing your opinion. You don’t want to annoy Henry, right?
“The way I see it, those guys are doing their job well.”
“The way I see it is that you’ve got to spend money to make money. Am I right?”
If you ask me …
“If you ask me, you need to throw a few more eggs at the building. It’s not quite covered.”
… happy Henry …
“It seems to me that he’s a little too — how shall I say it — drunk to be Santa Claus.”
OK. Nice talking to you Henry! I’m glad we could have this conversation without offending each
other!
“As far as I can tell, we were wrong. We were all wrong! Sorry about that.”
There’s no avoiding it. Sometimes we just have to say it: “This is bad.”
And sure — sometimes it’s possible just to say those exact words: “This is bad.”
But there are more indirect ways we can deal with this.
The Brits have a reputation for being too polite and indirect — for saying something that sounds
quite polite but actually meaning something quite harsh.
This phrase is a good example of that. If someone says “This leaves a lot to be desired,” it sometimes
means “This is truly the worst thing I have ever seen.”
But it’s polite, and that’s the most important thing … they say.
It could be better.
This phrase is a bit more positive and encouraging.
It’s like saying “Hey, it didn’t work out this time, but try again — you’ll do it better!”
“OK. This lasagna could be better, but it’s not bad for a first try.”
We usually use this one when we’re talking about the quality of someone’s work.
You know that feeling when someone crosses the line — when they do something unfair or
something that makes you feel uncomfortable?
Maybe it was something boring and work-related, like when the boss decided not to give anyone any
bonuses, even though the company did really well this year.
Or when your friend’s new colleague starts talking about nonsense racist theories and has clearly
been spending too much time in the parts of the internet full of mad people.
That sucks.
Yep. It sucks that you can’t go to the festival because you promised to look after your neighbours’ 12
children. Bad luck!
It’s crap.
Be careful with this one: it’s rude, direct and very informal — but fine to use with friends.
So there are lots of different ways we can talk about negative things.
Actually, there aren’t so many phrases for talking about positive things.
That’s because we don’t need to be indirect when we’re being positive — in fact, if we’re being
positive about something, being direct is the best!
For example, if you want to tell your colleague that his new suit is great, you wouldn’t say “That suit
is not terrible,” right?
So when we want to say “That’s good,” we often just say “That’s good.”
Or we replace “good” with one of the many, many, many words we have that also means “good”:
That’s excellent!
That’s exceptional!
That’s awesome!
That’s brilliant!
That’s fantastic!
That’s great!
That’s marvellous!
That’s superb!
That’s wonderful!
That’s ace!
That’s terrific!
That’s smashing!
That’s cracking!
That’s splendid!
That’s fabulous!
That’s tremendous!