BOOK TITLE

HOW CHRISTIAN COUPLES CAN ENJOY

SEX BETTER.
DEDICATION

THE BOOK IS DEDICATED TO MY LATE FATHER CHIEF OGBUZULU CHIMEREZE

SIMEON ANI, MY MOTHER IN LAW, LATE MRS BLESSING JOSEPH AND LATE MRS TINA
ONYEKONWU.
PREFACE

First of all, the fear of the lord is the beginning of wisdom. As married
couples, being born again is the beginning of wisdom. Because when you
are born again making decision is easier and every other thing is added
onto you. (matt. 6:33). A lot of people think they can achieve sexual
satisfaction by just getting married.

Fine, it is good, because it is the first step in the right direction. Knowing
full well that marriage is honorable in all and the bed undefiled but
fornicators and adulterers God will judge. (heb: 13:4)

I had to write this book because the Christians are ignorant in sex act and
management.

Sex is one of the main ingredients in every marriage. When I say I mean
the act which is very fascinating, captivating, emotional, expressional when
consummated by one man (husband) and one woman (wife) in a conducive
environment, well ventilated with maximum privacy for expression by
both parties.
 INTRODUCTION

Having being actively involved in different fellowship leadership and

church leadership it is painful that the Christian couples are not well
grounded and tutored about sexual consummation in marriage.

Example in a life football match all the 11 players work together for an
ultimate goal of winning the game.

So likewise in sex consummation the husband man and the wife are
working together for the main aim of achieving orgasm ( cloud 9 and
above).

The man making sure that he settles the wife first before thinking about
himself. i.e your wife must achieve orgasm first before the man start
thinking about his own orgasm. Which when done the woman springs into
action vice visa.
Which brings us to a vital question of “HOW CAN A HUSBAND TAKE
HIS WIFE TO ORGASM, QUICKLY AND EFFECTIVELY”

We have, maybe once or more heard that, “oh he doesn’t know how to do
it”. If you ever make your wife sound like that, that means doom for you
because the simple truth is that your wife will tune off once you call for sex.

But the good news is that if you change today and implement all that I
have listed out with proper explanations in this book “HOW CHRISTAIN
COUPLES CAN ENJOY SEX BETTER” you home will be paradise on
earth.

Apart from the things I will be treating in this book you will also have to
discuss openly with you wife to know how she enjoys it better, don’t
assume or live in assumption.

“MEN LIKES SEX MORE, BUT THE WOMEN ENJOYS IT BETTER----

PLEASE NOTE THAT”

THIS IS WHY WHEN THE WOMEN ARE NOT ENJOYING IT, THEY
DON’T GET INTERESTED.
 CHAPTER ONE:

HOW TO GET HER INTERESTED.

1. HOUSEHOLD PROVISION OF BASIC NEEDS.

A man can get his wife interested by providing for the house hold.
The scripture has told us that a man is worst that an unbeliever when
he cannot provide for his house hold. When a man has provided the
basic things of life for the family, the wife will have no reason not to
be happy and when she is happy she is interested.

2. MUST TREAT YOUR WIFE WITH LOVE.

BY THIS IT means that the kind words you speak to her , your
smiles, good names like AKWA NWA, ENENEBE EJE OLU, ECHETA
AGBASA OLU, APPLE JUICE, MY SUNSHINE, WILL HELP YOU
DO THE MAGIC OF HER GETTING ready for sex emotionally. I.e.
wanting to have you to hold, love and cherish.

3. CLEANING YOU FARMLAND.

By this I mean that you should be responsible for tendering the

private part by shaving the hairs in that area every month. Please
note that if that place is hairy the hair will inflate injuries on her
during intercourse and as a result of the injury she will not want to
do it again.

Please shave her every month.

4. HELP HER WITH HOUSE WORK:

Please find time to help her with numerous house works when you
come back from work so that she doesn’t get exhausted or tired for
the night work.

Para venture she is tired allow her to rest, you can do that for her.

5. YOU MUST LET HER KNOW THE FERTILITY CYCLE. i.e knowing
when to get pregnant or not (save period)

Watch the chart.

Sept 22,23,24,25,26,27,28,29,30, OCT

1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9,10,11,12,13,14,15,16,17,18,19,20,21,22,

EXPLANATION OF THE MENSURAL CYCLE:

MENSURATION STARTS ON SEPT 22ND ….. it means that it will

finish around 25th or 26th. From 27th to 1st of October she is free. Then
from 2nd of October to 9th of October she will be on her fertility
period. From 10th till the next cycle she will be free.

One good thing is that if she knows that she will not get pregnant she
is interested. Especially for couples who have finished having babies.
She can also visit a doctor for a specific family planning method.
6. GOOD ENVIRONMENT, SPACE AND APARTMENT.

When you have a good apartment (minimum of two rooms) it gives

the couple a good sense of privacy. And there is also need for sweat
management and control during consummation of marital
consortium. Please plan to put fan and generator, music etc. plan for
sex most times, it is better.

7. ENSURE HER OF BREATH CONTROL (NO MOUTH ODOUR).

Please brush your mouth and check for your breath control. The truth
is that if you are having mouth odour, your wife will be running
away from you. The smell makes her uncomfortable. Please if you are
having one, see a doctor.

8. ENSURE HER THAT YOU ARE THE MAN (Try and keep fit with
good diet and exercises). If you are dull and don’t have good stamina
for the ride then you will mess everything up. If you get weak at the
middle of the game your wife will get angry. So be worn.

9. THE MAN SHOULD CLEAN UP

Shave both bearded and arm pit and also have his bath. Please
cleanest is next to Godliness. Please be clean for your wife. If you are
smelling it puts her off and she will not give you maximum
cooperation.

10.MUST BE READY TO SUCK HER BREAST

Suck her breast gently and consistently during the ride. Our wife’s
breast should satisfy us. Sucking of breast is a very important key for
her to achieve orgasm. Please learn to like it and suck it most
importantly she likes it and she loves it.
11.INTRODUCTION OF LUBRICANT.

Some times their private parts may not secret adequate fluid and as
such it will be painful to you and her. Please if noticed or observed
you can introduce it. I bet you will enjoy it.

12.PLEASE DURING THE ACT, EXPRESS IT ,

Let her know that she is sweet and that you are lucky to be the man
enjoying her. Scream it out; if possible cry it out for her.
 CHAPTER 2.

How to submit to your husband, because that is the command God gave
to our wives, especially when he does not have money.

1. If you are able to condition your mind and take care of him sexually,
I bet you that you have motivated him by one million times. The next
day he will try to go out in a high spirit and God will bless him for
you.

2. Please try to give yourself to your husband at least three times in a

week. Which is like 12times in a month? You can do it. This keeps the
man healthy and helps in preventing prostate cancer. And most
importantly it makes him to last longer during sex. No more quick
ejaculation.

3. Please express yourself during the act, let him know that you are
enjoying it. Don’t keep it to yourself. Please let him know how you
like it best, so that he can help you achieve orgasm.
BENEFITS OF GOOD SEX IN MARRIAGE

1. Prostate cancer prevention

2. Form of exercise

3. Righteousness

4. Enjoyment

5. Happiness

6. More love

7. Unity

8. Longer ejaculation

The medical report has proven that couples who have sex at least 3
times weekly has 90% probability of not having prostate cancer.
Sex serves as a source of exercise and it is for those who are physical
fit. Because if you are not physically sound when your wife is calling
up to come and cultivate your farm you will be give excuses.

Righteousness – when a wife satisfies her husband sex urge, it keeps

the man focus even if some persons wish or set trap for him. He will
not fall. Because he will say in his mind i have a wife who is always
at the top of the game in taken care of him.

It is a form of enjoyment. The men at the close of work are always

excited, if they know that a well garnished delicious meal of sex is
waiting for them. It makes them happy both before and after
consummating it. We all believe that whatever you enjoy makes you
happy anytime, any day.

More love – the highest ingredient in marriage is love and sometimes

when this love and submission is serviced with sex the husband man
will increase the love he Shawn’s on his wife

Unity: the sex in marriage increases a high level of unity between two
couples because it is the highest point of unionism when a husband is
having intercourse with the wife. According to Steve Ogan, I quote
“you can make your prayers that time and God will answer it
because at that point two of you have the highest level of unionism

When couples have sex often the man builds up a capacity to last
longer before ejaculation. I bet you if a husband and wife have sex
once a month, it means that the woman should be ready for quick
ejaculation.
 CONCLUSION.
Every husband and wife once having taken their marriage vows is
compatible. That is God’s standard. The course you studied in the
university was it not by hearing and learning/teaching that you
became a professional.

So for compatibility in marriage the husband and wife must be open

to learn from each other.

If you are not ready to learn and accommodate his or her short
comings the marriage will not work, because everyone has his or her
own short coming. Even if the penis is small in size you can consult a
doctor for possible solution. Medical science has the formula.

Please this book is met for lawfully wedded couples of a male

husband and a female wife. This practice has helped my marriage. By
December 16th we have clocked 12years in marriage.

We can all agree that the man is the focal point; it is him that can
make it to work. He is the engine so I encourage every man to take
charge.

Thanks and God bless.

BACK COVER

Every husband and wife once having taken their marriage vows is
compatible. That is God’s standard. The course you studied in the
university was it not by hearing and learning/teaching that you
became a professional. So for compatibility in marriage the husband
and wife must be open to learn from each other.

If you are not ready to learn and accommodate his or her short
comings the marriage will not work, because everyone has his or her
own short coming. Please this book is met for lawfully wedded
couples of a male husband and a female wife.

We can all agree that the man is the focal point; it is him that can
make it to work. He is the engine so I encourage every man to take
charge.

My name is Ani Okechukwu Simeon a A child of God, System scientist,

Computer Scientist, A Mobius certified Vibration Analyst, A certified
QA/QC Engineer, A Business Administrator, A Sunday school Teacher, A
Hip Gospel Music Artist, A Father with a female wife (Bar. (Mrs.) Susan
Ani , and the marriage is Blessed with three wonderful sons (King,
Ultimate and Best)